posted May 30, 2008 07:43 PM              

The first date with a great love (lasted 9 years):

Sun square my Mercury
..... trine my Venus
..... conjunct my Juno
..... sextile my N.N.
Venus trine my Mercury
..... opposite my Uranus
Saturn sextile my Saturn
Neptune trine my Pluto
Pluto trine my Mars
Chiron trine my Saturn
North Node sextile my Venus
..... trine my N.N.

Loads of positive and stabilizing transits indeed – my Venus, Juno und North Node very friendly touched by the transiting planets. It was a cozy, stable, warm relationship that lasted for years – even if it was not the most exciting “first meeting” I have ever experienced. In fact, I felt a bit bored and not very challenged that night. ;-)

First meeting with a crush of mine (lasted 6 months, ended nowhere):

Sun trine my Mars
Mars sextile my Mars
..... opposite my Neptune
Jupiter conjunct my Vesta
Uranus opposite my Venus
..... sextile my Juno
..... conjunct my N.N.
Chiron trine my Pluto

Physical attractiveness played a huge part in that meeting – and in fact, my Mars, Vesta and Pluto (“erotic players”) are infused with energy here; whereas Uranus is “treating” my Venus and Juno …And, well: It didn’t last very long and led nowhere. All very fleeting.

First romantic/erotic meeting with a long-time crush of mine (also ended nowhere):

Sun sextile my N.N.
Moon sextile my Pluto
Venus trine my Vesta
Mars trine my Jupiter
..... square my Ascendant
Jupiter opposite my Chiron
Saturn sextile my Saturn
Pluto square my Pluto

That man was a long-time crush of mine whom I met again that night. The meeting came as a surprise to me. We rushed into each other – but he had a girlfriend and would not have any serious intentions with me, although we kissed each other that night and talked about our long-time infatuation with each other. Some old longing and some old wounds have been re-activated within me – and I suffered a while, afterwards. (and the way my North Node, Chiron, Saturn and Pluto are transited, that makes sense.)

First online-meeting (via the Internet) with my last love (lasted about a year):

Venus conjunct my Ascendant
Jupiter conjunct my Ascendant
..... conjunct my Neptune
Pluto square my Pluto
Chiron opposite my Mercury
..... trine my Uranus
..... square my Juno

Wow – my “online”-personality (the way I presented myself via the Internet) obviously was a success, and probably he liked my pictures (Venus & Jupiter cj. my AC.) But Jupiter also inflated my fantasy that season (cj. my Neptune). Chiron trine my Uranus speeks of Internet-communication. But: Chiron square my Juno makes me think now – in fact, I have never been hurt and buffled by any relationship like in this one. So … Chiron square my Juno might have been a warning sign.

First real-life meeting with my last love (lasted about a year):

Sun trine my Pluto
Moon opposite my Ascendant
Mercury sextile my Chiron
Venus square Chiron
North Node opposite my Vesta

In retrospect, Venus squaring my Chiron seems to be the most striking aspect here. Recently, I read in another thread (in a different forum) that someone else met a person under the Venus-square-Chiron-transit and fell madly in love with that guy – and that later this person caused her very much pain and heartache. I must say: I share this experience. Beware of falling in love with someone while a stressful Chiron-Venus or Chiron-Juno aspect is involved, or vice versa (Venus/Juno to your Chiron) – because this seems to imply some heartbreak to come.

Apart from that, I don’t like the N.N. opposing my Vesta during that first meeting – again, the negative impact of that aspect played out later: That relationship was draining my energy, confused me and lowered my self-esteem and self-confidence for longer periods of time.

posted May 30, 2008 08:26 PM            

Venus in Leo was in my 10th House (cancer Ruled)
Jupiter and Mars in Cancer were my 9th (Cancer Ruled)
Sun, NN, Mercury and Saturn in Gemini were in my 8th (Gemini Ruled)
Moon in Libra was in my 12th (Virgo Ruled)
Uranus in Aquarius was in 5th House (Aquarius Ruled)
Chiron in Capricorn was in 3rd House (Capricorn Ruled)

tVenus was square my Scorpio AC.
tMars was sextile my nVenus
tJupiter was sextile my nSun
tSaturn square my nSun
tSaturn trine my nSaturn
tJupiter square my nPluto
tPluto sextile nMercury
tMoon Opposed nMercury

These are all exact if I am not mistaken, which I am sure I am since I did this manually!

