posted April 09, 2003 01:32 AM              

Me? Stubborn? Oxy c'mon you know me better! LOL

posted May 21, 2003 03:09 PM              

An Aquarian woman I know dated a Libra ex boyfriend of mine (because he was my ex, she was very competitive and dated my ex's, she was obessed with what she couldn't have, nothing was ever enough.) and he had a nervous breakdown due to their sex life. She was very sexual but in a demeaning way.

If you are sensitive it's not a good way to go. Go with a Libra or Gemini if you like air signs with mercury in cancer or scorpio they are more intense and capable of deep emotions which are necessary for a lot of intimacy which you would like. Scorpio or Cancer are good lovers. Gemini and Libras too, Libras love sex, just nod your head and they are right there. Just make sure they are the one you want, because they play for keeps. If a good sex life is important to you, Libras, Scorps, Cancers, and Geminis are a must. You want someone who is idealistic not pessimistic about life, someone you can turn to when you are down to reassure you and see your inner worth. Then you will have to worry about too much sex in your life.

You have to ask your self if you are willing to take what's good and leave the rest, or do you need a man for better or worse? How much do you want to seduce a man when he could seduce you? You need to be honest with yourself and be free of the need of sex to share yourself with another. Aquarians can really teach you how to be free, if that's what you want. Pisces needs positive reinforcement, you need positive people around you. Are you thinking positive thoughts when you are around this man?

It helps if he has venus in pisces.

If you want to continue with your obsession and I warned you, start with a massage if he has venus in capricorn, and leave him alone afterwards. Do not try to make it sexual-ask that he make you happy in other non sexual ways. Watch him carefully and tell him how much you enjoy him, tell him you get off just watching him and then LEAVE. Be objective not emotional, and he will come to you. If you want that kind of love you can have it, but every time my ex Aquarian boyfriend wanted me when I was ready to kill him. He loved to brag about what a great lover he was and how good he was in bed with other women. This made me very jealous and I was forced by my emotions to act out and treat him in a way that was uncomfortable for me. He had venus in pisces. He said I tortured and teased him and he loved it. I can't live like that. Life is not all about what's in the bedroom and I need to be the ONLY ONE. I spent a lot of time seducing him but I chose a Libra with mercury in Scorpio and a lot of planets in the 4th house instead. I am careful but serious about who I commit to. I'm a Taurus so I need peace, with a Cancer moon in the eighth house, Neptune conjunct the Ascendant in the 12th house, love lots of intense but positive loving. Physical is great as long as it's not just about sex, affection is good too. Imagination is good too. I'm not saying I don't find Aquarians sexy, but then I find Bones on Star Trek sexy too, so it takes some imagination to even find Aquarians sexy in the first place. Imagination that could be put to better use working towards a goal.

Seriously check out Libra, Scorpio, or Gemini lovers. Pisces, Aries, Taurus, Capricorn, Leo, Virgo lovers are great but too insecure for me. Yes I have had all the signs as lovers. I think you will be satisfied with the no exchange or refund policy. They are brooding and intense with sexuality bubbling just under the surface. It's like the difference between Spock and Bones on Star Trek. Remember how intense the Doctor was? He was hot. If you like that don't go for Spock or the dippy Captain. It may sound like I am know it all but I have had several Aquarian lovers in my life and I take notes because I want to publish my autobiography one day complete with names, dates and times;>. When I say lover I do not always mean sex, sex, sex, I mean being intimate which is something else. The usual is boring, I decide what's a lover or not, I do not need anyone else to decide for me, I do not judge by what Cosmo tells me. Lovers talk too. Love yourself honestly, and the rest will follow.

On the Lighter Side of Life:
When I am trying to save someone I think about all the other causes out there, the environment, the Rain Forest, AIDS, orphans in Russia, The Homeless, The Hungry, the Unwanted Children in Romania, Greedy Politicians, Bad Lighting, Colours that Clash, Bad Interior Design, Faulty Wiring, Tornadoes, Clothes that do not Fit, Old Shoes...I do give a lot of my time to charity and I meet a lot of Pisces people who are happy.

Have you ever had sex with this man? Did YOU enjoy it? If so great, leave it like that. If not then it's not getting better. Find another Lover.

What I have found is men are better at friends than lovers anyway. It's better when you are real friends first. They are born and told to have sex means to be a man, being friends frees them of that conditioning. Why force someone to live a lie? If you want to have hope you have to give it. Try meditating every day and say I have given and now I can receive.

posted May 21, 2003 03:20 PM              

It's true i do find it stressfull the fact that i cant simply "go out and get laid" but its nowhere near as satisfying.

And i havent actually met a Libra except my dad that i liked/liked me at all yet - and thats just as friends!

posted May 21, 2003 03:42 PM              

It's not friendly when there are no labels because we need labels to know who is a whole person and who is uncomfortable with being honest. Sometimes labels help clear the confusion. Man, Woman, Husband, Boss, Wife, Pastor, Lover, Father, Mother, We lack faith in ourselves and when we are intimate we need faith. You can't ignore the labels, they are important.

This has a lot to do with the Sun opposite my Neptune, and Neptune opposite my Saturn which is conjunct my Sun, and if you have this aspect or the square you know where I am coming from.

We need to keep lovers and friends separate in our mind at the start to avoid real confusion and keep everything very clear. Aquarians always talk about respect but they find it hard to give. My little brother is an Aquarian so we have this talk often. He's a brilliant guy, but I want to make sure he learns to value people as he grows up. He thinks I'm too serious, but he seems happier when he's serious.

posted May 22, 2003 09:44 AM              

They bring a whole new dimension when it comes to sex, which makes it all the more exciting if their partners are open and uninhibited. Stick in the mud types are now forewarned! Openess and communication brings out the best in Aquarius

They are marvelous. They must connect on the mental level to be fully present and engaged. Then they'll do almost anything you ask. If not, they are truthful and it will show in their body language. I will make a bet that if one asks questions, they will answer the most truthfully and authentically out of all the people in the Zodiac.

Now that, I believe makes the best kind of lover. Being attentive, present, and truthful.

posted May 23, 2003 09:05 PM              

Aphrodite-I think Aquas are only "present" when they're feeling connected.

posted May 26, 2003 12:04 AM            

Never, never chase them. They will run like the hounds of Hell are after them, and they are swift runners.

Engage them in intellectual pursuits or friendship. The way to the Aquarius heart is through friendship 1st. Fact is, Aquarius has problems sorting out the differences between friends and lovers.

Stay up to date on what's new, that's where they live. Remember, they are children of Uranus, always remember this.

A relationship with an Aquarius is bound to be outside the norm in many areas. If you attempt to normalize the relationship and succeed, you will probably destroy it, having lost the unique quality that made it attractive to them in the first place. The best response you can illicit from an Aquarius is, "you surprised me," "I never know what you will do next." When they have you all figured out, look out!

Remember also that Aquarius is very tolerant. They will accept your rules of life at face value, which is not to say they will live by your rules but they will expect you to do so. Fail in this and they will think you a hypocrite. Color them gone.

Pray they are not also a Venus in Aquarius or they can do without the day to day interaction most signs require. If fact, a long distance relationship may be just fine with them.

jwhop

posted May 26, 2003 12:17 PM              

Plus, I am not that aloof- I am very very Aquarius except for that whole space thing. Well I need my independence but I love having people around all the time!

posted May 26, 2003 01:15 PM            

I remember when buddies were content to just go fishing together.