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babeefoxx
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SO funny. They sure don't make 'em like that anymore. I love you Belg. I love the way you read humour. Same as me.

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I love you too babe : Great minds think alike

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posted September 02, 2010 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 21arcturus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Observations of Capricorn Venus:

My brother of 21 years. Scorp with Capricorn Venus in 7, opp. Ascendant:

Classical enneagram type-8 personality: likes to assert himself, must have financial control ,does not like to be inconvenienced, reserved in the expression of his sentiments but very physical, highly protective of and loyal to his partner, very funny with money, a very responsible person. Power struggles with people.

My girlfriend. Unaspected Venus 21 Capricorn in the 12th house; quintile to Pluto. Mars in Taurus. Moon conj. Neptune in Capricorn as well. Again highly physical. Definitely tighter pockets than most. Loves control games. Strong ties to family. Blows hot and cold.

My major crush of the last two years: Venus 26 Capricorn, Mars 21 Capricorn. Incredibly introverted and reserved, dislikes displays of affection, needs to be in control or loses it entirely, averse to most emotional displays, avoids relationships but incredibly responsible about her work.

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posted March 13, 2011 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Psychonaut     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I haven't met many men with this astrological position to be honest, but i have met some girls with venus in cap and, yes, they are satisfied only with the best (alpha-males)! Of course, as an earth-based zodiac, the best come most of the times with material terms (and capacity).

Are they stable or monogamous? In a sense yes, but not really. They are hypergamous -that means monogamous, until i find someone better (more powerful -cap values power a lot).

Of course saturn (cap's ruling planet) gives the best of possible discipline, and IF the astrological chart helps in general with some water or less materialistic positions, then this venus operates at the highest level of -romantic- giving. Because it is self reliant, but also values stability... and is not that impersonal as venus in aqua is for example.

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posted March 13, 2011 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i agree with belg on this. The woman for example with Venus in Capricorn are gold-digging charletons as far as i'm concerned. Frankly i think it's tantamount to being a prostitute.

Parasites and sociopaths.

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Mblake81
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posted March 13, 2011 08:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RainbowDay:
belgz, it's really unprofessional trying to determine an illness on someone you've never even met. Besides - he said he was in a good mood again so don't spoil it, that's just mean.

Ok, but nvm.

I HAVE VENUS IN CAPRICORN. Anyone else?


Yes I have that placement. All the hate is amusing, I wonder what the real motivations are?

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Mblake81
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posted March 13, 2011 08:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Isis:
Ok, I have to admit that Cappy is probably one of my least favorite signs of all of them, whether it's the Sun in Cappy, Venus or what. However..."tight fisted" and "users" are certainly not descriptors that come to mind when it comes to Cappys. The ones I know are generous to a fault sometimes.

Users? If anything, in my experience, they get used...why? Cause they appreciate hard work, they work hard and are generally in a position to be able to help others out. If anything, they get resentful that they work so hard when others don't, then have to help out those who didn't put in the effort they did.

I've met some pretty messed up Cappys and heavily influenced Cappy people, and not one of them were users or tight fisted.


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Mblake81
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posted March 13, 2011 08:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dulce Luna:
As a Cap ascendant I can relate to the pickiness of a Cap Venus (or maybe that's really because my DSC ruler happens to be in virgo but I digress...). I've always been picky in this area myself but not really based on looks or status and more based on qualities. Like if there is a flawed characteristic that I could not look past in another person (one that would totally shatter their integrity) then I would forget about them no matter how many other good characteristics they had.

Anyways, I don't think Cap influenced people are users....more like the other way around. People tend to depend on us because of how solid we are (or appear) and *we* end up attracting the free-loaders.


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Mblake81
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posted March 13, 2011 09:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 21arcturus:
Observations of Capricorn Venus:

My brother of 21 years. Scorp with Capricorn Venus in 7, opp. Ascendant:

Classical enneagram type-8 personality: likes to assert himself, must have financial control ,does not like to be inconvenienced, reserved in the expression of his sentiments but very physical, highly protective of and loyal to his partner, very funny with money, a very responsible person. Power struggles with people.

My girlfriend. Unaspected Venus 21 Capricorn in the 12th house; quintile to Pluto. Mars in Taurus. Moon conj. Neptune in Capricorn as well. Again highly physical. Definitely tighter pockets than most. Loves control games. Strong ties to family. Blows hot and cold.

My major crush of the last two years: Venus 26 Capricorn, Mars 21 Capricorn. Incredibly introverted and reserved, dislikes displays of affection, needs to be in control or loses it entirely, averse to most emotional displays, avoids relationships but incredibly responsible about her work.


I can relate to all of this.

