posted August 06, 2013 11:05 PM            

I have Venus in 12th (Virgo along with Mercury and Mars there as well)

I had a relationship with a married woman a few years ago. Then last year I totally fell in love with a married woman at work. That one still hurts a lot even though I don't see her much and we haven't talked for a year.

posted August 12, 2013 10:32 PM            

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Sun Pisces
Scorpio Rising
Taurus Moon
Venus in Capricorn
Mars In Leo

posted August 20, 2013 03:14 PM            

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Sun Pisces
Scorpio Rising
Taurus Moon
Venus in Capricorn
Mars In Leo

posted August 26, 2013 08:40 AM              

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Originally posted by electr0nika:
I have a Libra Venus in my 12'th house. It really is very sad and hard for me i'm always falling for other men especially cancer men, but i am in a commited 5 year old relationship with a cancer man , that is hard to give up. I live in a dream world where i live out my love life with other people (it's like i can see other timelines i could be playing a part in with these people) i just look at them and i can see the whole love story unfolding in front of me.....funny is that they at some point eventually sense me and never one has opposed to the idea ,this making it even harder for me. All the daydreaming must be my method to make it easier to cope since i'm always trying to hide and kill my love for these people.
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Sun - Gemeni
Moon - Aries
Asc - Scorpio

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how can you have venus in libra if you have a gemini sun
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”Sing what you can't say
Forget what you can't play
Hasten to drown into beautiful eyes
Walk within my poetry, this dying music
My loveletter to nobody”

posted October 10, 2013 08:00 PM            

I am at the point now where I don't fall into the Venus XII trap. If I meet someone who is not local I refuse to entertain the thoughts of us being together. There has to be a local guy out there available somewhere

posted October 17, 2013 06:47 PM            

Long, gruelling story.

posted October 25, 2013 02:12 AM            

"Venus in the 12th house people usually see themselves as somewhat inaccessible romantically because we're very interested in our own world, and, depending on the spiritual development of the native, a transcendent realm of experience which can't be reached with any normal human relationship. Thus, what we're always truly seeking is a spiritual union with the divine. So, we feel dissatisfied with our relationships or even the state of humanity and human relationships in general. (hence suffering...we may even suffer for other people's bad relationships) We may not know the reason, because of course divine union is not an easy thing to obtain for the average human being. I also think that, in some ways, falling in love (regardless of whether or not they're taken) reminds us of the feeling we're actually searching for with God (or the universe, or whatever you want to call a higher force). Thus, unless we work towards a self-sufficiency and higher faith/union, we will fall in love with anyone who can stimulate that blissful feeling within us. But in human relations, for someone with 12th house venus, this effect tends to wear off. We're not really interested in conventional relationships because the taste of the divine dies after time and then we again feel lonely. "

and

"Venus in the twelfth house creates a strong desire for attachment that is almost ‘other worldly.’ Here, the native’s inner world of desire and longing take on a magical, ethereal quality. With Venus in your twelfth house you enjoy your alone time and dream of lofty love affairs that are lush with passion. You thirst for the perfect partner, the perfect creative outlet, the perfect scenario that allows you to feel as though you are as ONE. You have much compassion for those less fortunate than you are. Your affairs are in secret, just where you like to keep them. In the negative, you can become self-effacing and martyr-like. In the positive, you are extremely creative and passionate with a deep love for life and an intense appreciation of beauty."

I have a 12th house Venus and Sun in Taurus.
As far as relationships, I've had one ldr, and we never met (met on internet, flaked out on me twice when it came to meeting) so I don't really count that one. The other one, and by faaar the most profound, is my soul connection.; my divine complement, whom I met and (re)united with in spirit (was never with him when he was here) when he transitioned a few years ago. It's lead to a spiritual awakening, and he's actually the one that got me into astrology (started about 2 years ago), and is ultimately the reason I'm here. He also happens to be my guide. No one in my life really knows about this, so this could be the secretive/hidden aspect, I guess. And it is indeed, precisely the type of union I'd always yearned for, I just wish we could have shared some time together (in the physical) here on earth as well...I have some understanding as to why that couldn't be though, but I don't think I will ever completely understand it (at least, while I'm here).

The LDR was interracial/of a different cultural background, and he was also older than me (3 years, no big deal). My SC/DV was 25 years older and of a different social status...So I guess those could be the "forbidden" or "taboo" things (8th and 12th house matters). Also plays into that whole "separation" thing...

I might also add that there is an ethereal quality in my art and music as well, and I tend to be dawn to those type of expressions just the same. I'm also very private, very independent, and very much the loner...Hard for people to understand...

