posted April 20, 2007 12:58 PM            

And another goes to our college. Then again, it doesn't mean she'd give him the time of day. And like my friend said, I have a lot going for me. I'm just afraid of people not seeing it.

Yeah, going to stay away from the MySpace for a while.

posted April 20, 2007 03:49 PM              

I'm happy to help... I could talk for hours though, so, please, can you be specific. What do you want to know. Fire some questions at me and I'll give answers to what you need to know, otherwise, I could be here all day, and we Virgo's don't like to waste time.

posted April 20, 2007 03:55 PM              

1)Do double Virgo guys tend to be players?
2)Do y'all tend to back off when you have feelings for someone?
3)Is the sign of Virgo predisposed to long-distance relationships?

Thats all for now!LOL!I'll think of some more later!

posted April 20, 2007 05:16 PM            

I consider long distance like living two states away or something. :/

Then again, I'm Aquarius. We master the internet thing.

Anyway, I see this guy every week. Campus is 20 minutes from my home and his apartment is probably an hour away. My ex was 3 hours away and travelling was not an issue for me.

I feel like a bit of an idiot because he hasn't called me. Then I realized that like two weeks into knowing him, he gave me his card with his numbers on it. Oy...

posted April 20, 2007 05:51 PM              

I once had contact, via an internet dating site, with a Virgo girl who lived 40 minutes away. She still bombed me out because she said it was too far to travel. She wanted someone within the same city as herself. I replyed very critically by saying "I hope you find Mr. Perfect living next door to you. Why the hell are you on an internet dating site with men mailing you from all over the country if you are only interested in men in your local area. Why don't you get out of your house and meet people" She did not reply!!!

Moreover, the fact that you have only been aquainted for 4 months says alot. With Virgo, the more TIME you spend together, the more value he will place on the relationship. If you have not spent much time together he will not value the relationship. I've heard it said so many times from Virgo's who are in relationships 'I've been with her/him so long... I'm not going to start that all over again', meaning s/he didn't want to go back to the beginning of a new relationship again and have to go through all that again.

Yes, I know you will be patient. However, being patient also means that you are 'slow'. Unable to quickly adapt to change. Be careful with this, if you are too slow in making your move he may have moved on. So you may miss out on the opportunity of being with him. Try and get with him, be with him, hang out with him.

posted April 20, 2007 06:26 PM              

But, please, understand, that the 'reason' he is saying that is because he his unsure. You need to convince him that he is not making a MISTAKE by dating YOU!

How do you do that!! I hear you say!!

Okay, try to make him understand that being with you will not be a mistake. Use these words: "Can I come and see you tomorrow? If you let me, you won't consider it a waste of time, nor a mistake. I want to spend some time with you. I miss you".

Virgos are terrified of making mistakes. Perfect people don't make mistakes do they!! They are also sentimentalists and hopeless romantics.

Moreover, Virgo is a mutable sign, not a fixed sign. A word that I often use to discribe Virgo is 'tricky'. Virgos can be tricky customers. I'm not saying they are dishonest, I'm just saying that they can be 'tricky' to handle.

When a Virgo says he wants to be 'friends' it means he is undecided whether to commit emotionally to you or not. Friendship for Virgo is not the same as friendship for an Aqua. Aqua's 'friendship' is universal (everybody's buddy), Virgo friendship is selective(exculsive - YOU are my friend, not the world's).

posted April 20, 2007 07:09 PM              

1)Do double Virgo guys tend to be players?

Some Virgo men do see themselves as 'players'. But remember this! A virgo is fussy, picky and Love for a Virgo is exculsive. He really doesn't want lots of girlfriends because life would become too complicated to handle. A Virgo may have alot of admirers but he will only want one partner evenutally. And ideally, he is looking for a marriage partner.

Furthermore, Virgo is a 'pure' sign. Don't misunderstand me, I don't mean that Virgo is a prude, he is not. He'll want to get inside your knickers the same as any other guy would. However, he will want to know if YOU are CLEAN. So, if you want to stand out from the crowd, drop hints to him that you are clean. For example, tell him that you shower EVERYDAY. That you change your underwear EVERYDAY. Drop hints that you are clean 'down below'. If he suspects that you are 'dirty' or 'smelly' below, it will turn him off big time. So let him know that you are not. If you want intimacy, clean sheets, clean bedroom, clean body etc... is a must. And TELL Him.

TRUST is an Arian issue. Not so much a Virgo one. Virgo's have enough savvy to suss people out BEFORE they trust them, to know who can and can not be trusted. Aries is an innocent sign therefore trust is a big issue. With Virgo it's all about making MISTAKES. Reasure him that he is NOT making a mistake by being with you. If you want to be devious, to win him, then drop hints that 'other girls' or even a specific girl, would be a mistake if he got with her. Or drop hints, for example, like this: "I saw Alison, the girl you were with the other day, in the shower, she has this ugly growth around her p***y. God! it's must be difficult to clean". If he has not been there already, I can promise you he won't be going there at all if he knows that!

So, in short, some Virgo men like to think they are players, but their real nature inclines them to one exclusive partner.

posted April 21, 2007 05:58 AM              

BJs/Oral sex is Virgo's favourite sex act. He will want to do that to you, that's one of the reasons why he is asking you about 'down there'. He wants to know that it is safe to 'go down' on you. He'll also like it done to him too, maybe even more so than intercourse, so you'll need to brush up on technique. For example, try this: ask him, or talk to him about the many different ways that you are able to give head. If you know, in detail, all the names for the parts of the penis then you will impress him with your knowledge. However, don't go over board because he might think that you are a '**** '. You deffinately don't want him to think that about you. Say something like: "oh, I read it in a book". That would be okay. You have to give him the impression that you are 'pure'. Educated, but 'pure'.

