posted April 28, 2008 05:57 PM              

I've found it really difficult to find any interpretations of Pluto/Ascendant aspects online.

The way I would see it, without any other guidance, is that the effects of these aspects are on the contributor of Pluto.

I suppose then you must consider what Pluto means, and whether the aspects are easy or not.

So, in the case of Pluto trine Ascendant - you might find Pluto is interested in/fascinated by/obsessed with/etc the Ascendant person.

posted April 28, 2008 06:27 PM              

But she also has Sun, North node and Saturn CONJ my Ascendant.

posted April 28, 2008 07:27 PM              

Mother/Daughter stuff can be hard at times.

posted April 29, 2008 02:57 PM              

23
What do you mean by "netherworlds"? Examples please (I'm actually discussing this with someone else right now!!)

23 - my daughter and I have been to hell and back. She is one extremely strong willed and stubborn child and if she has it in her mind to not do something then a stand off ensues. It doesn't help with her mars opposite mine....ugh....My Aries Sun squares 4 of her Cancer planets....

bvanzy
Inner Depths - Doesn't sound like she would accept any kind of normal parental control from you.
Mother/Daughter stuff can be hard at times.

BINGO! She doesn't accept it. Won't listen to me and always resists. So now she is spending more time with her father and she is improving under his watchful eye. He doesn't let her get away with anything. I attempted the firm parent only to have her laugh at me and move on. Maybe her father needs to be the stern disciplinarian and I'm the soft nurturing mom type to her....I guess i'll need to be there for support and encouragement...this year she'll be going to live with her dad ft...

posted April 29, 2008 04:33 PM            

I think for the other person it would be influential if Pluto was a personal planet in their chart, otherwise I'm gonna be obsessed by everyone (which I am to a degree lol). I had a fling with someone who is a Libra with Venus in Scorpio and his Pluto conjunct my ascendant WOW!
I still think about it to this day, I think I'm the one obsessed but I'll never forget him! It was intense, In my experience was so healing for me because at the time I was so low and this experience brough me right back up again. It was perfect! Exactly as it should have been and transformed me... because I knew something like this was out there. Just wasn't meant to be though (long term)

I've read somewhere that the ascendant person can be manipulated (for good or bad) to change or be under the control of the Pluto person. This interaction validates Pluto and strengthens teh ascendant. It's transformational, could be power/control issues or sexual ties or both. Possibly a soul mate indicator?

Inner Depths I had a similar experience growing up. I am strong willed but too much so, I found my mother weak in ways but now that I am a mother I appreciate her more and more and our relationship is getting better all the time.
Hugs to you

posted May 01, 2008 06:55 PM              

And while he's taking care of the discipline issues as she matures, you can try and experiment with the other sides of your Pluto connections; being there for her when she needs you, having deep conversations together and so on.

posted May 01, 2008 07:13 PM              

I generally tend to think the Ascendant person doesn't feel the connection, but the planet person does. The former, however, is affected by the energy generated, and perhaps stuck with the behaviour!

In terms of the Sun, I think there is more chance of the Sun participating more in the connection than if it were the Ascendant, despite the obsessive qualities originating from Pluto, and the Sun might feel a bit overpowered controlled by the Pluto person's apparent feelings towards them.

Although, since there's not much consensus among astrologers on the issue, I don't suppose anyone can give a definitive answer outwith their own experience of these aspects.

Quinnie

"I have Pluto in the first conjunct ascendant (by a wide orb) and also conjunct sun in the first... So everyone in my generation makes this contact of either their Pluto conjunct my ascendant or Sun (or saturn!) in Libra"

posted December 29, 2012 03:07 AM            

and at the start when we first met there were power games (our first encounter was during a work lunch break which we had at the same time.. he would NOT STOP TALKING I COULD NOT GET A WORD IN and I got irritated and I cracked it and said I hate it when people talk so much.. this is really out of character for me because Im usually very polite with strangers.... and then after this happened awkward moments ensued)

He's pretty religious and I pretty much don't like what I have seen of his personality (very opinionated)
but god I am really really attracted to him physically and I started wanting him to like me (might be due to my shallowness though lol)

I couldn't really say if he felt the same way.

Does anyone know if these things are always both-sided?