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Topic: Aquarius men
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Annepisces unregistered
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posted June 08, 2007 05:52 AM
hi i found a wesite with the do and dont of attracting aqua man http://www.romantic-ideas-for-life.com/love-horoscopes-aquarius-man.html Here’s what you need to do to GET & KEEP a Aquarius man… Be friendly Be cool Be untouchable Be mysterious Be unpredictable Be cerebral Be unique Be free-spirited Be intriguing Be illusive Be happy with a romance friendship Be social Be independent Stand out in some way Have at least a few hobbies Support his humanitarian inclinations Give him freedom Be spontaneous and accepting of change Be different (I some way, any way!) Enjoy learning new things and meeting new people Have a group of close friends that you spend lots of time with Know how to get along with his friends Don’t expect (nor demand) emotional expressions of his love Understand how to be his friend first, then his lover Here’s what you can do to LOSE your Aquarius man… Attempt to put a leash on him Demand that he spend 24/7 with you Be average Don’t have any hobbies Be sexually provocative Expect daily emotional expression of his feelings Dislike friendly discussion/debate Be antisocial Don’t get along with his friends Have no friends of your own Be a loner Criticize his beliefs, causes, and projects Expect passionate lovemaking Support routine Look down on spontaneity Be materialistic Dislike people Be possessive Be clingy Be boring Smother him Throw tantrums Show your jealousy Always be available to him Well ladies…there you have it – the do’s and don’t of seducing your Aquarius man. It’ll take some work to entice that Aquarius guy of yours, but I know you can do it. Just keep one thing in mind -- don’t be an imposter. Be real and make sure that the girl this guy wants is really you. Pretences will fool for only so long.
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sinderlou unregistered
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posted June 08, 2007 07:55 AM
everything written is so true. i just didn't want to keep him because he wasn't romantic and charming enough for my pisces sun moon and libra asc. its an interesting ride but don't expect cuddling and dinners by candlelight. if you want to be treated like one of his buddies this is the relationship for you! IP: Logged |
alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Somewhere over the Rainbow... Registered: May 2009
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posted June 08, 2007 07:58 AM
Love me some Aqua Men. All the men I've ever dated have Aquarius Moons. I learned my lesson the hard way. Especially with the temper tantrums. But they are amazing. I can't get enough
------------------ "I eat success for breakfast-- with skim milk!" Sagittarius AC, Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Leo
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taurean_scorpion unregistered
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posted June 08, 2007 08:57 AM
no wonder i lost him...LOL IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 3078 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 08, 2007 09:24 AM
That is interesting, but once again one must take into consideration all things....Other placements for example... I have an Aqua sun friend who would rather cuddle and touch than have sex! He is highly Piscean... And as Cesar says about dogs..."animal first, breed second name third." we could also apply to men... MEN first sun sign second, other placements third. Aqua or not, they are men.... IP: Logged |
librarising Knowflake Posts: 113 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 09, 2007 01:36 AM
I attract Aquarian men but they tend to annoy the hell out of me. IP: Logged |
Sunny Mavericks unregistered
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posted July 18, 2007 02:01 AM
LOL Librarising! Wow, the most interesting relationship I have ever been in has been with an Aqua man, and everything on that list is so true. We were on and off, and now we love from afar, and every time we get together I act like the DO list, and every time we break up, I act like the DON'T list. Can't help it, I go back and forth with him. I love him and then I hate how he treats me and I throw a fit. Then I ignore him (scorp sting) and he comes back out of curiosity as to why I ran away. Now we are friends and the relationship has never been better. They truly are better friends than lovers! IP: Logged |
Dani California Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2007 10:21 AM
Ah, thank you for posting that!! I was looking all over the place in Soul Unions for that list.  Loooooooooooong list though right?? LOL! IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted July 19, 2007 11:20 AM
this is Aceylan, im using my friends name. i seem to only attract aquarians, im a cancer. i had a long, tumultous relationship w/ him(energy vampire) and i met a new aquarian who is amazing! attentitive, caring, affectionate, respectful. why only aquarians for me?IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted July 19, 2007 11:21 AM
