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Topic: Saturn in Synastry
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astro junkie unregistered
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posted February 04, 2004 12:28 PM
Anything with Neptune and/or Pluto tends to bring about the pastlife/soul mate thing....gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
starflower Newflake Posts: 15 From: UK Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2004 01:05 PM
Really Gloria? So I should also be looking at our Nep and pluto aspects too?Its weird, although I am the kind of person who tends to like almost everybody she meets, I do keep myself back from getting too close until I am really knowing them well. With him, I find emotional and physical intimacy so easy. Thats what made me think about some karmic thing. IP: Logged |
trillian Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2004 01:15 PM
You know what gloria? Funny you should ask that! Arroyo has another entire book devoted to Karma and the influence of the outer planets! I can't recall the title...I have it at home, so I'll look for you later.My fave of his is still "Relationships and Life Cycles," which I quoted from earlier. It's really accessible, though it's not always completely linear. It's transcribed from a long seminar of his...wonderful book, you'd love it, folks. IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted February 04, 2004 02:12 PM
Geez, I'm beginning to suspect you have Stephen Arroyo stocks or something, Trilly, what with the amount you toot his horn. You know, I can never find any of these good, meaty astrology books in the bookstores. Do you HAVE to purchase them online or something? All the bookstores ever have are books about sun signs and horoscopes for the year, and simplistic stuff like that. Has anyone here read Liz Greene's book 'Saturn: A New Look at an Old Devil'? If so, what does she have to say about Saturn in synastry, especially the hard aspects? I have to say, that with my current beau, Saturn is already rearing it's ugly head. *cringes at the thought of Saturn's wrath for calling him ugly* I'm already feeling frustrated in this relationship, like it's got such a long way to go, but for some reason, the idea of giving up is unthinkable. We MUST work it out, that's all there is to it. No matter the price. IP: Logged |
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posted February 04, 2004 02:39 PM
Starflower -Yes, look at those aspects. I have to go in a bit so I'll try to provide more tips on that later this evening. Can't wait to hear more on Arroyo...
Lioneye - You have to find one of those "alternative" bookstores. Look under Metaphysical stores, etc. Sometimes Spiritual... stores. If not then the Internet. .gloria
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starflower Newflake Posts: 15 From: UK Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2004 02:50 PM
Gloria thanks. Lookie here at what I got on the synastry - wow;Moon Opp Pluto Venus Sex Neptune (both ways mine and his) Venust trine Pluto (both ways) Mars sextile Neptune (both ways) Moon trine Nep Just to clarify we have Venus conj Venus and Venus conj Mars and Mars conj Mars (phew I hope you are not as confused as I am now!!) I wonder if he is open to looking into past life regression together..maybe I should ask him. IP: Logged |
trillian Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2004 06:59 PM
Ladies, tonight I don't have time to transcribe more Arroyo, but I will do so as soon as I can! lioneye, I do like his work very much. The other book is called "Astrology Karma & Transformation." It's pretty intense stuff. I like the other one better. I got them through a company I used to use to get charts till they became available free on the internet. I think their website is www.astrocom.com The biggest thing is that Saturn is not necessarily negative...it's just that it teaches us lessons, and most of us don't wanna learn. I've read that book, lioneye, New Look at an Old Devil, but I don't personally own it. I think a friend might, and if she does I'll see if I can borrow it. And yeah, it's hard to find the meaty books, unless you live in near a major city with a metaphysical bookstore...*sigh* IP: Logged |
Jazzebel unregistered
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posted February 04, 2004 08:16 PM
I already ordered the Arroyo`s relationship book you mentioned , Trillian . Via amazon.com , used book for $ 5 (seller says its a new one). I always order thru amazon.com, very cheap..cant wait to read that book.IP: Logged |
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posted February 04, 2004 10:38 PM
Starflower!!!!Lordy!!! You are either cursed, or you are the luckiest girl in the world!! .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
trillian Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2004 09:30 AM
Jazz, I can't wait to hear what you think of that book!I've bought lots of books from Amazon, and I often go to half.com too for used books. They're very inexpensive, and half.com is a subsidiary of ebay, but you buy w/o bidding. Another favorite place is www.abebooks.com It's a clearing house for booksellers all over the world! You can find nearly anything, from really inexpensive used books, to rare collector's items for thousands of dollars.
lioneye, is it impossible for you to buy on the 'net? Because it's often so inexpensive to buy here. On the abebooks site, the Liz Greene book you want is as low as $6. It's $5 on half.com. And the Stephen Arroyo book I like is available on half.com also for $5.
