posted September 02, 2012 07:09 PM            

Did that person enjoy rape or force fantasies on his or herself?

Did that person like spitting, fluid swapping?

posted September 02, 2012 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by jane:
I could see the problem if it were done on the floor or in a beloved flower pot...

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posted September 03, 2012 03:51 AM            

Then you make a beeline over here and dig up a thread that's years old about the same placement, purely to speculate on whether or not it creates rape fantasies and sexually deviant behavior in an individual.

posted September 07, 2012 12:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Gray:
Dreaming, you're over in Astrology 2.0 posting links you fished up of largely negative interpretations of Venus in Virgo...

Then you make a beeline over here and dig up a thread that's years old about the same placement, purely to speculate on whether or not it creates rape fantasies and sexually deviant behavior in an individual.

...Lemme guess...your S.O. has the hots for a Venus in Virgo, doesn't he? (smirk)

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Listen idiot. Neither had anything to do with one another. I was doing my research and came upon these articles and threads. It's my freedom to post.

Why are you stalking me and my posts? Deluded? Nuts, maybe?

I don't have a S.O. so you failed with your silly theory.

Let's see why are you so abrasive, rude and dumb? Um, I know, you were born that way...I bet you listen to a lot of lady gaga huh?

posted December 23, 2013 10:03 AM            

I also have a rule that once a guy has slept with someone else I will NEVER take him back. EVER. No waiting for him to get out of another relationship bs.

I don't think I am that picky though tbh. Its cos venus virgos have an unfounded inferiority complex. People would tell me I'm pretty but deep down I never believe it. So we will settle but try to improve whoever we pick. Like I would try to get my ex to go jogging with me in the mornings and eat healthy and stuff.

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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:
I've got Venus in Virgo in the 7th I'm not a neat-freak at all and don't really require it in whoever I date, although if they're inclined toward like extreme filth like you see on those hoarding shows or something I'll run away like my ass is on fire.

Finding out about possible sexual promiscuity in someone I'm interested in (or that they were involved with someone else who was/is), is a turn off for me and might be a deal breaker dependent on how bad it is. That might be because I have Venus on the 8th house cusp too.

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posted January 28, 2014 12:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Did that person enjoy rape or force fantasies on his or herself?
Did that person like spitting, fluid swapping?
Also did he like gay porn, shemales etc?

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for these you need to look at other placements in the chart. e.g. Pluto and Uranus (unconventional) and aspects they make to Venus

posted February 22, 2014 03:56 PM            

Do you really think having Venus Virgo affect how neat, detailed you are? I read once that Venus 'activates' when you're in love, then the person with this placement 'becomes' true Venus. Of curse it affects you in a way also when not in love but does it affect someone in such strong way?
I know very little about astrology as of right now, but I'm fascinated by its order and how deep you can dig in it, and how broad it is, very mysterious and non conclusive..Orderly chaos.

Bread crumbs and dirtiness (as in uncleanliness) bother me as well. I don't judge it though I just like to accomplish things, like a mission,. I am very judgmental about people with no passion or life in them(doesn't mean loud or anything, but runs deep instead), and people who have zero discipline and when i say discipline that goes beyond materia..For me it applies to everything and can mean different things. Like discipline as in putting effort and going on and beyond of acceptable..so it is quite different. At some point it can mean quite the opposite-losing yourself totally.
And there's no Virgo in my personal planet..

English is not my native language and I sometimes find it hard to pick a word to describe something. Discipline is probably not the one.

How come 'kinky' is related to Virgo? I think it certainly is true, but how come exactly Virgo is the one that's kinkiest?
I really feel uneasy saying this but surely Aquarius is the most original.
I am one (Mars) that's how I know.

posted March 26, 2014 01:38 PM            

This means that I'm ridiculously shy with the opposite sex.

I honestly think that this astrological combination is one of the worst that a man can have, because women usually donīt like shy men.

I always have great difficulties in showing that I'm interested in someone, difficulties in showing my feelings, and unfortunately i have a passive attitude towards relationships, iīm a quiet person, i donīt like to go after girls, i prefer when things happens naturally, although I feel resentment for not being more active.

posted October 12, 2015 02:01 PM            

i pay attention to a persons hygiene, i also check out peoples hands, clean nails, dirty teeth. blonde monobrow, zits... etc.. i see all the details on people, but ive learned that its what makes them perfect. i would also say im very attracted to someone who's smart and witty, (do have gemini mars 5th house squaring my venus and jupiter).

i would say people who are sincere and honest is a big turn on, im very quick to call ******** . also just people who are considered of others, who dont have to step on others to get ahead. and just in general people who present themselves in a elegant and professional way.

posted October 18, 2015 10:11 AM            

I definitely have a mental checklist. I want someone who is either in school or has a degree, is clean/has good hygiene, takes care of their appearance, can stimulate me intellectually, and can appreciate me when I do things for them. If your nails are dirty, your teeth are gross or your breath smells I'll probably run the other way. I also don't believe sex is the ultimate determinant in how loving a relationship is. In fact, sex is like a chore to me.

I'm not as affectionate, but I can be. I show my admiration/love for someone by doing things for them (buying them lunch, household chores, gifts). I also will nag or try to "fix" their flaws but it only means I care a great deal. I notice that I also fall head over heels for the guy that needs help. Its like I believe that I can change them. It's weird.

posted October 24, 2015 01:26 PM            

We notice the tiniest details about the people we like and use that knowledge to please them somehow.. (These are the people who know exactly how you take your coffee, can tell you on which days you're likely to wear which shirt, will remember the story about the fierce cat who stole your sandwich when you were five...you get the drift). We also love to help out in any way we can..make your life easier. But we do it all unobtrusively.

These traits go both ways - I find I really like it if someone remembers things about me. Little acts of kindness go a long way - all talk and no follow-through makes us trust the person less. For instance, a really flowery romantic line may floor a Leo venus, but a Virgo venus will feel loved if they can see tangible proof/action that shows your devotion.

We also greatly admire intelligence. And wit. Wit without crassness, that is. Dry Cappy humour melts our reserve in a flash! We also have a soft spot for the sensitive souls who've gone unnoticed, or the underdogs who need help. (Or maybe that's my Pisces moon speaking).

Also, the 'likes' of one's Venus will be modified by the emotional needs of the moon and the desires of the Mars (mine's in Scorpio. So. ) as well as other significant natal aspects they may have.

posted October 26, 2015 12:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Great read!

My mom, and boyfriend have their Venus here.

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