posted January 19, 2008 02:54 PM              

Todd
July 11, 1970 Granite City Illinois USA
9:35 A.M

Lindsey
August 20, 1985 Maryville Illinois USA
TOB Unknown

posted January 20, 2008 07:30 AM              

Your emotional styles are compatible, allowing you both to feel you can be yourselves. Even the
way you experience "down time" is in harmony, so you can rejuvenate in each other's presence.
You speak the same emotional language and likely feel that you "get" each other at a deep level.

Todd's Saturn opposition Lindsey's Saturn:

This aspect is a red flag in comparison astrology. This is a set-up for disappointment if you don't
allow for the differences. The effect is most noticeable in how you both handle each other's "bad
day" scenarios. When one of you is having a bad day and is venting insecurities and problems, and
the other person offers what seems to be good and caring advice, it often offends the person with
the security issues, and the other person gets upset over not being appreciated for having offered
help . . . the set-up for disappointment. To avoid this scenario, learn this one rule: On these bad
days when your partner is expressing concerns, learn to listen more and talk less. You eventually
learn that your best ideas are not well received anyway, so work on patience and silent emotional
support and you'll avoid unnecessary grief.

Todd's Chiron sextile Lindsey's Chiron:

You are naturally empathic toward each other's deep sensitivities and support each other's efforts
toward healing.

Todd's Sun conjunct Lindsey's Venus:

This is one of the sweet ties in relationship astrology, leading to natural affection and simply
enjoying being in each other's company. If it's not a romantic relationship, the arts and cultural
opportunities are a few of a multitude of ways to share and enjoy life with each other. The natural
magnetic flow of attraction that exists between the two of you makes it easier to overlook each
other's shortcomings.

Lindsey's Sun conjunct Todd's Ascendant:

This is a very favorable "cosmic glue" tie between charts. You both feel more confident, even
physically stronger, when you are together. This can lead to a flowering of your personalities, as
you both find new ways to express yourselves.

Todd's Sun trine Lindsey's Saturn:

You have patience with each other and can work well together either professionally or when
sharing life's responsibilities. You can even be patient with each other's "bad" days. You learn from
your experiences together and typically don't make the same mistakes twice with each other.

Lindsey's Sun sextile Todd's Jupiter:

You encourage a positive outlook on life together and there is no end to the number of
growth-oriented activities that you could enjoy together. You both feel confident that it is safe to
trust each other. Shared experiences with travel, education, and philosophical pursuits are favored.

Lindsey's Sun opposition Todd's North Node:

There can be something deeply familiar about each other when you first meet, as if you are picking
up where you left off. Although the familiarity leads to the likelihood of some type of relationship, if
you don't encourage new growth in each other, the relationship can wither from its own
redundancy.

Todd's Sun square Lindsey's Moon:

Lindsey has a difficult time being emotionally at ease around Todd. This dynamic tension can
manifest as rational arguments over emotional issues. Todd doesn't feel nurtured and Lindsey
doesn't feel understood or at ease. The relationship functions best with some time apart in the daily
schedule.

Lindsey's Sun square Todd's Saturn:

Lindsey feels the hammer of Todd's disapproval always close at hand. Todd gets irritated with
Lindsey's lack of responsibility. Projections abound between the two of you, and the wise person
sees the very qualities you dislike in each other as projections of unclaimed parts of your own
character. It takes character strength to deal successfully with this one; otherwise Lindsey can feel
disapproved of and Todd feels unappreciated.

Lindsey's Sun square Todd's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. Neptune is the blind spot, and when challenging the
Sun, you can lead each other into illusions. Todd sees qualities that may, or may not, be in Lindsey.
Lindsey can look at Todd as being totally ungrounded in reality.

Lindsey's Moon conjunct Todd's Jupiter:

Todd has a knack for uplifting Lindsey's mood. Lindsey, of course, enjoys this, so a positive,
trusting relationship develops. Lindsey emotionally supports Todd's growth needs and
philosophical and religious interests.

Todd's Moon trine Lindsey's Jupiter:

Lindsey has a knack for uplifting Todd's mood. Todd, of course, enjoys this, so a positive, trusting
relationship develops. Todd emotionally supports the growth needs and the philosophical and
religious interests of Lindsey.

Todd's Moon trine Lindsey's Chiron:

A natural empathy and sensitivity exists between the two of you over wounds that you experienced
in the past. You support each other's emotional healing from these wounds and nurture each other's
compassion for others.

Todd's Moon sextile Lindsey's Mercury:

Communication over personal issues is favored. You can always depend on each other for
understanding when needed, and this brings clarity into your lives.

Todd's Moon sextile Lindsey's Mars:

Todd feels safe and protected by Lindsey's strength. Lindsey feels emotionally supported in
choices of action. You rarely trigger each other's defenses.

Todd's Moon sextile Lindsey's Uranus:

This is an aspect that encourages evolutionary growth on both your parts. Todd feels encouraged
and supported for breaking out of old emotional patterns, and Lindsey feels emotionally supported
for pursuing an authentic path of individuality.

Lindsey's Moon sextile Todd's Venus:

You can feel very natural and comfortable in each other's presence, making time spent together
enjoyable. You support and even take delight in each other's emotional responses to life. You can
become interested in the arts and socializing together.

Todd's Moon square Lindsey's Venus:

Emotional issues are quite tricky to resolve. When one of you expresses emotional needs, the other
person's feelings get hurt. Or you get your feelings hurt when the other person is simply having a
bad day. It is hard not to take the other person's emotional issues personally, but that is exactly
what can improve your relationship.

Lindsey's Moon square Todd's Mercury:

Communication over emotional issues is difficult. Lindsey reads meaning into Todd's words that
wasn't intended. Todd has difficulty understanding Lindsey's emotional needs. Rational arguments
over emotional issues are likely. Words often don't help in clearing up misunderstandings; try
silence . . . look into each other's eyes, silently communicate your intent to get through the issue,
hold each other . . . it works.

Lindsey's Moon square Todd's Mars:

This aspect often leads to a stormy emotional tie. Lindsey is always on edge and feels threatened
by Todd's energy. Lindsey's emotional responses irritate Todd. Without restraint, this can be a
wounding combination.

Todd's Mercury conjunct Lindsey's Venus:

This creates a stimulating spark in your exchanges as you both enjoy each other's personality.
Todd communicates in a way that Lindsey enjoys, and thus friendship and romance are favored.
Creative outlets are also favored, although any relationship and any activity would benefit from this
delightful combination.

Todd's Mercury trine Lindsey's Saturn:

You are able to handle responsibilities well together. You not only make plans well, you are able to
follow through on them with patience and commitment. When difficulties in your relationship do
arise, this combination facilitates an ability to work through the issues patiently.

Lindsey's Mercury trine Todd's Chiron:

You support each other's interests in alternative healing, and provide each other with insights into
the significance of your past wounds.

Lindsey's Mercury square Todd's Saturn:

This aspect creates a challenge in maintaining easy, flowing communication with each other,
because Lindsey feels intimidated by Todd's judgments. This fear of disapproval restricts the
natural flow of conversation. There is a tendency to bring out each other's pessimistic and negative
attitudes. This can be compensated for, but there would have to be a rule: No criticizing each
other. Otherwise, this combination is a tough one.

Lindsey's Venus conjunct Todd's Mars:

Strong sexual attraction is always present with this "cosmic glue" combination. Even when you're
upset with each other emotionally or mentally, your bodies would just as soon be hugging. The only
danger of this tie is taking this magnetism for granted and failing to cultivate the ongoing courtship
required to sustain the initial spark.

Todd's Venus trine Lindsey's Neptune:

This aspect brings a refined energy into your relationship, and you become sensitive to the subtle
realms of your energy with each other. A peaceful feeling flows between the two of you, and you
can enjoy the arts, music, and spiritual activities together.

Todd's Venus sextile Lindsey's Pluto:

The current of sexual magnetism between the two of you runs deep. You both heal effectively from
wounding times together, giving your relationship strong regenerative abilities. Money and financial
dealings with each other are also favored.

Lindsey's Venus sextile Todd's Saturn:

This aspect adds stability to your relationship because you have the patience and commitment it
takes to work through the rough spots. You complement each other's lives, as Lindsey brings out
Todd's personal side, and Todd helps Lindsey keeps it together in the world.

Todd's Venus square Lindsey's Saturn:

This aspect dampens the natural attraction and magnetism of the relationship. It is hard to avoid
judging one another. Todd sees Lindsey as no fun, too harsh, and demanding, while Lindsey judges
Todd's values as superficial, indulgent, and undisciplined.

Lindsey's Venus square Todd's Jupiter:

It is not always easy to find ways to socialize together. What one of you considers a
growth-oriented activity, the other might not value at all. When you do get together, there is the risk
of encouraging each other's excessive behavior.

