posted September 14, 2007 08:50 PM              

The only thing I remembered is I have Mercury and Cancer inside my 7th.

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Hank Campbell
Far Rockaway, Queens, NY
*Sun: 8th House/Leo, Moon: 3rd House/Pisces, Venus: 8th House/Leo, Mars: 6th House/Cancer, Jupiter: 8th House/Leo, Saturn: 8th House/Virgo, ASC: Capricorn

posted September 15, 2007 06:26 AM            

MISTERHANK

see the sign on the cusp of ur seventh house. i guess fr u it is cancer. cancer is ruled by the moon. find where the moon is in ur chart. suppose its in the fifth house. that wud mean the ruler of your seventh house is in your fifth house.

posted September 15, 2007 12:13 PM              

I agree with you. The conjunctions are most important, but imo it doesn`t end there.

The conjunctions show you the "hot spots" of a relationship, and honestly, if I see a synastry without conjunctions to the personal planets or angles, I have serious doubts if that relationship has good chances to last.
To me conjunctions seem to be some kind of "hook" that draw people together, maybe opposition work similiarly. But really I never saw a relationship without conjunctions. Heck, I even tend to find those conjunctions in a synastry with celebrities I find appealing (often those are conjunctions between Mars-Venus, Sun-Venus, Moon-Uranus, Sun-Mercury, Mercury-Mercury - those synastries with celebrities seem to work exactly like the synastries in my "real" world).

So that is where I agree with you completely.

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re is important SN in conjunction with some personal planet (karmic relationship). I have other experiences that their personal planet was in conjunction with my NN.

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His AC is in her DC and other way around (my friend is AC Capricorn, he is AC Cancer).

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Good aspects with SATURN are karmic as well.

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So, I think, one or two challenging Saturn aspects can be actually good (depending if both people are willing to learn and grow and work within the relationship), but let`s say one`s SAturn would bombard the other person`s planets with squares and oppositions, then I`d think this would probably be too much.

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o be in love is good to have JUPITER (here you feel immediately some connection with that person)

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ruler of her 7th should be in good aspect with ruler of his 7th.

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Of course, VENUS and MARS in conjunction, sextile or trine (sex life)!

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As I said, this is where I agree with you.
But apart from the conjunctions I think every person has their very individual pattern to what she or he is attracted to, and it doesn`t have to be conjunctions.

For example:
I feel drawn to people with Venus / Pluto or Mars/ Pluto-connections (including Pluto in 1, Scorpio-ASC) - and I think the reason for this might be my Venus-Pluto-square.
Someone, who wouldn`t be in tune with Pluto, would maybe feel turned off by those Plutonian-vibes.

Another example:
Why am I attracted to men with Pisces Venus or Venus aspect Neptune or Venus in 1st house?
I believe it does have to do with my ASC and Mars.
My Mars is in 12th house and both ASC and Mars are conjunct Neptune - so I respond to the Venus-Neptune-vibes.
And Venus in 1st?
Well, my Mars is conjunct my ASC, you could also interprete him as a planet of 1st house - and My Mars in 1st house feels strongly drawn to those Venus in 1st house persons.

And so every chart has their own patterns.

DD

posted September 15, 2007 01:02 PM              

I am using Western Zodiac;
I find the sidereal zodiac intriguing, but are not suffiently familiar with it.
HOwever, I checked, and in my case nothing changes, I still have the ruler of 7th house in 1st, just in sidereal zodiac it is Venus, whereas in WEstern zodiac it is Mercury.

posted September 16, 2007 12:34 AM              

I only dated one Capricorn man once. Nightmare alert.

I'm usually surrounded by Capricorn women.

posted September 16, 2007 12:43 AM            

The Ruler of my Seventh 7 is in my Fourth 4 .. hmm Ive been with a couple of water like myself.. but im looking for something different...

posted September 16, 2007 07:38 AM            

For shared aspects, we do both have a Venus-Pluto square, but yours is a much more narrow orb. Mine's a whopping 8º, but I swear I can feel it.

Thanks for clarifying how to use solstice conjunctions. Now that I know how to use them, I'm going to check them out more often in natal & synastry.

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I`ve always loved the humour of your posts. Always got me grinning.

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Well, THAT was creepy now, wasn`t it?

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posted September 16, 2007 11:36 AM              

The women however, I attract into my life like crazy.

posted September 17, 2007 09:20 AM              

Hmm..my 7th ruler( now in pisces) is Jup which is on my 3rd house, conjunting my Uranus(ruller of my 5th house).
I have in Pisces the Amor Asteroid.
My JUPITER falls on my partner´s 5th house,conjunting his uranus(in 0ºorb,whcich is also one of his 8TH House ruller in Aqua),Mars(Ruler of his MC) and Eros.Sextiles his Sun(ruler of his 2nd),trine his AC,and oposes his kiron.

