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Topic: How to you detect the effects of Black Moon Lilith in synastry?
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Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: Mercury Registered: Jul 2007
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posted November 17, 2008 07:13 AM
How do you detect the effects of BML in synastry? What does BML represent? What about it's nodes as well, are they important?------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
darkdreamer Knowflake Posts: 3991 From: Germany Registered: Aug 2006
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posted November 17, 2008 08:15 AM
http://www.valkyrieastrology.com/Makeover/asteroids/lilith.html "There's been a lot of talk lately about the return of the sacred feminine. This ain't it; Lilith is its mortal enemy." I do NOT agree with this statement. Lilith IS one side of the feminine. I hope this helps. I haven`t read it all through myself, but in a nutshell Black Moon Lilith represents the feminine archetype, even though mostly in a dark way. She is the dark side of the moon, and this dark side of the moon interestingly often appears almost Pluto-like. To me she feels like a mix of Uranus, Pluto and Moon.
EDIT: Glaucus has posted a very extensive and great desription of her symbolism on the site. EDIT 2: After having actually read the articles I must say it`s all a bit negative, isn`t it? Personally I think Lilith relates very much to truth and honesty; so much in fact that she even gives up security and comfort for it, even love. She can`t make compromises; it`s all or nothing. And every connection must be based on equality. How this plays out in synastry depends how both persons react to Lilith. If the guy is actually scared of an equal partner and wants an obedient one, he will try to overpower her and MAKE her obedient. But noone overpowers Lilith, which can lead to nasty powerplays. It also can mean that the guy is utterly repulsed by a woman who has strong Lilith traits and is strong and independent, but inside there is a very strong and raw sexual attraction. I once read that Lilith signifies the woman, that can drive a man over the edge, probably with both passion and fury. But also for a woman Lilith represents not only how SHE is, but it also seems to signify what she will feel drawn to. So in synastry the most obvious effects may be: a strong raw sexual attraction, powerplays, being confronted with the truth of ones feelings and life.
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blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted November 17, 2008 10:49 AM
quote: But noone overpowers Lilith
That made me laugh. Probably because BML is exactly conjunct the Moon on my chart. And also conjunct Pluto. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted November 17, 2008 05:21 PM
Black Moon Lilith has no nodes. It's not a physical object. It's the lunar apogee which means that it is the farthest point of the moon's orbit from the Earth. so you see it's an abstract point like nodes of an object are. therefore it has no nodes. like any placement,Black Moon Lilith can be both good and bad. it's not necessarily a bad thing...even if the mythology of Lilith is bad...that's from a misogynistic male point of view any way.
Lilith is mainly the feminist...it's not necessarily a manhating feminist. It could be the feminist who believes in equality,and sticks up for herself and doesn't let anybody push her around. She's highly emotional,sensitive,intuitive,and intense and is involved with shadow,occult dimensions of life. apply those to the synastry and can indicate a highly emotional,sensitive,intuitive,intense connection that focuses on equality as well as get in touch with the shadow,occult dimensions of life.....if there is no equality,then rebelliousnes can be a problem. Lilith is like "You don't tell me what do!...go screw yourself!" when being pushed around by any man. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted November 17, 2008 05:25 PM
Truly brilliant stuff here Very prominent in "power" appearing sexual celebrities - eg Madonna, Marlene Deitrich. IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted November 17, 2008 05:56 PM
Glaucus is on the money. The essence of the quote is very much like something I would say. I checked my synastry and I can report that the Moon/BML conjunct on my chart is semi-square mr bm's Mars in Leo.
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23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted November 17, 2008 06:04 PM
Never noticed this but Mr 23's BML is conj my Chiron. This happens in my 1st and in his 5th. Also his BML is trining my unaspected Venus .IP: Logged |
oceaneyes Knowflake Posts: 20 From: canada Registered: Oct 2008
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posted November 19, 2008 06:20 PM
so then what would it look like if say my venus and mars were square his lilith ? or if his moon were sextile my lilith. This is in synastry of course . xoxo ~*Oceaneyes*~ IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 19, 2008 06:34 PM
Yeah, I have been wondering about the BMLilith effect...I have a guy's BML in my first house. I wonder what that means. Mine falls into his 6th. My own BML squares Pluto, Mercury, opposes Saturn (which I find amusing since she's in Capricorn), sextiles Venus, and trines my ascendant. I haven't the slightest clue what all this means. I'm still trying to wrap my mind around the Lilith theory. I get it, but I don't, not really. Not yet IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted November 19, 2008 07:51 PM
Hey blue moon do you have children? I thought bml is the one who used to take the life of babies or something. and people with aspects with the moon may not want to have children. ------------------ Sun.. Cancer Moon.. Gemini Mars.. Cancer Mercury.. Cancer Venus.. Leo Ascendant....... Virgo IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 19, 2008 09:55 PM
