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Topic: men with venus in scorpio..
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 2470 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 14, 2012 12:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: just a question. isn't 1 weaker than the other because scorpio style is not ideal for love, but scorpio mars is at home in the arena of sex not including where their venus may be.. will one dominate the other? or does synastry just work that way..
Synastry has its say, but mars in Scorpio will always wear the pants in a relationship. Just because venus is not ideally placed in Scorpio wouldn't make it weak. Look up the rest. Lolz IP: Logged |
sharon_1977 Knowflake Posts: 123 From: Nothern ireland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 14, 2012 10:09 AM
Hi EveryoneSomeone posted that they'd like to know how the venus in scorpio conjunct someone's uranus would react. I'd like to know also, if anyone has been/knows of a relationship with this aspect and if this all happens in the uranus's person 1st house, how would the two people feel? Thanks in advance. Sharon IP: Logged |
ArcherCan Newflake Posts: 2 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 20, 2012 06:28 PM
Sag Sun, Aries Rising, Venus in Scorpio, Moon and Neptune in the 7th (Libra).Sun, Mercury and Venus in the 8th. Relationships... sigh... IP: Logged |
ArcherCan Newflake Posts: 2 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 20, 2012 06:31 PM
Ooops - I should have written Neptune in Scorpio (virtually conjunct Venus).IP: Logged |
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posted January 21, 2012 09:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by heart cakes: tell me about them! i just read that they are VERY interested in commitment and forever-romance but are afraid of rejection and so sometimes push away the one they want. are they really that romantically inclined? also, what is the secret to seducing and keeping a venus in scorpio man? i want one very much but he seems quite shy.. i need some ideas!!
Explaining venus in scorpio is pretty pointless unless we see a chart really! you need to remember planets are modified by signs, where they express are houses and how they express are *aspects* SO, without seeing a chart how can anyone describe or explain how just a venus in scorpio is going to express iteself......?? IP: Logged |
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posted January 21, 2012 09:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by heart cakes: WOW! this is fascinating!! so my thoughts are.. this is all about INTIMACY.. and whether that manifests as a tendency to total union and commitment and love or sex addiction is up to the individual then! this is pretty exciting to me as pluto is pretty much exactly conjuncting my venus right now and has been for over a year. i think i can understand it. the power in love and sex: what intimacy is all about, and HOW DEEP can it go.. right? that is really attractive to me! okay, now for a checklist. dark hair? yep. lingerie? nope. not yet but i did buy a nice bra recently. kinky? not telling. entrhalled by what scorpio venus seems to be about: RESOUNDING YES!any others with venus scorpio (or know of one) want to weigh in?
NOooooo, it's upto the ASPECTS involved in the chart!! IP: Logged |
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posted January 21, 2012 09:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dooza: Uh-Haaa! Is this a good place to ask about Venus in Scorpio Composite???I'm dying to know what anyone thinks about this energy!!! I'm getting great ideas off this thread for an individual.... but would love to know how it spills over into the interaction of 2 people in the form of a composite... dooza
NO not really as a composite chart is a midpoint chart of two people's natal chart and is ONLY effective if two people ARE together....Have you tried a free composite chart with explanations being 'interactive' Composite charts If you go to www.astro.com click on free horoscopes, go to Interactive horoscopes, go down to Astroclick partner, that will bring up a composite chart and when you put the mouse over a planet will bring up a pop up box with the interpretation...... But you do need both times of birth to be accurate though.. enjoy. Composites describe the relationship, not either one of you, but what you came together to learn or to do and how the 'pair of you' function when together.... you 'should' reduce the orbs ratio on astro.com down to 40% as max orb in synastry and comp is 3'. Also please add transits which is easily seen once you have the chart just above to right is option 'with transits' http://books.google.com/books?id=dUulSwQoEC4C&pg=PR16&dq=robert+hand+composites&ei=r8HRSsXNEJvmygSIsP3eCQ#v=onepage&q=&f=false The Book ---Planets in Composite: Analyzing Human Relationships By Robert Hand-- is greatly recommended “The composite doesn't seem to describe what either person feels about the other. In this way it is very different from synastry, which describes the chemistry between two people in terms of how they affect each other. The composite chart is like a child, a third entity which carries the genetic imprints of both parents but combines these imprints in an entirely new way and exists independently of either of them” http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_composit_e.htm “Composites have their own laws and energies, and these have nothing to do with whether we are "well matched" with someone. A composite in itself will not tell us about compatibility. That is what