posted May 01, 2007 03:23 PM              

I have encountered those negative traits in Gemini men, but I think it's more about judgments and beliefs effecting my reality then about all Gemini men being scum.

posted May 01, 2007 03:37 PM              

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Blue Roamer..

what is PC?

posted May 01, 2007 06:22 PM              

but of course, this is just my experience. and i haven't met that many sag suns as such...just two....but i know a lot of sag mooners.

posted May 01, 2007 06:30 PM              

I think it is more of leo moon thing with virgo rising.. it is very important to me what message I give out to people .. I hate to back out on my words.. More over I relate to "OX" personality of chinese zodiac.. proving the trustworthy and dependable partner is imperative to me.

I personally think sag rising personalities are way more bubbly than sag sun.

posted May 01, 2007 06:37 PM              

on the whole sag is one sign i respect, because i find them to be 'mature'. they 'think'. and their words of wisdom to leave me gaping in awe sometimes. most of the sag's i know are heavily into philosophy/religion/metaphysics, which is what i love the most about them.

posted May 02, 2007 12:42 AM            

I don't have a close friendship with any Gems, but I do have a few Gemini acquaintances. They seem to bring out the lighter, verbally playful side of myself and I seem to do the same to them, so we relate basically on that one level, which makes it hard for me to notice major personality differences when we're together. But a lot of what you've pointed out rings true for me about the Gems I know, especially how they're more into committing to many activities while Sags value an open schedule more.

One thing I've noticed is that Gems are more chameleon-like, presenting different faces to different people. Everyone does this to some extent, but in my experience Gems do it the most consistently and skillfully. I'm not sure if this is because (a) Gems are more social while Sags are more independent, making Gems feel a greater pressure to be liked so they deliberately adapt or if (b) it's a genuine part of their mutablity that makes them sincerely feel like what they're presenting is a real part of themselves...maybe a little bit of both, but I think it's mostly the latter. Anyway, I really like Gems, especially my 5 year old nephew who is the coolest Gemini ever. Really, he is. Sorry, Neon Artemis.

posted May 02, 2007 12:52 AM              

i dont know how it works out astrologically...but personality wise....may be my eternal quest for truth...my inclination towards spirituality....and my love for God........i dunno. these are very defining parts of my personality. i do have some jupiter aspects (it is part of a grand trine, and aspects 5 other planets in my chart, which is exactly the score saturn has...so i dunno). i dont even have any neptune aspects apart from a neptune sextile pluto, which almost everybody here has ! may be that itself makes neptune important....a lot of contained energy.....it is least aspected and in sagittarius...also a fire singleton. i suspect that neptune is the culprit.

another reason i love sag's is that they bring out my witty fun verbal side too, like no other does.

posted May 02, 2007 01:35 AM            

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Gemini normally sees two sides of something, but Sag breaks that because they create MANY sides to something.. unlimited possibility.

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I think this is very inaccurate. Gemini actually see things from many angles simultaneously. They are the Mercurial Intellectual.

Philosophically, you may be correct. Geminis get into details, whereas Sag likes to maintain a broad view. The Sag's broad view, though, isn't necessarily terribly practical. It is more spiritual, and almost Neptunian. It's like Neptune on fire. Sag's biggest upsets in life are those limitations it thinks it can move beyond ("unlimited possibility," you said), so in an argument with a Gemini, the Gemini might just have a point.

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One thing I've noticed is that Gems are more chameleon-like, presenting different faces to different people. Everyone does this to some extent, but in my experience Gems do it the most consistently and skillfully.

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Gemini is symbolized by the twins for a reason. Seeing things from so many perspectives allows them to relate from a variety of viewpoints. Call it Geminian empathy.

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may be that itself makes neptune important....a lot of contained energy.....it is least aspected and in sagittarius...also a fire singleton. i suspect that neptune is the culprit.

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posted May 02, 2007 01:54 AM              

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The Sag's broad view, though, isn't necessarily terribly practical. It is more spiritual, and almost Neptunian. It's like Neptune on fire.

