posted December 06, 2011 10:40 PM            

lol im exactly the opposite. im usually the guy you'll stare at while standing in a line(i'll be giving my female friends a hard time teasing them with vulgar jokes), the guy that will wave at strangers and wink at random ladies and give strangers a lift.

it'd be interesting to know what the rest of your charts looks like and compare it..

as for women, just come as you are. i cant make promises(i sincerely believe i dont control loving or not loving someone) but if i like you you'll stay for a really long time! almost all my friends are people who Ive known for 10+ years some even more. there are very few people i can say that i have stopped contacting. these are my exs lol. i cant say im not possessive, a little bit of it is healthy...i actually love being called up multiple times a day, i NEED to know a woman loves/likes me, and ill do anything to get that info.

i like head games. 99% of time things will get sexual around me.

i could tell Oracle what we(venus in aqua) really want in a woman...i could really describe it for her.. but im afraid its all about genuinity and originality for me.just relax and be yourself let ME handle the rest ill take care that you wont get hurt. i don't like copies, i don't like "acting", i can usually see through bull VERY easily and will continue to give a chance until one day i sit her down, tell her she has a problem(not being honest to her own personality) and if she's going to do something about it. ill still give her a chance. if she doesn't learn this time around, shell never see me again.

do i need my space???? yes, but i can do without it too...the world needs me more than i need space. no joke, sometimes i cant think of taking a break when i see the kind of stuff that's going around me... the only time i get suffocated is when my mom starts asking me questions. lol. its like a frigging interrogation!

why is it that you think you have no love left in you starfox? because you got burned out? do you know what id give just to feel that? to feel like ive given my all? do you know what it is to feel really lonely? in the real sense of the word? does that feel better than getting your heart mauled by a broad? loneliness is hypocrisy to me. id chose honest pain over hypocrisy anytime! all the time. because all you want to do is just be with someone when your lonely. its a human NEED to connect with others, its not absent in you.... you just need more time to think about how you're going to pursue future en devours.

c'mon man, do you not respect your heart? are you gonna quit because of some broad broke your heart? your action are directly preventing you in meeting a perfect match for you. change your belief system, don't let your mind fool you into thinking your love tank is empty. don't care what sun sign you are, no one deserves to be loveless.

posted December 06, 2011 11:13 PM              

What to say about Men with Venus in Aquarius. Well it's in opposition to my Venus in Leo. Incredibly detached even when they're obsessed with you. I dated an Aquarius Sun, Mercury and Venus. He had a serious poker face one minute and then was incredibly passionate the next. It was interesting. I guess it would depend on how Venus in Aquarius interacts with other planetary placements. I have a soft spot for Aquarians in general though, so no complaints here.

posted December 07, 2011 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by kingsmo:

why is it that you think you have no love left in you starfox? because you got burned out? do you know what id give just to feel that? to feel like ive given my all? do you know what it is to feel really lonely? in the real sense of the word? does that feel better than getting your heart mauled by a broad? loneliness is hypocrisy to me. id chose honest pain over hypocrisy anytime! all the time. because all you want to do is just be with someone when your lonely. its a human NEED to connect with others, its not absent in you.... you just need more time to think about how you're going to pursue future en devours.

c'mon man, do you not respect your heart? are you gonna quit because of some broad broke your heart? your action are directly preventing you in meeting a perfect match for you. change your belief system, don't let your mind fool you into thinking your love tank is empty. don't care what sun sign you are, no one deserves to be loveless.

that's enough hippy crap for now.

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There is love left in me, but I just can't find it in me to be interested enough to make the effort any longer.

To have to meet someone new, learn all their likes and dislikes and all that stuff... I've been there & done it enough times now to know, having dealt with many females over the years. Our society places such high value on something ephemeral as love.

If love comes my way thats ok,but I'm not actively seeking it out.

I prefer to just be friends with people now,that's the Aquarius side maybe ?

