posted February 28, 2008 06:23 PM              

Your boyfriend with the Venus conjunct Pluto gives off dark mysterious sex appeal. Probably the same reason you were attracted to him is what other women are picking up on now.

Just be careful as it's all or nothing with Pluto. It's likely to be an intense relationship with power struggles.

posted March 12, 2008 07:25 PM              

I think I've proved myself to him because he keeps asking me when I plan on getting married (to him hopefully, or maybe he just wants to know when he should dump me...haha...heh...hmm).

I can see how he "tested" me at the beginning of the relationship. It was very hard with all these women, be it strangers, co-workers, girls from the past, all looking for his attention, some even calling him up after he told them not to. This happened all the time for the first 6 months we were together. It happened even more so when I was around, so I'm certain he hasn't done anything behind my back; it's more that these women who follow him around are shameless.

My whole relationship experience with him has been wonderful but it's also gotten me paranoid and a little sad. I always thought that real love was about two people insulated from the rest of the world and that other women and men respect those boundaries. With men, it seems to happen. When we're out together, men are terrified to talk to me or even stand close to me, which never happens when I'm out alone. With women, it seems like there's some sort of competition over who is the prettiest and can "steal" him away from me, which is strange as well since if I'm out alone, women are usually very friendly and pleasant towards me.

Since I just outlined my entire relationship with my boyfriend, I'm glad there are some people out there who can interpret the venus aspects for me. If anyone still wants to put in their two cents on anything, perhaps it could be on all his venus aspects as well as mine. Here's some info below:

Him:
Venus in Libra
Mars in Libra
Jupiter in Gemini
Pluto in Libra

Venus conjunct Mars
Venus trine Jupiter
Venus conjunct Pluto

Mine:
Venus in Aries
Mars in Gemini
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio

posted March 14, 2008 02:52 AM              

with a venus conjunct mars he will be a very charming guy- i know a venus conjunct mars in aries and this guy sweeps people off their feet and he's a really lousy guy in reality.

i would beware with libra in venus- he can be incredibly social, and like to make superficial contacts with others.. don't let this dismay you though.. if he ever commits with you, he will take it very seriously. the problem is getting him there- libras are difficult due to indecision (i have my mercury there) and they can be incredibly judgmental and insensitive if they feel like they are standing for whats "fair".

posted March 15, 2008 03:20 PM            

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Some do.

Plenty don't.

Apparently a great way to get hit on by women is to stand in a city bar with a sharp suit and a wedding ring.

As long as you respect each other's boundaries, you will be fine.

posted March 16, 2008 05:57 PM              

Hence, the joke about women are like buses. Non come along for ages and then they all come at once! Socially, I have noticed if you are in a group with women in it you are more appealing to other women who think there must be something about you.

posted March 19, 2008 08:08 PM              

I don't know if he flirts with women, cause I'm not around to see it, but he has told me that after his co-workers found out that I am his girlfriend, they usually become extremely nice and friendly to him, though there's also a small group of women that completely hate him and make his life a living hell. (His words, not mine).

Call me crazy, but it seems like everytime I admit to liking someone and tell people about it, other girls start admitting they like the same boy! I'm beginning to see a pattern here... it's beyond my comprehension.

Do you also have any insights on my "venus opposition pluto"? Does it make me a little, and I emphasize the "little", possessive? Or maybe paranoid. You can be brutally honest, even insulting if you like! I can take it... I think.

posted March 19, 2008 08:33 PM              

I think I have said this already elsewhere. Venus/Pluto people feel things intensely. You are a kindred spirit with your man. People with Venus/Pluto aspects feel things intensely (plus we like the physical stuff lol)

posted March 26, 2008 08:49 PM              

What does it mean ? Well it means you are scared he will reject you as you want him so much and you are probably always watching what he is doing and how he reacts to you imagining slights when there are non.

How to overcome this ? Well the first thing is not to fly off the handle and run away thinking the one you love has just slighted you.

You need to take a deep breath and talk, communicate how you feel about him and how his flirtations upset you. If he doesn't 'get you' then bin him off as a womaniser.