synastry is for. The composite won't reveal whether the relationship is "good" or "bad" in terms of the chemistry between two people. The composite says to us, "If you choose to enter this relationship, here is its meaning and pattern of destiny” http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_composit_e.htm http://www.astrology-numerology.com/composite.html http://www.aquamoonlight.co.uk/composite.html “For example, the composite Ascendant can indicate the circumstances surrounding the first meeting or the beginning of the relationship. It can also point to how a couple initiates things together (such as projects). Similarly, the end of a relationship can be depicted by the composite twelfth house. Once a relationship kicks in (moves beyond the initial stages), the composite Sun becomes more apparent. If a commitment to each other happens, the seventh and eighth houses come more clearly into focus. As such, the conditions surrounding the planets and houses in the composite chart can show us different stages of development of the relationship over time.” http://www.cafeastrology.com/compositechart.html click on link to read full article http://www.astrology-numerology.com/composite.html http://www.aquamoonlight.co.uk/composite.html “Composite charts that has ascendant and midheaven agree in element will most closely describe the type of the relationship your partnership has formed. For instance a relationship that has Taurus on the Ascendant and Capricorn on the Midheaven will closely describe a “traditional” relationship. Those charts that do not agree will keep the element of the ascendant as the primary relationship style while incorporating the element of the Midheaven into the relationship. An analysis of the individual’s chart against the composite chart will show how his or her chart meshes with the composite chart and the style of the relationship” http://starrynightastrology.com/2009/08/02/relationship-astrology-making-love-last-part-1-your-relationship-style/
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posted January 21, 2012 09:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by victoriasgirl1: Heartcakes & whalepiscean, his moon's in Cancer, making him extremely secretive and reluctant to share his innermost feelings. (I understand being a Cancer Sun). I just give him his space (I'm Aries rising so I get the space thing). He's Pisces ascendant so needless to say he has ALOT of water in his chart, to some degree moreso than I do (I have alot of fire) so it makes things interesting. But rollercoaster ride? Absolutely! (Guess that's part of the thrill). He's also extremely masculine being a Saggie, but emotionally he's really soft and sensitive and Scorp Moon makes him sexy as hell.
ALL water signs can be sulky and moody, bnut I think scorpio have an A level in it. Not to mention being manipulative, playing on people emotions, to get their own way, generically speaking of course. AS THIS is all we can talk about. Now Pisces Asc along with gemini Asc indicates a tough childhood.... Pisces Asc thread. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=40284 Pisces Asc (along with gemini) is probably one of the most difficult in childhood. With pisces they are sooo impressionable, easily manipulated and make lots of sacrifices trying to please family to much Anyone want to read further on scorpio venus, go here...(back on topic) http://cafeastrology.com/zodiacscorpio.html http://cafeastrology.com/scorpio_ascendantrisingsign.html Now *generically* speaking scorpio (along with Cappi) are not particularly sociable either. Cappi as it's a workholic and tight with it's money and scorpio because it doesn't want other people knowing *their business*
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posted January 21, 2012 10:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by zeldatiara: [b] "Venus in Scorpio is very serious about love, allergic against "game playing", he seeks commitment - or, say: he appreciates commtiment when offered to him. No superficiality, intense emotions, sticks to what has been promised and expects the same from you."I'm just getting to know a Scorpio native (I posted about him a few days ago; he's at once familiar and new) who also has Venus in that sign and I'd agree with the quote above. Perhaps this trait also appea/s to because my Venus is in Cap?
At what if venus is conjunct Uranus and he ONLY wants sex and a bit of excitment?? What if venus is conj saturn felt unloved in childhood and finds it hard to express and commit?? What is venus is conjunct neptune, he has rose tinted glasses, illusions and confusions is he doesn't know WHAT he wants....
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posted January 21, 2012 10:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: just a question. isn't 1 weaker than the other because scorpio style is not ideal for love, but scorpio mars is at home in the arena of sex not including where their venus may be.. will one dominate the other? or does synastry just work that way..
mars is domicile in aries and is usually considered stronger in synastry, then venus are venus will usually (depending on how it's aspected) bend over backwards to accomodate.... quote: Originally posted by Desiring Shadows: Synastry has its say, but mars in Scorpio will always wear the pants in a relationship. Just because venus is not ideally placed in Scorpio wouldn't make it weak. Look up the rest. Lolz
CORRECT venus in scorpio is in *detriment* http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Detriment_(astrology) ------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.”