Todd's Mars trine Lindsey's Saturn:

This aspect is excellent for working on difficult projects together, or anything that requires patience
and determination. This gives strength and backbone to the relationship, allowing you to get
through the difficult times without falling apart.

Lindsey's Mars trine Todd's Chiron:

You give each other strength and courage to move toward healing old wounds. You provide strong
support for each other in your chosen directions of health care.

Todd's Mars square Lindsey's Pluto:

You are being tested with the right use of power in this relationship, and power conflicts erupt with
the slightest provocation on either of your parts. Taking martial arts training together would be a
good metaphor of your test. With this training you would learn that your power comes from staying
in your center, and not getting pulled into anger. This is no small trick in your relationship because
of the hair-trigger reactions you both have to conflict issues when either of you tries to change the
other in any way. You can bring out each other's shadow issues, and need to be willing to question
your motives in any plans you come up with together.

Lindsey's Mars square Todd's Saturn:

The potential for angry flare-ups is strong. Lindsey feels pressured and disapproved of by Todd,
fueling anger and resentment. Todd feels Lindsey is purposefully trying to be a source of
aggravation and irritation. To avoid the defensive reactions that are sure to be there otherwise, it is
essential to avoid correcting each other's behavior.

Todd's Jupiter conjunct Lindsey's Pluto:

This aspect awakens powerful ambitions to experience the fullness of life together. This gives you
the united strength to achieve shared goals as if you were fulfilling a purpose. This combination can
fuel a strong drive to teach and have an impact through religion, education, or politics. You can
awaken a hunger in each other to understand the deepest mysteries of life and death.

Lindsey's Jupiter trine Todd's Uranus:

This motivates the two of you to look for growth beyond your relationship together. You support
each other's independent views and opinions, encouraging each other to constantly expand on your
experiences and learn from life. Travel, education, and spiritual growth are all favored.

Lindsey's Jupiter sextile Todd's Chiron:

You learn from your relationship how important a person's philosophy and beliefs are in terms of
the creating and healing of wounds. Through this firsthand experience, you may be drawn to
teaching others how to liberate their relationships by changing their beliefs.

Lindsey's Saturn conjunct Todd's Neptune:

The best of this combination is when Lindsey grounds Todd's imagination and helps find ways of
manifesting this in the world. It is also favorable when Todd inspires Lindsey to open to a reality
beyond worldly responsibilities. The low road is when Lindsey doubts and disapproves of Todd's
imagination, or when Todd erodes Lindsey's strength to carry out responsibilities through guilt or
fear.

Todd's Saturn conjunct Lindsey's North Node:

This can be a very favorable aspect for pursuing a disciplined spiritual path together if, and only if,
Lindsey respects Todd's wisdom. Otherwise, the relationship feels oppressive and growth is
blocked.

Lindsey's Saturn sextile Todd's Pluto:

You give each other strength and support for tackling large projects, and the two of you together
are very effective when dealing with administrative authority. You can count on each other during
crunch time, when your back is against the wall.

Lindsey's Uranus trine Todd's Chiron:

You support and advance each other's path of healing. You can count on the original insights that
you get from each other during deep discussion about your process. You encourage each other's
ability to listen to inner guidance in matters of health and healing.

Todd's Uranus square Lindsey's Neptune:

Todd looks at Lindsey as being spaced-out. Lindsey sees Todd as a rebel without a cause. You
force each other to examine outdated fads to which you might each be still attached. At a higher
level, you force each other to examine the effectiveness of your spiritual techniques and encourage
each other to rebel against empty practices that need to be adapted or let go.

Lindsey's Neptune trine Todd's Ascendant:

This is a favorable aspect that allows Lindsey to help Todd rise above petty issues, and Todd to
help Lindsey follow spiritual and creative vision. Involvements in the arts and spiritual activity
together are highly favored.

Lindsey's Neptune square Todd's Pluto:

You are prone to promote each other's worst-case fears. You lead each other into the confusion of
the shadow world where it is difficult to distinguish between what is real and not real. The test is the
right use of your imagination, and the consequences are severe, as is always the case with Pluto
challenges. Can you anticipate the absolutely disastrous results that come when you feed each
other's fears, and instead train your imaginations not to go down that hellhole of fear? It usually
takes meditation training and spiritual practices to get a handle on this subtle, but insidiously
powerful, aspect.

Lindsey's Pluto sextile Todd's Ascendant:

You support the deepest type of spiritual transformation in each other and can be a source of
hidden strength for each other.

Lindsey's Pluto trine Todd's North Node:

Your relationship constantly brings you back to the high road of your individual soul paths. You
support each other's deep work and draw hidden strength to stay open to transformational work.
There is a feeling that you are part of the same soul family, a deeply supportive and strangely
familiar tie.

Lindsey's Ascendant trine Todd's North Node:

This allows for an easy, growth-oriented approach to life together. Your natural pursuits and
interests support each other's soul growth.

posted January 20, 2008 08:38 AM              

New here... English is my second language. Try to make this short; We both just broken up with our spouses and going for a future together. He's been very sincere from day one but can I trust he will follow this all the way through... my gut tells me he will because it's SO STRONG whats is between us. But still, I do worry a little about "the scales"...

We have known eachother for some years (friends but with great chemestry and hot/affectionate feelings for eachother we both have denied until recently - mostely me), and will now make a change for everyone around us (both unhappily married for many years - lack of genuine feelings etc).

Important/little scary time infront of us - what can I do to make him even more shure he/we have taken the right descision and what are my best cards me beeing a scorp and him a libra? What do I "trigger" in him; he have NEVER experienced some of the feelings he has for me... we also have mutual respect and specialness/sweetness between us. Share the same interests and are on same levels on most things. Agedifference. Can this grow and last... Thank you in advance...

HIM:
Sun Libra 20°36'32 in house 10 direct
Moon Libra 24°11'24 in house 11 direct
Mercury Scorpio 12°01'42 in house 12 direct
Venus Libra 14°03'48 in house 10 direct
Mars Virgo 0°59'23 in house 9 direct
Jupiter Leo 2°13'47 in house 8 direct
Saturn Pisces 24°26'55 in house 3 retrograde
Uranus Virgo 21°55'40 in house 9 direct
Neptune Scorpio 20°46'29 end of house 12 direct
Pluto Virgo 19°23'52 in house 9 direct
True Node Taurus 16°17'41 in house 6 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.
House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Scorpio 23°40'49
2nd House Sagittarius 25°17'22
3rd House Aquarius 15°01'32
Imum Coeli Pisces 27°38'24
5th House Aries 24°01'23
6th House Taurus 11°13'41
Descendant Taurus 23°40'49
8th House Gemini 25°17'22
9th House Leo 15°01'32
Medium Coeli Virgo 27°38'24
11th House Libra 24°01'23
12th House Scorpio 11°13'41
Major aspectsSun Conjunction Moon 3°35
Sun Conjunction Venus 6°33
Moon Sextile Mars 6°48
Moon Quincunx Saturn 0°16
Saturn Opposition Uranus 2°31
Saturn Trine Neptune 3°40
Saturn Opposition Pluto 5°03
Saturn Trine Ascendant 0°46
Uranus Sextile Neptune 1°09
Uranus Conjunction Pluto 2°32
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 1°45
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°23
Neptune Conjunction Ascendant 2°54
Pluto Sextile Ascendant 4°17

ME:
Sun Scorpio 24°13'14 in house 6 direct
Moon Aquarius 8°39'29 in house 10 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 10°21'16 in house 6 direct
Venus Scorpio 8°10'58 in house 6 direct
Mars Leo 7°33'15 end of house 3 direct
Jupiter Cancer 5°14'50 in house 1 retrograde
Saturn Leo 29°58'53 in house 4 direct
Uranus Scorpio 12°51'47 in house 6 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 15°04'00 in house 6 direct
Pluto Libra 15°34'33 in house 5 direct
True Node Libra 14°31'30 in house 5 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.
House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Cancer 0°36'43
2nd House Cancer 11°56'08
3rd House Cancer 23°36'40
Imum Coeli Leo 8°32'41
5th House Virgo 2°38'36
6th House Libra 23°50'43
Descendant Capricorn 0°36'43
8th House Capricorn 11°56'08
9th House Capricorn 23°36'40
Medium Coeli Aquarius 8°32'41
11th House Pisces 2°38'36
12th House Aries 23°50'43
Major aspectsSun Square Saturn 5°46
Moon Sextile Mercury 1°42
Moon Square Venus 0°29
Moon Opposition Mars 1°06
Moon Square Uranus 4°12
Moon Sextile Neptune 6°25
Moon Trine Pluto 6°55
Mercury Trine Mars 2°48
Mercury Conjunction Neptune 4°43
Mercury Sextile Pluto 5°13
Venus Square Mars 0°38
Venus Trine Jupiter 2°56
Venus Conjunction Uranus 4°41
Mars Square Uranus 5°19
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 5°16
Jupiter Conjunction Ascendant 4°38
Saturn Sextile Ascendant 0°38
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°31

posted January 20, 2008 08:48 AM              

quote:

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FAKE NAMES (I dont really enjoy being him and her for 20 people),

Birthdates,

birthtimes,

and cities of birth.

