posted May 13, 2009 07:31 AM
I have Venus in Libra conjunct Uranus in the 9th house, also widely conjunct Merc/Jupiter. Venus is opposite Chiron in the 3rd.I love women (I'm a lesbian.) As a kid I fell in love with all of my English teachers, every one of them. I've always loved foreigners and dream of marrying someone from another country (that's going to be difficult!) I am not conventionally religious but I would say that I am very devotional (9th house.) I love music like Libana and Hildegaard von Bingham. I studied medieval mystics in college. I loved school. I love parties and I love to talk. I have a tendency to put those I love on a pedestal (9th house.)
I know that sometimes I have a lot of sparkle (Venus square asc., Venus conj. Uranus.) It comes and goes but it's fun when it happens.
Modifying? Well, I have a Scorpio sun. I'm going to say that there is a bit of a conflict in that my Libra planets want everything to be harmonious and easy going all the time but my Scorpio side wants something much deeper.
Also my Libra side makes me a pretty big flirt and I am very freedom-loving (Venus conjunct Uranus and in the 9th house and I am a lover of the unique/unusual but I have Cap rising with Pallas and Juno in Cap which means I have a strongly conservative side. I am often attracted to Capricorn women--strong, self-sufficient, capable types.
My ideal woman--Amanda Burton (Sam Ryan) in "Silent Witness." Scottish, forensic pathologist, soft, feminine, strong, healing-energy, capable, passionate obsessed with job achiever! I also routinely fall in love with authors and film directors.
And, while I myself do not have strong feelings of needing/desiring a relationship to be monogamous, usually my partners do.
And having the Chiron opposition for me has meant love equaling pain--many many unrequited love affairs, a lot of difficulty telling the difference between lovers and friends, difficulty accepting my sexuality, and a lot of rejection growing up.
Still, I love my Venus, wouldn't change it.