posted July 25, 2005 03:48 AM              

Well you know I am a Scorpio girl and up for the craic, but then again I c an be a pain in the a****. I have met a few Scorp men who are not fun and take life very seriously, so maybe you are better off with a lighter sign (says she in her honesty).

Our son is a Scorp, so I am gonna have to keep my eye on him especially as he has Gem rising and Libra moon - OMG - is he gonna be fickle in love (crosses herself in despair)!

Good luck and have fun sparking one!!!

Love

posted July 27, 2005 10:11 AM              

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The Scorps go for total control of their expression and emotional tide, while Virgo goes for containing the sentimentality and sensitivity that no one else understands (except maybe Scorpio ?).

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This would sum up our relation nicely. I have a 12th house moon, which makes me more unlikely to expose my true feelings, even to him. He *feels* it though, and in the occasional moment that I do spill a tidbit of feeling, or shed a single tear, he will hold me close and accept the gift w/o words. He's like a security blanket; cuddly, warm and safe.

As for the rest of him... I get his wacko sick sense of humor, our teamwork is superb, and in the bedroom? I'm up for anything that kinky man wants to do at anytime! He's always amazed that I don't tell him NO to anything, in or out of bedroom...so does that make him or me easy?

posted July 27, 2005 03:10 PM              

I am delighted to hear your news - I hope you have a fab time with your new man!!! xxx

Hi Scorp lady

Oooohhh that sounds a wonderful union and I can see similar things to the relationship with my Virgo, especially the sexual stuff - they are unshockable arent they. I loved what you said about his wacko sick sense of humour LOL, my hubbie is exactly the same, and at times still makes me gasp and laugh at the same time.

As for who is the easy one - it must be him coz Scorpio women NEVER are, we are the femme fatal but never easy !!!

Enjoy

Love to all

posted December 28, 2005 05:22 PM            

Her Mars was in Scorpio, and I've read that a woman's Mars indicates the type of man she is attracted to. She mistreated every guy she dated, and I figured that so long as her and I remained friends, then things could never get sour.

well... one night she snapped, she smacked me, started crying, told me that she loved me and wanted to be close to me forever. She threw her cell phone against a wall and it shattered into pieces, and she said that she didn't need a single phone number in it, and that she only needed me. We were at a party and everyone was looking at us. I knew this girl's devious history, and I wasn't about to be swayed by her explosion.

We went back to her place to "talk it over", of course I was stupid to think that nothing would happen. She showered me in kisses and tears and kept trying to get in my pants. I sensed I was being used, and I said "I know what you do to men, and if you love me like you say you do, then time will show me, and you can then have me- body and soul."

I laid down with her and we fell asleep. I awoke in the morning, and told her that I'll talk to her later that night and left. We had tickets to a concert and went to her place afterwards. I wanted to talk about our future and what had happened.

All she said was "I don't know what I was thinking, I'm a b**** ." She sat there looking smug with her devious grin on her face. I couldn't believe that her whole emotional display the night before meant nothing.

I've never seen anyone who could throw away two years of PERFECT friendship in an attempt for a one-night stand.

All she could say was "I don't know what I was thinking, I don't really remember what I said last night, but I'm a b**** ."

I couldn't believe my ears. I just got up and left. She went to Tokyo for half a year, after that, but has been back here in this city for the past two years. Every three months or so I call her cell phone, she invariably ignores me... I always leave a quick message... always saying the same thing... how I miss the closeness that we used to have, and regardless of love or friendship, I want to be a part of her life.

She was such a great friend for so long, and I knew she felt it too. I couldn't believe how easily she threw it away for the sake of a one night stand...

posted December 28, 2005 05:49 PM              

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She was such a great friend for so long, and I knew she felt it to. I couldn't believe how easily she threw it away for the sake of a one night stand...

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Nope, I don't think she did any of the things for the sakse of one night stand. I think she just utterly and completly lost the cover of her coolly burning volcanic temper and she is never going to forgive it herself. Nor to you, for that matter. (Yeah, I understand it is completely illogical and unreasonable).