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posted January 21, 2008 08:42 AM              

There is something mystical and spiritual about your tie, although it can be equally mystifying as
mystical. It is best for couples involved with spiritual or artistic activities together, where the
imagination does some good. There can be a telepathic, psychic rapport if you allow it. You must
watch out for soap-bubble dreams and all types of illusions with imaginative Neptune activated in
the relationship.

John's Sun conjunct Mila's Pluto:

This is an extremely powerful aspect that has to be handled wisely. Mila's will has a subconscious
impact on John. The relationship can facilitate major transformation; rarely would it be casual.
There can seem to be something fated or karmic about this tie, unleashing a tremendous amount of
power and passion between the two of you. If this is healthy, bravo, this can be an extremely
profound relationship. If either person feels threatened in any way by the other, not much good can
come from the tie.

Mila's Sun conjunct John's Ascendant:

This is a very favorable "cosmic glue" tie between charts. You both feel more confident, even
physically stronger, when you are together. This can lead to a flowering of your personalities, as
you both find new ways to express yourselves.

John's Sun conjunct Mila's North Node:

John naturally supports a path for Mila that is growth-oriented and food for the soul. It doesn't
mean you are always comfortable with each other; in fact, sometimes it can feel like a stretch into
the unfamiliar, but it is a healthy growth-oriented stretch that you encourage in each other.

Mila's Sun trine John's Saturn:

You have patience with each other and can work well together either professionally or when
sharing life's responsibilities. You can even be patient with each other's "bad" days. You learn from
your experiences together and typically don't make the same mistakes twice with each other.

Mila's Sun trine John's Chiron:

You have natural empathy and support for each other's wounds, and in this gentleness, there is a
healing.

Mila's Sun sextile John's Uranus:

You encourage and support each other's uniqueness and individuality and put very few restraints
and expectations on each other. This allows your relationship to continue to grow and evolve.

Mila's Sun opposition John's North Node:

There can be something deeply familiar about each other when you first meet, as if you are picking
up where you left off. Although the familiarity leads to the likelihood of some type of relationship, if
you don't encourage new growth in each other, the relationship can wither from its own
redundancy.

Mila's Sun square John's Mars:

This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.

John's Moon conjunct Mila's Pluto:

John can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand Mila's will. A healthy relationship can
develop only if Mila can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of intimidation.
Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the two of you is
strong.

Mila's Moon trine John's Venus:

You can feel very natural and comfortable in each other's presence, making time spent together
enjoyable. You support and even take delight in each other's emotional responses to life. You can
become interested in the arts and socializing together.

John's Moon trine Mila's Ascendant:

You feel at ease and comfortable in each other's presence. This relaxed flow between the two of
you allows you to spend considerable time with each other.

Mila's Moon opposition John's Jupiter:

You tend to encourage each other's indulgent behavior. There can be excessive emotional
reactions over small issues that get blown way out of proportion.

John's Moon opposition Mila's Chiron:

Mila's attempts to help John get through difficult times are not well received. Past wounds make it
difficult to establish emotionally close ties, until you both stretch your ability to be compassionate
for each other's issues.

Mila's Moon square John's Mercury:

Communication over emotional issues is difficult. Mila reads meaning into John's words that wasn't
intended. John has difficulty understanding Mila's emotional needs. Rational arguments over
emotional issues are likely. Words often don't help in clearing up misunderstandings; try silence . . .
look into each other's eyes, silently communicate your intent to get through the issue, hold each
other . . . it works.

John's Mercury conjunct Mila's Venus:

This creates a stimulating spark in your exchanges as you both enjoy each other's personality. John
communicates in a way that Mila enjoys, and thus friendship and romance are favored. Creative
outlets are also favored, although any relationship and any activity would benefit from this delightful
combination.

John's Mercury conjunct Mila's Uranus:

This is a very exciting connection for communication and learning together. Mila's energy liberates
John's way of thinking, though it does make it difficult to stay on the topic at hand. While in
conversations with each other, ideas just come flying in about all types of issues, not just what you
are currently discussing. Some of the ideas that you come up with together are likely to be out of
synch with your culture, so it's best to think things through before you act on some of your radical
ideas.

John's Mercury trine Mila's Jupiter:

This aspect is very favorable for communication and mutual interests in continued learning. Mila's
philosophical outlook on life is expansive and uplifting to John. John engages Mila's philosophical
beliefs and helps plan movement toward goals.

Mila's Mercury sextile John's Venus:

This creates a stimulating spark in your exchanges as you both enjoy each other's personality. Mila
communicates in a way that John enjoys, and thus friendship and romance are favored. Creative
outlets are also favored, although any relationship and any activity would benefit from this delightful
combination.

John's Mercury square Mila's Mars:

This aspect sets up arguments, because you tend to constantly trigger each other's defenses. The
way John thinks and makes decisions can irritate Mila, while John constantly feels badgered and
provoked by Mila's will. Learning how to avoid reacting to each other so quickly is a key. When
you feel hostility from each other, quiet it in yourself before you react, and you can avoid the
knee-jerk arguments that this aspect is known for.

John's Venus conjunct Mila's Pluto:

A compelling, nearly hypnotic attraction can exist between the two of you. With highly developed
souls, this can lead to deep, transformative passion. With lower types, the compelling energy can
lead to obsessions or manipulative love.

John's Venus conjunct Mila's North Node:

Your values and tastes are in harmony with one another, and you are naturally attracted to activities
that lead to mutual soul growth.

John's Venus sextile Mila's Neptune:

This aspect brings a refined energy into your relationship, and you become sensitive to the subtle
realms of your energy with each other. A peaceful feeling flows between the two of you, and you
can enjoy the arts, music, and spiritual activities together.

Mila's Venus square John's Jupiter:

It is not always easy to find ways to socialize together. What one of you considers a
growth-oriented activity, the other might not value at all. When you do get together, there is the risk
of encouraging each other's excessive behavior.

Mila's Mars conjunct John's Jupiter:

Your relationship is fueled with tremendous drive, passion for life, and competitive energy. John
expands the awareness of the field of opportunities for Mila. Mila gives courage to John for acting
on goals and ideals. Your relationship requires action, or the heated-up and expanded energy can
become volatile.

John's Mars conjunct Mila's Saturn:

Mila restricts and restrains the energy expression of John. This is typically frustrating for John who
feels blocked at every turn by Mila. This is best when Mila is a natural authority figure for John,
such as coach, parent, boss, or mentor, but even in these roles, trouble will erupt if there isn't
mutual respect.

John's Mars trine Mila's Chiron:

You give each other strength and courage to move toward healing old wounds. You provide strong
support for each other in your chosen directions of health care.

John's Mars sextile Mila's Ascendant:

Your energies flow well together, making it easy to work or play together. You rarely trigger each
other's defenses, allowing you feel safe with each other. Knowing you can count on each other's
support in any conflict gives you courage.

John's Jupiter square Mila's Chiron:

Your beliefs and philosophical views clash with each other concerning health and healing issues.
Although not with malicious indent, John can encourage directions that hinder, rather than help,
Mila's healing process.

Mila's Saturn square John's Ascendant:

John feels disempowered by Mila 's disapproval. You can both feel disrespected for what you
stand for. The relationship feels strained unless you overcome your judgments of each other.

Mila's Uranus conjunct John's Neptune:

There is a creative flow between Mila's intuition and John's ability to image. This sets up a
favorable flow of spiritual guidance that comes to the two of you spontaneously through
coincidences and sudden knowing.

Mila's Uranus opposition John's North Node:

You carry the past-life karma of Mila having been a liberating, but unpredictable, influence in
John's past life. It is as if the two of you had a life-altering fling that awakened parts of you that had
been dormant, and then Mila disappeared or moved on. This makes John feel excited and uneasy
simultaneously.

John's Uranus square Mila's Neptune:

John looks at Mila as being spaced-out. Mila sees John as a rebel without a cause. You force each
other to examine outdated fads to which you might each be still attached. At a higher level, you
force each other to examine the effectiveness of your spiritual techniques and encourage each other
to rebel against empty practices that need to be adapted or let go.