posted May 30, 2008 08:29 PM            

These were my transits when l fell in love -

T sun square N sun
T sun square N moon
T sun square N venus
T sun trine N mars
T sun trine N pluto
T sun conjunct N vertex EXACT
T sun square N ceres EXACT
T sun trine N MC
T moon semi sextile N moon
T moon conjunct N mars
T moon square N jupiter EXACT
T moon trine N uranus
T moon opposing N neptune EXACT
T moon trine N pluto
T moon trine N vertex EXACT
T moon conjunct N lilith
T moon square N AC
T moon conjunct N MC
T mercury square N sun/mercury/mars
T venus trine N moon
T venus trine N venus EXACT!!!
T venus quincunx N mars EXACT
T venus trine N jupiter
T venus trine N saturn
T venus square N pluto
T venus trine N north node
T venus square N chiron
T venus opposing Aphrodite
T venus trine N AC
T mars sextile N moon/venus/jupiter/AC
T mars square N uranus EXACT
T mars quincunx N neptune EXACT
T mars square N pluto
T mars conjunct Aphrodite
T jupiter trine N sun/mercury/AC
T saturn trine N sun/mercury/AC
T uranus sextile N mars
T uranus opposes N uranus/pluto/pallas
T neptune sextile N moon/venus EXACT/saturn/NN
T neptune square N mars EXACTEXACT/neptune/lilith/psyche/MC
T pluto trine N sun/moon/mercury/venus/jupiter/AC EXACT
T pluto square N neptune/pluto/chiron
T NN opposing AC EXACT
T chiron square T sun/mercury/mars/psyche/MC
T chiron bi-quintile N saturn
T juno conjunct N sun/mercury
T valentine square N sun/mercury

WOW - those are some transits!!! I never realised how amazing they are as l have never written them out!!

T neptune EXACT on both venus/mars is a WOWEEEE!!!
T venus trine N venus EXACT is just awesome!

posted May 30, 2008 09:08 PM              

LARA: Wow – I am impressed by the mass of convincingly positive transits running for you while you fell in love! Sun cj. Vertex (exact) and Venus trine Venus (exact) are impressing, of course. And Venus trine your AC … your aura must have been magnetic that night. ;-) A whole bunch of interesting transit-configurations, indeed.

posted May 30, 2008 09:28 PM            

Yes, the aspect is 9' though and Magi's orb is 3 so l think we are safe!

Actually in Magi astrology we have no chiron/venus nasty aspects and we have at least 2 of each of the yummy ones like venus/chiron, venus/neptune, neptune/chiron, chiron/jupiter. We even have a chiron/venus/neptune mystical triangle which is one of the best aspects one can have. Our synastry is amazing and our composite has sun/venus/mercury conjunct in 10th house cancer plus valentine conjunct almost exact our ASC which, according to VenusdeIndia is a sign of true love! Plus composite sun trine my AC and composite moon square his AC

It was electric the night we met. We are still together and it's getting stronger and stronger! It's incredible actually - very freeing!

posted May 30, 2008 09:41 PM            

T sun trine N mercury/venus/saturn/uranus/pluto EXACT
T sun square N jupiter
T sun sextile N neptune
T moon square N sun/mars
T moon trine mercury/MC
T mercury opposing N sun/mars
T mercury trine N venus/uranus
T venus trine N sun!/mars
T venus conjunct N moon EXACT
T venus square N mercury/pluto
T mars opposing N moon
T mars square N mercury/venus/pluto EXACT
T mars trine N jupiter
T jupiter square N venus/uranus EXACT/Chiron
T jupiter trine N MC EXACT
T saturn conjunct N mercury/MC EXACT
T mars opposing N NN
T uranus square N moon
T uranus opposing N mercury EXACT/pluto/MC
T uranus trine N AC
T neptune opposing N sun/mars
T neptune sextile N moon
T neptune square N neptune/AC
T pluto square N venus!/uranus/pluto/
T PLUTO CONJUNCT N EROS EXACT !!!!! OMG lol
T pluto trine N MC
T pluto sextile N jupiter EXACT
T NN trine N jupiter
T NN square N neptune EXACT/AC
T chiron opposing N sun/mars
T chiron trine N venus/uranus
T Armor trine N venus/uranus EXACT
T Valentine trine N neptune EXACT!!!/AC

He has a few pretty good aspects too l think. Interestingly, he fell for me a tiny bit faster than l did for him and yet l had the better aspects.. hmmm

posted May 30, 2008 10:06 PM              

Here is the elaborated transit-list (transits to my natal chart while first real-life-meeting///tight orbs only, 0-2 degrees):

(I’ll write the critical aspects in bold letters – usually I rather put emphasis on the positive aspects, of course! But I want to learn more about the possibly negative aspects now, because this love-thing failed so badly. I am trying to find out about warning signs by that ….)