Being Virgo Moon/Mars in Scorpio I can understand the dynamics pretty well. But, this understanding doesn't mean justification.

posted December 28, 2005 08:42 PM            

I'm a virgo female with mars in Scorp.

I am very attracted to Scorpios! I know exactly what you mean about the conversation. I always felt comfortable around him. I could let my guard down and just be myself. We have lovely trines and sextiles with moon, merc, sun , venus and the like. He calmed me. I didn't feel i needed to be in control all the time. It felt good to be with him......

I'm not sure on the devious stuff... Why did she snap? Did you say or do something to cause this reaction? I would say she was ultimately embarassed by her actions... and i agree with AEN in that she has not forgiven herself.... ultimately, i don't think she feels the same..."time will show me-- you can have me body and soul" That's huge coming from a Scorpio. As a Virgo, i know that if i really loved you, then that time would have pased and i would have passed your 101 tests.... I would have known without words what it would take to earn that from you... there is something Karmic between these two signs...

posted December 28, 2005 09:16 PM            

I have no idea why this girl snapped. It was just a regular night, hanging out at a party at her friend's place, and I was only being the buddy that I've always been to her. Suddenly, she sits down and releases a torrent of tears and affection upon me. It was as spontaneous and unexpected as her telling me that it was all a joke for her, the next night.

I was ready to devote my body and soul to her. Although I was entirely content and comfortable as her friend. She was such a wonderful girl, and I was willing to commit to her if she meant all of those endearing words. She treated her boy-toys with outright rudeness (certain individuals I witnessed firsthand) and I promised myself to avoid amorous dealings with her. As a person, she always treated me like I mattered and I never expected her to use me the way she had used so many other guys.

So intelligent and articulate, with her adorable little elf-like Virgo perks. She just seemed too aware of herself and myself to pull something so heartless.

Anyway, I don't know her birthtime, so of course I can't figure out ascendent or house positions, which is pretty crucial.

My planets are as follows-

Sun, Merc, Venus, Jupiter in Scorpio.
Moon, Saturn, Pluto in Libra
Uranus, Neptune in Sagittarius
Mars in Capricorn
Asc- Leo
(All of my planets fall within the 3rd, 4th, and 5th houses, with Mars ALMOST in the 6th, so I'm not quite sure how to interpret that particular planet)

posted December 29, 2005 07:16 AM              

Aen
(Cap Sun/Virgo Moon/Mars in Scorpio)

posted December 29, 2005 03:25 PM            

With me, murkiness is not good... So, since she did know how you felt.. then it would seem that maybe she is a B****lol and you could see through all her "stuff".. Her plan did not work out.. and she is gone... I don't, however, think she would of told you all those things you were hoping she really did mean to just end up with a one night stand...not with a 2 year freindship. Virgos often have tons of Karma to work through...

Have you ever read LG's Relationship signs?
It is very telling about Scorpio/Virgo.

posted September 21, 2006 10:22 AM              

I'm really glad I found this site.  I've been soaking up the details
of what I've been experiencing as one of the most absorbing and
difficult pairings my shut-down, no-relationship-havin-self has ever
had to go through.  And right now I'm suffering, but I know I'll get
some guidance here...

I'm a 31 y/o female Scorpio Sun/Mars/Mercury - Gemini Ascendant -
Venus 0 degrees Sag (so sort of a Scorp/Sag Venus).  The two previous
and ONLY loves of my life have been Virgo Men.

One gave me the one and only tattoo I will ever have (he told me never
to get another, and I will listen), a Tibetan Vishvavajra (diamond
sceptre, seat of enlightened ones) on the base of my spine.  I was a
mess then, and left on one of my frequent jaunts to god-knows-where to
follow a band...I was an aspiring rock journalist.  When I returned to
NYC, he (a transient) had left to return to Montreal.  I think he was
angry that I left so suddenly, and vanished out of abandonment.