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Mblake81
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Originally posted by Psychonaut:
I haven't met many men with this astrological position to be honest, but i have met some girls with venus in cap and, yes, they are satisfied only with the best (alpha-males)! Of course, as an earth-based zodiac, the best come most of the times with material terms (and capacity).

Are they stable or monogamous? In a sense yes, but not really. They are hypergamous -that means monogamous, until i find someone better (more powerful -cap values power a lot).

Of course saturn (cap's ruling planet) gives the best of possible discipline, and IF the astrological chart helps in general with some water or less materialistic positions, then this venus operates at the highest level of -romantic- giving. Because it is self reliant, but also values stability... and is not that impersonal as venus in aqua is for example.


I am male, I relate to some of this as well. In hindsight I left this sort of wide open for interpretation, I simply mean I have observed this in others and can talk about that.

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Mblake81
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posted March 13, 2011 09:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
[QUOTE]i agree with belg on this. The woman for example with Venus in Capricorn are gold-digging charletons as far as i'm concerned. Frankly i think it's tantamount to being a prostitute.

Parasites and sociopaths.
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Really? Must have been a bad experience eh?

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Mblake81
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posted March 13, 2011 09:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have linked feist in other threads for capricorn, Alicia keys is a capricorn also.
Her style fits it correctly so I like it.

I have Venus In Cap. Due to my outlook on life the thing I fall in and out of love with is simple existence.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Urdlvw0SSEc

I keep on fallin' in and out of love with you
Sometimes I love you
Sometimes you make me blue
Sometimes I feel good
At times I feel used
Loving you darling
Makes me so confused

chorus:
I keep on fallin' in and out of love with you
I never loved someone the way that I loved you

Oh, Oh, I never felt this way
How do you give me so much pleasure
And cause me so much pain, yea yea
'Cause when I think
I'm taking more than would a fool
And I start fallin' back in love with you

chorus

I'm fallin'
I'm fallin
fall, fall, fall, fall


*I feel this way about life in general most of the time.

Note: The prisoners being worked, corrected* Saturn* It fits.

Its the nature of my heart.

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Sometimes I love you
Sometimes you make me blue
Sometimes I feel good
At times I feel used
Loving you darling
Makes me so confused

Not exactly these words, but I wake up everyday with something similar in mind, Usually the first striking thought after initial wake up.

I normally know what kind of day its going to be, But I can always be pleasantly surprised, And sometimes its the opposite, Something bad will happen on a great day.

It took a long time to learn to get a grip on this so I do not naturally swing too low or too high.

But I still swing back and forth, It is natural and its wrong to suppress it. Express it and it will lessen its extremes.

I am talking specifically about my view on existence.

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teasel
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posted March 13, 2011 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can think of two great women who left this site, who have Venus in Capricorn. I doubt that anyone who knows them, would consider them to be tight-fisted users.

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teasel
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posted March 13, 2011 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by jane:
mcm - Hey, if you're going to call me a wh*re , at least slap my ass as you say it.
(pssst...you're belgz, aren't you?)

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Mblake81
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posted March 13, 2011 09:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
C&P.

Venus in Capricorn

You keep your feelings under control, and at times you may find it difficult to make friends. This is because you express your feelings more seriously than most people your age. However, make sure that your relationships are not based solely on what others can do for you.

You are not self-indulgent and you can control your desires quite well. You will plan very carefully how to be rather thrifty. You are at your best doing everything in moderation.

Venus Square Saturn

This aspect is often difficult to handle in that the demands of the world always seem to get in the way of having fun and receiving love and affection from others. You often feel that persons or circumstances are forcing you to do things that you do not want to do.

Moon Trine Venus

Your emotions are rich and beautiful, and you express them to others so that people like you for what you really are. You have an amazing ability to get along with people; you like them, and they like you.

Venus Trine Ascendant

You should get along well with others, for you make them feel good about you also. All your life, you should be very popular.

Venus Trine Mars

You have an enthusiasm for life that others will find inspiring and catching. You like to be with others and have good times, but you do not suppress your real self in order to do so. People will like you for being yourself, so you will attract people all your life.

Mercury Sextile Venus

You are very sociable and enjoy having a good time with friends. You try to avoid anything unpleasant, even if it is a necessary part of life. Also with this aspect you may tend not to do anything very thoroughly. Your charm and friendliness may prevent you from really experiencing the emotional depths of life, which are not always that pleasant. You should have little trouble making people like you.