If Neptune as it ruller ( of pisces,then):
i have it on my 3rd house also, conj my partners neptune.
Skuare his Venus( his AC ruler);sextile his Saturn(ruler of his 7th)/Pluto(ruler of his 5th) /and kikunsk Kiron.
Conjunts his Neotune(ruler of his 9th) and Juno.
my partner has his 7th ruller in his 4th, falling on my 1st House.

posted February 06, 2011 03:04 PM            

Mercury and moon in 7th house too (mercury conjunct desc)

I need a sophisticated charming guy who thinks like a PHD (lol), talks like a motivational speaker, compassionate, witty, thoughtful, supportive and competent. Silently self assured.

posted February 08, 2011 09:41 PM            

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Then when you're on the "Free Personalized reports", go all the way down to the "Psyche and Eros report" and you'll get your reading.

"Aries on 7th house cusp

You, who can charm others so easily, are attracted to
people who are both passionate and direct. You may tend to
project your own aggressive and controlling tendencies onto
other people and then resent them for it. You cannot be alone.
You need partnerships.

You form impulsive attachments. You have a knack of
pursuing the people you are attracted to without appearing
overly aggressive or anxious. Others may marvel at the way
ordinarily aloof people respond to you. You unconsciously arouse
competitiveness.

You are charming, romantic and attractive and need to know
that other people like you. Self-assertion frightens you and
when circumstances make it necessary you usually feel victimized
and over-react. You admire people who are strong and aggressive.

Ideally, you connect with people who share your views and
are less inhibited than you are about fighting for them. You
admire their courage and independence. While they may outwardly
appear to be the more dominant partner, this is rarely actually
the case.

Mars, Ruler of 7th house, is in 1st:

You've got "it". Some call it sex appeal. Some call it
charisma. Whatever you call it, you draw people to you like a
magnet. Your life is always about other people both in your
personal relationships and in your work. One might even say you
have a talent for relationships. To the extent that you are
dynamic and charming with highly developed social skills, that's
terrific. It becomes a problem only when your center shifts
from your own values and sense of self to those of others so
that you are motivated more by your need for approval and
validation from others than by realizing your own dreams and
following your own path. Thus, you can be competitive and
active with a strong personality and enormous charm and yet be
oddly unassertive and vacillating in situations which call for
confrontation.

Your personal relationships are true partnerships and,
frequently, there is an overlap of the personal and the
professional. You wouldn't even notice, much less be attracted
to, someone who wasn't strong and independent. While you are
known for your own talents, charm and energy, you are also known
for being part of a relationship. Your partner plays an
important role in defining your values and, while strong and
self-motivated, is also devoted to helping you to develop your
own resources and carry out your own agenda. You need to admire
your partner's strength and accomplishments and, at the same
time, feel secure in being the main focus of attention and
interest. A word of caution: your partner is formidable but
not invulnerable. Sometimes it is easier to focus on what one
needs from a relationship than on what the relationship needs
from us. Without that realization, one can be quite close to
someone and yet feel very much alone."

posted February 09, 2011 02:03 AM            

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This is really cool except I don't use Placidus, I use Equal house or Koch. In which my Jupiter Rx would be in my 11th house.

The rest of the placements are right on.
Though the accuracy of the interpretation is so-so.

Sagittarius on 7th house cusp

You are bright, verbal, curious and always seem to be
restlessly seeking new experiences. Your pleasant, breezy manner
does not reveal your private insecurity and inner anxiety about
being the type who will try everything and wind up with nothing
lasting.

You are strongly attracted to those who seem
philosophically at peace with themselves and your relationships
usually begin with long, serious discussions about life. The
familiar may seem dull to you and you often connect with those
of different cultures.

You are so interested in learning and sharing new ideas and
experiences that you are irresistibly drawn to those who seem to
have a broader philosophical perspective, with whom you can
share ideas and put them together into a fresh, meaningful
context.

Your partners are well-educated, well-traveled and are
drawn to the law, education, philosophy, religion, publishing or
some area where they will have the opportunity to disseminate
their ideas. They sometimes tend to resist marriage or committed
bonds.

Venus in 7th

Your close relationships are with people who are artistic,
attractive and charming. They have taste, style, good manners
and aesthetic sensibility. They may also be somewhat flirtatious
which occasionally arouses in you feelings of possessiveness.

You are personally attractive and charming and probably
have always been popular. You enjoy the esteem of others and
anyone you are close to would tend to reflect the value system
of those you respect and would be popular with them as well.

Jupiter, Ruler of 7th house, is in 12th:

In some ways, you are like two people. On one hand, you
are quick, communicative and mercurial. You don't always have
the patience to stay with one thing for an extended period of
time and are always busy, taking trips and learning new things.
You may have a facility for languages. On the other hand, you
long for security -- material and emotional -- and, as
intellectual and logical as you can be, crave sensual, physical
contact.

A dilemma you may have in your personal relationships is
either you are attracted to open-minded free spirits who don't
always provide the emotional support you need or, conversely, if
you find someone who helps you to stabilize your life, you may
find the relationship claustrophobic so that your many
activities and pursuits become, in part, a means of avoidance.
It is important to recognize and acknowledge both sides of your
nature. You don't really have a problem expressing your
mercurial side. Your challenge is accepting your natural
physical and sensual needs. If you don't find this through
relationship, there might be a tendency toward over-eating or
other compensatory excesses. However, you can achieve a
wonderful balance: a relationship with a stable, nurturing
person who also loves to travel, is career-involved and with
whom you can expand your world.