posted February 07, 2013 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by heart cakes:
tell me about them! i just read that they are VERY interested in commitment and forever-romance but are afraid of rejection and so sometimes push away the one they want. are they really that romantically inclined?

also, what is the secret to seducing and keeping a venus in scorpio man? i want one very much but he seems quite shy.. i need some ideas!!

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I impart very simple advice - Don't flinch.

He will flick the tail and stir everything and anything - hot and cold just to see if you still want to go for a swim. Just stay true to you and remain fixed on the love goals you want and your own standards. He doesn't want a home cooked meal. He wants the ugly, violent, sexy truth.

If he displays interest in other women - don't flinch. Take the approach that its a free country, after all - you can't control him. Wish him well, yes - she is very sexy. You hope he'll have fun. Don't ever play the game back and try to make him jealous. Just don't flinch.

If he comes on full force emotionally - don't reject him, but don't jump either. 'Just don't flinch'. Be honest, be deep - but don't let his torrent of feelings change or manipulate yours. He's looking for someone strong.

Once they know they are playing with someone emotionally in control - you become powerful. You can dive to his depths, sure, but you're not following his path.

Let him have control over things YOU don't mind him controlling, whether sexually speaking, etc. He's looking for someone who can surrender when they want to, despite vulnerability. But, never give in if you don't want to. He'll know and you'll go down in his estimations.

posted March 28, 2013 11:26 AM            

He's a Sag Sun, with Cancer moon, Cap Mercury, Scorpio Moon, Gem Mars and Libra rising. He has Pluto conjunct his Ascendent. He has a very friendly Saggy vibe about him--he's approachable, he's very friendly and sweet, he is very intelligent, and he chooses his words carefully (Cap merc) so he's not as prone to say things that make you go O_o as much as typical Sags. He gives an air of being very competent and self-assured. But it's also as if his emotional side is hidden by a cloaking device. He doesn't let it on, but he's terribly guarded emotionally. People who know him describe him as "confident" but my Pisces Moon sees right through him. He's very good at his work and very committed to it (Saturn in 10th), and he's good at making friends--but emotionaly, he is a bit insecure. Maybe a lot. There's a hidden trail there that go down deep, and even my Pisces moon isn't sure how deep it goes.

I have a big soft spot for Cancerian types. Cancer rules my 11th house and my Psyche is in Cancer. Plus my Moon and Ceres are pretty strong in my chart. So you know I'm loving his Cancer moon vibes. But there's a lot more going on with this guy's emotional world than his Cancer moon. I get Cancer moons--their needs are pretty easy to suss out. This guy's got something deeper going on and it's got to be about his Socrpio Venus.

I know he hasn't had many girlfriends and he works in a creative field where he rarely interacts with women. He almost has an aura of celebacy about him. I think on some level women scare him, probably because of the power they can exert over him. When he talks about him own mother, he idolizes her, but not in a typical Cancerian way--instead of telling you about how loving and nuturing she was, he wants to tell you how talented and intelligent she was, and how she helped influence him as an artist and propel him as a child toward his now career--that is what makes her a powerful figure in his memory. Very plutonian.

I think women to him represent the power to influnce, mold, change and redefine--and that they can do it to him. While he's probably deeply drawn to that power in women, for a Sag with an Air Mars and ASC, he may find that threatening if it's coming from the wrong woman. He is definitely a "I need to be me" kind of personality that my Gem-Aqua qualities just adore. With his Cancer moon, I strngly suspect he's had some very painful expreinces with the wrong kind of woman too (note he's almost 40). So he probably feels he has to be extra-discreet about what kind of woman he lets into his life.

Of course my Pisces moon just wants to lure him off to some quiet bench by a pond at twilight and tell him he can confess to me all his fears and wounds for women doing him wrong while crying on my bosom.

posted April 02, 2013 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Astrochologist:
Sagittarius Sun Venus in Scorpio man here

We're confusing to others because we're so intuition charged and operate out of instincts

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posted July 02, 2015 08:39 AM            

It happens to this day but that's because I'm a passionate man and will die one but thankfully I've grown from being afraid of the feeling. Now it's like being overtaking by a love for your partner and consuming them in affection, I'm just not clingy I believe that no one human being belongs to another, if I can't trust you I don't need you

I can read thru ppl like a book only because I've been thru so many things so I pay attention to subconscious cues, habits we have no idea of b/c of an emotion we either are unaware of or trying to hide. I don't look for these things ppl just flat out show it to me