Yes, having sex anywhere where it's clean is important, and what cleaner place is there than a shower. A shower offers Virgo a mirade of sexual fantasises.

I don't wish to get really personnal, but to help you I need to offer this advice. If you are not 'shaved' yourself, then tell him that you are 'trimmed'. That will be 'good enough'. If he goes down on you and finds the Amazon forest starring up at him, he'll be disgusted and turn off. Taurus's like things to be 'natural', bushy pubic hair, hair on arms, on legs, under arms pits. Not so for Virgo, he wants you to be shaved, clean, 'pure'.

Just a word of warning, this maybe going a bit far but there is also something else that you need to be aware of. The aesthetic beauty of your 'private parts' is also a factor in Virgo's make up. If he considers your 'private parts' ugly, then he will evenually stop 'going down' on you. How to nip this in the bud before it starts!!! The best way I've found is to be confident yourself about your 'private parts'. Tell him, "my p***y looks and smells great", or "My b**bs are perfect", He may disagree with you (without actually say so out loud), but he will respond to your confident attitude. But don't be arrogant. Just quietly state, maybe with a giggle, that you think they are.

A little more about marriage. Virgo men are noted for being single, loners as astrology puts it, however, most Virgo men do want to get married. The problem is, once again, the risk of making the BIG Mistake of marrying the wrong person. Ideally, a Virgo wants to marry one person for life. In our modern society that is often an high ideal, however, Virgo wants perfection, so he would rather do without marriage than run the risk that he'll get it wrong. So, how do you deal with this!!

The best way is to reasure him that you are a potential marriage partner. Don't play games, state facts, like "one day I hope to get married to a NICE man", or "Do you want to get married someday?" He might respond by saying "someday, when i find the right person". He needs to see that there is a future with you, that if he makes the EFFORT to go out with you, puts the TIME in to develop a relationship with you, that his efforts will not be wasted. He's not wasting his TIME!!!! So, in someway let him know that you intend to go all the way to the alter. Don't force him, just let him know it. If you don't want to marry him, DON'T WASTE HIS TIME BY GETTING INVOLVED IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!

The 'one and only' thing refers to the exclusivity of Virgo love. If he goes out with YOU, it will be ONLY you. This is not the same as Aqua's Love nature where 'oneness' with PEOPLE is hard to achieve, and ultimately is their goal. Aqua Love is universal, they love everybody, all the same, without prejudice.

Something else I feel you need to know. Intercourse - don't expect a marathon. A sprinter is more the case. Don't get me wrong, a sprinter is still as fit and strong as a marathon runner, it's just that the tactics are different. A Virgo likes brief 'penitration', in, out, shake it all about. I'm not saying he's a minute man, I'm saying don't expect him to go on for hours.

I hear you scream!!!! I want more!!! Okay, so how to deal with him. Play a game.

TIME is a big factor in Virgo's make up. So, subtley 'time him'. If he lasts for 8 minutes, for example, but you are not yet satisfied, don't chide him, because you will upset his delicate libido. He will not want to disappoint you. Say, quietly, GENTLY, "NEXT TIME let's see if we can do it for 10 minutes" Be that specific!!! Next time he will have a really good attempt at getting to 10 minutes for you. Then, if that is still 'not enough' for a Taurus to 'be ready' then say 15 minutes, 20 minutes, 30 minutes, or until you are satisfied. When you areVirgo is the sign of the sex technician. He will adjust his technique to make you HAPPY. REMEMBER - Virgo is the sign of service, he will want to 'service' you COMPLETELY!!!! That's why it is said in astrology that Virgo's are great lovers.

posted April 21, 2007 04:54 PM              

So when a Virgo guy says he wants to marry you, does that mean he's crazy or just really in love? What about when a Virgo man wants to have a baby really bad?

posted April 21, 2007 07:31 PM              

Now the question should be, is the Virgo an evolved soul or is he still evolving. That I can not answer. If he says this after a short duration of time, I would suspect that he is still a young man who has not been hurt too seriously yet. Or it maybe that he is lonely and is reaching out for something real after a bad knock.

What is more important is how you responded to him. He wanted to know how you would respond to 'I love you'. If you said nothing in return, he will think you don't feel the same way about him. So he'll wait. If you said 'I love you' back, that will enbolden him to go further. If he does go further, he'll convince himself more and more that you are right for him, and will evenually commit. But this may take some time.

For Virgo, the innocent love of Aries is refreshing, and yeah, I do LIKE YOU. Purity & Innocence blends well, however, Arian directness can upset Virgo's delicate nature. Unless he has Leo rising or some other fire sign on the rise. Whichever way you look at it, Arian love is Executive, Virgo love is Exculsive. If you think about it, there is common ground there. An Executive, or CEO of a company, has the BEST that life can offer, he can afford it. Something that is Exclusive, is only available to those who can afford to purchase it. So, do you see, the ground where Aries and Virgo can meet!

When a Virgo wants babies that means commitment.

Moon...

The energy between a Taurus and Virgo is trine, meaning, there will be an easy flow of good energy between you. After a few months of talking to you he feels this 'good energy'. This, I think, is what has prompted him to say I love you. However, he's putting you to the test. He wants to know if you will respond in the same way. If you do, that will give him more confidence. And that's what you want. If you do 'love him', TELL HIM too. See where it leads.

posted April 21, 2007 08:57 PM            

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