 My LOve has an Aqua Moon hihihihiI agree to that 1st list. He gives many value to the fact that we are true friends and then 2 lovers who understand each others moods ( hmm sometimes i dont but oh well,hes also Cancer Asc :P) Here it is: " dont demand/expect emotional expressions of love" - through his cancer asc and libra sun I see his affection and emotionss but that doenst happen in a daily routine, he also needs his freedom and sometimes he shows detatchement also ( but its not a lack of feelings,its just the Aqua) I remember that he said to me in the begining i was diferent and also interesting person,also misterious..so,completely true in the list - shows he values who is stands out from the social world he moves in. the other list...hmmm Yeah, he also says a lot to me have many things to do and to criticize less ( im a Virgo Sun..but a Libra Asc ). i love debates and friendly discussions,were always having crazy stories and even invent things to talk about( philosophycal also). Disagree on some though:hes very passionate and he also would love for me to always be avaiable for him every mintue in the day ( the Cncer maybe?) but yes. we must look to the owl chart  IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes Knowflake Posts: 166 From: NC Registered: May 2009
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posted July 19, 2007 11:40 AM
You know the one thing I noticed about aqua men? You can't trick them, or fool them, or really shock them at all. If you CAN, then you've probably already won their hearts.I know men like challenges, but I think aqua men are ALL ABOUT the challenge. Even as an aqua woman, I get a lot of pleasure out of the process of luring men, and befriending them. But the romance, the courting, the formalities of dating, not so much. I have a good Scorpio friend who dated a Aqua man (born the day before me). He, magically, mesmerized her, I don't know HOW he did it, but I know he intentionally cast his "aqua spell" on her. Then when they were finally in a relationship, he would push her away, **** her off, when she finally said "ENOUGH!", he would pull out all the stops and get her back. I believe he really loved her, she is very smart, they were best friends, but he would sporadically screw things up to confirm that he was, in fact, in control and had the upperhand of the relationship. So be weary of that. My best friend (aries) was obsessed with an Aqua man. But honestly, she's not the brightest bulb on the christmas tree, and he really couldn't stand her. Most guys just flock to her, because she's beautiful, funny, and flirtatious, he just rolled his eyes at her. She could chat about celebrity gossip and reality TV, but could barely talk about current events. It's so true about aquas, you need to appeal to their brain first and foremost. BEFRIEND them with your BRAINS. Engaging, intelligent women, with a little rebellious streak. But the minute you turn all googoogaga and mushy about the relationship, is when they lose interest. Also, I've found with a lot of aqua men: DON'T flirt with other guys, try to make them jealous in order to get their attention or affection, it'll turn them off completely. Just my 2 cents! ------------------ *Christina* Aquarius SUN Gemini MOON Aries ASC IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted July 19, 2007 12:05 PM
Blueeyes: That is so typical this story that you said about the Aqua and the Scorpio..Aqua's tend to sabbatoge relationships..I have a Aqua guy friend that I have been knowing all my life and he says Aqua men don't know a good woman when we have one...And I stopped and looked at him and said that is so true..I think that its a growth thing maturity level that they have to reach before they even begin to see the real deal, with some it takes a long time for them to get there and perhaps some painful situations too.. IP: Logged |
annaf Knowflake Posts: 60 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 19, 2007 02:10 PM
ok, so if they sabbotage relationships and everything is so incredably backwards with them....what are some of the signs they are interested in a woman?????I only have experience with two aqua men and they seemed to be exact opposites. The first one I wasnt remotely interested in, but with his aries mars he was EXTREMELY direct in pursuing me and letting me know he's interested.The other one (with pisces ascendant, cap. venus, gemini mars) I'm very attracted to but I have no idea whether I'm just a friend. He tends to act reserved and almost shy when we see each other, flirts with all the girls at parties but tends to ignore me - just as some of my emails, but when I need his help he reacts instantly. So from those two very different aqua men, I'm really not sure,what would be 'classic' aqua behaviour that denotes interest. IP: Logged |
Lady Neptune unregistered
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posted July 19, 2007 02:14 PM
What would be a typical aquarian? Do they exist? If you can't pin them down to a typical range of traits...then I'd say that typifies aquarians.IP: Logged |
