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Topic: The Strongest tie to break..Saturn..
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Doux Rêve
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posted May 07, 2011 04:36 PM
  
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Originally posted by RMChex:
JoJo, Doux Reve - I know just what you mean, and its a horrible situation to be in. It can tear you apart from inside. The person involved in my Saturn-conflict (see previous post in this thread from me) realised how I was feeling (eventually) and sent me this song, with the disclaimer "this is how you must have felt until we sorted it out...". Very insightful, and it gave me great comfort somehow. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mO2K-qkMU4
Thank you for this Rachel .
The link won't work but I figured the song is Fine Line by Little Big Town, right? IP: Logged |
RMChex
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posted May 07, 2011 06:02 PM
Yep, that's the one. Good lyrics...x ------------------
Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 08, 2011 10:46 AM
I have a question for people who have some strong Saturn in synastry going on..
Do you ever feel the need to be away from that person? Like it's just too much, sometimes, too "heavy"?
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RMChex
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posted May 08, 2011 03:59 PM
Yes!It can get so annoying and overwhelming that sometimes it is easier to just put some distance there. It doesn't last long, though! ------------------
Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Mermaid
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posted May 09, 2011 08:59 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I have a question for people who have some strong Saturn in synastry going on..
Do you ever feel the need to be away from that person? Like it's just too much, sometimes, too "heavy"?
Thanks Doux Reve for the link you shared.It was insightful.It answered my question aptly.
As I had mentioned earlier,the Saturn conj my IC opposes his moon which is conj my MC.So in his natal chart he has Moon opp Sat which kind of makes him cautious in emotional matters.In fact,he said he usually builds walls round himself till he is sure the other person will not hurt him emotionally.Looking back,the analogy is so typical of Saturn : walls/boundaries,restricting and denying emotions for the fear of being hurt. Interestingly he has been very open with me.He has told me many times he feels he has always known me.This has to be due to his Saturn in tight conjuction with my IC. Now to answer your question : No,never(touch wood)We feel we cant get enough of each other.Of course that could be because we have other aspects like Venus/Pluto DW,again less than 2 deg orb.My Moon is conj his Neptune (1 deg) IP: Logged |
saronna
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posted May 10, 2011 02:33 AM
Mamma mia, i think that the strongest tie to break is free will and the planets predict tendicies or patterns but it's free will that ties one to a person or not. What do you think about destiny, free will and fate.IP: Logged |
saronna
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posted May 10, 2011 02:35 AM
Mamma mia, what do you think about destiny,fate and free will in regards to one's ideal 'nothing is impossible'.IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted May 10, 2011 10:03 AM
What do you get when you have Jupiter and Saturn in Libra in the second house with both conjunct Pluto in Libra in the second house?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 10, 2011 03:27 PM
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What do you get when you have Jupiter and Saturn in Libra in the second house with both conjunct Pluto in Libra in the second house?
Do you mean in natal or in synastry? IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted May 10, 2011 10:18 PM
That is in my chart.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 11, 2011 09:22 PM
I just met a guy whos Saturn is conjunct my Sun/Moon/MercMy Saturn trines his Sun... I have only known him two weeks.. We have NOT been intimate in ANY way.. Not even a kiss... Its been one of the weirdest experiences... We keep going back to argue.. IDK to prove we are right... I feel really BLAH and challanged by him.. I get really frustrated. I want absolutely nothing to do with him.
But then I have to prove Im right! lol Its so weird, we argue like we have been dating for years! Even though we havent even gone out once.. You would think both people would stop talking to each other, and just say nah thats not a person I want to be around... Well I do say that, but It just doesnt seem to be happening that way... IP: Logged |
RMChex
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posted May 12, 2011 05:50 AM
That sounds like it might be something Lioness - how are you when you don't like someone? In my case, they just stop existing, literally. I don't even realise they are in the room sometimes. Of course, if I reeeealy don't like them or they have annoyed or hurt me, then I notice them. And watch them. Then I get revenge, and then they can stop existing.Maybe this guy is falling somewhere between the two for you? ------------------
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Lioness
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posted May 12, 2011 03:03 PM
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Originally posted by RMChex:
That sounds like it might be something Lioness - how are you when you don't like someone? In my case, they just stop existing, literally. I don't even realise they are in the room sometimes. Of course, if I reeeealy don't like them or they have annoyed or hurt me, then I notice them. And watch them. Then I get revenge, and then they can stop existing.Maybe this guy is falling somewhere between the two for you?
OMG.. I cant take this guy any more... Hes a jerk and I want nothing more to do with him...
CUT in out totally!
No more contact...
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Doux Rêve
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posted May 13, 2011 03:13 PM
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Originally posted by Mblake81:
What do you get when you have Jupiter and Saturn in Libra in the second house with both conjunct Pluto in Libra in the second house?
Hmm.. sounds like a very powerful combination.
You have the realism of Saturn combined with the broadness of view of Jupiter and the will to succeed of Pluto.. wow. IP: Logged |
RMChex
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posted May 13, 2011 03:18 PM
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OMG.. I cant take this guy any more... Hes a jerk and I want nothing more to do with him...
