posted February 28, 2008 05:36 PM            

Anyway I have a slew of Pluto stuff in my chart, and I too have had a lot of jealous relationships, especially with females. I end up trusting them or hoping to get close to them as friends and for some reason I end up with girls as friends who put me down or try to undermine me. I have female friends who seem close but as time goes on they end up saying or doing things that show them as being threatened of me and this is after years of “friendship.” I’ve had friends who’ve gone after people I’m in love with, into, or dated. One recent example is of a Gemini/Pisces friend who tried to pursue and turn the double sag guy I was into against me, this supposedly included the double sag guy asking my friend to North Carolina (this was last year). When he rejected her attempts she tried to make it seem like he was pursing her. And she told me this in front of her bf (I guess in an attempt to make both of us jealous). Anyway it ended up with me having a sour taste in my mouth for both of them. Another example of the Gemini/Pisces friend is she would make comments about me pulling up my top because I had too much cleavage around her bf. Another example is of a friend a Virgo/Pisces who knew I was into this guy and tried to get him to ask her out, and call me on her phone to tell me they were going out. Needless to say he was a super polite and loyal Taurus, and didn’t go out with her, and was turned off by her behavior. Both these girls are still friends with me. But only because I think overall they’re great girls. I just keep them away from my love life, or basically anything having to do with my emotional life.

As far as my relationships with the opposite sex, I don’t find them to be competitive at all. It’s usually the opposite; guys find me sexy or think I’m some sex pot. A guy friend of mine even told me I come off very sexual, and that is why guys are more inclined to want to have sex with me, as opposed to having me as a girlfriend. Or course I’m a Cancer, and I want a deep relationship, so obviously this doesn’t sit well with me.

posted March 03, 2008 12:07 AM              

Pluto in 1st house/virgo. Not conjunct ascendant BUT conjunct Uranus (that 7th house ruler)

Pluto quincunx moon/venus/n node/saturn (ruler of 11th) in 8th house, which is also natural house of Pluto. Pluto also trines moon/MC.

Pluto also bi-quintiles my sun/mercury conjunct in 9th and along with Jupiter (which it semi-sextiles) is the most aspected planet in my chart....

so l guess you could say Pluto plays a significant role in my chart.

Had a difficult birth. Mother nearly died and have been willful even since

hope that helps!

ps. LOVE Scorpio's. They oppose my sun in Taurus and nearly all my ex's have had either scorpio sun/moon/asc.

posted March 03, 2008 12:22 AM              

My best friend once wrote me a testimonial on a website and this is part of what she said:

"You look at her and you think she is too sexy, too honest, too much?
She is, but not too, believe me, just...REALLY. Since very few people are REALLY like that, people get stunned."

Sounds like the Pluto 1st house at work ?!?!!
I think it's the intensity of Pluto and the sexuality that one gives off which makes other less secure women feel they need to be competitive or jealous, perhaps?

My bf is very secure and incredible woman which is maybe why she was able to see through the Pluto in me, seeing it for what it really is.