posted August 28, 2008 10:19 PM         

He didn't show any emotions b/c he doesn't know how to act-react to the death situation.

His silent treatment is because everyone likes you, and he's probably feeling giddy, but doesn't want to lose control. When you tell him you love him, he "ignores" it b/c he doesn't want his heart to take over.

A virgo singing to you, letting your daughters meet- grl, that's a lot. I would never sing, whether I do have a good voice or I don't- b/c it constitutes singing from the heart, and that's a big deal.

I know how paranoid scorpios are- Scorpio is my 2nd most influential sign. Seriously, just chill, live and let live, or you will find the virgo running away from you. Trust virgos that they will do what they need to do, that they will stick by you. You show your mistrusting side, and they'll slip faster than mercury.

posted September 03, 2008 02:36 PM         

I am in a relationship with a Virgo too. You are communicating the right things; it definitely helps to stay calm, cool and collected even when the issues discussed as very emotional and matters so close to heart. I know this is very hard for Scorpio, and I am an Aries! You're doing great ~ following your heart.

posted September 18, 2008 11:47 AM         

16 Sept: Out of nowhere he goes off telling me that he's tired of the back and forth (don't know why since, HE's the one always doing it). Anyway! All because I told him I was "feeling some type of way" (which had to do with me being a week late, but that's a WHOLE other discussion) I went off telling him that I was in fact 7 days late and that I was sick of his mood swings. He said "be cool" and "thanks for the birthday present". Didn't speak to each other for the rest of the night.

17 Sept (his birthday): I told him that whatever he was dealing with (I think it's another woman) that I would back off and let him deal with it on his own and if in fact was "another woman", I would make his decision easier and walk away. His reply....

"If u are pregnant are u gonna keep it? I will sit down and talk 2 u about all that other stuff face 2 face so u can see for yourself the emotions n my words. I don't know what to do. I do understand where u r coming from, I do to a certain extent feel like I am stringing u along. I told myself I wouldn't do that 2 u do to the fact that I have so much respect 4 u. I don't want to leave u stranded and pregnant with my child, if u r, that's not me. I am just lost. I need to clear my mind, 1 thing u don't deserve is to b played with I just don't know what's goin on with me right now."

With that said, I told him I would back off, so he could figure things out, but I love him and always will.

Later last night: He finally tells me what's really bothering him. His grandmother passed 7 months ago and this was his first birthday (29th) without her. He said he asked for a sign, fell asleep with her quilt and woke up on top of it, with it folded. Then he goes to say that how could things go from "sugar to sh!t" in 2 days.

posted December 29, 2008 10:20 AM         

So here it goes!!!

For Christmas ..... I got an engagement ring :O) He says I'm the one and it only gets better from here.

My advice to anyone dating/in Love with a Virgo .... if you TRULY believe he/she's the one .... DON'T GIVE UP! I had a hell of a road (and I'm sure it's not over until "I do" has been said), but it was/is worth it.

Thank you EVERYONE for the support.