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Topic: Thinking about someone
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Marila1313
Knowflake Posts: 117
From:
Registered: Aug 2008
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posted October 06, 2008 09:07 PM
 
Okay so let me give a brief explanation of what happened. I met a guy and we sort of had a fling (not sex though lol) at a certain get together. The next day he called me but I was too busy to pick up my phone.The next time I see him I pretend as if I don't know him , and I don't know why I did this becuase I'm crazy about him! it was just some wierd way I approached a situation. (Probably my venus opposition saturn in my natal chart..)
Anyway, he acts like a normal friend, but I uncontrollably go into ***** mode and pretend as if I've never spoken to him. I did this for about 3 weeks.
And now he's doing it to me!
I need know if there's still something between us..because it honesty driving me insane. Whenever he looks at me, it hard for me to analyse whether he's mad at me or sad that I'm pushing him away. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone can look into out synastry to see if our relationship might still work out or if he hasn't forgot about me? Anything like that  thnx IP: Logged |
missneptune
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Feb 2006
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posted October 06, 2008 10:50 PM
Your situation sounds so similar to what happened to me! I also have Saturn opposition Venus as well  But this guy wanted me to call him, and I lost his number, so I obviously thought I wouldn't see him again. However I happened to have changed universities, and I somehow ran into him several times. It was strange because it did not feel like either of us had ever liked each other, and each time I saw him he got more distant. But he has capricorn venus, which may also kind of effect this saturnian outcome. IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1451
From: santa monica, california
Registered: May 2005
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posted October 06, 2008 11:59 PM
well maybe he's starting act as if you're not there because you did it to him first. maybe he thinks you don't like him at all.
i have saturn opposition venus too.
talk to him,,,, or you'll regret it. I've been in a situation like that in HS.IP: Logged |
koiflower
Knowflake Posts: 1258
From: Australia
Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 07, 2008 02:04 AM
Oh dear, I have Venus opposite Saturn at 0 degrees. That's something I do always!!! I have always avoided the ones I've had the HOTS for!!I see them coming and I flee as my heart leaps and jumps in my chest!!! My endocrine system kicks in and the adrenalin rushes through me and I feel really faint!! Why do we do this???? Well, actually let me tell you a little story. I once told someone I liked them!!! But being the Venus opp Saturn person I am, I told them by email AND it took me 5 years to tell them AND they lived in a different country. The good thing is, it made their day IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 689
From: processing destination......
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 07, 2008 03:45 AM
Oh man, that sound like my situation a little, but we aren't 'involved' in a way besides friends...and I've helped him when he was starting his own company and now *work* for him.
The attraction is there for sure. I just kind of shut down on him because of all the mixed signals, and he did to me too, and we used to be so friendly to each other ... Of course, my venus squares his saturn in the chart...wouldn't you know it? And I've got my own venus trining saturn, so I think that makes me reserved when I like someone, even though my Aries moon wants to throw a fit, LOL. I think it sound like maybe your moons are involved in something, maybe ascendant contacts? I've got a similar thing going with 'my guy' ... I think moon/ascendant contacts or moon/moon contacts make people mirror each other's behavior. Plus maybe if you have any 12th house stuff involved, it might bring up feelings of paranoia and wondering what the heck is going on LOL. ------------------
"I owe my solitude to other people. IP: Logged |
Marila1313
Knowflake Posts: 117
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Registered: Aug 2008
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posted October 07, 2008 07:35 AM
It's great reading stories that I'm not the only one suffering from venus/saturn  ....makes me feel more normal.
Here's are synastry chart together. I am person 1 and he is person 2
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cgftfileCovhSS-u1216298968/astro_61gw_01_11_kl_z_ma.41689.8716.pdf IP: Logged |
annaf
Knowflake Posts: 322
From:
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted October 07, 2008 08:55 AM
Hi,just wondering whether it is linked to maturity? Are you all still quite young as Marila? Otherwise, if you are all kind of ages, it might really have s.th. to do with venu opposite saturn in your natal chart. Someone with venus opposite saturn broke my heart. Although I did sense attraction from his side (I might be wrong of course) he has avoided me in a way I've given up. I hope this doesnt sound harsh, but I'm really wondering what you have expected. You dont treat him nice (to say the least) and there can't be any doubt in his mind that you DON'T like him. Yet, when he quite understandably adapts his behaviour accordingly, you are desperate. There's no other solution than being open about your interest with him and hope that he'll give you a second chart. A IP: Logged |
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