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted February 05, 2004 12:12 PM
No, it's not impossible for me, I mean I have a credit card. I just don't feel comfortable using it online. I'm a scaredy cat, I know...it's from all those years spent with a Virgo/Cappy rising, Saturn in the 2nd house. Super paranoia when it comes to protecting material assets.BUT, I'm just going to have to get over it if I ever want to get my hands on some of these books, now aren't I? When it comes to understanding Saturn, I think we ALL need to be more aware. Ok, class... Stephen Arroyo or Liz Greene's books on Saturn have now become manditory reading. hee hee. IP: Logged |
Jazzebel unregistered
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posted February 05, 2004 12:30 PM
Trilly, what Arroyo`s book you like most? I am cuurently very interested in relationship/synastry books, Karma astrology books and Predictive astrlogy. I read something you posted before from relationship Arroyo`s book and it got me so stunned - I went to amazong.com and ordered the book right away. lioneye, I also am hesitatnt when oprdering on-line, thats why I called Amazon.com customer service on the phone and signed as a member via phone, I didnt want to send my credit card information via Internet. (the guy was a bit surprised but did it for me) Now once you become a member of amazon, you dont need to type your credit card number every time, just order awaytrilly, I am going to see half.com and abebooks, looking for Liz Green`s "Astrology and Fate", ever read it? IP: Logged |
starflower Newflake Posts: 15 From: UK Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2004 12:43 PM
Gloria, your assessment makes me not know whether to laugh or cry or run for thei hills! We've just started to get serious, after a few false starts, so I'll keep everyone updated. Like I said I do feel something that I have never experienced in any other relationship, some connection. And also like I said, I feel that its not perhaps the love of my life, but I think its going to be an interesting ride - especially with his Sag Sun/Sag Merc and that mouth of his! IP: Logged |
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posted February 05, 2004 10:07 PM
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beverley unregistered
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posted February 06, 2004 03:48 AM
Hi Is it alright if I poke my nose into your topic please and do the "me, me, me" thing?? Trillian, Lioneye etc etc you seem really clued up on this Saturn thing, could you look at this for me please. Maybe you can give me the answers I can't find:- My Moon Trine His Saturn My Venus Opposed His Saturn (Does this say marriage?) My Mars Sextile his Saturn My Jupiter Opposed Hia Saturn My Saturn Trine His Saturn My Satuirn Trine His Neptune My Saturn Opposed His PlutoMy Saturn Conjunct His Aquarius Asc My Saturn in His 4th House His Sun Trine My Saturn His Moon Trine My Saturn His Mercury Trine My Saturn His Jupiter Trine My Saturn His Saturn Trine My Saturn His Saturn in Libra Trine(?) My Acsendant Gemini His Saturn in My 1st House if this doesn't sound too soppy, when I'm with him I feel like I've come home! Although they say the one with Saturn is the one in charge, I don't feel at all in charge when I'm with him I feel he's the "big protector" : ) If you have time to comment on ALL the above aspects I'd really appreciate it. Thanks Beverley IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted February 06, 2004 01:21 PM
Hi, Beverly! You said quote: My Saturn Conjunct His Aquarius Asc My Saturn in His 4th House
How can both of these be true? If it's conjunct his asc, it can't possibly be in his 4th house. WOW, tons of Saturn aspects between you and your hubby. I would say you are with this man until the bitter end, which might not be so bitter, as Saturn should inject a lovely stable, tried, true and trusted flavor to this relationship. And Saturn does tend to bloom later in life, when we have finally managed to resolve our own Saturn issues. Saturn is about solidifying that which had loose ends hanging out. You have to either snip them off, or tie them up. Then you're nice and secure! LOL IP: Logged |
trillian Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 06, 2004 04:14 PM
I've been buying stuff on the 'net for years with credit cards, no problems. *knocks on wood*Jazz, I like Arroyo's "Relationships and Life Cycles" best, the one you ordered! And I can't wait to hear what you think of it...gosh, I hope you like it after I built it up so much! I haven't read the Liz Greene book you mentioned, but perhaps I should... Beverly...you have some mutual Saturn aspects that could indicate strong karmic ties. Generally, according to Arroyo, if Saturn aspects the sun in synastry, it's the Saturn person who has valuable lessons to teach in the relationship--it does not necessarily mean the Saturn person has complete control in the relationship. And as with all of astrology, it comes down to the individuals involved and what they're willing to put into a relationship. Rule #1: "Astrology indicates, it does not compel."