CUT in out totally!
No more contact...
Wow. Are you sure? Will that feeling last though? One of the things that I do that causes me to trip up, is react like that - then regret it, which makes me look even more stupid than I did to start with - plus the guy is getting so many mixed signals from me it just makes it all so much worse. If you really are 'done' with it all, then good for you! ------------------
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Lioness
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posted May 13, 2011 09:43 PM
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Wow. Are you sure? Will that feeling last though? One of the things that I do that causes me to trip up, is react like that - then regret it, which makes me look even more stupid than I did to start with - plus the guy is getting so many mixed signals from me it just makes it all so much worse.If you really are 'done' with it all, then good for you!
Nope Im fixed... If I say Im done, then Im done no changing my mind... IM DONE... Deleted numbers and all, no way to contact him... No desire to even contact him...
He's a totally jerk... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 13, 2011 09:43 PM
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Originally posted by RMChex:
Wow. Are you sure? Will that feeling last though? One of the things that I do that causes me to trip up, is react like that - then regret it, which makes me look even more stupid than I did to start with - plus the guy is getting so many mixed signals from me it just makes it all so much worse.If you really are 'done' with it all, then good for you!
Nope Im fixed... If I say Im done, then Im done no changing my mind... IM DONE... Deleted numbers and all, no way to contact him... No desire to even contact him...
He's a totally jerk... IP: Logged |
JoJo
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posted May 14, 2011 02:03 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Nope Im fixed... If I say Im done, then Im done no changing my mind... IM DONE... Deleted numbers and all, no way to contact him... No desire to even contact him...
He's a totally jerk...
Ha Ha...that's what I said about mine too. You know how many times I've deleted him? Several...it sucks because he doesn't stay deleted. IP: Logged |
RMChex
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posted May 14, 2011 12:28 PM
Lioness - good for you!JoJo - snap, same here...! ------------------
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Lioness
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posted May 16, 2011 03:52 PM
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Lioness - good for you!JoJo - snap, same here...!
This guy texted me.. "kissessss" I replied back.. your tripping!! lol IP: Logged |
saronna
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posted May 16, 2011 10:33 PM
Hugs to you Lioness!IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 17, 2011 12:42 AM
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Hugs to you Lioness!
LOL.. then hours later he texts me.. jus hoping u have a great week.. i replied k then hours later he text me I just hope your happy.. I replied always happy he said
ok i was jus making sure, honey thats all and im glad ur always happy makes me feel better n i dont have to check on u. Me
whats the deal? y r u texting me?? him OMG sorry ok.. wont happen again.. me ok
dont be honest then.. shrug no response back.. GEEZ... man Idk what to do about him? I know I havent heard the last from him.. damnn saturn.. he DOES keep coming back..
Hes the saturn.. Im not going back though...
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pepper
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posted May 17, 2011 01:58 AM
Hi all...This post comes at the correct timing... If Saturn is all about longivity and meaningful fated relationships, what I had is the opposite... short, head scratching incomprehensible and totally meaningless. We have Sun mutually sextile each other's Saturn (EXACT degree) and we have composite Sun conjunct Saturn (EXACT degree), yet this is the shortest, most incomprehensivable relationship I ever had. Long? Nah, it stopped before it started and sure, it hurts like hell... at least on my side but from him, its just mere silent treatment as if I have never existed in his life... no reply even if I messaged a "Hi" and I only msged once this month after he started avoiding me. After one year plus of knowing each other, he just stopped communicating He has his Jupiter and Saturn on my ascendant libra (Exact and 2 degree). His pluto trine my Moon (Aquarius) and Venus (Gemini) (<1 degree) and is in the same sign as my mars (libra). His Venus is in the same sign as my Mars. Our Venus trine (<1 degree). Yet, somehow, It started to feel as if I am the only one affected emotionally and this has always been my one-sided affair.. yet I know it wasn't true before. I'm hurting and he is giving the silent treatment, nonchalently. Why can't he just say "No", "it isn't going to work", "I've fallen for someone else" instead of giving the silent treatment, suddenly. Maybe it is his Venus conjunct Pluto natally in libra (Exact) or his Sun conjunct Uranus in scopio (Exact) or that his Venus and Saturn are in the same sign in libra that explains his bad behaviour. But isn't it more mature to just end it nicely, retain some friendship, part on good terms? Why the unfathomable silence? I understand love can come and go, and that it is always a matter of timing and circumstances... but his behaviour is driving me crazy. What does he want? End things as if we are nothing more than mere strangers? Can anyone provide me a clue on why he is treating me this way?
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pepper
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posted May 17, 2011 02:06 AM
And yes.... I have did the shameful embarassing action of deleting and adding back his contact in my phone, messenger and whatsapp... currently... he's on my block list/mode for all of them... maybe in a few days-weeks i'll muster the courage to cut contact - delete!!! IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted May 17, 2011 06:10 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Hmm.. sounds like a very powerful combination.
You have the realism of Saturn combined with the broadness of view of Jupiter and the will to succeed of Pluto.. wow.
Thanks for the reply, all three are in libra, house two. IP: Logged |
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