To be honest I don't have a belief system, all roads lead nowhere.

posted December 25, 2011 06:42 PM            

I'm also Mars Scorpio too, but mine has given me amazing strength. I have not used it to get what I want from people. I guess I should say, being a southern American girl we're taught to keep our expectations low. Not that I believe that crap! Maybe I should take some lessons from you guys, right?

posted December 25, 2011 06:51 PM            

I'm also Mars Scorpio too, but mine has given me amazing strength. I have not used it to get what I want from people. I guess I should say, being a southern American girl we're taught to keep our expectations low. Not that I believe that crap! Maybe I should take some lessons from you guys, right?

posted December 27, 2011 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Oracle:
Hi Kingsmo and Starfox I'm back. You both have interesting personalities, especially that sometimes Sun Capricorn and Sun Aquarius, depending on what year it is. See with me there is no question about it, I'm Sun Capricorn December 31.

I'm also Mars Scorpio too, but mine has given me amazing strength. I have not used it to get what I want from people. I guess I should say, being a southern American girl we're taught to keep our expectations low. Not that I believe that crap! Maybe I should take some lessons from you guys, right?

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Oracle
Rising Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Vertex Scorpio
Adonis Scorpio
Psyche Gemini
Eros Aquarius
Pan Taurus
Lust Aquarius
Nymph Capricorn

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posted January 03, 2012 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Oracle:
Hi Kingsmo and Starfox I'm back. You both have interesting personalities, especially that sometimes Sun Capricorn and Sun Aquarius, depending on what year it is. See with me there is no question about it, I'm Sun Capricorn December 31.

I'm also Mars Scorpio too, but mine has given me amazing strength. I have not used it to get what I want from people. I guess I should say, being a southern American girl we're taught to keep our expectations low. Not that I believe that crap! Maybe I should take some lessons from you guys, right?

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oracle oracle oracle! i love south american women. theyre so family oriented and cultured! it definitely helps that theyre extremely good looking too. ;-)

if i and you ever got together, ID SPOIL YOU! trust me, people around me end up becoming extremely liberated and play around with the rules a lot.

i love cappys. mine is on the 20th of jan btw.

posted February 23, 2012 12:06 PM              

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Originally posted by Sarai:
I know Venus in a man's chart is just one part of the whole but does anyone know what kind of woman a guy with this placement goes for?

You can talk about anything: looks, personality, likes, dislikes, so on adn on...

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Rememger, planets are modified by signs, where they express are houses and how they express are *aspects*

so obviously, venus conj saturn will be 'retarded' conj uranus just wants excitement and variety, conj pluto, now this wants intense, controlling and prob manipulative to..

posted February 23, 2012 12:07 PM              

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Originally posted by BlueRoamer:
Everything said here about venus in aquarius is mostly off mark.

Not to be rude, but venus aquarius doens't necessarily indicate detachment, this is an aquarian quality, but specifically is much stronger in a sun or moon aquarius, not necessarily venus. The only time one might see extreme detachment in a venus aquarius is if their rising sign is libra or taurus, thus making venus their chart ruler and more imporant.

ANYWAY.

Venus aquarius are the "friend" dating sign. They aren't detached but they often see people as friends, and they often prefer to develop a platonic relationship first. They aren't commitment phobes, they just need freedom when they relate to others. They are attracted to offbeat people in general, and like underdogs or counterculture people. They want someone outisde the mainstream, someone who is an individual. Venus aquarius is a very charming position, they are good at relating to the public and groups in general.

When dating a venus aquarius just don't try to box them in, but don't be so aloof that you seem uninterested either. Venus in air indicates that communication is important to these people, so this is an important area for them.

I have this position and I am not detached in love. I do have a lot of friends that probably wish they were my lovers but they aren't. But I know that platonic relationships can become romantic, and romantic can become platonic.

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excellent delination....

only thing I would add is Aquarius, my rising sign, when they *know a subject* the know it inside out upside down and can talk with authority on their given subject. Funnily enough Aquarius is also the ONLY sign I know of that can or who wants to stay friendds with their Ex's...

posted March 28, 2012 04:35 PM            

Kingsmo I think you misunderstood me, I'm southern American meaning from the south in America, Texas to be precise. But thank you for the compliment, you were correct I must admit.