Mila's Neptune square John's Pluto:

You are prone to promote each other's worst-case fears. You lead each other into the confusion of
the shadow world where it is difficult to distinguish between what is real and not real. The test is the
right use of your imagination, and the consequences are severe, as is always the case with Pluto
challenges. Can you anticipate the absolutely disastrous results that come when you feed each
other's fears, and instead train your imaginations not to go down that hellhole of fear? It usually
takes meditation training and spiritual practices to get a handle on this subtle, but insidiously
powerful, aspect.

posted January 21, 2008 08:47 PM              

BOB (male)
08/17/1965
7.45 am
Konstanz/Germany

TARA (female)
07/16/1970
16.10 (pm)
Koblenz/Germany

posted January 22, 2008 04:19 AM              

Cissy-
March,20th,1968
Sullivan, Missouri
10:51 AM

posted January 22, 2008 05:48 AM            

Sarah: 16 Oct 1973 02.45 am (01.45 GMT) Bristol, England

James: 28 Feb 1964 07.06 am (GMT) Brighton, England

Many thanks!

posted January 22, 2008 09:42 AM              

Your emotional styles are compatible, allowing you both to feel you can be yourselves. Even the
way you experience "down time" is in harmony, so you can rejuvenate in each other's presence.
You speak the same emotional language and likely feel that you "get" each other at a deep level.

BOB's Mars square TARA's Mars:

This is one of the red flags to watch out for in comparing charts. Your energies tend to conflict,
particularly if either of you attempts to correct the other's actions. This is a passionate aspect,
which is wonderful in certain arenas, but can also lead to passionate arguments. You can only be at
ease with each other to the degree that you can accept the differences in how you both go about
doing things. Otherwise, there tends to be conflict over everything. Learning to avoid expressing
yourself to each other when your solar plexus is tight would help immensely. When your solar
plexus is tight, your partner hears whatever you are saying as a punch. Harness the power, and
great things can be accomplished with your combined energy; otherwise, petty arguments and
disagreements rule the day.

BOB's Jupiter trine TARA's Jupiter:

You will have plenty of opportunities to find mutually rewarding activities. Your philosophies about
living life support one another. Traveling, education, and spiritual explorations all provide avenues
of growth for the relationship.

BOB's North Node square fNAM's North Node:

Your life paths are at odds with each other. Your personal histories don't promote a natural
empathy for what you each have experienced in the past. Making assumptions about each other
based on your past experiences always leads to trouble. It is best to treat each other as if you were
both raised in separate foreign cultures. This will help you avoid all the troubles that come from
taking things for granted about each other that aren't part of the other person's experience at all.

BOB's Sun trine TARA's Moon:

A natural flow exists in the relationship with your energies naturally supporting one another. TARA
feels safe to drop defenses and be at ease around BOB's natural energy, allowing BOB to feel
accepted and appreciated.

TARA's Sun trine BOB's Neptune:

There is a natural intuitive flow between the two of you that is quite comfortable. You can be
drawn to understand the subtle realms together through meditation and spiritual practices. You
empower each other's faith in listening to the "still quiet voice within."

TARA's Sun trine BOB's Chiron:

You have natural empathy and support for each other's wounds, and in this gentleness, there is a
healing.

BOB's Sun sextile TARA's Jupiter:

You encourage a positive outlook on life together and there is no end to the number of
growth-oriented activities that you could enjoy together. You both feel confident that it is safe to
trust each other. Shared experiences with travel, education, and philosophical pursuits are favored.

TARA's Sun sextile BOB's Venus:

This is one of the sweet ties in relationship astrology, leading to natural affection and simply
enjoying being in each other's company. If it's not a romantic relationship, the arts and cultural
opportunities are a few of a multitude of ways to share and enjoy life with each other. The natural
magnetic flow of attraction that exists between the two of you makes it easier to overlook each
other's shortcomings.

BOB's Sun square TARA's Saturn:

BOB feels the hammer of TARA's disapproval always close at hand. TARA gets irritated with
BOB's lack of responsibility. Projections abound between the two of you, and the wise person
sees the very qualities you dislike in each other as projections of unclaimed parts of your own
character. It takes character strength to deal successfully with this one; otherwise BOB can feel
disapproved of and TARA feels unappreciated.

BOB's Sun square TARA's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. Neptune is the blind spot, and when challenging the
Sun, you can lead each other into illusions. TARA sees qualities that may, or may not, be in BOB.
BOB can look at TARA as being totally ungrounded in reality.

TARA's Sun square BOB's Moon:

BOB has a difficult time being emotionally at ease around TARA. This dynamic tension can
manifest as rational arguments over emotional issues. TARA doesn't feel nurtured and BOB
doesn't feel understood or at ease. The relationship functions best with some time apart in the daily
schedule.

TARA's Sun square BOB's Mars:

This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.

BOB's Sun square TARA's Ascendant:

Tension exists in the way you each approach situations, and there can be a conflict of will unless
you allow for your differences. This combination is very favorable for natural magnetic attraction
between the two of you.

BOB's Moon conjunct TARA's Chiron:

A natural empathy and sensitivity exists between the two of you over wounds that you experienced
in the past. You support each other's emotional healing from these wounds and nurture each other's
compassion for others.

TARA's Moon trine BOB's Mercury:

Communication over personal issues is favored. You can always depend on each other for
understanding when needed, and this brings clarity into your lives.

BOB's Moon opposition TARA's Jupiter:

You tend to encourage each other's indulgent behavior. There can be excessive emotional
reactions over small issues that get blown way out of proportion.

TARA's Moon square BOB's Venus:

Emotional issues are quite tricky to resolve. When one of you expresses emotional needs, the other
person's feelings get hurt. Or you get your feelings hurt when the other person is simply having a
bad day. It is hard not to take the other person's emotional issues personally, but that is exactly
what can improve your relationship.

TARA's Moon square BOB's Saturn:

This tie is usually considered unfavorable for emotional relationships, unless BOB is mindful of the
excessive sensitivity TARA has to any disapproval. TARA's needs are judged as weak by BOB
and tend to go unmet.

TARA's Moon square BOB's Pluto:

TARA can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand BOB's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if BOB can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of intimidation.
Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the two of you is
strong.

TARA's Moon square BOB's Ascendant:

Misunderstandings often arise when TARA's emotional needs are expressed in a way that irritates
BOB. Your relationship benefits from spending a little time apart in the daily schedule to avoid
getting on each other's nerves.

TARA's Moon square BOB's Chiron:

BOB's attempts to help TARA get through difficult times are not well received. Past wounds make
it difficult to establish emotionally close ties, until you both stretch your ability to be compassionate
for each other's issues.

BOB's Mercury square TARA's Saturn:

This aspect creates a challenge in maintaining easy, flowing communication with each other,
because BOB feels intimidated by TARA's judgments. This fear of disapproval restricts the natural
flow of conversation. There is a tendency to bring out each other's pessimistic and negative
attitudes. This can be compensated for, but there would have to be a rule: No criticizing each
other. Otherwise, this combination is a tough one.

BOB's Mercury square TARA's Neptune:

Your communication with each other can become clouded by confusion, mostly over what was not
said. Fact and fantasy blur. It may not be clear what was said and not said, what is true or not true;
these types of issues cause the confusion. Absolute honesty is required to avoid these pitfalls.

TARA's Mercury square BOB's Mars:

This aspect sets up arguments, because you tend to constantly trigger each other's defenses. The
way TARA thinks and makes decisions can irritate BOB, while TARA constantly feels badgered
and provoked by BOB's will. Learning how to avoid reacting to each other so quickly is a key.
When you feel hostility from each other, quiet it in yourself before you react, and you can avoid the
knee-jerk arguments that this aspect is known for.

BOB's Mercury square TARA's Ascendant:

Misunderstandings are not uncommon with this aspect, as you both tend to misinterpret each
other's attempts at communication. Avoid this potential for misunderstanding by double-checking
important communications with each other.

BOB's Venus conjunct TARA's Uranus:

This creates an electric magnetism between the two of you, but it is highly unstable. TARA
liberates BOB from conventional attitudes, and BOB is excited by TARA's uniqueness. The
unpredictable nature of TARA keeps a tone of uncertainty in the relationship.

BOB's Venus conjunct TARA's Pluto:

A compelling, nearly hypnotic attraction can exist between the two of you. With highly developed
souls, this can lead to deep, transformative passion. With lower types, the compelling energy can
lead to obsessions or manipulative love.

BOB's Venus trine TARA's Saturn:

This aspect adds stability to your relationship because you have the patience and commitment it
takes to work through the rough spots. You complement each other's lives, as BOB brings out
TARA's personal side, and TARA helps BOB keeps it together in the world.

BOB's Venus sextile TARA's Mars:

There is very favorable magnetic flow between the two of you that could best be described as
delightful. This creates an energetic spark that is well received by both of you. You are skilled at
keeping this spark of magnetism alive long into your relationship.

BOB's Venus sextile TARA's Neptune:

This aspect brings a refined energy into your relationship, and you become sensitive to the subtle
realms of your energy with each other. A peaceful feeling flows between the two of you, and you
can enjoy the arts, music, and spiritual activities together.

BOB's Venus sextile TARA's Ascendant:

This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. BOB is very attracted to TARA's looks and style.
It is easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.

