posted January 15, 2008 04:28 AM            

But if someone told me to mind my own business I'd be mortified - Libran Moon. It would mean I'd crossed the line. The exception to this is if I was checking up on something because someone is lying about something that effects me directly and I am calling them out. It has happened.

My husband says I am more like my Rising sign, Scorpio. My Moon is also conjunct Pluto, so maybe he is picking up on that part of my personality. I like to know what makes people tick (hence the interest in astrology). When I find out a bit about this and a little about their backgrounds it helps me understand them more and be more tolerant.

For some reason people do tell me very personal things, more than once they have said they haven't told anyone else. In that situation I think it is only reasonable that it doesn't get repeated even if that is a test of my self-control.

posted January 15, 2008 05:21 AM            

I'd also be mortified if someone told me to mind my own business, but that never happens, because I never ask people about stuff. I actually think people tell me stuff because I never ask.
If I'm curious about something I always take back routes to finding out what I want. Maybe a little Moon-Pluto Conjunction secrecy playing out there..?

The people who confide in me are never the people I WANT to know anything about though, ain't that just typical

posted January 15, 2008 06:28 AM            

I thought this might be a boring thread.. because I was really just complaining about a situation - involving friends/family being nosy about my relationship lol

posted January 15, 2008 06:41 PM            

I love to hear the juicy stuff. I don't tell the information but for some reason people love to tell me what is going on, why it's going on and why it is going on with.

I get it from my family, I get it from my husband's family, but I never let them know what I know and I am very guarded about what I know. LOL...

I have Pluto conjunct ASC in the first house. I also have Jupiter and Neptune in the 2nd and 3rd House. Finding out what makes a person tick is easy...it's how you use that information which is important.

When I was young it was easy for me to get into somoene's head and let them know. As I have gotten older I try not to ever cross that line. I can even get a major impression about a person without knowing them, it's more about knowing someone close to them.

I am not nosy in the sense that I look for things. Most often information falls into my path. I have no desire to look at my husband's information, e-mails or his accounts, even though I know all the passwords. It means nothing to me because I trust him..LOL.. In fact, I believe he is nosier than me. He loves to watch what I am posting or listen to my calls (not by picking up the other end, but by being there as I talk). It doesn't bother me, I just attribute it to him being a Leo.

My grandmother was a Leo and she was NOSY as all get out.

I once read (by Linda Goodman) that a Leo is always nosy, if they see their mate looking out the window while doing dishes, they want to know what their mate is thinking about. LOL.. Bear is the same..