posted March 11, 2007 09:31 PM              

I think people get confused and irritated because they can't understand the nature of a Piscean. For that one needs to watery and 'feel' the things OR people needs to spend a lots of time closely with a Piscean for understanding them. Even then one might not understand what/why a Piscean thinks/feels; unless one is intimate enough to go in the depths of the Piscean world.

Again I think I am not so much of a person who runs away from friends frequently to charge up. In fact I am the one who is always available, pushing away my activities and going out with them at a moment's notice (not that I got important stuff to do still on quiet a few many times I have pushed important ones... its like- if you need me, I am there; if you don't I am not there though I might need you)

soconfused
I won't share intimate things with others while not sharing with my gf. However for the things which don't have value (material things from my viewpoint or of which I don't really care much or whatever I feel my gf may not be interested in), I might discuss these with others for no good reason.

I think, we like others to trust us totally... that’s when we give ourselves totally. If you are going to be very guarded and he quiet open, it won't be that forever. As I wrote above 'if you need me, I am there; if you don't I am not there'. It’s about trust and respect.

Again every person is a different one

posted March 12, 2007 01:13 PM            

I didn't look at it in that light.

posted March 12, 2007 07:27 PM              

or is it just everyone - I have been so crabby myself for a week or so

and everyone around me is so depressed

posted March 13, 2007 08:57 AM              

Amused,

posted March 27, 2011 01:55 AM            

He's even been a little possessive of me,but we'r working on him looking for other outlets to happiness instead of always me.But he's having a hard time.work in progress i guess.

posted March 27, 2011 12:42 PM            

Don't take this too seriously, people.. - i dont pre-judge anyone to the point of not being open to being proved wrong.

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you can't change the past,
but you can ruin the present
by worrying over the future.

posted August 13, 2011 08:01 PM            

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I totally agree with that descripton! Know my 'fishy friend' for a year and have no clear idea where i stand.
I suppose its my own fault, people treat you the way you let them treat you.

posted October 10, 2012 02:46 PM            

Pisces: The Disappearing Man

Pisces is a mutable sign, which indicates they are changeable. Pisceans are chameleon-like, and can adapt to new situations, people, and places very easily. This changeable energy can cause difficulties in their personal relationships.

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A Piscean’s vision of the perfect relationship is often unrealistic and based on fantasy. It is difficult for them to find a partner who lives up to their ideals. Real relationships take work; they involve compromise, conflict, and responsibility, which are things Pisceans tend to dislike. For this reason, they tend to be attracted to unattainable (i.e. “taken”) partners and unrequited love situations. In these situations, Pisceans won’t have to face the “realities” of relationships, and they can continue fantasizing about and idealizing the unattainable person. In addition, Pisceans are notoriously indecisive and tend to have a roaming eye, which can make choosing a partner even more difficult for them.

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People involved with Pisceans in a relationship often complain that their Piscean lovers tend to disappear for days, weeks, and even months. When a Pisces disappears, he is escaping reality. Perhaps the relationship has gotten too “real” for him. Perhaps you two got into a fight, and the negativity pushed him away temporarily. Some Pisceans have several relationships going on at once (they’re mutable, remember?), so they may disappear to cater to their other lovers. Most likely, however, he just needs space and alone time to recharge his batteries.

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Pisceans may flow in and out of your life at a moment’s notice, which can be aggravating for their partners. Individuals who seek responsible and dependable mates may have a difficult time with Piscean individuals. Pisceans can usually get their lovers’ attention back due to the fact that they are romantic and sensitive, and have the ability to seduce people easily. Pisceans sincerely do not mean to hurt others; in fact, hurting others is the last thing they would ever want to do.

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So, what is a girl to do? How do you deal with a guy like this? The first thing to do is to appeal to his emotions in a very gentle way. If he senses anger or negativity, he might swim away. Appreciate him for who he is, and do not take advantage of his kind nature. Appeal to his spiritual side; individuals who are overly-materialistic turn him off. Patience, tolerance, and acceptance are the key to having a relationship with a Piscean. Be a strong, reliable partner to him. Feel free to take the lead and make him feel taken care of and cared for. Pisceans are also known for their wandering eyes, so learn to handle your jealousy. They also suffer from low self-esteem, so stroke his ego.

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Once a Pisces is in love with you, you will become his whole world. While he will still disappear from time to time, he will always swim right back to you.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!pisces-the-disappearing-man/c1qjn

posted January 04, 2013 05:27 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagembaby:
I haven't dealt w/ many Pisces males. My opinion would be biased especially because I'm a hardcore Aqua/Gem/Sag & I haven't had patience w/ most water signs

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posted February 01, 2013 01:37 AM            

But if they've got a thing for you, they'll drown you with them. Its basically - "If I like you, I'll leave by morning. If I love you, I'll keep you forever."

posted February 02, 2013 06:01 AM            

Water signs must have something (spiritual and sensual at the same time) for you from the beginning... it just is there or is not. Sometimes people say... you will fall in love, love will grow. Nope. It just is there or not.

posted February 03, 2013 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
Diamond Shell is right.

