posted December 06, 2003 01:30 AM              

An Aqaurius guy was pretty much the first love of my life (I say pretty much, because there was a guy I loved before him, but it was different, maybe that has to do with that guy having been a Leo), in the sense of he pretty much was everything to me for 2 years, and we weren't every really in a relationship (of course he loved that part of it!, we were always "best friends".

He was sarcastic, and sometimes downright mean when it came to some of the stuff he said, but what always got me thru it were those moments, when the clouds parted and he was just about the most beautiful being I had ever seen, when he would say or do something so out of his character that it would catch me completely off guard, and I could do nothing but love him for it. It's been 4 years since I first talked to him, and we are still very close, of course we are FRIENDS!! I'm a Leo (Aug 16th 84) his bday is (2/12/79). I know, the opposites. One thing I loved that we both read together in Linda Goodmans Love Signs, Leo Woman-Aqua Man, was where she says how he will catch you off guard, when you are crossing the street, and that is when he will say he loves you. Now, that we are strictly plutonic (before during those two years it was more of a friends with benefits occasionally deal), he tells me he loves me all the time. I guess its easier cause he knows I won't like crash the car or something, as would my reaction have been back in the day. He tells me everyday to break up with my current boyfriend, to the extent that I can do nothing but laugh.

I think everyone needs the Aqua experience, it's one of real growth and realization. Even after all the tears, and all the times my feelings were hurt and all the times I cried, I really feel that the time was well spent, and that he and I will continue to be close regardless for a very very very long time (never say forever with an Aqaurius.. lol.. unless u are talking about a non "mush" *as he put it * subject).

posted December 08, 2003 12:45 AM              

Or would he get along better with the Pisces with Cancer Moon and Capricorn Rising???

GOTTA KNOW!!!

.gloria

posted December 09, 2003 06:17 PM              

A Taurus can go both ways, friends/lovers, in every way. A Taurus does not like to be dependent romantically especially with an Aqua moon, those gushy feelings might be repressed. Unless you are willing to work on unrepressing them, then try to slowly.

I feel that Caps and Taureans take the longest to make up their minds about anything. So I have left a few by the wayside. Even though I am a Taurus I can say sometimes we are better left alone.

I will tell you about an Aqua, this is the best way to seduce one. I kissed him for no reason in public and he was shocked. Then he didn't call me. That's a good way to seduce an Aqua, and that's a great way to seduce a Taurus-don't call or chase and wait for the Bull to come to you.

If the Taurus doesn't come to you, then be very direct and to the point. If there is still no offer then move on. The Taurus will eventually come around and make a more interesting offer when he/she is more desperate for your attention/ or sentimental.

An Aqua is seduced best by a fast impulsive kiss, then send him a card with a small gift for no reason nowhere near his birthday or a holiday. Make it a serious gift, not a joke gift. Then send a couple more gifts Anonymously.

Then call and ask what's up? Make sure you do this over a year's time. This will give you some time to get to know him and he/she can get used to you from a distance.With Aquas, it's all Pow and then draw back, Pow and draw back, am I right?

posted December 09, 2003 10:16 PM              

Thanks for the super cool post to me.

Your "steps" are quite hilarious and yet so true because that's exactly what's happened. I'm in that last phase where I've been firm (in a soft way letting him know I miss him "sometimes") and now have back off.

He's also got Merc in Gemini & Venus in Aries. I'm the Libra with Cancer Moon. The Pisces with the Cancer Moon also has Venus & Merc in Pisces. Yuk for him right? Or wrong? (Hee hee)....

.gloria

posted December 10, 2003 11:55 AM              

If the Pisces is not discriminating enough, it can wound the Taurus senses, because a Taurus likes to think he/she is made of finer stuff! Emotionally you have to be a rock, but capable of dealing with the ebb and flow of life.

posted December 10, 2003 10:05 PM              

You make perfect sense to me. So right on...

I'm about the most free-spirited girl ever, and I'm not a "victim" even though I've been through pure hell in my life. I talked to this Pisces girl for a long time on the phone hoping to truly become great friends with her. She seemed so NEEDY and kind of defensive and in the end, and I mean I REALLY wanted to like her, even if it meant she was perfect for my Taurus friend, she came across totally SNEEKY!