Missa Newflake Posts: 17 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 19, 2007 03:25 PM
I like Aquarians, we’re quite similar on many levels, but different enough to keep things interesting. I however have to disagree with some points, Aquarians are able to express their love – and you can expect it in some way. They’re not water signs for sure (unless they have something in Pisces, which is very possible) but they often have their own original ways of letting people know they like you. Also, even though I have no experience about this, I could expect some Aquarians liking a person who is sexually provocative, considering that Aquarius is ruled by Uranus. Though maybe that applies only on relationships, Aquas would definitely prefer friendly approaching (like all air signs) to a sexually provocative one. Being a loner to a certain point could also be a good thing, if that means you enjoy spending time on your own and don’t cling to him/her.  IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes Knowflake Posts: 166 From: NC Registered: May 2009
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posted July 19, 2007 03:58 PM
i don't know if typical Aqua traits apply. i'm an aqua sun to the core. i read Linda's description of an aqua female: http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/acquarius.htm#_Toc6672050 and it totallyyyyy describes me to a tee, except physically, i'm tall and lanky, with broad hips, not shoulders i don't know any aquas that don't value intelligence, or come across as intelligent or cultured. the one Aqua (girl) i know that defies this, is the epitome of "dumb blonde" - love her to pieces, but she's an airhead. and i couldn't believe me when she said she was aqua! but then i saw her act... she is a comedic GENIUS and writes all her own dark comedies. she's also classically trained in singing/piano/writing music. i suddenly understood. ------------------ *Christina* Aquarius SUN Gemini MOON Aries ASC IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2007 05:49 PM
For being a Libra, for some reason I never really attracted Aqua men, I have know a few but as far as being romantically involved there was usually a void there...they have that 'I am better than you' stance which I don't care for.------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2007 06:00 PM
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NAM unregistered
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posted July 19, 2007 06:05 PM
OMG Aceylan, this guy looks like your ex! IP: Logged |
librarising Knowflake Posts: 113 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 24, 2007 11:34 AM
NAM, I am a cancer too. My sun,venus and mercury in Cancer all in the 9th house. I seem to attract Aquarian sun and Taurus sun men with alot of Capricorn placements.
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alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Somewhere over the Rainbow... Registered: May 2009
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posted July 24, 2007 02:31 PM
Funny story about Aquas... well not really a story. I often mention this friend of mine because her chart boggles me... Her Chart:
ASC in Aqua Sun in Aqua Moon in Aqua Mercury in Aqua Venus in Aqua Jupiter in Aqua Uranus conj. MC All of those planets are conjunct within 2-3 degrees of one another, and all are sextile Uranus within 2-3 degrees. I don't know if it's the aspects that make her seem completely different or what but she is nothing like an Aquarian AT ALL...in any way, shape, or form. I guess it's the natural ability to defy everything typical, and predictable. ------------------ Sagittarius AC, Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Leo
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hippichick Moderator Posts: 3078 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 24, 2007 03:49 PM
Alanab---I have often thought that Aquas are aliens---maybe that would explain your friends lack of Aqua behavior.  And...I have seen time after time the less desireable Aqua behavior comes from the male of the species, while the female are able to re-late, emote, etc. IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted July 24, 2007 04:02 PM
Librarising~Actually that was a friend of mine using my screen name because hers hasn't been approved yet! Never been with an aquarian that I remember, nothing serious anyway, I attract, taurus,cancers and sags.  IP: Logged |
Dani California Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 25, 2007 11:43 AM
Aquas are aliens.......lolololol!!I don't know much about aquas really, I don't know many. How would you know if one liked you? IP: Logged |
luvva128 unregistered
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posted December 01, 2007 05:49 PM
I am an Aquarian female,at 35 yrs of age i am just understanding my self, I cant beleive that i agree with almost all of the opinions given here...I beleive love have pass me by because of lets be friends attitude, I am a very lazy person when I am to enter a relationship,I will do a better Job maintaining it.Now that i now understand me.I know I will click with an Aqua Man..its easier I would be Mirroring.IP: Logged |