Desiring Shadows how are men with Scorpio Moon? I know of a Cappy that has his Moon, Venus and Neptune in Scorpio. His Venus and Neptune are in angular houses too which undoubtedly spices things up. My Eros conjuncts his Psyche in his 12th house and in my 9th house synastry. I can't wait to meet this gentleman.

posted May 18, 2012 08:22 PM            

I think that IS the secret, honestly. My CP and I have an unusual relationship. He's not a Relationship kinda guy, which I've always known and respected. I have my own issues with commitment and feeling inundated. Sometimes his Aquarius Mars and Scorpio Moon'll clash, but we have (more than) enough to keep us together, so flare-ups are always temporary, and typically resulting from my having a drama moment (Scorpio Moon? Drama? Never!) and his suddenly reacting with equal intensity after I've decided he just doesn't care.

I really, REALLY tried to convince myself that he just doesn't care, but he's never REALLY let me do that. Either in actions, (always actions) or sometimes words. They might be few and far between, but they're there, all right, and I can't deny them.

So, I can very much relate with the needing to be friends. I'm VERY much the same way. I'm also not a hearts-and-flowers romantic. It's quirky, but he shows me the way he cares by way keeping in touch with me.

Here's something I've noticed. Because of circumstances, we weren't able to relate honestly for a LONG time. Now that that obstacle has been removed, he really IS attempting to be as transparent as he says he is. He stays in touch. We're always in contact. If we're NOT - like things were during a particular period - it's for a REASON. He won't just avoid me because he feels like it. I give him his space. He CHOOSES to stay in contact, and as close as we are. And THAT's what tells me how he really feels - despite his having given me years' worth of mixed signals.

So. Space, never pushing for a commitment, and pretty much letting them dictate the proximity of the relationship, and then being ju-u-u-st a bit out of reach. Don't ignore them. Don't play stupid games. But don't dive in, either. They're inundated easily.

This is easy if you have a lot of Air and are Uranian, too. But for the more Watery types ... with a strong Lunar influence ... it can be hard. You'll constantly be feeling he doesn't care because his behaviour isn't matching what you'd expect 'romance' to be in your head - or even caring, and devotion.

Pay attention to their actions. You might be surprised then. In fact, the way it FINALLY got through my head was when he would actively make it a point to let me know when his phone had died and he'd forgotten his charger, but signing onto his Facebook account and messaging me. Not at home, either. While in transit. Uh, wow?

Actually, I lied. That had gotten me thinking he MIGHT actually REALLY care. The way he drove it home was during a peculiar argument. He'd spent the night with whatever girl he knew that was local to where he'd had his latest show, and I was texting him - with something important. He didn't respond. I was NOT happy. At ALL. I felt he was blowing me off - ME. And for HER? Seriously?

So, I started thinking all SORTS of things. Maybe, this time around, they'd had an amazing time, and he suddenly decided that he's so lonely that he'd like to try a real relationship with her, and ... (Because I'm a lunar Scorp. We do this crap to ourselves, you see.) Of course, COMPLETELY discounting the fact that he'd CALLED me the following morning after he'd arrived - and we spoke for a good two hours. Because? He IGNORED ME, when I NEEDED him, because of ... THAT?

Well! Two can effing play THAT game. (Okay, I have a four-point stellium in Scorpio. And Sun-Pluto conjunct.)

For the first time since ... ever ... in seven years ... I ignored HIM. It took him at least a day to get it. Really. By Day 2, he figured something was wrong with my mobile - and tried the landline. Day 3, he logged onto Facebook Messenger and said something to the effect of, 'W. T. F.' In bold. I could BARELY deal with him, because A) of my own feelings, and B) what I'd concocted in my head.

It came down to: 'I spent the only free time I had in the state talking to you - I didn't even call my family, or my friends, I called YOU - and you don't know how you figure into my life?'

... Well, I CERTAINLY did THEN. And I haven't questioned it since. Haven't had reason to. He's remained consistent.

Venus in Aquarius men. They're quirky fellows.