posted March 29, 2006 04:37 PM         

how are you both? I have to say that I am well and truly over this soul mate. Retrospection is such a wonderful thing.

It pained me at the time, to go through it all but my faith was so strong, that I figured the Universe must have had a really good reason.

I had another thread kicking around, about synchronicity biting me again, where I talk about meeting another man, an Aries. Looking back now, I know for sure that the Cancer Soulmate's job was to prepare my heart for the real deal.

They say the best way to forget a man is in the arms of another, lol.

vinita, it sounds as though you have really come a long way. To knock back his invitation, wow girl.....you have grown through this experience.

Selena, that feeling where you can't eat, sleep, or function - it's to do with a very, very, deep love. I had that again when I broke up with Mr Aries in January of this year. Mind you, I am back together with Mr Aries as I type this.....I'm not sure for how long, my gut tells me it's not right.

I would really be interested to know what this Cancer Soulmate is up to, but it doesn't burn me anymore....not like it used to. I am happy to recognise the part that he played in my life and to leave it at that. Having said that, I also hope that I had some impact on his life, even though our time together was very brief.

Thanks for taking me down memory lane.

posted March 29, 2006 04:50 PM         

what's a 6-8 Sun Pattern relationship??? Thank you for the hugs too.

posted March 29, 2006 06:00 PM         

Don't wanna be a ***** or anything but he's cute. LOL.

Go by what you feel.

That's what I do.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

-I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do.

posted March 30, 2006 04:58 AM         

thanks for explaining that. Which one of Linda's books was that in? I'm guessing Relationship Signs....it might be time for me to dust it off the shelf.

I can relate to what you say with my Mr Aries. I'm the one serving and being loyal. Hmm, I have some more to think about now.

posted March 30, 2006 04:52 PM         

I've got at least four of Linda's books and luckily, Love Signs is one of them! It was probably six years ago that I read all of Linda's books. It was at a time when I couldn't get enough info about astrology. But then I diversified and moved onto something else......and then onto something else.....and then onto something else....which makes me a jack of all trades but a master of none. LOL.

I probably read through the Aries/Scorp stuff about a year ago, when I first met Mr Aries but obviously I've not retained much since then. Thanks for the reminder. I'll dig that book out from under the dust and read through the Aries-Scorp chapter again.

posted March 31, 2006 07:41 PM         

pls show what???

posted March 31, 2006 07:44 PM         

How're you feeling after the eclipses??
Have you observed any portents over the last couple weeks about the direction of the coming year for you??

Mr Aries is back in your life again??

{{ love & hugs }}
'Zala

PS: I've always loved what you wrote:

quote:

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I can now look back at my soul mate encounter and accept that he came into my life for two reasons: 1. To make sure I was doing okay in this life. 2. To help open my heart for a future love.

I had locked away my heart and he made me go and fetch the key. It takes someone special to do that. And while I wrote that I thought he may have been sleeping.....perhaps to some extent I was too.

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posted March 31, 2006 07:48 PM         

i think you know how I'm feeling. I've just emailed you, if I've worked out your correct addy.....pls post here if that didn't work.

posted June 25, 2006 01:35 AM         

how sweet of you to remember me. I am very well and happy - thank you for asking. I haven't been to Lindaland for ages - am kind of taking a break from all of my net forums.

You say that you're still single and bored....hehehe, I didn't think those two words went in the same sentence.

I'm still with (or back with) Mr Aries and all is going well there. Even though you are bored, you sound happy. I wish you further happiness.

posted July 05, 2006 10:57 PM         

Nothing makes a man run faster than telling him he's your "Soul Mate" or that you have a "Karmic Connection" or that you're "Meant to be together."

The guy feels trapped; like he has no choice.

I could tell stories on this for days.

I knew a man who was very interested in a girl, until that girl went to a palm reader who told her they were "soul mates." After she told him, all he could see was her faults. Everything she did was suddenly wrong. He broke up with her.

I knew another girl who went to an astrologer, who told her she had a "Karmic Relationship" with her boyfriend. After she told him, he started sleeping around with another girl to prove he was still a "free man." She had to break up with him.

A good friend of mine got a past life reading about her boyfriend.(He was a sailor who had gone to sea and never returned, she had waited for him. Now they were re-united at last!) He had said he was in love with her. After, she never heard from him again.

It has the same effect as saying "I love you, and want to marry you, and have your babies, and be together for ever and ever!!!"

It's just like throwing cold water down his pants.

posted June 16, 2007 07:52 PM         

I am very surprised to see this thread rise to the top. Yes, it has been a long time and much has happened. I never heard from the "soul mate" again. Though noticed, even a year or so ago, he was still on that dating site, still searching for his "soul mate". LOL. As for Mr Aries, I gave him the flick too. I was well and truly over the push me, pull me that he inflicted.

Vinita, I am very well and very happy too and thank you so much for thinking of me. How are you going? What is new in your life?

I haven't been at Lindaland for so long. It's nothing personal against this site, it's moreso that I haven't really been on the net much at all.

The good news is, and Zala had a hand in this, I am now happy with a cappy. His values are well aligned to mine, and he has been very supportive of me, particularly with regard to my children. We've been together now for almost 10 months.

So, yes, Zala is right that I was prophetic in thinking #2 (meeting my soul mate was to open my heart for real love). Sadly, I hoped that I may have had some influence on his life, too. But something makes me think he is so unevolved, he will not awaken in this lifetime.....maybe the next......or the next.....or the next.

posted June 16, 2007 08:20 PM         

I deserve very little credit for that wonderful Cappy you're enjoying -- all I did was just provide encouragement for seeing a wonderful spirit in a little bit clearer light

posted October 15, 2007 02:53 PM         

Actually much has happened-I've come to know a lot about this "unrecognisable soul mate variety" I believe, it's true-when they say time teaches you all and much.

But I'd rather not talk about it publicly.
How's it going in your Wonderland?

posted October 16, 2007 06:09 AM         

wiser hey? Cool, I appreciate your non-desire to discuss facts here, but reading between the lines, I have a feeling you may have just got off that merry-go-love-round.

I hope you are taking all of this learning into your stride. You know, I read recently in a book that if everything is sweet in your life, you're not getting opportunities to grow and learn!

Nice to see you again. Take care.

Hey Zala,

how very sweet of you to get in with a warm hello. (You know, I would have come here in a few days anyhow - I do believe it is someone lovely's birthday!!!)

posted October 16, 2007 12:58 PM         

It's more like for the want of better words
"I keep jumping off the Carousel"