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Mblake81
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNYIvIRJJU4

What grew
What grew
What grew and inside who
First so simple was the vow
Then the chorus sang about
Your shoulder
The mooring for me
Like water lost in the sea

The cold heart will burst
If mistrusted first
And a calm heart will break
When given a shake

I'm a stem now
Pushing the drought aside
Opening up
Fanning my yellow eye
On the ferry
That's making the waves wave
Illumination
This is how my heart behaves

The cold heart will burst
If mistrusted first
And a calm heart will break when given a shake

(How her heart behaves)
The rain rain making me cry
(How her heart behaves)
Then the wind comes
Fanning my yellow eye
(How her heart behaves)
The waves wave the waves wave
This is how my heart behaves

A cold heart will burst
If mistrusted first
And a calm heart will break
When given a shake
The cold heart will burst
If mistrusted first
And a calm heart will break
When given a shake

What grew
What grew
What grew and inside who
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Male cap, Denzel Washington.


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posted March 20, 2011 07:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RIAFC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I haven't met many men with this astrological position to be honest, but i have met some girls with venus in cap and, yes, they are satisfied only with the best (alpha-males)! Of course, as an earth-based zodiac, the best come most of the times with material terms (and capacity).
Are they stable or monogamous? In a sense yes, but not really. They are hypergamous -that means monogamous, until i find someone better (more powerful -cap values power a lot).

Of course saturn (cap's ruling planet) gives the best of possible discipline, and IF the astrological chart helps in general with some water or less materialistic positions, then this venus operates at the highest level of -romantic- giving. Because it is self reliant, but also values stability... and is not that impersonal as venus in aqua is for example.



I concur. A very considered post.


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sis
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posted March 21, 2011 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I gotta say something !

I am a Capricorn. My ascendant is Capricorn.
My Venus is in Capricorn. My mercurcy is in capricorn. I am true Saturn child.

First of all, to generalise people by looking at one aspect is wrong

Gold digger ? Come on ! Cappies are too sophisticated to be merely money oriented.
Besides, they know very well what Saturn will do to them when they do things for wrong reasons.

I always say money is the dirt in my hands, I won't mind giving it away. hehe : D

One day, people will learn to love Saturn and one day I hope the astrologers will stop making horrifying assumptions whenever they see Saturn.

Yes, I think I should open a new topic- all about Saturn and how we cappy people feel when the astrologers always paint cappy horoscopes black.

Long Live beautiful Saturn ! : D

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posted April 01, 2011 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wavelink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hehe, venus in cap is amazing placement for higher level of soul quality. It actually spells as kama sutra - the law of passions, the sweet power plays between pure male&female energies.

Venus has very tight connection with saturn (including sat exalted in the sign of venus libra) saturn being the law of restriction while at some level love becomes the only law. That's why venus is actually cardinal ruler of capricorn (for those open for this kind of stuff).

Venus in cap is king love

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posted April 05, 2011 05:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for joyrjw     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I believe that you/or anyone should try to understand a person, and why they do what they do,better before you pass your brand of "judgement" upon them.

I have....

Out of Bounds Capricorn in Venus 2'02 7th house conjunct Descendant in Sagittarius

Venus trine Moon:
A trine connecting the Moon and Venus smooths the disposition, and makes life more harmonious in many ways. There is an attractiveness and a gentleness in the personality that can help you socially, if you let it. You trust people, and usually feel secure in your relationships. Optimism marks your approach to life, and matters work out well for you. Even when they don't, at least you had good intentions. You are never coarse or vulgar, and people who display such traits offend you. Your judgment is good, but you don't try to override other people's opinion. Unless your chart is a very difficult one, you are rarely, if ever, negative. Artistic talents are often present with this aspect.

Venus sesquisquare Saturn:
You may feel some confusion when you try to reconcile the need you have to
relate to other people spontaneously and the need you experience to conform
to behaviour dictated to you by your conscioence. With experience you will
learn to get your priorities right, finding an appropriate area to exercise
your sense of duty, leaving you free to enjoy company at other times.

Venus Decile Mars:
AFFINITY BRINGS OUT TALENT OF MOTIVATIONS

To be happy, follow your passion. It may prove helpful to learn new social skills. Find more personal inputs and outlets. Make safe places to assert your charm and share your warmth. Give lively expression to your emotions. Create and live in your own brand new kind of romance novel. To the degree that your love life isn't working, you're probably working against yourself. Try a new approach to self love and self confidence. To act decisively, you must first resolve inner conflicts. Start by breaking free from love hate relationships. Then consciously become more tactful and sensuous.

Short term sexual self discipline can bring long term benefits. Find the right balance between duty and sex, between love and love making.

You do what you love and you're spirited. The sparkle in your eyes is proof that you've been exercising your passion. Yours is a vigorous grace, and a strong beauty. You're at your best when you combine force and charm. You can connect new links between you and what you want by connecting a go get 'em attitude with an attract 'em to you sense of style.