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badkow Newflake Posts: 1 From: MI, USA Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 03, 2012 10:58 PM
I am a Sag sun, sag rising with a venus scorpio and once I decide on my girl, I stick with her. It's like all my sag qualities disappear once I am hooked onto her. I notice other women but I am single-mindedly devoted to pleasing my woman. Does venus dominate your sun? IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 2470 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 24, 2012 07:25 PM
I don't think it does, although it may feel like that sometimes. Your venus sign is how you act when your in love..... So I can understand how one would feel that way. ----------------- “Life is just a minute only sixty seconds in it, forced upon you, can‘t refuse it. Didn‘t seek it, didn‘t choose it, but It‘s up to you to use it. You must suffer if you lose it, give an account if you abuse it. Just a tiny little minute, but eternity is in it.” — Dr. Benjamin E. Mays IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3421 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 25, 2012 10:55 AM
I know a Libra sun with Venus in Scorpio who is a typical Libra in the sense that he is in love with love itself.I mean, he's single right now and constantly updating his Facebook with Bruno Mars lyrics about love. To me, it's completely bizarre. I have never dated him though so I don't know how intense he gets when he's committed. Considering that he's been in several relationships it can't be THAT committed, can it? IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 2470 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 25, 2012 08:07 PM
Scorpio Venus' are usually all about loyalty & commitement. You have to look at aspect to it and house placements. Plus you never know he couldve just hooked up with some incompatible people. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3421 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 26, 2012 10:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Desiring Shadows: Scorpio Venus' are usually all about loyalty & commitement. You have to look at aspect to it and house placements. Plus you never know he couldve just hooked up with some incompatible people.
That's true. I know the last girl he bought her an engagement ring and was going to propose (he was only 24 at the time) but she went all Exorcist on him, I mean she became a supremo b****. I don't blame him for throwing the ring off their balcony in frustration.
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gemisagscorp Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 01, 2012 07:30 PM
my experience with venus in scorpio is that they want to controll the relationship. If I wasn't ready to commit to them it ment that I didn't want them anymore and if I was too fast they would stall too. But I love them, they struggle a lot with their emotions, and in the deepest moments my x would tell me that he was ashamed, feeling lost and that he just loved me so much that it hurts. I think they have a lot of fear, because they really do give you a piece of their soul, and they have this underlying fear of you betraying them.IP: Logged |
gemisagscorp Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 01, 2012 07:31 PM
my experience with venus in scorpio is that they want to controll the relationship. If I wasn't ready to commit to them it ment that I didn't want them anymore and if I was too fast they would stall too. But I love them, they struggle a lot with their emotions, and in the deepest moments my x would tell me that he was ashamed, feeling lost and that he just loved me so much that it hurts. I think they have a lot of fear, because they really do give you a piece of their soul, and they have this underlying fear of you betraying them.IP: Logged |
thesea Newflake Posts: 1 From: FL, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted May 04, 2012 10:20 PM
This thread has been very enlightening! I'm currently into someone with Venus in Scorpio and having a hard time figuring him out. He seems to like me, yet pushes me away at times and I'm baffled by his emotions! I can see him brooding and battling with himself and I know he has deep emotions that he is struggling with but don't know what I should do to subtly encourage him to open up to me. We've been together intimately and he has said in passing that he trusts me (in a non-serious setting, but I took it as a good sign) - all of which I think are good things that show he may be on his way to me and I've expressed that I do like him, but there were times the last time we spent time together where he said mean things that threw me off guard, which was the first time I've seen him act like that. Should I reach out to him and let him know I'll be there for him? Do I watch him from afar and hope he comes to me at his own time? I care about him a lot and I dont know what to. :[ If theres anyone out there that can read our charts for comparison so I can know what I'm in for or show me if this is a hopeless cause, I'd greatly appreciate it! I just wanna know if this might be something worth sticking around for and enduring (cuz I sure as hell know it's not going to be easy to win him over). Him Sun - Scorpio 9.41 Moon - Aries18.50 Mercury - Sagittarius 2.57 Venus - Scorpio27.48 Mars - Leo21.42 Jupiter - Virgo 5.59 Saturn - Virgo23.28 Uranus - Scorpio20.35 Neptune - Sagittarius18.48 Pluto - Libra19.58 5.39 Lilith - Virgo12.53 Asc node - Virgo 6.09 Ascendant - Capricorn 9.38 Me Sun - Aries28.43 Moon - Sagittarius 5.52 Mercury - Taurus 4.35 R Venus - Aries13.15 Mars - Scorpio27.18 R Jupiter - Capricorn12.46 Saturn - Scorpio14.11 R Uranus - Sagittarius13.09 R Neptune - Capricorn 1.22 R Pluto - Scorpio 0.48 R Lilith - Pisces14.21 Asc node - Gemini 7.17 Ascendant - Cancer 3.27
