posted April 21, 2008 10:31 AM              

Other affirmations i have read/heard/experienced are a bit explicit sexually so i hope they dont offend anybody or that i am not misunderstood as moderators might thing i go a bit too far...

1.- strong venus with uranus = oral sex
2.- venus & mars: hot sexual rships
3.- venus & moon: familiarity

posted April 21, 2008 12:27 PM            

with my first boyfriend who i was with for 4 1/2 years, we don't have much exciting aspects that signifies sexual sparks, but as with saturn you said, we do have a saturn venus trine (very wide orb tho). so maybe that could be one thing we lasted rather long? we do have a loose mars venus opposition but we were more like friends than lovers.

BUT then, another person who i was with for a short time, if i just count the time when we both considered us to be "together", it only lasted about a month. however with him, i have my venus sextile his saturn and his saturn trine my venus. my eros is loosely conjunct his psyche, and my mars is quintile his venus. sex was really great, and we had a hard time breaking off because of that.

with another one, we have 2-way saturn trine venus. we were "together" for technically 2 years, but since it was a long-distance relationship the total amount we actually spent together was 8 months, and the second year we did not see each other at all and we broke up without meeting again. and he was cheating, so i can't say it was "long-lasting". my venus sextile his mars. sex was great for him but just ok for me.

and this one, we have a 2-way mars venus semi-square. lots of other squares and not much romantic aspects. my venus sextile his saturn, we had a short-time non-committed intimacy. sex was very experimental and exciting for both of us.

the others i don't know their birth data.

posted April 21, 2008 12:49 PM              

BR, sodomy maybe? for ur-anus

posted April 21, 2008 12:58 PM              

i am laughing my head off here.....

dunno it is just that i was reading this synastry book from this astrologer and from whom u just can tell she is SOOOOOOOOO experienced so she just put that venus -uranus contcts in synastry often include oral sex. So i made a little bit of a poll around my circle but wanted to constrat it with u lot...

As for other aspects with venus, i have read in other threads that moon conj venus is often found EXTREMELY sexy and satisfying. I think some of u mentioned a lot of rships and i agree that u cant really pinpoint......... what i DO FIND though is that some aspects that mislead u into thinking " COR, true love here" are often merely sexual chemistry, whereas others such as sun and jupiter point to more affinity such as same belief systems.

posted April 21, 2008 01:59 PM            

Blueroamer, that is a classic

We had

moon opposes vertex
vertex opposes moon exact
vertex trine exact venus
venus opposes vertex
moon square venus
venus trine mars
mars square venus
venus conjunct exact uranus
uranus trine venus
venus sextile neptune exact
venus conjunct pluto
mars trine pluto
mars trine mars
juno conjunct pluto exact

posted April 21, 2008 02:17 PM              

Was about to inquire about the leo, but better shut my mouth/keyboard... he still tickles ur fancy?

posted April 21, 2008 02:28 PM            

I'm sure different people put different emphasis on venus in synastry depending on how sensitive they are to venus energy. My venus is in the 7th house and also rules my 5th house, so this might be the reason why I respond so much to venus interaction.

Last year I started a thread on venus in synastry because I always get confused whether it's the venus person that adores the planet person (e.g. the sun) or whether it's the other way around. I cant find the thread anymore, but I remember that my confusion was never really solved: some people argued that it's venus that is more attracted to the other person's planets. Others were convinced that venus seduces and hence it's the planet-person who is more attracted.

posted April 21, 2008 04:14 PM            

I don't understand why you say that Venus is the most overlooked planet in Synastry when it is usually the 1st planet we're taught to think of in Synastry. When I think Synastry, the first think I think of is Venus.

I just had to ask, it just struck me as strange, especially since Synastry is the most popular subject in astrology.

posted April 21, 2008 04:30 PM              

It is just that so many people go berserk looking for explanations concerning pluto, saturn and the lot when venus is the most obvious attraction yet depending on so many factors as i posted first it can have so many meanings............

Annaf, what u reckon? His most aspected planet is pluto in synastry, planet of transformation so i had the sensation the physical contact was very intense for him, somehow blinding, whereas i would be more taken with just the plain "relating" aspects... like doing him small favors,etc... but his moon and his mars are also heavily aspected by my planets.

lara u tell me how u cope woman like aries people are supposed to have their sweetie present at all times otherwise they forget and they need constant stimulation, surely u miss them like crazy?