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posted May 02, 2007 03:06 AM              

I really like that, AG.

I think Cosmic View might
describe Sag's perspective better than broader view.
Gemini may be in the air, flitting about here and there, but their focus seems for the most part, more on earthly things than Sags.

I love Aquarians too. They always seem the ones who most understand me and there's always mutual pull to connect...but I agree about the control issue, BR. They are much more in control and uptight about every aspect of their lives, than their supposed unpredictability would ever care to admit. And obsessive-compulsive about their freedom, which moots the point of it, doesn't it? (Clutching so fervantly for something Free--how could that be Free?) You described that so well.

posted May 02, 2007 03:18 AM            

Jupiter DID come first after all. *hmph*

posted May 03, 2007 04:04 AM              

Yes, some gemini's do develop and become "mature gemini's" while other geminis don't.

One of my past gemini friends still acts as if he's five yrs old looking for his mommy.

And yes, i used to be rally manipulative back in my late teen years..

I'm not so much now....after paying the price for something i did.

Give the gemini man sometime in a couple years he won't be the same guy, he might develop or might do the opposite.

If he's a good gemini he's learning from his mistakes and thinking as he goes.

All admit i'm not done yet, and I am not fully mature myself, I still have a lot to learn of course... I'm still in college my capircorn rissing helps thought.

posted May 03, 2007 05:32 AM              

Peace hommies.

posted May 03, 2007 06:56 AM              

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They also tend to be pretty physically attractive and hold on to their youthful looks for a long while, somethign that I hope they dont' take for granted.

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Sagittarius also bestows a youthful appearance. People with Venus in Gemini or Sagittarius (or 3rd/9th Houses) or their Ascendant in either sign often look much younger than they are.

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Sags are more general and broad in their approach to life; Gems are a little more precise and don't miss details.

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The precise vs. broad comparison definitely seems true. I have a lot of Sag, and I worked for a long time with a Gemini Sun (we adopted each other as brother & sister). He tended to get absorbed by the details, which frustrated me. And I frustrated him by moving on too quickly.

Me: We’re DONE!
Him: We’re not done. Have you even looked at this?
Me: Have you even thought about our next ad? I did last week. I think it should have monkeys.
Him: What color? Black monkeys are funnier than brown monkeys, you know.

Together we were quite a team because our weak spots were covered by the other. We were like “The Little ADD-ers Who Could.” Our desks were side-by-side and they looked like a toystore. Oh, and we pulled off some legendary pranks. The other employees were simultaneously horrified by us and enamored with us. Good times, good times…

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The Sag's broad view, though, isn't necessarily terribly practical. It is more spiritual, and almost Neptunian. It's like Neptune on fire. Sag's biggest upsets in life are those limitations it thinks it can move beyond ("unlimited possibility," you said), so in an argument with a Gemini, the Gemini might just have a point.

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posted May 03, 2007 08:15 AM            

every gemini or sag I meet I tend not to like. same as them with me.. the only ones I get along with are my sag mom and cousin.

lol sry...

posted May 03, 2007 08:25 AM              

cancers do have a tendency to cause "knee jerk" ...

posted July 07, 2007 04:09 PM            

The few good Sags I've known have been:

1) Naive and kind (sometimes a bad combo)
2) Intelligent, but speaks without thinking first
3) Careless with details, but understands the big picture
4) Irresponsible and lack of discipline
5) Humorous
6) Spontaneous
7) Love adventure and travel
8) Very optimistic
9) Needs physical freedom
10) Arrogant and appear to be superficial

I'm a Gemini, but I'm known for being too truthful. I never really understood why people associate "lying" with Geminis because I've found liars in every sign. I've never found one sign or the other to be more honest or dishonest than the other.

Geminis:

posted July 07, 2007 04:39 PM              

Sags may appear distant, but that's not the same as being distant.
Gem (sometimes) only register what they want to hear, and leaves the rest.

Gems seems to be obsessed with looks - Sag's are more about the inside of a person..