posted October 04, 2008 01:42 AM         

If someone had Aquarius on their 7th they may seek detachment, independence, and a more intellectual bond with their partner. Uranus would be the ruler so that person may also seek unconventional relationships, and maybe a little chaos

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted October 04, 2008 05:13 AM         

7th house is about giving as well as getting. It's the qualities you offer.

Saturn can serve as an example, he's in my 7th in Taurus:

I get ~> I settled down young with a careerist Saturnian type, he's ten years older. Hard-working man, intelligent, mature.

I give ~> I take on responsibility in relationships. I do the family finances, get the car mended, I take care of business. I am ready to take care of the older people in the family when they need help.

Taurus is a practical sign, she does things for people. It is also a sensual sign, concerned with the physical. So these things become important in close relationships.

posted October 05, 2008 05:38 PM         

But don't think I mean that is necessarily bad, it's not doom. He is working hard here, he is applying his energy into relationships and doing things for other people. In Taurus, sure, he can kick off and get aggressive. But he would have to be provoked first. Taurus is a Venusian sign. So she is happy in the 7th. The earthy sensuality of Taurus works well in this house.

I'd say Mars in Taurus in the 7th means you are prepared to work at relationships, but you expect to get something out of it. You will only be imposed upon for so long, if at all. Also, being such a sensual sign, I'm going to take a wild guess that the physical side of close relationships are important, where that applies - traditionally this is the house of partnerships and that could include the business as well as the marital type.

posted October 05, 2008 08:07 PM         

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at this stage in life I am being held hostage by Uranus LOL, He/She is waving the freedom flag & banging on the tom toms, refusing to be collared! This is conflicting for my Libra Sun. Oh dear

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posted October 05, 2008 08:29 PM         

I didn't realize that this could go on for years - oi! I feel at war with myself....Anyways I came up with a compromise......I need someone who loves me but doesn't want to live with me or otherwise will let me have a bedroom to myself lol (can't share the bed...It's MINE)

posted October 06, 2008 02:03 AM         

I tolerate a lot in relationships. I tend to see the person instead of the behaviour. But when the behaviour becomes too much, I will say my piece. Then if that doesn't do anything to change the situation, I tend to change my mindset in order to cope.

To leave a relationship is something I would not normally consider. I will work on every possible solution before that entered my mind.

I've grown up a lot. I left my first love when I was 22. My strategy for leaving was tactless. I had good reasons for leaving, but could have done it a better way.

My Aries rising and Venus/Uranus/Pluto stellium would say "See ya later. I'm off for my next adventure. Life is great, fun and I'm here to LIVE!!!"

These days, I'm more thoughtful and consider life-long consequences.

Besides, when Libra Mars matches up with Taurus Mars, it can be very nice AND her North Node is conjunct my Mars in my 7th by 4° - so we'll be sticking together for a while!!

posted October 06, 2008 03:35 AM         

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Someone along the lines of....Long distance truck driver....International business man.....Successful Artiste who has to travel A LOT......suggestions?

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Subtle, very subtle. And your role, perhaps?

posted October 06, 2008 04:27 AM         

My astro-answer is Uranian types. Strong contact between Uranus and the Sun and/or Moon. I'm one. With the Taurus Stellium, I work better with someone with a strong Earth component.

Something in my instincts steered me away from the Cancerian types, back in my youth I thought I couldn't really handle someone gentle and sensitive although I found this type of man insanely attractive (still do). The major examples I am thinking of were a Cancer Sun and a Cancer Moon. Though I didn't really think about it in those terms then. One had Aqua Sun/Mercury and we got along so comfortably, but there was always that qualm. His Moon exactly Squared my Uranus which says everything.

On the other side of the street I seem to have a prediliction for Aquarian workoholics. Best childhood friend, college friend, and now husband. They all sat in a room together once when I first introduced Mr bm. They laughed and said: let me guess, you're an Aquarius, too.

Mr bm has the workoholic's hallmark signature Sun CNJ Saturn (in Aqua). He also has Moon in Taurus and Mercury in Capricorn. He's not a 9 to 5 pipe and slippers man, but he doesn't mess me about behaving like a prat, either.

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......I need someone who loves me but doesn't want to live with me or otherwise will let me have a bedroom to myself

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The older you get the easier it should be to find someone to accommodate these needs. If I was single in the future, I can't imagine wanting to have another live-in relationship. I don't see the problem with separate rooms. A good night's sleep is essential and if you need a little bit of space and can afford it, it's not too much to ask.

posted October 06, 2008 05:15 AM         

Btw, your spelling is appalling. "Flavour," what the hell is that about? Learn English!

posted October 06, 2008 05:20 AM         

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Subtle, very subtle. And your role, perhaps?

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posted October 06, 2008 06:24 AM         

I think Muttley knows!!

posted October 06, 2008 06:37 AM         

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Scintillating unobtainable minx is my role darling....Need I say more?

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