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beverley unregistered
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posted February 07, 2004 04:05 AM
Hi Lioneye I don't think I worded that properly! I meant My Saturn is Aquarius and so is his Acsendant, sorry : ) Unfortunately we aren't married, it's just that I adore him and would like to see it work and wondered what all this Saturn meant? Not even sure how to describe our relationship right now. He keeps getting close, then pulling away. So wondered if the answers were her? Thanks BeverleyIP: Logged |
beverley unregistered
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posted February 07, 2004 04:06 AM
P.S. There just seems to be SO MUCH Saturn, is this normal, good or bad?IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted February 07, 2004 02:30 PM
Beverley -To me it seems you have great Saturn aspects. Wonder why he's pulling away? Sometimes Saturn can place a lot of demands on a relationship, and if he starts to feel that, he might need to pull away. Or it could be due to other things. .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
beverley unregistered
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posted February 09, 2004 01:57 AM
Thanks guys. Trillian, as you have that Arroyo book any insight on these Saturn aspects? Looking forward to your next transcription Thanks againIP: Logged |
Ariesrocks! unregistered
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posted February 09, 2004 06:24 AM
Great great thread!I don't think Venus square saturn is good in synastry, it can make both people actually dislike one another. Sun/moon square saturn can be a very strong aspect I agree, the ones that are very hard to deal with if you have to break up.
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted February 09, 2004 01:35 PM
Hmmm. Nope, can't say I agree with you, AriesRocks! My Saturn squares my sweetie's Venus, and we like each other ALOT! His Saturn opposes my Venus, so it evens the score in that respect. You know, I don't think any aspect involving Venus ever feels "yucky", even if a negative aspect. Being in aspect to Saturn would definately challenge Venus to "prove herself", thus not allowing Venus to cover things up with hearts, roses and perfume, as she likes to do, but rather, to be REAL in her affections, and to DEMONSTRATE them. This can definately result in a very solid, committed relationship...if maybe a little lacking in the warm fuzzy romance department. But that part usually cools off within the first few years of a relationship anyway, so it's not the end of the world. What would you rather have? a.) romance, and no commitment to one another, or b.) a strong and reliable commitment, but less frequent romantic moments? The answer would totally depend on the individual, me thinks. Personally, I'd prefer the commitment, but my Venus is modified by a tight trine to Saturn in my natal chart, so it's no stranger to Saturn's demands.IP: Logged |
trillian Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 09, 2004 03:32 PM
I have to agree with lioneye and Jazz on the Saturn/Venus thing. Those 'hard' aspects act like glue. They can demonstrate lots of karma, and of course all that depends on the rest of the synastry aspects, too.Beverly, I'm not an astrologer, and if I were I woulndn't analyze only Saturn aspects between you and your boyfriend to determine the longevity or purpose of your relationship. Really I think this entire thread has already given you loads of information to mull over, and you've received some personal advice as well. So I'm not sure what else I can offer you. If you have specific questions, throw 'em out and if someone has an answer, s/he will share it. IP: Logged |
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posted February 10, 2004 01:51 AM
Trillian Hi, thanks, you are right - I know I'm looking for answers that I can only get from time and the people involved. It's time that's the killer don't you think?The purpose of the realtionship? That's a good question to put out there now that you mention it?! : ) Thanks for your time beverley IP: Logged | |