posted February 20, 2008 11:24 PM              

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Regarding the Aqua Sun/Cappy Rising/Scorpio Moon/Aqua Venus man I recently dated...

He is so emotionless

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posted February 26, 2008 04:05 PM            

In relationships, I think the "friend" description is on the money. I have never been able to date someone from strictly a "romantic" perspective... I must relate to them at first platonically, and that will usually override the romance and love aspect. I can understand for some, they prefer love over friendship in relationships... but I've always preferred the intimacy of friendships because they are not as clouded with sexual undertones, expectations, commitment, and I think there is more honesty when the other person is not focused on titles, etc. I do not flip flop... I love all of my friends, I'm not detached, I'm not insensitive, I'm not casual or uncommitted... in fact, loyalty is my first and foremost priority in friendships, it is 100% vital that I trust someone's loyalty as a friend before taking any other steps.

In sex and physical affection, I can be somewhat detached... not cold... but just a little bit more weary and hesitant... I've also got a bit of a trust issue, so it tends to go with the territory.

posted July 11, 2008 04:45 AM              

I am incredibly attracted to a Venus in Aqua, and OMG, there is nothing I can do. There is eye-contact, then there's not and then there is with a smile, and then there is not, all over again

Anyway, I live in a hope and dream that one day we can develop a friendship (at least), because I am utterly fascinated!!!

posted July 11, 2008 10:27 AM            

I am Aqua Sun, and Aqua Venus (in the 12th!) and I've never been comfortable with romantic relationships unless they've evolved from a serious friendship.

My exboyfriend was kind of like a buddy to me, but with the added bonus of sexual chemistry.

I've also had a best friend who I would have NEVER thought of as anything but platonic, but after a few months I realized I was crazy about him...

I don't think it's "detachment" or being "unemotional" as much as it's just not the typical romantic "flowers, love poems and constant affection" relationship...

I look at couples that enjoy romantic candlelit dinners and walks on the beach and think "eh", whereas I think hanging out with your beau, watching a football game at a bar and chatting with all the patrons would be great...

To each their own though.

posted July 11, 2008 01:21 PM              

it's hard to distinguish exactly what is the venus aqua part of my exes, but based on what i've read here, i think i've boiled it down. yes, both were very into just hanging out, talking about stuff, being buddies. there wasn't a lot of romancing to be had and i can see, thinking about both of them, that they want that kind of mental connection, of frienship, and that having that made them feel more desirous. i still don't know a lot about the placement myself, but this time around his venus conjuncts my mars and mercury (and widely, my sun) in aquarius, so it feels a little more heated and like we get eachother a bit more. but it definitely has that let's be REALLY good FRIENDS vibe, which i love!

posted January 21, 2009 07:29 PM              

I really love this thread because it gives me so much insight on my current situation.

I've been friends with my venus in aquarius man for a few months now. We've met under the most unusual circumstances and only have spent so much time together because I enjoy his company so much and constantly invites him to events. His sun is in Sag and I think a moon in Virgo. He is the most wonderfully logical and intelligent gentleman. Extremely devoted to his studies and can seem perfectly asexual brainiac at first acquaintance.

We've been on many date-like outings alone, and would sometimes hold hands. However, our conversations would be strictly intellectual and hardly ever about personal romantic relationships, or feelings in general. This suits me pretty well, since I'm a scorpio with rising aquarius, libra in venus and scorpio in mercury- I thrive on harmonious intellectual conversations.

However, just when I sensed that things are going quite well and begin to be a bit more flirtatious with him. he disappeared for a month. this came completely without warning and I was quite devastated. Then just when I was ready to move on, he re-appeared with a thousand apologies and excuses like "I wasn't prepared to respond to you then I was too busy.". Usually he is the most considerate and caring friend, so this is completely out of character.

After establishing a truce, we went out again. This time, he confessed a lot about himself to me, things that could seem a bit private, which is very unlike his normal self because our conversations hardly gets personal. About how he sometimes feel like he cannot relate to the rest of the world and therefore is very awkward with socializing.

Then the strange thing is... he is now very flirtatious with me in his own bizarre and awkward way. He would tease me, a lot. Call me nicknames and pat me on the head. And sometimes blurt out that he thinks I'm cute. Before he seems very physically detached and not fond of physical contact at all. Now he would put his arm around my shoulder when I said I'm cold or rub my hand with his to warm me up.

posted January 22, 2009 06:16 AM            

I think maybe your man retreated to have a think about things, and when he had thought about things enough - he came back to you. It seems to me from what you've described that he likes you very much.

posted January 22, 2009 11:17 AM            

Well bc of my Pisces Sun and Aqua Venus I can do both..I find shooting ball with my man romantic its that whole physical thing..But the most important thing is we are friends and he loves me for who I am..

posted January 23, 2009 02:29 PM              

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he told me the other day that friendship is THE most important part of a relationship! so there you go!

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posted January 26, 2009 04:13 PM            

One thing I noticed about him that feels a bit "Aqua-ish" is that I think you need to be his BEST friend or his lover/roommate to really be close to him. He didn't like phones, he rarely answered when people tried to reach him and he was a bit flaky, hard to reach if you will. But when he felt like seeing people he was the best friend ever, very devoted, loyal and fun. Now that we're not together anymore but still good friends I understand what his friends sometimes got annoyed by haha! You can reach him when he wants to be reached, just accept it Also, he has air Moon/Mercury/Venus/Mars so it's understandable that he is a bit aloof

I grew up with an Aqua Moon/Venus brother and an Aqua Sun/Mercury dad so I guess I've learned to be chill about it

posted February 18, 2009 10:23 PM              

Sun Aquarius 10° 0'
Moon Libra 1° 36'
Mercury Aquarius 8° 42'
Venus Aquarius 12°
Mars Scorpio 28° 11'
Jupiter Aquarius 24° 52'
Pluto Scorpio 7° 20'

I'm a guy btw..
She doesn't need to be really attractive..But something that catch the eye would be nice..for some passion XD

Rawr!

Easy going is a plus+active once a while
Mature/playfull
She needs to be herself
Something to talk about besides daily stuff and knowing what ur saying and at least be able to back it up with something...Otherwise i think u judge too fast wich i don't do/like..and it create a wall between people..wich is not what we are born for..we're born to break those crap worthless ideas/judgements and statements.

So basically we are builders of a new world or dream..and if u are a breaker..well won't hate u but u will just be friends then, we do forgivea lot don't worry but too much is too much.

posted May 24, 2011 03:40 AM            

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Originally posted by LibraChickety:
Regarding the Aqua Sun/Cappy Rising/Scorpio Moon/Aqua Venus man I recently dated...

THERE IS NO HOPE FOR HIM!

I honestly mean this.

He is so emotionless, I can't fathom who'd understand it, never mind put up with it.

I actually feel terribly sorry for this man. I doubt he'll ever find anyone. PLUS, he's terribly selfish.

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