That's part of the myth, that Lilith is some kinda succubus, but I actually see her as a very strong nurturer on HER terms. It might also be that BLM aspects to the moon represent something like a fierce protectiveness toward children? Or even issues with the mother, or women in general (challenging the general stereotypes of women?).IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted November 20, 2008 12:18 AM
my own true Black Moon Lilith is in 5'42 Scorpio Retrograde conjunct my Sun in 5'20 Scorpio and trine my Moon in 3'10 Pisces. Therefore, the Lilith archetype is strong in me. I am a male with strong female traits,and I am a feminist that believe in gender equality. I am attracted to feminists,and my exgirlfriend was one,and she is the daughter of man-hating feminist. Also like the clairvision intepretation of Sun-Black Moon,my father was absent(I never knew him),and I fought against my stepfather too. He was very controlling and domineering. I haven't seen him since I was 18 years old. My mother wised up and threw him out. my mother seems very Lilith-like too...both good and bad. I also had numerous dreams of succubus. It makes me wonder if succubus actually visited me,but I am afraid to admit it. so the Lilith theme plays bigtime in my life
I like Juan Revilla's take on Black Moon Lilith
he explains it from the mythological and astronomical view http://www.expreso.co.cr/centaurs/blackmoon/lilith.html
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Arnicka Knowflake Posts: 1146 From: Registered: Jun 2004
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posted November 21, 2008 12:22 AM
Hi Glaucus, is the Lilith you're referring to the one on the short list of asteroids at astro.com [free horoscopes extended selection]? Thanks!IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted November 21, 2008 12:25 AM
yesbut the true black moon lilith is h13 listed under hypothetical points Raymond IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 21, 2008 12:47 AM
Whoa, Raymond...True BLM is completely a different thing then...I'm getting on astro.com now to see this. Thanks for the info! Fascinating stuff about its relevance in your own life, and it's impressive how you can interpret its presence. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 21, 2008 12:51 AM
Wha...mine's in Sagittarius in the 8th house, and she squares my Sun (hey, Daddy was absent, truth). She's sextiling Uranus and trining Chiron...hmm. Those aren't personal planets, so I have no idea.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 21, 2008 01:04 AM
Black Moon Lilith reminds me of one of my favorite 'poems' from the Gnostic manuscripts in Upper Egypt:Thunder, Perfect Mind For I am the first and the last. I am the honored one and the scorned one. I am the wh*re and the holy one. I am the wife and the virgin. I am the mother and the daughter. I am the members of my mother. I am the barren one and many are her sons. I am she whose wedding is great, and I have not taken a husband. I am the midwife and she who does not bear. I am the solace of my labor pains. The whole thing is here: http://www.stoa.org/diotima/anthology/thunder.shtml
Echos a lot of Inanna's descent also...right before she enters the underworld. IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted November 21, 2008 02:34 AM
Yes, Belgz, we have had children together. BML in contact with the Moon is associated with difficulty in childbirth. However, one of mine was born in 10 minutes, no stitches, although I was told I shouldn't be having a baby bigger than the last one naturally. He was bigger. I had easy labours. I never went to ante-natal classes, I just turned up an pushed and swore a bit. I was very lucky.
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Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted November 21, 2008 02:42 AM
does that mean that if a woman's Moon conjunct my Sun-Black Moon Lilith, that she and I will have problems having children? IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted November 21, 2008 02:24 PM
I don't know what to make of this BML giving problems having children. Yes, I had several miscarriages, but I did go on to have children and I had them easy. People have worse problems. For me BML so placed in my chart says more about my emotional nature than anything else. I've got a high pain threshold physically. Childbirth hurts, a beanbag and herbal tea won't convince me otherwise. Emotionally my pain theory isn't much more sophisticated. But, I don't say that's the way it should be for everyone for either event, that's just me and how I cope. I'm the grit your teeth and ride it out type. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted November 21, 2008 03:10 PM
do you think a conjunction of Black Moon Lilith conjunct Sun can indicate one's reproductive manhood being affected?My Venus is also conjunct the Alpha Serpentis,Unukalhai(it make think of eunuchs when I first saw that aspect in my chart...it was written as Unuk in my Kepler astrology report,and I was like..oh boy) I read that it was a Mars/Saturn star associated with problems with love also in medical astrology Venus-Mars-Saturn configurations are known to correlate with reproductive problems. in Eileen Naumann medical astrology book, it is said that Unukalhai may induce chronic illnesses which may not be diagnosed for a long time if the star is conjunct natal Neptune(which is not in my case). she wrote that it rules operations. any ways...I looked a hermaphrodite's chart with full birthdata that he listed on a site, and he happens to have Mars conjunct Unukalhai. He also has Fomalhaut conjunct Ascendant,and I read that star is associated with birth defects.
I have Moon conjunct Fomalhaut myself, but I don't have any birth defects unless you consider unusual developments like Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,ADHD as well as higher estrogen levels reflected by longer index fingers being longer than my ring fingers indicating exposed to more estrogen in my mom's womb. also Fomalhaut is in 3'28 Pisces exactly opposite my Saturn/Neptune midpoint in 3'28 Virgo which is the midpoint associated with chronic illness. So my Moon in 3'10 Pisces conjunct Fomalhaut and oppose Saturn/Neptune midpoint with the same orb 0 17 minutes of arc. IP: Logged |