posted December 09, 2007 04:50 PM            

LOTS of chocolate, good food, space and patience. LOL.. seriously. I find Cancer men to be very easy yet complicated (LOL). In my past experience, they found me, I had to make them go away. I actually told one that crushed on me so hars (he sent me a candy heart, Sweet Home Alabama movie and flowers for Valentine's Day about 4 years ago. We had only met two weeks before that) he had to go. I was really nice and had to explain that I am not for someone as "sweet" as him. Oh, and he had a Mommy complex. I mean.. HE REALLY loved his "momma" and said I reminded him of her.. Ewwww.... A Saggie woman NEVER wants to hear that.

But, if you really do like him, appeal to his senses (good home baked cookies) or ask him to go to a movie (as friends first).

posted December 10, 2007 05:50 AM            

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how to make a cancer man yours?

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Put a sticker on him, saying - "mine! mine mine mine mine! alllll mine! *signed: writesomething*"

Or..

posted December 10, 2007 04:04 PM            

Isn't it though? I was floored and creeped out yet kind of flattered.

posted December 10, 2007 04:16 PM            

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Have sex, get pregnant!

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posted December 11, 2007 06:19 AM              

My Bf is a Libra with Cancer AC and before we were together ive already knew that the most important woman in his life it´s...his MOM - SO REMEMBER never to talk about his Mom in a bad way - cause for him she is the most perfect,admirable and sweet woman in the Planet.
aLSO,they need affection very much.Somehow they always have a huge dear that is of being abandoned and not taked care off. We must pay alot of attention to Cancers and make effort to understand them at a soul level. As their emotions are ruled by the Moon,the cycles affects them very much,so its not easy to understand their moods and sudden changes.

But they are so sweet and caring. I dont know about your guy but my bf sometimes makes an expression of abandoned puppy that i completely melt myself in front of him( im a Virgo so imagine the power of a cCANcer to make that to me

So,make a lot conversations with him,make him feel the most important person in your heart ( which it is of course),make him feel like he can be an open book with you

posted December 11, 2007 01:04 PM            

- "You have vampire teeth! But I think it's really sexy, I like vampires."

- "You're like a man trapped in a woman's body but with just enough homosexual tendencies to make you not TOO manly."

- "You remind me of myself as a woman." (I've heard that one like eleventy billion times)

- "You have pretty brown eyes. You never see people with brown eyes. I think we should get married and run away to California together" (maybe that one struck me as stupid more than weird)

posted December 11, 2007 11:09 PM              

Honestly.

And, what placements might cause this?

posted December 12, 2007 04:29 PM            

I've had this experience with watery guys before.. They are soooooo insecure sometimes. They honestly believe that unless they play you in some way - they'll lose you. This is so fixated in their minds that no logic in this world can wipe it away.. (water doesn’t do logic anyway)

The thing is, with me (and most other girls).. they lose me *because* they played games.. so it's a bit sad and stupid all around lol

I'm loving my Sag guy at the moment (Aries moon).. AWESOME change.. AWESOME! lol
No comparison! He actually likes the fact that he is a man and acts like one… and walks like one… and smells like one *sigh* oh! Annnd looks like one LOL Thank God for Sagittarians

Ok, I probably shouldn't put it that way. I'm not speaking for all feminine sign guys. I've only had this experience twice - They started to behave the way you described (manipulative, making stuff up to get attention etc.. and it's exactly as you said - They dish it, but they can't take it at all. I did dish it back a fair few times and they were very outraged/upset and created a drama, every time)..
I stopped dishing back and ignored them completely. There is nothing else I *could* do.. because otherwise it never ends.

I feel bad that I did tease them back, and gave them a piece of their own medicine (even though at the time I thought we were just kidding around) – but they are so much more sensitive then I am, on every level.. I don't think it's fair for me to get involved in their silly games.

posted December 12, 2007 10:11 PM            

If he tells you stories in the spirit of sharing his life experiences then that would be viewed as constructive to your relationship. But, if it’s with the intention of making you jealous, then I don’t know what he thinks would be gained by bringing a destructive emotion into your relationship. I find these games a slow and subtle form of abuse; it sends shivers up my spine.

posted December 13, 2007 08:36 AM              

The games he is playing are very bad indeed,and if you feel bad about it,you should talk to him and say what you feel.

It can be one of these 2 things: he is so insecure that he finds the way of knowing if you are with HIM BY PLAYING GAMES and making you jealous,so to know you care for him ( at first my Cancer did this once. A time when i coulnt go to him, he felt bad about it and then said that if things should start going that way - of us not being with each other as much as he liked to- then,he would have to go away and there was a girl at work who proposed to him and was crazy about him - so you know what i did?
I told him that love is respect and care.Its not selfisnhess like not understanding each others responsabilites,so we cant be always with each other. Love is caring and respect and if im with him and not with some other guy,its cause i love him,and he should feel the same. If not, then he could very well go away and have fun with the other girls who just arent like me. He had to choose: or to act right and show me the love he said had for me, and respected me ; or not to see me anymore and live his life as he wanted to.

As he wasnt expecting me to acg like this,and push him agains the wall obligint him to choose right there,he felt the fear. And knew all the mistakes he was making and the injustice. He chose me and beg me to forgive him - it was only his insecurity talkinhg and none of other girls meant a thing to him and he couldn be with other gilrs cause im the one he Loves.

This is one of our stories,of me and a Cancer AC. If ou somehow feel identified with this,choose what your heart tells you like i did.