You can be forcefully eloquent and powerfully persuasive. You can be a romantic trend setter. You can forge a new aesthetic with an arty, scientific approach to love and sex. You can bring gals and guys together for passion and romance. Try your skills at matchmaking.

Venus Novile Sun:
Obtaining joy and peace from appreciation of self; rejoicing in one's ability to please and attract other people; tending to compacency about one's attractiveness. (A common aspect among actors and performers with sex appeal.)

Venus biquintile Jupiter:
You have a keen appreciation for good art and you may have a strong interest in cultural activities or entertainment. You appreciate and support creativity and the arts. Sports, games, and other entertainments can be very happy affairs, but you may avoid sports when the emphasis is on competition and discipline rather than creativity and amusement.

Venus Opposite Ascendant:
You are drawn to truly refined and sophisticated people, not so much to the ones who substitute glitter for class. You are well mannered and people generally have a good opinion of you. You make concessions if it seems necessary to maintain harmonious relations, and you refuse to judge someone whose conduct does not come up to your expectations. Frequently you give people the benefit of the doubt and see in them qualities they do not possess. You want to believe that you associate only with persons of the highest character and you are disappointed if they do not measure up.

Although you appear self-confident and assured, the fact is that you are not comfortable unless you have someone beside you to give you the support you need. It is difficult for you to stand alone. There is no deception in your claim that you are happy to meet people, because you truly enjoy their company and conversation. You work hard, although subtly, to make sure that people are warmly disposed toward you, and you try to emphasize your better qualities to prove you are worthy of their friendship. To put others at ease you play the innocent role and make it clear that you are not a threat them. You hope no one perceives your negative qualities and discovers how insecure you really are.

Your best publicity agents are your friends, who freely extol your virtues when anyone asks them. In the company of your superiors or people you admire, you tend to be shy. You are always on the lookout for ways to improve your social status, and prefer the company of successful people or those who are obviously on their way up. You have no qualms about forming close relationships with people who are financially secure if this will increase your chances of a permanent association. you are docile, gentle, and charming.Having a partner and a close love relationship is of the utmost importance to you because it allows you to satisfy most of your personal needs, sexual and emotional. Your personality blooms when you are united with someone else for you do not feel really whole if alone.

You are an excellent and very loving partner who lavishes affection on your companion because he or she is the source of much that is important in your life. Just be careful not to let a partner take advantage of your good nature and generosity, making sure that he or she returns in kind.

If there is abuse of your good nature, you tend to ignore it, believing that a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. You should not do that however, because if you drop an unsatisfactory affair, your natural inclination toward partnership will draw perhaps a better partner to you quite quickly.

Be selective in your generosity, and your love affairs will blossom fully and last longer. If you are tolerant of faults in the short run but demand that they be eventually corrected, you will both benefit in the end. Albeit, you are more likely than most to have a solid loving partnership which will be one of your major rewards

Venus quintile MC:

If you are involved in the performing arts this aspect will aid
your success while your career and ambition in any area will be
assisted by the use of your talent for form, beauty and
the social graces so that you are able to win the backing of
influential people. A harmonious home atmosphere helps you too http://www.kozmikhoroscopes.com/kerouac.htm

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posted April 06, 2011 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My husband has got a Venus Cap, Mars Cap and it really does not mesh well with my Venus Gemini, Mars Leo.

Let's just say, I handle things myself EVERY time we do the deed.

He's really stubborn, and gets offended when I try to suggest things we can try, or other things he can do to improve his technique/endurance (none btw).

Is that typical, to be so set in his ways as a Venus Cap? Any suggestions on how I could perhaps get something going positively in our sex life?

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posted April 06, 2011 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by esheep123:
My husband has got a Venus Cap, Mars Cap and it really does not mesh well with my Venus Gemini, Mars Leo.

Let's just say, I handle things myself EVERY time we do the deed.

He's really stubborn, and gets offended when I try to suggest things we can try, or other things he can do to improve his technique/endurance (none btw).

Is that typical, to be so set in his ways as a Venus Cap? Any suggestions on how I could perhaps get something going positively in our sex life?


I remember your talking about this a while back on Astro 2.
I assume it didn't get better and you are still in the same position

I speak from experience/marriage/ a Cap.
I don't think there is anything you can do.
I am sure you have tried everything.
Some men will never know how to make love to a woman.
Why?
They can't feel it out and you must lol

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posted April 27, 2011 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrazyAquarian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hate my venus in cap. Its the one placement I would change!! go away! boo! I'm soo cheap!

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posted April 29, 2011 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Venus in Caps I know aren't like that at all lol.

They're not cheap when they know something is worth it.

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