TARA's Venus square BOB's North Node:

Your tastes, both in terms of pleasure and soul-growth activities, are not in synch with each other.
Since neither of you values the other person's taste in clothes, style, art, beauty, and social
activities, this aspect has a diminishing effect on the magnetism between you.

BOB's Mars conjunct TARA's Jupiter:

Your relationship is fueled with tremendous drive, passion for life, and competitive energy. TARA
expands the awareness of the field of opportunities for BOB. BOB gives courage to TARA for
acting on goals and ideals. Your relationship requires action, or the heated-up and expanded
energy can become volatile.

BOB's Mars trine TARA's North Node:

You keep each other current with the times and on track with your soul growth. You give each
other courage to move forward, away from the path of least resistance and toward growth.

BOB's Jupiter square TARA's Pluto:

There is an unconscious pattern of competition between the two of you, and you can goad each
other into grander and grander displays of one-upmanship. There can be a natural mistrust of each
other's moral and ethical values in how you approach goals.

TARA's Saturn trine BOB's Uranus:

This combination is favorable for working together to fulfill responsibilities of any kind. BOB
encourages TARA to be innovative in career considerations, while TARA helps ground BOB's
ideas.

TARA's Saturn trine BOB's Pluto:

You give each other strength and support for tackling large projects, and the two of you together
are very effective when dealing with administrative authority. You can count on each other during
crunch time, when your back is against the wall.

TARA's Saturn trine BOB's Ascendant:

This is a stabilizing aspect for all relationships. TARA is patient with BOB and can be a source of
guidance without being heavy-handed. BOB helps TARA stay focused on manifesting ambitions
and goals. This combination is excellent for being able to work through the difficult times together
on any type of commitment.

TARA's Saturn sextile BOB's Chiron:

There can be mutual interest in serious, scholarly studies and pursuits related to health and healing.
You have a steadying influence on each other's path of moving forward in the healing process, and
you are there for each other in times of need.

TARA's Saturn opposition BOB's Neptune:

You tend to feed each other's doubts and fears, eroding each other's strength. When a cycle of
doubt comes over the two of you, it feeds on itself, and soon everything can look bad. This misuse
of the imagination needs to be addressed as if it were a test. Discipline needs to be developed to
block these negative wanderings of the imagination.

TARA's Uranus trine BOB's North Node:

This aspect is favorable for keeping each other excited about a path of evolving and discovering
life. You come away from discussions feeling excited about the fresh insights you give each other.

TARA's Neptune trine BOB's Chiron:

You two have an intuitive awareness of the role of imagination in healing. You can work with each
other in the subtlest realms of spiritual and vibrational healing. You intuitively understand the power
of prayer in healing work with each other.

TARA's Pluto conjunct BOB's Ascendant:

This is a powerful and transformative combination that, if used wisely, can help you both shed what
you are not, and become what you are meant to be. TARA 's will has a tremendous impact and
influence on BOB's outlook on life. The low road would lead to manipulative behavior by TARA
with this influence.

TARA's Pluto opposition BOB's Chiron:

With this aspect, it is as if you know secrets about each other that could be quite wounding if
publicly revealed. You are being tested with the right use of this power to wound each other. Will
you hold each other hostage with these secrets? Or will you pass the test and be able to be trusted
with each other's vulnerable secrets?

TARA's Ascendant trine BOB's Chiron:

You have a natural, unspoken empathy for the trials and tribulations you both have endured. In this
quiet acceptance, a healing occurs, and you help each other move beyond the wounds of the past.

BOB's North Node sextile TARA's Chiron:

posted January 22, 2008 09:43 AM              

Your emotional styles are compatible, allowing you both to feel you can be yourselves. Even the
way you experience "down time" is in harmony, so you can rejuvenate in each other's presence.
You speak the same emotional language and likely feel that you "get" each other at a deep level.

Cissy's Mercury conjunct Donny's Mercury:

It is easy to understand each other, as your minds work in similar styles. Making decisions together
is supported, and when communication difficulties do arise, they are readily resolved when there is
the intention to do so.

Cissy's Jupiter trine Donny's Jupiter:

You will have plenty of opportunities to find mutually rewarding activities. Your philosophies about
living life support one another. Traveling, education, and spiritual explorations all provide avenues
of growth for the relationship.

Donny's Sun conjunct Cissy's Venus:

This is one of the sweet ties in relationship astrology, leading to natural affection and simply
enjoying being in each other's company. If it's not a romantic relationship, the arts and cultural
opportunities are a few of a multitude of ways to share and enjoy life with each other. The natural
magnetic flow of attraction that exists between the two of you makes it easier to overlook each
other's shortcomings.

Donny's Sun opposition Cissy's Pluto:

Power struggles are likely to erupt unless both of you stay vigilant for any attempts by the other to
control the relationship in any way. Donny can feel that Cissy is always pulling strings trying to get
something. Cissy can feel as if Donny is always challenging Cissy's authority.

Donny's Sun square Cissy's Moon:

Cissy has a difficult time being emotionally at ease around Donny. This dynamic tension can
manifest as rational arguments over emotional issues. Donny doesn't feel nurtured and Cissy
doesn't feel understood or at ease. The relationship functions best with some time apart in the daily
schedule.

Cissy's Sun square Donny's North Node:

The relationship goes through periods where growth seems to be stalled and you pull each other
into past patterns. Are you going to support each other's growth, or hold each other to the past?

Cissy's Moon trine Donny's Jupiter:

Donny has a knack for uplifting Cissy's mood. Cissy, of course, enjoys this, so a positive, trusting
relationship develops. Cissy emotionally supports the growth needs and the philosophical and
religious interests of Donny.

Donny's Moon trine Cissy's Mars:

Donny feels safe and protected by Cissy's strength. Cissy feels emotionally supported in choices of
action. You rarely trigger each other's defenses.

Donny's Moon trine Cissy's Saturn:

You work well together on both the personal and professional fronts. Cissy gives steadiness and
patience to the relationship. Donny adds emotional support to Cissy's efforts in the world of
responsibility.

Donny's Moon trine Cissy's North Node:

You both naturally support each other's soul growth. You feel familiar and comfortable with each
other.

Cissy's Moon opposition Donny's Ascendant:

Misunderstandings often arise when Cissy's emotional needs are expressed in a way that irritates
Donny. Your relationship benefits from spending a little time apart in the daily schedule to avoid
getting on each other's nerves.

Cissy's Moon square Donny's Pluto:

Cissy can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand Donny's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if Donny can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.

Donny's Moon square Cissy's Uranus:

Donny tends to feel threatened by Cissy's independence and need for freedom, while Cissy feels
encumbered by Donny's emotional needs.

Cissy's Moon square Donny's Chiron:

Donny's attempts to help Cissy get through difficult times are not well received. Past wounds make
it difficult to establish emotionally close ties, until you both stretch your ability to be compassionate
for each other's issues.

Cissy's Mercury conjunct Donny's Saturn:

This aspect is favorable for making important business decisions together, or doing serious
research on some important interest. It is not so favorable for just having fun together, with Donny's
serious ways being brought into communications. This combination works best when Donny is a
natural authority for Cissy, but not so favorable the other way around.

Donny's Mercury conjunct Cissy's Venus:

This creates a stimulating spark in your exchanges as you both enjoy each other's personality.
Donny communicates in a way that Cissy enjoys, and thus friendship and romance are favored.
Creative outlets are also favored, although any relationship and any activity would benefit from this
delightful combination.

Cissy's Mercury trine Donny's North Node:

Your conversations and mental pursuits together naturally lead to each other's soul growth. You
can draw on each other for support and understanding in spiritual issues.

Cissy's Mercury opposition Donny's Uranus:

A tension exists in your communications with each other. Donny wants Cissy to change the way
Cissy thinks about something in a way that is inconceivable to Cissy. Cissy can feel Donny is a
disruptive, unruly influence, and Donny can view Cissy as narrow-minded and stuck in
conventional thinking.

Cissy's Venus conjunct Donny's Mars:

Strong sexual attraction is always present with this "cosmic glue" combination. Even when you're
upset with each other emotionally or mentally, your bodies would just as soon be hugging. The only
danger of this tie is taking this magnetism for granted and failing to cultivate the ongoing courtship
required to sustain the initial spark.

Donny's Venus trine Cissy's Jupiter:

The friendship between the two of you flows naturally and you encourage movement toward
refinement in each other's life. The arts, culture, philosophy, and socializing together are all favored.

Cissy's Venus trine Donny's North Node:

Your values and tastes are in harmony with one another, and you are naturally attracted to activities
that lead to mutual soul growth.

Donny's Venus sextile Cissy's Ascendant:

This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. Donny is very attracted to Cissy's looks and style.
It is easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.

Cissy's Venus opposition Donny's Uranus:

Donny feels constrained by Cissy's values and attitudes about relationships. Cissy's security is
threatened by Donny's need for freedom. There can be sexual magnetism that comes from the
fascination of something different, but your tastes being so different would be a test.

