posted April 16, 2004 08:43 PM         

I need a bit of help here. Venus in Aquarius for a man means exactly what? That they are total morons when it comes to relationships and are non committal??

posted April 16, 2004 09:13 PM         

"VENUS IN AQUARIUS

The native is extremely fond of mental pursuits and he becomes deeply involved with his friends and in helping others. He is energetically faithful to his friends and he would rather suffer himself than to deceive a friend. On the other hand the native will suffer vivid depression and unhappiness when such an attitude is not returned. He will suffer great disappointment if he is let down by friends. He must be warned about the danger of these periods of obstruction and difficulty concerning his friends.

The capacity for artistic expression is enhanced and, with the proper training, the ability for singing, music and acting can be developed."

posted April 17, 2004 01:21 AM         

With Venus in Aquarius, one would require a great deal of freedom in relationships and will resist being tied down. They are also willing to provide this freedom to their partner, and they are not jealous or possessive. They look at your feelings intellectually and can appear aloof or impersonal to others. This Aquarian detachment gives them the ability to stand back and look at the situation more clearly. But they must avoid becoming so distant that they cannot empathize with their loved ones and offer them solace.

They may have felt that love was not freely expressed in their home when they were growing up. One challenge they face is to learn to be warm and understanding in love relationships. It is very important to them that their lover be a friend as well. (This would hold true for sun, moon and rising Aquarians as well)

In their love relationships they prefer a partner who is unique and a little off-beat by society's standards. They need a lover who can respect their need for personal freedom and their own individual identity. Because they are so afraid of being tied down, it is difficult for them to establish and maintain long-term love relationships.

They are rebellious and "negatively suggestible" in their love affairs. That is, the best way to get them to do something is to demand that theu do just the opposite. They can be extremely stubborn at times and can turn ice cold when they are hurt (or, more likely morally offended). Once they have committed themselves to a partner, they are loyal and truthful and are willing to extend the same personal freedom to their lover that they demand from them.

posted April 17, 2004 06:56 AM         

Venus is in the 11th house

Thanks

Oh and you are all soooo full of knowledge, thankyou!!!

posted April 17, 2004 03:29 PM         

Gives a love of friendship, social organizations, reform movements, women, artists, and musicians. One likes to know many people and belong to groups, especially progressive ones. Most of one's friends are likely to be female."

posted April 17, 2004 07:55 PM         

You have to be assertive and demanding morally and emotionally with an Venus/Aqua. A good first date would be where you bring a self help book and start reading out loud all the things you want him to be. Then take him to church and make him lead you to his mother. Just be an Aries.

Read a list of demands and hand it to him and insist he demand the same of you, always talk everyday, if the communication dies so do you!

BTW My grandfather was a Cap with Venus in Aqua and moon in Cancer and he was as devoted and committed as a man could be to his church, children, wife, and community.
REALLY stubborn though and always had to be treated as the King.

Take Care,

posted April 17, 2004 07:57 PM         

You have to be assertive and demanding morally and emotionally with an Venus/Aqua. A good first date would be where you bring a self help book and start reading out loud all the things you want him to be. Then take him to church and make him lead you to his mother. Just be an Aries.

Read a list of demands and hand it to him and insist he demand the same of you, always talk everyday, if the communication dies so do you!

BTW My grandfather was a Cap with Venus in Aqua and moon in Cancer and he was as devoted and committed as a man could be to his church, children, wife, and community.
REALLY stubborn though and always had to be treated as the King.

Take Care,

posted April 17, 2004 08:01 PM         

And never forget to CALL him every week and weekend to see what he's doing and plan on arranging each and every weekend around him. He will be loyal but at a price.

Still we all have our values,
to me it's never put your hand on my butt on the first date or you are out! But I have to respect the Venus in Aqua's backbone, when they say you are out, you are out, control is important.

Stability comes at a COST, but Venus in Aqua is clear about what that is. If you can't commit yourself then don't play the game, after all there are plenty of women with Earth Venuses who do not want to commit unless pushed.

I like Venus in Libra, and Venus in Aqua for fidelity, but I cannot play the game, because I expect people to read my mind and I am not good at keeping in touch, I have no cell phone!

Oh and GET a CELL phone and keep it on!

There you go, that ought to get you to the door

posted April 18, 2004 07:23 PM         

Thankyou

posted September 10, 2004 06:29 PM         

i realize your post was some time ago, but i'm new here and got caught up reading the archives...

i'm a venus aquarius, and to give you some insight, i once read that venus ACTS TO ATTRACT. meaning: your venus sign indicates what you will do to attract a mate...it is how you'll act around those you're attracted to. venus aquarius people usually act UNINTERESTED when faced with an object of desire. when i read this i was like, wow! that is so me! the more i like someone, the less i act like it. it's some sort of weird power thing, i don't know...i want THEM to come to me, first.

anyway, i hope that helps.

posted September 10, 2004 06:55 PM         

But, he will be forever yours if you are his best friend. Laugh with him, have lots of fun with him and his friends and family. Occaisionally, blurt out something off-the-wall weird or strangely humourous, because he likes the strange girl who can make a crazy joke. Even if the joke goes no where, laugh as hard as you can and that will make him fall hard. He will think you are HIS strange girl, but also his best friend. He will be more loyal to you as a friend more than anything else. He can be very loyal, almost to a fault. Here's a good stupid joke to try:

Two peanuts were walking down the street. One was a salted.

posted September 13, 2004 10:32 AM         

Here's what i have on Venus in Aquarius:

He likes flowery language: he is very sensitive and detests anything vulgar. He appreciates independence in love, but idealizes and embellishes it. He likes to please and will do whatever is necessary for this. While always being frank, he is not always faithful.

posted September 13, 2004 10:40 AM         

Venus in Aquarius: can make friends out of lovers and lovers out of friends. Aquarius rules all forms of electronics and electronic communications, so these folks tend to like phone sex.

o.O

posted September 14, 2004 03:55 AM         

Thanks,

-C

posted October 05, 2004 02:04 AM         

I'm a very loving person. I will lay my heart at your feet if I love you. That's exactly the reason why I've decided that earth and water signs are wrong for me..because that's never good enough. I will give poetic compliments, stroke their egos, cry for them even..and it's not enough!

Hell, my ex was a Gemini sun/Aqua moon but his chart had such a Saturnian influence that he drove me mad. He had no complaints about how I treated him but he complained that I was hard to read. Aqua sun/Aqua ascendant! I'm exactly how I appear. Spend less time wondering what's going on in my head and just enjoy now. I wouldn't be with you if you weren't my friend!

The safety in crowds is true. As open as I have been, I've become more interested in charities and large social events. I'm tired of focusing on one human being only for them to disapoint, losing lover and friend in one fell swoop. At least with charity, the thanks is implied. At least with large social events, I'm a cog in the social machine and not the heart.

So when we nail the coffins shut, it's because we have given until we can give no more, it wasn't good enough and we're ripping our hearts back out of your hands.

Or maybe that's just how I feel.