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Bearee Knowflake Posts: 355 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 05, 2012 05:11 AM
It seems like i've known people with venus in scorpio for a 1000 years.. i always feel a deep connection from the moment i meet them. I feel so comfortable around them.. It's so weird. I only know 3 people with venus in scorpio, one i've met just one time but i could talk with him forever, the other two venus in scorpio are female. One is my cousin and the other one a friend I think the connection is because of my moon, venus and mars in cancer.. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 2470 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 09, 2012 09:06 PM
Watch for the subtle charm of this Sagittarius with venus in scorpio male at 5:10-5:24 ----------------- “Life is just a minute only sixty seconds in it, forced upon you, can‘t refuse it. Didn‘t seek it, didn‘t choose it, but It‘s up to you to use it. You must suffer if you lose it, give an account if you abuse it. Just a tiny little minute, but eternity is in it.” — Dr. Benjamin E. Mays IP: Logged |
a881e Newflake Posts: 1 From: Reading UK Registered: Oct 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 05:42 AM
I am a Sag sun with Scorp venus and man is that guy what id call perfection in a man lol.. Bet he could have a decent conversation and more haha IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 6715 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 10, 2012 11:33 PM
I'm just starting to get to know a venus/mars scorpio guy...im libra venus conjunct pluto/Ac....i know im intense about love...i went out with a scorpio sun, but he was too immature in his controling ways...he wasnt fun just annoying making accusations after only a week of seeing each other! Ugh! But this guy has a saggy sun/merc/nep, virgo moon in 12th, and libra asc with pluto conjunct...all the same placements as me and all conjunct mine. We both have double whammy with his libra uranus to my libra venus and my scorpio uranus to his scorpio mars/venus, then another double whammy with our both libra Ac/libra pluto being within a couple degrees. I'm wondering do you think my pluto conjunct my venus/AC will be enough scorpio energy to help us get along, and my mars trines his mars/venus? Also i have scorpio N.node and uranus...in 2nd
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happylioness Newflake Posts: 4 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 02, 2012 08:58 PM
What does it mean if a Venus in Scorpio man aged 34, was poring into the Facebook profile of his ex daily for over a month? He's stopped since. He'd force himself to stop after obsessing for a month. Then he will be back at it again after 6-7 months of abstainance. What is going on?She has been married for 4 years now. He's known her since he was in college in 2002, and has loved her since so it's been 11 year now. He says circumstances were between them which did not allow them to be together but from what I understand she developed feelings for him as well. In 2008, when she told him she was getting married, he says he abruptly disappeared from her life in a dramatic fashion, like a complete disappearance without saying bye. I think he was really crushed. It seems like she did marry the following year and still is married. I thought that with his disappearing from her life and not speaking to her, he had moved on, he still wondered about her and tried to look her up online in 2010. He confirmed that she had married but from what I knew he couldn't really tear himself away and was in a limbo, exchanging weekly pleasantries with her until mid 2011. I thought he had finally moved on when it stopped, but I found out that he masked his cell number and called her at the start of 2012 to hear her say Hello, and hung up. I believed that he finally moved on early this year (2012), but I discovered that he had looked at her profile daily all through October and stopped himself only after Halloween. He discovered that she had moved cities with her husband. But he's stopped. Is my man still into that woman, or is he over her and is just curious and wonders about her now and then (which many ex-es do), this I can accept? IP: Logged |
StarsCollide Knowflake Posts: 79 From: The Roche Limit Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 03, 2012 09:40 AM
They like roller-coaster relationship, esp if they have a sun sign in Fire; but generally, there's drama involved. They will never tell you everything, they keep big secrets, and they can also be deceptive (as a general statement), but alluring and sexy, too.I attract a LOT of this placement and it's never been good news. Their Venus opposes mine in Taurus. Talk about night and day as far as basic relationship rules go. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 2250 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 08, 2013 09:42 AM
I have Venus in Scorpio with Aries Ascending.Its super easy for me to get on or spot a fellow Venus in Scorpio. 1. I like to talk about taboo subjects 2. I like "out of the box" thinking. 3. I like someone who is able to call out my ******** and not buy into it. 4. I also am very attracted to a subtle passivity(this could be because of my Mars in Libra though) Venus in Scorpio is not the easiest to love though(and you have been warned) IP: Logged |