Cissy's Venus opposition Donny's Pluto:

Karmic patterns of manipulating each other in love, either through guilt or intimidation, must be
dealt with in your relationship. Strong passion can exist between the two of you, but intimacy will
elude you until you are both able to let go of control and surrender to the relationship.

Cissy's Mars conjunct Donny's Jupiter:

Your relationship is fueled with tremendous drive, passion for life, and competitive energy. Donny
expands the awareness of the field of opportunities for Cissy. Cissy gives courage to Donny for
acting on goals and ideals. Your relationship requires action, or the heated-up and expanded
energy can become volatile.

Cissy's Mars sextile Donny's Saturn:

This aspect is excellent for working on difficult projects together, or anything that requires patience
and determination. This gives strength and backbone to the relationship, allowing you to get
through the difficult times without falling apart.

Donny's Jupiter conjunct Cissy's North Node:

You provide strong support for each other's spiritual growth and can actively pursue spiritual
studies together. Travel together can be related to your spiritual quest, and it will not be difficult to
find a path that is growth-oriented for both of you.

Cissy's Jupiter opposition Donny's Saturn:

Your sense of timing is not likely to be in synch with each other; when one of you wants to expand,
the other wants to hold back. You may have many conflicting views about politics, religion,
business ethics, and the like, making it difficult to support each other's plans.

Donny's Saturn trine Cissy's Ascendant:

This is a stabilizing aspect for all relationships. Donny is patient with Cissy and can be a source of
guidance without being heavy-handed. Cissy helps Donny stay focused on manifesting ambitions
and goals. This combination is excellent for being able to work through the difficult times together
on any type of commitment.

Donny's Saturn square Cissy's Neptune:

You tend to feed each other's doubts and fears, eroding each other's strength. When a cycle of
doubt comes over the two of you, it feeds on itself, and soon everything can look bad. This misuse
of the imagination needs to be addressed as if it were a test. Discipline needs to be developed to
block these negative wanderings of the imagination.

Cissy's Saturn square Donny's North Node:

You have a difficult time supporting each other's chosen path for soul growth. Until you develop
respect for the differences in your paths toward soul growth, you tend to pull each other down
more than build each other up.

Donny's Neptune sextile Cissy's Pluto:

Your interactions with each other invariably help you both rise above the petty, lower currents of
reality. If you attempt to meditate together, you will feel as if you are being lifted up on unseen
wings.

Cissy's Pluto square Donny's Ascendant:

Donny can feel intimidated by Cissy because of something that neither of you is conscious of. This
makes it difficult to have a relationship until trust is established. You see each other's idiosyncrasies
and subconscious behavior patterns. It takes great sensitivity of delivery to discuss such issues
without arousing your partner's defenses.

Cissy's Pluto opposition Donny's Chiron:

With this aspect, it is as if you know secrets about each other that could be quite wounding if
publicly revealed. You are being tested with the right use of this power to wound each other. Will
you hold each other hostage with these secrets? Or will you pass the test and be able to be trusted
with each other's vulnerable secrets?

Cissy's Ascendant conjunct Donny's North Node:

This combination can lead to soul growth for both of you, although is doesn't always make for a
comfortable relationship because of the lack of familiarity with each other's orientation to life.
Donny's natural way of approaching life merges with the path of soul growth for Cissy creating a
fertile combination for continued spiritual growth for both of you.

Donny's Ascendant sextile Cissy's North Node:

This allows for an easy, growth-oriented approach to life together. Your natural pursuits and
interests support each other's soul growth.

posted January 22, 2008 09:45 AM              

Your emotional needs are at odds with each other, as are the ways in which you both express your
emotions, making emotional communication difficult. The challenge is to allow enough space in the
relationship for both of you to get your individual needs met. That is the high road. Even if you have
learned to accommodate for these differences, it is still wise to allow some time apart on a daily
basis so you can drop into that place of just being yourself.

Sarah's Mars sextile James's Mars:

The way that you naturally go about doing things flows with one another. No matter how fired up
either of you gets, you still do not readily provoke each other's defenses. It seems to be easy to
avoid conflicts and resolve them when they arise.

Sarah's North Node opposition James's North Node:

Where you have both been in previous lives and where you are going in this life are exactly
opposite. You stand face to face, each of you having been where the other person is going, and
because of this you are a valuable resource for each other. But you both are encouraged to remain
face to face and not try to change each other to your life direction.

Sarah's Sun trine James's Mercury:

Communication and a natural understanding of each other are favored. You "get" each other and
readily resolve the natural conflicts that arise in relationships. You stimulate each other's mental
activity and readily learn from each other.

Sarah's Sun trine James's Saturn:

You have patience with each other and can work well together either professionally or when
sharing life's responsibilities. You can even be patient with each other's "bad" days. You learn from
your experiences together and typically don't make the same mistakes twice with each other.

Sarah's Sun opposition James's Venus:

Your tastes and values can clash, and yet this is not entirely bad. It creates a strong sexual
attraction, though not the comfortable type; this type of fascination comes from that which is
different. The strong sexual attraction is favorable for getting the relationship going, but difficulties
can arise over differences in basic life values, making it difficult to live with each other on a
day-to-day basis.

Sarah's Sun opposition James's Jupiter:

You can encourage excessiveness in each other, one way or another. James may try to encourage
Sarah to grow and expand in ways that are not appropriate. This is motivational for individuals who
do not want to settle for complacency and, instead, reach for more of what life has to offer, but
watch out for grasping.

James's Sun opposition Sarah's Ascendant:

Tension exists in the way you each approach situations, and there can be a conflict of will unless
you allow for your differences. This combination is very favorable for natural magnetic attraction
between the two of you.

James's Sun square Sarah's Moon:

Sarah has a difficult time being emotionally at ease around James. This dynamic tension can
manifest as rational arguments over emotional issues. James doesn't feel nurtured and Sarah doesn't
feel understood or at ease. The relationship functions best with some time apart in the daily
schedule.

James's Sun square Sarah's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. Neptune is the blind spot, and when challenging the
Sun, you can lead each other into illusions. Sarah sees qualities that may, or may not, be in James.
James can look at Sarah as being totally ungrounded in reality.

James's Moon sextile Sarah's Mercury:

Communication over personal issues is favored. You can always depend on each other for
understanding when needed, and this brings clarity into your lives.

Sarah's Moon square James's Uranus:

Sarah tends to feel threatened by James's independence and need for freedom, while James feels
encumbered by Sarah's emotional needs.

Sarah's Moon square James's Pluto:

Sarah can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand James's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if James can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.

Sarah's Moon square James's Ascendant:

Misunderstandings often arise when Sarah's emotional needs are expressed in a way that irritates
James. Your relationship benefits from spending a little time apart in the daily schedule to avoid
getting on each other's nerves.

Sarah's Moon square James's Chiron:

James's attempts to help Sarah get through difficult times are not well received. Past wounds make
it difficult to establish emotionally close ties, until you both stretch your ability to be compassionate
for each other's issues.

Sarah's Mercury conjunct James's Neptune:

This leads to a mystical, nearly psychic connection between the two of you. Mutual interests in
mysticism, spirituality, and artistic pursuits are favored. Worldly issues and practical concerns are
not so favored. In these issues, it is best to compensate for this imaginative combination by making
sure that you are not seeing potential that doesn't really exist.

James's Mercury trine Sarah's Uranus:

You two are excellent at looking at issues from a fresh perspective and coming up with innovative
ideas for dealing with situations. Your communications stay lively as you encourage a "discovery"
attitude in each other. The ideas that you come up with together most often have relevance and
application in your lives.

Sarah's Mercury trine James's Ascendant:

You have a natural understanding of each other and feel free to express yourselves to each other,
knowing you will be understood.

Sarah's Mercury trine James's Chiron:

You support each other's interests in alternative healing, and provide each other with insights into
the significance of your past wounds.

Sarah's Mercury sextile James's Pluto:

This tie is favorable for pursuing mental activities together, and you feel safe with each other in
taking conversations to a deep, intimate level. You likely feel comfortable revealing personal
secrets to each other.

James's Mercury opposition Sarah's Ascendant:

Misunderstandings are not uncommon with this aspect, as you both tend to misinterpret each
other's attempts at communication. Avoid this potential for misunderstanding by double-checking
important communications with each other.

James's Venus conjunct Sarah's Chiron:

Your values, appreciation for beauty, and capacity to receive love are fertile ground for healing for
Sarah. The activities that you enjoy together naturally lead to soul growth for both of you. You can
be drawn to the arts and creative expression as a method for healing.

James's Venus opposition Sarah's Uranus:

Sarah feels constrained by James's values and attitudes about relationships. James's security is
threatened by Sarah's need for freedom. There can be sexual magnetism that comes from the
fascination of something different, but your tastes being so different would be a test.