Sun trine my Pluto
….. conjunct my DC
….. conjunct my Psyche
….. square my BM Lilith
Moon conjunct my DC
….. conjunct my Psyche
….. square my BM Lilith
Mercury sextile my Chiron
….. conjunct my Amor/Mercury-Midpoint (exact)
….. opposite my Circe
Venus square my Chiron
….. conjunct my Vertex
….. opposite my Eros
Mars square my Valentine
Jupiter trine my Amor (exact)
….. conjunct my Part of “Libido” (exact)
….. trine my Venus/Mars-Midpoint
Saturn trine my Amor
….. square my Anteros (exact)
….. conjunct my Venus/Mars-Midpoint
….. trine my Part of “Libido”
Uranus sextile my Amor (exact)
….. sextile my Anteros (exact)
….. square my Part of “Libido”
Neptune trine my Venus/Chiron-Midpoint (exact)
….. trine my own Name-asteroid
Pluto conjunct my Valentine
….. sextile my Aphrodite
Chiron square my Psyche/Venus-Midpoint (exact)
….. opposite my Sun/Venus-Midpoint
….. trine my Venus/AS-Midpoint (exact)
….. sextile my Part of “Libido”
North Node opposite my Vesta
….. square my Circe
….. trine my Venus/Saturn-Midpoint
….. sextile my Saturn/Juno-Midpoint (exact)

Certainly, some of the “bolded” transit-aspects from above might lead to a positive outcome when falling in love. They are not “negative”, in general. I am just trying to learn where I personally got “fooled” by falling so deeply for that man, in that particular situation – so that I can apply some more caution, when “falling” for someone the next time.

posted May 30, 2008 10:14 PM            

Do you have nice saturn trines and an easy conjunct?
psyche/eros?
venus/mars
good sun/jupiter aspects?
sun/moon etc and all the obvious ones?
VALENTINE is an important asteroid. It's a love asteroid, obviously and for example my b/f and l have valentine trine AC double whammy, both under 2 degrees.

posted May 30, 2008 11:53 PM            

Neptune square venus....oh my

posted May 31, 2008 01:31 AM              

Synastry: Pluto/Venus conjunct: Uranus/Venus conjunct: Mars/Acs conjunct:

On the day, Mars was in Libra (my natal aspect), Venus was in Virgo (my natal aspect) and Venus' transit was right on my Pluto in the 7th house....

And this is with someone I have not been able to talk too!!!!! (big sigh)

Hopefully, that makes sense

posted May 31, 2008 04:51 AM            

I'm doing first meeting charts lol

posted May 31, 2008 01:23 PM            

I have Aquarius on my DC and Uranus in 1st. Plus l think my mercury conjunct MC might help in my investigation skills?

Who knows but you are right and very observant!

ps l use ASTRO and drive myself crazy working out all the aspects LOL

I think my chinese monkey sign makes me extremely curious

posted May 31, 2008 02:23 PM              

venus exactly conjunct NN (0.01 deg)
sun conjunct composite moon (1 deg)
jupiter conjunct his moon and trine mine (3 and 2 deg)
pluto conjunct my venus (exactly 2 deg, to the second, haha)
moon conjunct my chiron (1 deg)
chiron conjunct my sun (2)
uranus conjunct sun (2)
and a stellium of:
chiron
neptune
mercury
venus
NN
(spanning 9 deg with the DC right in the middle, conjunct neptune and mercury w/in 1 deg each)
oh and i just noticed, a grand trine of moon-saturn-pluto (and involving mercury, it's a kite pointing at pluto)

posted May 31, 2008 02:48 PM            

Also Pluto square my natal Venus and his Mars.

posted May 31, 2008 03:36 PM              

I checked my and my bf´s transits when we 1st met:

Relationship goin on almost 2years now:

ME

Tr.Sun conj NN EXACT
Tr. Moon trine SUN 1º
Tr.Moon trine JUNO 1º,skuare AC(2º
Tr.MERCURY ( my sun ruller):
-trine Amor/Psyche and CONJ EROS
Tr. Venus opose Pyshe and skuare KARMA
Tr. Jup trine EROS 1º
Tr. SATURN conj VALENTINE 2º
Tr. PLUTO trine VENUS 2º
Tr. NN trine UNION exact
Tr.KIRON trine AC(2º)
Tr KIRON LATITUDE vENUS
Tr.KARMA conj UNION 1º
tR KARMA paralell Saturn/Psyche
TR.VALENTINE trine Moon 1º
Tr AMOR conj SN
Tr.SPCYHE exact trine Saturn and PLUTO
tr EROS trine PSYCHE EXACT

BF:

Tr SUN trine Moon 1º
Tr SUN trine SATURN/UNION
Tr MOON trine KARMA exact
Tr VENUS trine AMOR 2º
tR MARS trine MARS EXACT
Tr Jupi exact trine NN
Tr SATURN exact skuare KARMA
Tr PLUTO conj JUNO 2º
Tr PLUTO exact kikunk KIRON
Tr NN trine JUNO/EROS EXACT
Tr KIRON trine SUN/MERC/Psyche
Tr karma TRINE eros/mars/ruanus
Tr KARMA CONJ ASC 1º
Tr valentine skuare SAturn EXACT
Tr PSYCHE kikunks EROS EXACT
Tr PSYCHE opose JUNO 1º

posted November 23, 2023 01:54 AM            

all of these exact.