posted October 03, 2008 06:18 PM         

Who's the heartbreaker here?

posted October 03, 2008 06:36 PM         

Venus/Uranus connections happen suddenly, and are exciting and intense. This can make people think the relationship is deeper than it really is. Also, the intensity is unstable.

Uranus also (especially natally) breeds insecurity. Often in uranus connections there is a moment where one or both of the people involved have a "freak out". When a connection is established so quickly, it's hard to trust. A lot of people get scared and break off the relationship rather than try to maintain the intensity.

It would be good of you to look at the following:

1. What are your natal relationship needs? Does the natal chart of you or your partner incline you to uranus-type relationships? If either of you has a strong uranus or aquarius, you might be more comfortable with uranian energy in a relationship.

posted October 03, 2008 06:49 PM         

me and my bf share aspects between venus/uranus both in composite and sinastry.

although it seems a bit scary at st sight ( whe i really wanst into astrology) i realised it has its own meaning:

we met and liked instantaneously ( love at 1st sight)and we are together for 2 years now.alhtough its not long one so far,its considered long when it comes to uranus

he is a uranian type:moon in aqua in 7th house.Uranus sextile sun/venus and trine asc.

I have my 5th house iN Aqua.Uranus sextiles my asc and mercury ( my sun ruler).and skuares my sun and trine Jupiter.

posted October 03, 2008 06:51 PM         

Uranus influences in terms of relationship needs could include:
*Aquarius rising, or on the descendant.
*Uranus in the 1st or 7th house.
*Chart ruler aspecting Uranus.
*Venus in aquarius, or aspecting Uranus.
*7th house ruler aspecting Uranus.

posted October 03, 2008 07:05 PM         

aqua rising
uranus quincunx asc in 5th
uranus conj mars/mars sextile venus
uranus sextile merc(in 7th)
uranus trine moon(in 1st)

posted October 03, 2008 07:57 PM         

In my natal chart my Venus (7th ruler) is conjunct Uranus
In his natal chart his Aqua moon rules his 7th house.
Our 7th house rulers oppose one another.

We are going on close to 7 years together which in Uranus time is mind-boggling and its been anything but conventional, initially it was a sudden attraction and from the get-go there has not been any possessiveness, jealousy or mistrust between us and we give each other plenty of space. The problems we have is when the relationship slips into the mundane then it’s all bets are off and we are both standing on soapboxes beating our chests.

posted October 05, 2008 10:28 AM         

-his Venus sextile my Uranus
-his Uranus sextile my Sun
-his Uranus sextile my Mercury
-his Uranus square my Moon
-his Uranus square my Saturn

Natally, I have Venus square Uranus and he has Venus sextile Uranus.

It was a complicated relatoinship, with both of us needing a lot of freedom, but (me especially) also being very attached. We're both unconventional and needed lots of stimulation, travel, variety, new people and new things.

I have a lot of "push me/pull you" energy in my chart romantically, with that Venus-Uranus square. I get deeply attached to people but also push them away. I've often had a reputation as a heartbreaker, but lately I feel brokenhearted.

I noticed, reading a website, that Angelina Jolie has Venus in Cancer, square Uranus, like I do. I see why she has a tattoo that quotes the playwright Tennessee Williams, "A prayer for the wild at heart, kept in cages."

Tennessee Williams ALSO had Venus square Uranus, of course...he had lots of tragic affairs, but found a longterm partner to commit to, and they had a loyal relationship. Wheh his partner died, he went off the rails with terrible depression.

I think for people with a natal Venus-Uranus square, falling in love feels extra-intense and extra painful, because there is all this Uranian energy pulling us away from those deep Venus feelings. "Beware!" it says, "You'll get trapped and turn weak. Protect your freedom!" In a perverse way, that makes us MORE rather than less attached.