Sarah's Venus square James's Mars:

There is a magnetic spark between you, without a doubt, but it is sometimes rough and has an
edge. This is good for passion, but is volatile because so many of your values about male/female
roles in a relationship clash.

Sarah's Venus square James's Pluto:

Karmic patterns of manipulating each other in love, either through guilt or intimidation, must be
dealt with in your relationship. Strong passion can exist between the two of you, but intimacy will
elude you until you are both able to let go of control and surrender to the relationship.

Sarah's Venus square James's Chiron:

Your values concerning health and healing can be at odds with each other. Sarah's desires for
pleasurable activity can activate the wounds James is carrying from previous relationships.

Sarah's Mars trine James's Uranus:

You encourage each other's independence and have marvelous improvisational skills together. In
romance, you take delight in each other's exploratory and innovative sexual style.

James's Mars trine Sarah's Saturn:

This aspect is excellent for working on difficult projects together, or anything that requires patience
and determination. This gives strength and backbone to the relationship, allowing you to get
through the difficult times without falling apart.

Sarah's Mars sextile James's North Node:

You keep each other current with the times and on track with your soul growth. You give each
other courage to move forward, away from the path of least resistance and toward growth.

James's Mars opposition Sarah's Ascendant:

Conflicts erupt when Sarah feels picked on or badgered by James Conversely, James becomes
irritated by Sarah's approach to situations.

James's Mars square Sarah's Neptune:

This is a difficult aspect because of its insidious qualities. The source of problems and conflicts
between the two of you is never obvious. As lovers, you can bring out a fascination for eroticism in
each other, but you are not each other's best counsel in making important decisions, as this aspect
brings out the worst of the blind spot phenomenon of Neptune aspects. Deception on one or both
of your parts is also a possible negative manifestation of this energy.

James's Jupiter conjunct Sarah's Chiron:

You learn from your relationship how important a person's philosophy and beliefs are in terms of
the creating and healing of wounds. Through this firsthand experience, you may be drawn to
teaching others how to liberate their relationships by changing their beliefs.

James's Jupiter opposition Sarah's Uranus:

Although this combination promotes a great deal of excitement, you too easily encourage each
other into rash and even reckless behavior. There is an unfounded feeling of luck that encourages
risk taking that can be disastrous. Arguments can flair up over political and religious issues that you
are not likely to see eye to eye on.

Sarah's Saturn conjunct James's North Node:

This can be a very favorable aspect for pursuing a disciplined spiritual path together if, and only if,
James respects Sarah's wisdom. Otherwise, the relationship feels oppressive and growth is
blocked.

James's Saturn trine Sarah's Uranus:

This combination is favorable for working together to fulfill responsibilities of any kind. Sarah
encourages James to be innovative in career considerations, while James helps ground Sarah's
ideas.

James's Saturn opposition Sarah's Ascendant:

Sarah feels disempowered by James 's disapproval. You can both feel disrespected for what you
stand for. The relationship feels strained unless you overcome your judgments of each other.

James's Uranus conjunct Sarah's Ascendant:

This aspect is liberating and electric, though somewhat unpredictable, in its impact. James
encourages Sarah to break free from convention and become more individualistic in personal style.
Sarah encourages James to act on original ideas.

James's Uranus trine Sarah's North Node:

This aspect is favorable for keeping each other excited about a path of evolving and discovering
life. You come away from discussions feeling excited about the fresh insights you give each other.

James's Uranus square Sarah's Neptune:

James looks at Sarah as being spaced-out. Sarah sees James as a rebel without a cause. You
force each other to examine outdated fads to which you might each be still attached. At a higher
level, you force each other to examine the effectiveness of your spiritual techniques and encourage
each other to rebel against empty practices that need to be adapted or let go.

Sarah's Pluto square James's North Node:

A karmic pattern of mistrust must be faced to avoid the undermining influence of this aspect. If
issues of mistrust exist, put them on the table and clear the issues before proceeding. Overcome the
tendency to let these issues putrefy beneath the surface, which can breed all types of ill feelings.

posted January 23, 2008 02:38 AM              

Quote:
Your interactions with each other invariably help you both rise above the petty, lower currents of
reality. If you attempt to meditate together, you will feel as if you are being lifted up on unseen
wings.

...........................................

posted January 23, 2008 04:59 AM            

I love this bit:
"Communication and a natural understanding of each other are favored. You "get" each other"
So true!

posted January 23, 2008 07:12 AM              

Doug
July 23rd, 1967 @ 2:00PM
Fort Wayne, IN, USA

posted January 23, 2008 09:37 AM              

It is easy to understand each other, as your minds work in similar styles. Making decisions together
is supported, and when communication difficulties do arise, they are readily resolved when there is
the intention to do so.

Carol's Jupiter opposition Doug's Jupiter:

Since what each of you finds rewarding is at odds, you need to create enough space in your
relationship for both of you to take part in the separate activities that you each find rewarding.
There could be disagreements over each other's political, religious, or philosophical beliefs.

Carol's North Node trine Doug's North Node:

Your paths for soul growth in this life naturally support one another. Your histories also lead to a
sense of familiarity with each other. You are interested in each other's stories from the past and
ideas for future growth.

Doug's Sun conjunct Carol's Ascendant:

This is a very favorable "cosmic glue" tie between charts. You both feel more confident, even
physically stronger, when you are together. This can lead to a flowering of your personalities, as
you both find new ways to express yourselves.

Carol's Sun trine Doug's Moon:

A natural flow exists in the relationship with your energies naturally supporting one another. Doug
feels safe to drop defenses and be at ease around Carol's natural energy, allowing Carol to feel
accepted and appreciated.

Carol's Sun trine Doug's Mars:

You are able to work and play well together, because the way you do things doesn't get in each
other's way. You rarely have a conflict of wills and readily resolve issues when they arise. You
naturally empower each other's courage and your passions flow well together.

Carol's Sun trine Doug's Ascendant:

You enjoy and support each other's outlook on life, making it enjoyable to spend time together.
Your personalities mix well.

Carol's Sun sextile Doug's North Node:

You naturally support each other's path toward soul growth. This happens without effort. You are
able to help each other glean valuable lessons from your personal histories, freeing you from having
to repeat the past.

Doug's Sun opposition Carol's Jupiter:

You can encourage excessiveness in each other, one way or another. Carol may try to encourage
Doug to grow and expand in ways that are not appropriate. This is motivational for individuals who
do not want to settle for complacency and, instead, reach for more of what life has to offer, but
watch out for grasping.

Doug's Sun opposition Carol's Saturn:

Doug feels the hammer of Carol's disapproval always close at hand. Carol gets irritated with
Doug's lack of responsibility. Projections abound between the two of you, and the wise person
sees the very qualities you dislike in each other as projections of unclaimed parts of your own
character. It takes character strength to deal successfully with this one; otherwise Doug can feel
disapproved of and Carol feels unappreciated.

Carol's Sun square Doug's Chiron:

Your natural instincts for helping each other through wounding times can be off target. Try not to
judge each other's wounds and, instead, see what you can do to offer support, even if your ways
of dealing with wounds are radically different.

Carol's Moon conjunct Doug's Mars:

This is a hot, passionate, and volatile combination. Carol can feel picked on and badgered by
Doug. Doug can have angry eruptions over Carol's emotional responses. If you can handle the
heat, passion and intensity are assured.

Carol's Moon conjunct Doug's Ascendant:

You are strongly impacted by each other's moods and emotional cycles. This gives you natural
empathy for each other, but makes it difficult for either of you to remain objective when emotions
arise.

Carol's Moon trine Doug's Mercury:

Communication over personal issues is favored. You can always depend on each other for
understanding when needed, and this brings clarity into your lives.

Carol's Moon sextile Doug's Venus:

You can feel very natural and comfortable in each other's presence, making time spent together
enjoyable. You support and even take delight in each other's emotional responses to life. You can
become interested in the arts and socializing together.

Doug's Moon opposition Carol's Mars:

This aspect often leads to a stormy emotional tie. Doug is always on edge and feels threatened by
Carol's energy. Doug's emotional responses irritate Carol. Without restraint, this can be a
wounding combination.

Doug's Moon opposition Carol's Uranus:

Doug tends to feel threatened by Carol's independence and need for freedom, while Carol feels
encumbered by Doug's emotional needs.

Doug's Moon opposition Carol's Pluto:

Doug can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand Carol's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if Carol can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.

Carol's Moon opposition Doug's North Node:

This points to the likelihood of strong family karma from past lives impacting your relationship.
Something akin to deja vu starts the relationship off on a strong note, but it is difficult to pull out of
the past and keep growing in your relationship. Carol can feel drained by Doug's needs unless you
both stay vigilant to a path of growth and overcoming past behavior patterns.

Carol's Moon square Doug's Jupiter:

You tend to encourage each other's indulgent behavior. There can be excessive emotional
reactions over small issues that get blown way out of proportion.

