posted April 27, 2008 08:14 AM         

If he was such an elitist, why would he have asked you out on a date (did you keep your vocation/education a big secret before the date), but most of all why would he have called and texted afterwards?

posted April 27, 2008 08:52 AM         

I know a lot of asian people like him, elitist snobs that put all importance on superficial appearances. It's a competition to look the best in everyone else's eyes. I know the kind of girl he is looking for. The Stepford wife...the high society girl with the private school background (he went to boarding school too) and ivy leaguer, with no opinions and her strand of pearls, who will stand behind him smiling saying, "Your right honey." with rich parents, blah, blah, blah.

Me, I'm FULL of opinions and will share them ALL. I'm loud, outspoken, I will hang my dress on a bush and climb trees and rocks, and will give him a good slap if he needs one.

After the date he called twice and txted once in the same day. First call, he left no message...second time he left this awful message. "Can you just call or txt me so I can know if you got home ok, and didn't die of alcohol poisening."

So I txted him that I got home ok. No answer back from him.

A few days later I txted him, just seeing if he felt ok from the other night since he drank so much. He txted a curt reply 9 hours later, saying he felt really sick from all alcohol. The last line of his text to me "Hope U R Well."

I made a harmless joke back at him, and said, "Did anyone tell you, you are like Jekyll and Hyde when you drink. LOL!" He responds hours later "Who me?"

That was it....the last I heard from him which was 4 days ago.

I heard yesterday from someone who knows him (The asian community is a small world here, and everyone pretty much knows eachother.)
that he is a snob, and wants an Ivy league girl, who's parents are rich and the same social and class status as him.

He makes me SO mad that someone can be THAT narrow minded and judge someone like that. I mean of course I have to accept the possibility that it's not the ONLY reason he didn't ask me out again. Maybe he just wasn't into me. Maybe it was my personality, or looks, or anything else he didn't like. But I thought we had a great date and got along very well, until the whole drunk thing. I felt like we had great chemistry. He even started to call me his girlfriend, on the date. It was probably just to get into my pants.

Since I'm not his class level, the only thing I'm good for is a good lay right? Gosh, I'm so mad. I need to meditate to get all this negative energy out of me. I just want to SHAKE him.

The really stupid thing is, I'm here thinking I want to "save" him or something from this superficial life he wants. Like I want to show him a life with more meaning than having the perfect house and perfect car. I want to show him something deeper. But he is so stupid and immature that he can't see himself clearly. Maybe I'm the stupid one. I guess it's true what they say that you can't change people. Especially people who don't want to change.

Maybe I'm being elitist now, thinking my way is the right way to live, and his is wrong. I'm judging him now, and I shouldn't.

A gemini trying to show a Scorpio how to be deeper? What is this world coming to? LOL!!

posted April 27, 2008 10:03 AM         

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Looking at his chart. I am afraid, this guy is a much stronger 'Player' than GemGemGem. Of course, when Scorps meet Geminis they know that they are into a maze of complex logical puzzles of words. While they are solving those puzzles - they will use exact same trickery (or even better) that Geminis use - so that they can continue to confuse Geminis with different types of superficial remarks while they are solving the puzzles. Of course end objective is to get down to the pants, which Gemini women will never allow until the guy has been proven logically smart.
The sad part is that none will be able to solve the puzzle completely because both have an ability to continue to play. Watch how Superfical Scorpio becomes when he is around Gemini.

But, One day Scorp will be Possessive and Demanding. One day he will make a Cutting blunt remark. And, on that day, The Gemini will fly. End of story!

Until then, it's an adventurous ride both loves. Also notice that Gemini will leave somewhat amazed because very few Signs have actually been able to understand the 'True Messenger' behind their poetic trickery languages. But, Scorpio will try hardest. He will realize there is some duality here. Scorpio will be left somewhat amused and somewhat disappointed in the end when he will realize how he acted as a Gemini with his Mask, yet somehow he didn't find any depth and couldn't solve the puzzle.

posted April 27, 2008 11:43 AM         

But I don't know that I'd jump to conclusions about his rejection of you due to elitism. I don't think you have enough information to do that with certitude.

posted April 27, 2008 11:55 AM         

i agree with Mblover. i am a scorpio woman, dated a Scorpio guy (sun, mercury, venus, mars) briefly. it was very short-lived (1 month) because of the head games (60% his side, 40% mine) LOL. scorpio-scorpio pairing is either heaven or hell. he wanted to get inside my pants on the 2nd date. he said he hadn't have sex for 6 months.

posted April 27, 2008 04:07 PM         

I don't know why I'm letting him get under my skin like this. I can typically brush people off, and forget about them.

I read a thread about synastry aspects between Venus/Pluto and Moon/Pluto leading to obsessions. I'm not obsessed per say, but I'm having trouble just letting this go. My Pluto is sextile his Venus, and trine his moon. His Pluto is trine my moon.
I don't know who is supposed to be more obsessed with who, the Pluto or the Moon/Venus person.

I need to let this thing go...I barely know this guy, why do I care so much what he thinks of me???

posted May 11, 2008 09:56 PM         

I don't know who won the last round, but I'm determined to win this one. So it's back...now what? For better or worse, I may be just be addicted to this guy! HELP! I hear the Scorpio sting can really leave a mark! LOL.

Can anyone give me some insight on if we have any potential to possibly have some harmony? Or will this be a continuous battle?

Me:
May 27, 1979
Seoul, Korea
11:30 am http://s263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/?action=view¤t= Gem_Gem_Gem-natalchart.gif

Him:
October 30, 1976
New York, New York
birth time is unknown
so I used 12:00 pm http://s263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/K%20chart/?action=view&curr ent=Kchart.gif