The other I spent 1.5 years sleeping, drinking, partying and
inhabiting the live music scene with.  He treated me awfully, was also
a psycho mess at the time, but I loved him so much I stayed w/ him
despite the sexual assault, weird kinky soul violations, betrayal,
cocaine (!!), etc.

I'm now a full-time computer technician, trying to finance an early
retirement to focus on my arts interests.  I started a job six months
ago where I encountered a cool, kind, sweet, serious and brilliantly
perfectionistic twentysomething who was heading up the PC tech team.
I was desperately attracted to him instantly, though I think I was a
bit of a characteristic mess at the time (LOL).  Terrified of falling
in love with a co-worker, I dialed my obsession back considerably, and
after five months, managed to almost put the whole crush out of my
mind.
(whew!)

I've since sharpened up a lot -- I ended up getting a promotion!  And
what did my supervisor suggest to seal the promotion?  Moving me into
the SAME CUBE with said amazingly brilliant, beguiling, helpful and --
did I mention -- absolutely ADORABLE guy.  I freaked for a
bit...unsure I'd be able to handle the refreshed intensity of my
well-controlled feelings.

As all you Scorps out there can imagine, it was a total powderkeg for
me.  The top blew wide off my lidded love-feelings, and have almost
eaten me alive.  I discovered days after the move that he's a Virgo,
and something in me just relaxed, but also sweetened, and deepened.
It's been a bit over a month since the move, and we've shared so much
other than knowledge, jokes, fun, my sweet and artistic silly notes to
him, pranks and practical jokes, sick humor (the best!), flirtation,
shyness, physically close working intensely (like inches from each
other for hours), and separately working (mere feet apart) silence.

Right around the time I moved desks, my home PC broke! After a week of
avoiding asking him for help, I hit a wall and relented.  He knew the
answer in three seconds, and when I brought my motherboard in, he
proceeded to snatch it from me, clean and retool it, and within
another two weeks, replace brackets and fans, add a heatsink, and
totally solve the problem with great care and enthusiasm.  It's about
the sexiest, most wonderful and meaningful thing I've ever
experienced. How ridiculously symbolic...parts of him are permanently
attached to my motherboard, making it work better, for as long as it
will function.  GAHHHH!

I feel like I have shared the most exciting month of my life with him,
and finally, after a scant three weeks, was howling my eyes out to
friends, shattered and renewed by the terrible, amazing realization --
for all his annoying niggling, evil pranks, abstruse unemotionality,
maddening perfectionism, clockwork predictability and tightly-sealed
self-control, I had absolutely fallen in love with this guy!!!

Deus Ex Machina:  He started graduate school on his birthday (9/5), in
computer forensics (swoon).  That week, he began a part-time
schedule...only in on Mondays and Wednesdays.  I soon found out that,
as of the end of this month, he won't be working here anymore.
(**CRASH**)

Where I'm at now:  like the maniac I am, I asked him on a first date
to an art museum in the middle of nowhere on a Sunday, and maybe to
get dinner afterward.  He balked, as he helps his parents to renovate
an old country house Upstate each weekend ("my getaway!" he
protested), allegedly almost done.  I bristled, terrified that I was
even taking such a risk.  He then suggested lunch the next day.  I
shot back more protest because he knows what a perfectionist I am...I
rarely ever take a normal lunch, unlike him, who leaps up and out at
1PM every day.  He made everything quite complicated, and we never
came to an answer.  Yesterday, at lunch, I did the usual -- continued
plowing through tasks, and he too, went out to eat with the Network
team.  I felt confused, hurt, abandoned...

...he's not going to be here much longer, and I'm dying inside.  He's
joked about it a few times ("Ha, bet you'll be glad when I'm gone!"),
to my stony and completely horrified silence (which I hoped conveyed
my total and complete disgust that he'd even insult me with the
thought)...I've given him cute notes and even a copy of my favorite
cyberpunk sci-fi book for his birthday, even a South Park rendition of
him dreaming of binary numbers.