This, my friends, is the reason why I have reservations about her being right for him AND BEFORE YOU JUMP ON ME... I've never said not one thing about her to my Taurus friend. NOT ONE... I mean, I'm smarter than that. Let HIM figure it out for himself. It would be insane for me to say it. You know what I mean?

I've never lied to him ever ever, and he knows it. Sometimes guys will put up with a lot of bull from a girl because for one reason or another he just has to have her right then. I'm sure you know what I mean.

So...
gotta let things be and in the meantime, I've made it clear that I'm his friend for life. I just cannot tell him in all honesty that I'm happy he's with her. So I just say nothing.

I love your thoughts!! Keep'em coming!

Thanks,

.g

posted December 14, 2003 12:08 AM              

I had a sizzling Aquarius with Scorpio Rising!!! Wham Bam! You better know what you're doing out there!

I'm unscathed...
:
.gloria

posted December 14, 2003 12:22 PM            

juniperb

posted December 14, 2003 04:21 PM              

Thank God your profile thing says you're in Virginia, for a moment there I thought we had the same lover. The Aqua with Scorp Rising also had Moon in Taurus and Merc in Cap!!! My god... you are lucky. However, he had Venus in Pisces and Mars in Aqua.

He was the 15-year-long "thing" I was talking about, until he got married and I ended it. He wanted to keep going which turned me off 100%. That was it! All those years I thought he was my soulmate until then.

But I know your guy probably ain't like that. He's intelligent and extremely helpful to everyone who comes to him. That's the good side.

.gloria

posted June 29, 2005 06:21 AM              

Here goes...

Well I'm 'involved' (think that's probably the best way to describe any relationship with an Aqua! ) at the moment with an Aqua guy who I've known for around 2 years. We got together in October last year and for me (seemingly for him also at the time as he talked of marriage etc) it was the relationship I'd been waiting for all my life.

To cut a long story v.short, he asked me to move in with him at Christmas and we've been living together since March this year. If you want to know the kind of emotional turmoil you can encounter with an Aqua, please refer to my other thread cheerily entitled "Please help me... think I'm going mad!" also on this forum!

posted June 29, 2005 06:22 AM              

I'm a strange mix myself I have to realise. I'm a Libran sun, with Cancer rising and a Capricorn Moon (hence the name 'Cardinalgal' as I'm made up of 3 leaders all warring for supremacy within me!) and I can be very needy/clingy sometimes thanks to my Cancerian feelings. Other times, I can be as cool and aloof as any air sign with their mind on something else, and good old Capricorn makes me very practical about the whole thing

I read something in a book the other day which went right to my core about Aquarians, so much so that I wrote it out and stuck it on my computer to remind me of it's wisdom every day. It was actually advice on how to deal with men in general but I think it fits Aquarians (and this thread) so perfectly.

"Don't be needy or clingy. Love them no matter what they do. You're big enough to do that."

posted June 29, 2005 06:37 AM              

Aqua Sun, Moon and Mars and possibly Venus in Aqua too although we have yet to have his chart done conclusively. Thought he was Pisces Venus at first (Relationship signs tables says he is) but other sources disagree. If he is Venus Aqua, that gives us a Venus Trine Pluto one way and a Sextile Pluto the other so either way I'm happy If it's Pisces, we still have the Sextile Pluto one way and no aspect the other.

posted June 29, 2005 11:22 AM            

My last ex is an Aqua we broke up 5 mnths now and I still feel him very much my feelings for him have not died down one bit, if the flame tends to burn out something happens and it flares right back. It is something mystical I will tell you that,but I know that youknow already.. It is so much to this story I could go on for awhile just letting you know that here is another women that has been mesmerized by the Aqua man.

Him
Sun-Aqua
Asc-Gem
Moon-Sag
Merc-Aqua
Venus-Cap
Mars-Sag

Me
Sun-Pisces
Asc-Aqua
Moon-Aqua
Merc-Aqua
Venus-Aqua
Mars-Aries

posted June 29, 2005 11:43 AM              

Mama Mia you sound just as wistful as I feel Big old hug coming to you for everything it sounds like you felt/feel for this man. I'm still not sure I'm going to make this work. Had another minor setback today in the self-confidence/emotional surity department and it's sent me off into my usual Cancer rising response of punch them before they can punch you! Lol.