posted July 31, 2008 12:33 AM         

But META, you are correct on the attributes but wrong on the gender lol! I tend to like soft women. Women that aren't too loud and not too conservative. I don't find myself attracted to women that are loud, mean, arrogant, dress like they leave nothing to the imagination (i'm a Gemini for christs sake, let me wonder a little at least lol!), obnoxious, pushy, bossy, too blunt and direct.

My ideal woman is genuinely nice, intuitively, knows what I want, absolutley LOVES MUSIC, loves movies, is affectionate, takes care of me, gives me space when I need it and understands that it doesn't mean I want her less, is sexy, supportive, can hold and engage in a conversation with me about damn near anything from astrology to which paste wax I should use on my car. She is sweet, funny, nurturing, helpful, and honest. Yep, thats my Venus in Cancer there.

posted July 31, 2008 12:57 AM         

Keep the Venusian stories coming knowflakes.

posted July 31, 2008 12:59 AM         

Since it lives in my 11th house,being each other's friend in a relationship is the most important and freedom for each to be their own person.

posted July 31, 2008 01:29 AM         

...I am so sorry...

I ... yeah, i don't know what to say. I think that i've just been speaking to so many females on here lately that i ASSumed you were... yeah..

Sorry.

But yeah, i can see that. I'm not gay, but i'm comfortable enough in my sexuality to be able to find women attractive. I have a thing for natural beauties. Women who are naturally delicate and graceful. Without make-up. Without dazzling clothing. Some women just have that quiet, timid but startling aura about them.

And something else. Something WEIRD rather, i find feminine girls with short, pixie haircuts beautiful. And also blondes. Like light, light, bleach blondes are... they just trigger something. Both men and women.

posted July 31, 2008 02:05 AM         

But if I had to choose one blonde woman, I guess it would be my ex Charlize Theron (she was waaaaaaaay too clingy for me. She wanted to spend ALL her time with me and wanted to get married 3 weeks after we started dating. I had to let her go.)

I have a thing for redheads though I must say.

posted July 31, 2008 12:26 PM         

I've figured it out. I like Androgynous men and women. Wow. I can't believe it's taken me all this time to figure it out... Like i've always KNOWN that i like androgyny.. but i never put it into words... yes...

But here:

posted August 01, 2008 06:20 PM         

Venus aspects in my chart

posted August 03, 2008 11:16 AM         

Got gemini, I can pretty much echo what you said!! My venus is in cancer at 2 degrees, in the 11th house. I tend to be very caring, it has influenced my choice of job, also very caring.

I tend to like nice men, no nasty aggressive, shouty types for me! I like someone who genuinely cares, who's into stuff, music especially, going to gigs, movies, someone who I can have a good conversation about absolutely anything!

I'm not sure how the 11th house plays out, maybe with my friends, its that they are very close friends, who I can have deep conversations with who I've known years.

Interestingly, my OH has his Asc in capricorn at 2 degrees, also has mars in cancer. This has got to be good right? Mind you, he also has venus & the moon in aries!!

posted August 04, 2008 01:07 PM         

I'm pretty sure it's why my love life sucks, and why I'm so defensive when it comes to romance. I think love requires too much trust that I don't have the capacity to give.

posted August 04, 2008 04:53 PM           

"Venus was found in the eleventh house at the time of your birth. Your aspirations in life are very aesthetically oriented.

You strive for peace and harmony and if it were left up to you the whole world would be more humane, kind, and considerate. In your more personal relationships, Venus gives you the capability of obtaining substantial gain and assistance through your friends, who will desire to assist you with the best of intentions." -- from astro.com

posted August 04, 2008 05:31 PM           

Yep, that's a grand cross.

-trine conjunct chiron and midheaven in leo
-trine conjunct north node and 2nd house cusp in sagittarius
-sextile conjunct saturn and IC in aquarius

I guess this means it's is extremely hard for me to achieve love, but once I do, it will be fun, well perceived, financially supported euphoria.

posted August 04, 2008 07:44 PM           

My Venus is in Scorpio..
13°13'27 in house 11

This is what it says about it on astro.com

Venus was found in the eleventh house at the time of your birth. Your aspirations in life are very aesthetically oriented.

You strive for peace and harmony and if it were left up to you the whole world would be more humane, kind, and considerate. In your more personal relationships, Venus gives you the capability of obtaining substantial gain and assistance through your friends, who will desire to assist you with the best of intentions.

This sounds very much like me. I hate confrontations. When I got a divorce, my lawyer asked me whose side I'm on lol...

posted August 07, 2008 06:27 AM           

It's a -must- for me to be with someone whom I feel *proud* of. And can show off. LOL. When I'm in love, I'm very demostrative phisically and verbally. Always expecting the same back. Can be very demanding

Regarding the ASPECTS that affect my venus:
+I can 'overdo' whatever gives me pleasure... thanks to the square of my Moon in Taurus.
+I can be extremely sensitive and a cold b!tch - thanks to an opposition of Saturn.
+Certainly, the most appreciated aspect is a Trine from Uranus which always plays a huuuge part in my *weird* attractions.

posted August 08, 2008 04:07 AM         

And Cedarma lol, that is in my sig lol!

posted August 08, 2008 11:57 AM           

I like foreigners, nerds, humor, my loving moods are extremely unstable and I can't define my feelings/self.