Water signs must have something (spiritual and sensual at the same time) for you from the beginning... it just is there or is not. Sometimes people say... you will fall in love, love will grow. Nope. It just is there or not.

I have a lot of scorpio in my chart and I have some cat-mouse game with a Pisces now and I see that he needs this enchantment.

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Yep, gotta be there from the 1st very minute andif it's not it.will.never.be. there!

posted February 07, 2013 04:27 PM            

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Originally posted by soconfused:
I've never been with one but this guy is driving me mad.....he runs so hot and cold

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Hmm, the hot/cold routine tends to be more of a scorpio trait. Seeing if you can keep your toes in the water whatever the temperature, haha!

Being a pisces myself, I've noticed my feelings come in, then they go out - maybe tidal, I guess. Fair? no. Sometimes we need someone who is going to defiantly build a harbour and tell us to get our evasive tails back to shore, or else!

Leaving moons and saturns and juptiers, and whatever else is going on in his chart, and yours, to one side - seeing straight through a pisces usually works. It's what we do to other people. Do it back and it may solve a great deal. Don't dance around him, you're worth more, and he knows it. Next time he tries to change the current, be frank, 'what the hell are you doing'?

Us pisces can be very self-aware, and cappy moon or not, really respect those who, yes - can understand our natures. But two, not be prepared to put up with the negative sides of it. As long as you always come from a caring, loving place. Fish don't need a companion in fun, like fire signs. Bottom line - we need a saviour. I'd haul him on up. Just let him go for a swim every now and then.

posted March 17, 2013 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by babeefoxx:
My ex-Pisces guy was always swimming in cold, cold water. He did this thing with completely ignoring me and refusing to talk things over. When it ended, he was REALLY upset. It was the most confusing thing ever. I never knew what he wanted.

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same with my ex.. married me in 2 months.... stayed with me for 3 months..... confused... refused to talk about what exactly he wanted... and when i thought thigns were pretty sweet, he stopped communicating at all....not communicating at all with me or my family or friends for A YEAR AND HALF (yes yes yes..oooo pisces!!) and finally when we met for signing divorce, he looked very sad, but determined...not at all warm towards me ........ but yes , i still loved him coz he looked like a sweet little baby who wanted to hav some sunshine in his life...

ps > they cant take quick decisions.... they will take time to make a decision...even if they r wrong but a decision has been made , u cant convince him to change it , until they lose it all ... have a lot of spare time with them to think about it all over again....

posted August 23, 2013 06:31 AM            

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Originally posted by villy:
infinatepeace

Maybe we expect others to be, as understanding as, we can be with others. We can't change our sensitive nature and can't have a strong wall in place, to not feel about things.... can we? .. something can be changed if its wrong. We don't feel anything wrong by having, inner emotions and feelings for the things going in life.

I think people get confused and irritated because they can't understand the nature of a Piscean. For that one needs to watery and 'feel' the things OR people needs to spend a lots of time closely with a Piscean for understanding them.

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This, exactly. Pisces can be personal and universal. People like defined personalities often, something they are familiar with, or something which meets an expectation. Yet I think Pisces understands and appreciates the complexity of human nature. Most people do not want to go there, in my opinion.

posted May 10, 2022 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by villy:
infinatepeace
I don't think we are moody Call us sensitive.
We are very sensitive, shy-n-all (miss-communicative etc) and might get hurt even if someone doesn't mean it. Its just difficult, as we are emotional watery creatures. We go inwards when we feel to do so.
Another observation with myself - With close one's (relatives n all) we might become more sensitive, as we expect close ones to understand us 'more than others' and not bother us/hurt us repeatedly by saying/doing things or when we want some time to bury the hurt that our sensitive probes picked up.
I would be liked to be left alone so that I don't react to other person in a wrong way, due to the irritation/emotional sensitivity. Maybe we expect others to be, as understanding as, we can be with others. We can't change our sensitive nature and can't have a strong wall in place, to not feel about things.... can we? .. something can be changed if its wrong. We don't feel anything wrong by having, inner emotions and feelings for the things going in life.

I think people get confused and irritated because they can't understand the nature of a Piscean. For that one needs to watery and 'feel' the things OR people needs to spend a lots of time closely with a Piscean for understanding them. Even then one might not understand what/why a Piscean thinks/feels; unless one is intimate enough to go in the depths of the Piscean world.

Again I think I am not so much of a person who runs away from friends frequently to charge up. In fact I am the one who is always available, pushing away my activities and going out with them at a moment's notice (not that I got important stuff to do still on quiet a few many times I have pushed important ones... its like- if you need me, I am there; if you don't I am not there though I might need you)

soconfused
I won't share intimate things with others while not sharing with my gf. However for the things which don't have value (material things from my viewpoint or of which I don't really care much or whatever I feel my gf may not be interested in), I might discuss these with others for no good reason.

I think, we like others to trust us totally... that’s when we give ourselves totally. If you are going to be very guarded and he quiet open, it won't be that forever. As I wrote above 'if you need me, I am there; if you don't I am not there'. It’s about trust and respect.

Again every person is a different one

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