And there is that thing about seeming invisible, or going unnoticed by others...

posted December 19, 2013 03:52 AM            

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Sun in Virgo conjunct Venus ( 11th House )
Moon in Libra
Rising sign Libra

Honesty is Confidence - Hoodie Allen

posted December 22, 2013 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by MorpHnStorM:
"Venus in the twelfth house creates a strong desire for attachment that is almost ‘other worldly.’ Here, the native’s inner world of desire and longing take on a magical, ethereal quality. With Venus in your twelfth house you enjoy your alone time and dream of lofty love affairs that are lush with passion. You thirst for the perfect partner, the perfect creative outlet, the perfect scenario that allows you to feel as though you are as ONE. You have much compassion for those less fortunate than you are. Your affairs are in secret, just where you like to keep them. In the negative, you can become self-effacing and martyr-like. In the positive, you are extremely creative and passionate with a deep love for life and an intense appreciation of beauty"

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So true...I think sometimes, having this placement can almost make whoever has it too much of an idealist in love. The reality never quite lives up to the magical romance we dreamed about.

posted December 29, 2013 10:17 PM            

I'm always in love with someone who either does not know it or is not available or simply does not share those feelings with me. It took me a long time to finally realize that being a Black woman with a mixed heritage, I should not pursue African-American men. African-American men tend to gravitate toward obvious Black or White women, not women who are mixed, mongrels or so-called hybrids. Although I'm a Black person, I have a light, golden-bronze complexion with very dark hair and you have to meditate on my face to figure out what I am. I've experienced constant rejection from African-American men and the opportunities to date them come few and far in between. Now I'm starting to realize and gravitate toward the men who have always given me attention: White, Hispanic, Asian and foreign Black men. It is strange though, because the relationship I'm currently in is with an African-American but he's married. We have been together for more than two years, we are now in the process of ending the relationship.

It is true that I do seek relationships with the divine and many gods trying to establish spirituality with them. But since I'm Mercury in Capricorn, I find myself being too intellectual with them so I struggle with the divine.

This placement like so many others I have has been very challenging and difficult for me. In this life, I feel I have been tormented in areas of prosperity, career and love/marriage. I have come to also realize that I may not find anyone to love in this life, because of wanting a relationship, but not the partnership, having to be free (extremely important), and always embarking on someone better than the one I just found and the one I just found took many years to come!
I use therefore, I am. --Capricorn legacy

Rising Sagittarius
Sun Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Vertex Cancer

posted January 23, 2014 01:04 AM            

The next one was in 8th class. I liked him because of his timidity and evasion. However,when i plucked up my courage to confess,he refused. I was depressed and although i sometimes talked to him later,i decided to never see him again.

The newest one was in 10th class. I knew him through facebook. We had a lot in common,the talks we shared were great,i felt very happy. But when i met him the 1st time,i knew that i never really fell for him. Later,i blocked him and never spoke or met again.

To sum up,my love life is horrible. I never have a real love as i am tru idealistic and eccentric. My tastes are weird. I fear that i will never have anyone to love as i don't deserve it. Pretty sad but i always try to hide from people who try to flirt with me as i am scared of being hurt,left alone. I also never received enough love from my parents or elsewhere. So with me,love is depressing!!!
Go away please,lol.

posted April 17, 2014 01:57 PM            

My 12th house is actually my most active, packed house. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Ceres in it. Venus in Aries, and Aries is also ruling my 12th house.

I've never cheated on anyone (yet). I like to imagine I wouldn't, but I have had feelings for others whilst dating someone. I felt terrible about "cheating emotionally". I can see myself cheating on someone, though, only because of, I suppose, this placement. I'm that friend who falls in love at first sight with someone at the mall, or Starbucks, or at the bank. I have no problem finding beauty in people and that almost blinds me to everything else. I tend to place people on pedestals and assume they're perfect, prompting my lust to reach new levels of infatuation.

The first person I ever fell in love with (truthfully "fell in love" and is still the only person I've ever been in love with) was in a relationship the first year I knew him. We had our situationship for about 4-5 years, but throughout most of it, he was unattainable. I used to blame my Aries Venus for wanting the chase, but then I just began assuming I was a masochist lol.

I told him I had feelings for him but never that I was in love with him. There were many people I had very strong feelings for and never told. To this day, half the people I've ever lusted for or had feelings for, don't know.

posted October 16, 2019 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by taurean_scorpion:
Venus in Twelfth House

Venus in the Twelfth House indicates a certain kind of shyness that is most appealing... You probably excel in things like photography, poetry, and dance. A fondness for animals may prompt you to adopt a pet or volunteer at a shelter. Exploring your spirituality could also give you a stronger sense of self, allowing you to express your inner beauty in new and exciting ways.

(courtesy of Tarot.Com, from Sex Appeal Report)

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Cap Venus in the 12th, happily married to a Pisces Venus in the 12th. The above moreso applies to how this placement has played out in my life thus far.

I have an eye for photography, love poetry, love dancing (one of my most vivid dreams involved a message about dancing), and love love love animals!!! Wanted to be a marine biologist as a kid, a dolphin trainer, a veterinarian, you know I am a big advocate for animal rescue and find animals to be some of the best healers!

I don’t believe it’s all doom and gloom in the 12th. Therein lies the potential for “other worldly” and rich life experiences. Love and beauty beyond face value.