On Harvest Moon this month, I was even compelled to throw a Tarot
reading on the whole situation -- I did a Karma spread (because I feel
our pairing is truly cosmic -- and the answer was the 10 of
Stones...RICHNESS!  It told a fascinating story of courage and
seduction, sacrifice and perhaps a slow beginning...but I'm so
impatient and can be so mistrustful and paranoid, not to mention
self-hating and lacking in confidence.  I feel powerless over my fear
of losing him, and feel embarrassed that he might think I'm just nuts,
and not worth the hassle.  I know all of this, if he knew it, would
scare the living crap outta him, but I am really seeing how deep my
emotions are from this situation, and how a little of his practical
steadiness and reassurance does me a world of good...

In typical Virgo fashion, I've slyly given him my personal email +
phone #, but he hasn't called. I can understand being cautious about
getting into something @ work.  I'm not into demonstrative displays
either (duh), but his caution is being mistaken by me as disinterest
(which it could be)...

Biggest fear:  he's not interested in "that way," wants to be left
alone, and that our friendship will die on the vine.  I don't want to
lose him...I have fallen hard, and am losing productivity over my
despair.  I know it's very UN-VIRGO, and that he's probably just hard
at work in his first weeks of school...not even thinking of me.

Deepest suspicion: that he loves me too, even if only as a friend, but
will need more time and trust for us to come together in any way.

Biggest hope: that we'll become lifelong friends, perhaps lovers
(though fear of ruining that friendship makes me hesitant to go
anywhere!), or at most, life partners who will build artistic and
cybernetic empires, bearing brilliant, kind, intense and enlightened
children, snuggling by a fire in that Upstate house the love of his
hands has built... (*sigh*)

Any comments will be appreciated.  Like I said, I'm so grateful to
have a place to vent...sorry if I went on too long!!!  ;-)

-- PhoenixRisingNYC

He:
Sun/Mercury in Virgo - not sure of ascendant
Mars in Scorpio
Moon/Venus in Cancer (awww, so perfect!)

posted September 22, 2006 11:38 AM              

Well, if any Virgos or other knowledgeable beings can offer some input (other than, "Calm down, maniac!" it would be awesome... :-)

posted July 06, 2012 03:03 AM            

no wonder why me and my best friend clicked the first time we met..
no wonder why we became friends so easily..
no wonder why we feel so much at ease when were around each other..
no wonder why we understand each other without even saying a word! but just through our body language..
no wonder why we could trust each other so easily...
now these are all making sense to me..no wonder why I feel like I could tell him everything without worrying I'll be betrayed or judged (which, as a virgo, I terribly fear of happening). I never felt like this before, seriously, I've never trusted someone so much that I'd be willing to show my flaws, virgos are afraid of criticism (hence, making us perfectionists) ...

posted July 06, 2012 04:29 AM            

What I like about her is that she is honest, innocent, and loyal. She's very highly intelligent, but she has this aura of 'pureness' about her. Even as she learns more about the darker side of the world, she still has that sort of 'clean' air about her. While I do feel like I have to 'behave' with her (as in, not swear, not discuss anything too controversial, etc.), I'm feeling less pressure about that as time goes on, and I do appreciate that being around her motivates me to clean up my act a bit. (Not that I swear a lot, but I still am trying to cut down on it more and more). I feel like we both are balancing each other out: she helps me see the light, I help her see the shadows. I think that she helps me see the good and pure in the world, and I help her to see the mysterious and darker sides of the world: we balance each other, I think. Plus, we both have Libra sun/Mercury, as well as having most of the same outer planets, so we are a lot alike. It's been really funny in our conversations that we've sometimes had the exact same thoughts, verbatim, which we only found out by talking and saying/writing them.

I highly suspect that she has an Aries asc, which would mesh well with my Sag asc.