Carol's Mercury trine Doug's Mars:

This tie is favorable for motivating you both to act on ideas. You rarely trigger each other's
defenses in communications, and can even work through difficult moments together without feeling
threatened by each other.

Doug's Mercury trine Carol's Neptune:

You have a highly intuitive rapport with each other. This supports your communication, allowing
you get the subtle nuances. You help each other rise above petty issues and can encourage each
other's interests in spirituality and the arts.

Carol's Mercury trine Doug's Ascendant:

You have a natural understanding of each other and feel free to express yourselves to each other,
knowing you will be understood.

Doug's Mercury trine Carol's Chiron:

You support each other's interests in alternative healing, and provide each other with insights into
the significance of your past wounds.

Carol's Mercury sextile Doug's Venus:

This creates a stimulating spark in your exchanges as you both enjoy each other's personality.
Carol communicates in a way that Doug enjoys, and thus friendship and romance are favored.
Creative outlets are also favored, although any relationship and any activity would benefit from this
delightful combination.

Carol's Mercury square Doug's Saturn:

This aspect creates a challenge in maintaining easy, flowing communication with each other,
because Carol feels intimidated by Doug's judgments. This fear of disapproval restricts the natural
flow of conversation. There is a tendency to bring out each other's pessimistic and negative
attitudes. This can be compensated for, but there would have to be a rule: No criticizing each
other. Otherwise, this combination is a tough one.

Doug's Venus conjunct Carol's Pluto:

A compelling, nearly hypnotic attraction can exist between the two of you. With highly developed
souls, this can lead to deep, transformative passion. With lower types, the compelling energy can
lead to obsessions or manipulative love.

Carol's Venus trine Doug's Uranus:

Your relationship will never be in danger of stagnating because you constantly find innovative ways
to explore life together. You are attracted to each other's uniqueness and allow each other
considerable freedom in the relationship.

Carol's Venus trine Doug's Pluto:

The current of sexual magnetism between the two of you runs deep. You both heal effectively from
wounding times together, giving your relationship strong regenerative abilities. Money and financial
dealings with each other are also favored.

Doug's Venus sextile Carol's Neptune:

This aspect brings a refined energy into your relationship, and you become sensitive to the subtle
realms of your energy with each other. A peaceful feeling flows between the two of you, and you
can enjoy the arts, music, and spiritual activities together.

Carol's Venus opposition Doug's Neptune:

There can be a mystical attraction between the two of you, but there is the danger of illusions and
deception with this combination. Fantasy can be delightful in love when it is a seasoning, but when
it is the main course, disillusionment is the ultimate result when the fantasy can't be sustained in
reality.

Carol's Venus opposition Doug's Ascendant:

Your values and sensitivities to beauty clash with one another. Doug's natural style of presentation
is a turn-off for Carol Carol can seem uptight to Doug.

Doug's Venus opposition Carol's Chiron:

Your values concerning health and healing can be at odds with each other. Doug's desires for
pleasurable activity can activate the wounds Carol is carrying from previous relationships.

Carol's Venus square Doug's Jupiter:

It is not always easy to find ways to socialize together. What one of you considers a
growth-oriented activity, the other might not value at all. When you do get together, there is the risk
of encouraging each other's excessive behavior.

Doug's Mars conjunct Carol's Neptune:

The best of this aspect would lead to inspired activity together. Music, dance, tai chi, and creative
spiritual outlets of all sorts are the fruits of aligning with the high road of this combination. However,
Neptune is also known as the blind spot, and it is important to know the risk of making poor
choices of action together. This aspect can bring a mystical quality to your passion, and at
minimum, imagination is brought into love play. Trust this combination with creativity and the like
where the imagination is not troublesome, but be cautious of this same imagination in worldly affairs
involving money and finance. Here, there can be a stiff price to pay for illusions.

Carol's Mars trine Doug's North Node:

You keep each other current with the times and on track with your soul growth. You give each
other courage to move forward, away from the path of least resistance and toward growth.

Doug's Mars trine Carol's Chiron:

You give each other strength and courage to move toward healing old wounds. You provide strong
support for each other in your chosen directions of health care.

Carol's Mars square Doug's Neptune:

This is a difficult aspect because of its insidious qualities. The source of problems and conflicts
between the two of you is never obvious. As lovers, you can bring out a fascination for eroticism in
each other, but you are not each other's best counsel in making important decisions, as this aspect
brings out the worst of the blind spot phenomenon of Neptune aspects. Deception on one or both
of your parts is also a possible negative manifestation of this energy.

Doug's Mars square Carol's Jupiter:

Although not a hostile aspect, you can provoke a competitive reaction in each other. You tend to
exacerbate each other's issues with impatience and rash behavior. Arguments could flare up over
differences in political and religious views. It would be helpful to weave some healthy, playful
competition into your relationship to vent this dynamic energy.

Doug's Mars square Carol's Saturn:

The potential for angry flare-ups is strong. Doug feels pressured and disapproved of by Carol,
fueling anger and resentment. Carol feels Doug is purposefully trying to be a source of aggravation
and irritation. To avoid the defensive reactions that are sure to be there otherwise, it is essential to
avoid correcting each other's behavior.

Doug's Mars square Carol's Ascendant:

Conflicts erupt when Carol feels picked on or badgered by Doug Conversely, Doug becomes
irritated by Carol's approach to situations.

Doug's Jupiter square Carol's Neptune:

You encourage each other into blind spots and plans based on false optimism. With this aspect, it
is always best to think things all the way through before heading off on a fantasy. You can
encourage indulgent behavior in each other, and this could be trouble if either of you has problems
with escapism or addictions.

Carol's Jupiter square Doug's Ascendant:

Many disagreements can erupt because your basic beliefs about so many life issues are at odds
with each other. These arguments aren't so hot as to be threatening, with Jupiter involved, but
Doug can experience Carol 's beliefs about education, religion, and politics to be way off base.

Carol's Jupiter square Doug's North Node:

The philosophical and religious interests of Carol are not growth-oriented for Doug. It would be
advisable to encourage and support the differences in your spiritual paths. When you try to find a
shared spiritual path, one or the other of you feel as if you are just tagging along.

Carol's Saturn trine Doug's Uranus:

This combination is favorable for working together to fulfill responsibilities of any kind. Doug
encourages Carol to be innovative in career considerations, while Carol helps ground Doug's ideas.

Carol's Saturn sextile Doug's Chiron:

There can be mutual interest in serious, scholarly studies and pursuits related to health and healing.
You have a steadying influence on each other's path of moving forward in the healing process, and
you are there for each other in times of need.

Carol's Saturn square Doug's North Node:

You have a difficult time supporting each other's chosen path for soul growth. Until you develop
respect for the differences in your paths toward soul growth, you tend to pull each other down
more than build each other up.

Carol's Uranus square Doug's Neptune:

Carol looks at Doug as being spaced-out. Doug sees Carol as a rebel without a cause. You force
each other to examine outdated fads to which you might each be still attached. At a higher level,
you force each other to examine the effectiveness of your spiritual techniques and encourage each
other to rebel against empty practices that need to be adapted or let go.

Carol's Neptune conjunct Doug's Ascendant:

A highly intuitive, mystical, and psychic connection exists between the two of you. Relationships
that include artistic and spiritual pursuits are highly favored. If neither person is skilled in a healthy
use of the imagination, this aspect can create illusions about the relationship that are not grounded
in reality. Make sure you consider the whole picture, best- and worst-case scenarios, before acting
on your inspirations together to avoid the dangers of Neptune's blind spot.

Carol's Neptune opposition Doug's North Node:

The past-life karma that you carry into this life is that of Carol having been a source of
spiritual/creative inspiration for Doug in a past life, or having been a master of illusions. To know
which is the case for your relationship, ask yourselves if you feel inspired by each other, or if you
question if what you share is real. Either way, South Node relationships can seem weird, like
something is going on you can't quite put your finger on.

Carol's Pluto sextile Doug's Ascendant:

You support the deepest type of spiritual transformation in each other and can be a source of
hidden strength for each other.

Carol's Pluto trine Doug's North Node:

Your relationship constantly brings you back to the high road of your individual soul paths. You
support each other's deep work and draw hidden strength to stay open to transformational work.
There is a feeling that you are part of the same soul family, a deeply supportive and strangely
familiar tie.

Carol's Ascendant square Doug's North Node:

It is sometimes difficult to stay on a growth-oriented path together because personality conflicts
periodically pull each of you down into past behavior patterns.

Carol's Ascendant trine Doug's Chiron:

You have a natural, unspoken empathy for the trials and tribulations you both have endured. In this
quiet acceptance, a healing occurs, and you help each other move beyond the wounds of the past.

posted January 26, 2008 01:16 PM              

Boodica
19.03.1967
15.45
Leicester UK