posted September 01, 2007 10:41 AM            

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Wow!! I'M aqua sun, cancer moon and cappy venus!!! Are you the aqua, or are you asking about someone else??

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posted September 01, 2007 01:33 PM              

The love of my life is a poor man, with ambition. He has debts. He has a past. He lives at home with his mother.
I own my own house, which in my country, is unusual for a single mother. I own a car. Again expensive in my country. My parents are dead.

But I don't care. At all. About the differences. And truth be told: he's a much more giving person than I am. His focus is on the group - mine naturally tends to be on the individual. And that would be me! I'm improving with motherhood, but there is a selfish streak in me.

At the end of the day, money is just money. Nice to have, but it will never replace love. And I'd rather be happy and love/be loved, than rich.

posted September 02, 2007 01:26 AM            

Most Venus in Caps value romantic relationships that have substance to them. We're not looking for flings, friends with benefits, casual dating...we want a connection that is genuine & will last. Since we know we want something deep while most people want someting lighter, we're very cautious about showing our interest until we're pretty certain that the other person wants the same type of relationship we do. So, while many people start seeing someone because of an initial attraction & then develop feelings for the other person during the course of the relationship, many Venus in Caps have developed deep feelings for the other person before they even are interested in starting the romantic relationship. That's what I meant by a Venus in Cap showing her feelings by being in the relationship. She wouldn't have started it if she didn't care about you very much already.

Once in the relationship, I think the rest of a person's chart & her Venus aspects will shape how she shows her love. I have Venus trine Jupiter & Mars, so love goes hand in hand with playfulness and physical affection. The person you asked about may have his/her Venus harmoniously aspecting (sextile) Mars and his asc. This would make the person's loving nature comfortably linked with physical expression.

Venus in Cap will show her love by being dependable. This placement will bring a subtlety &, as mcm said, economy to the person's romantic nature. But I also think that a relationship with a Venus in Cap becomes more romantic the longer it lasts. You know how they say that people with a strong Cap influence seem to become younger with age, that they start out serious & loosen up over time? I think most Venus in Caps enjoy romance but like it to be genuine, the gestures should be made b/c the feelings are real & already exist. This is different from too much romance at the beginning, which to Venus in Caps may seem phony.

posted September 04, 2007 12:16 PM              

>>>Most Venus in Caps value romantic relationships that have substance to them. We're not looking for flings, friends with benefits, casual dating...we want a connection that is genuine & will last. Since we know we want something deep while most people want someting lighter, we're very cautious about showing our interest until we're pretty certain that the other person wants the same type of relationship we do. So, while many people start seeing someone because of an initial attraction & then develop feelings for the other person during the course of the relationship, many Venus in Caps have developed deep feelings for the other person before they even are interested in starting the romantic relationship. That's what I meant by a Venus in Cap showing her feelings by being in the relationship. She wouldn't have started it if she didn't care about you very much already.<<<