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Topic: Virgo/Scorpio attraction factor...;)
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Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 524 From: Michigan :) Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 18, 2005 03:52 PM
I know this has been an oft' discussed topic, but seeing as I cannot find any strings on it, I am starting a new one... What drives the attraction between Virgos and Scorpios? What really clicks between them, what poses challenges, from your experiences? Feel free to elaborate on this connection...I'm undyingly curious.------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
steelrose Knowflake Posts: 114 From: Spain Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2005 04:38 PM
Hi Virgo-AA!!I’m a Virgo myself and I’ve had that experience a few times before… Two love interests (the second one, my ex-boyfriend), a few more males and some girlies… I don’t know, it’s weird… They trust us. I think they sense the purity within us. We are both creatures of truth. They instactly get fascinated with the little unpretentious Virgin… They both know a secret, a powerful secret that they only share in silence, eyes touching… The Scorpion knows the Virgin will not try to get them unguarded and try to hurt them… The sweet Virgin knows she is safe with him around… I have found that Scorps are usually misunderstood and feared, people don’t feel confortable around them… But mysteriously Virgins do… Scorp’s piercing stare is unnerving for most, but the Virgin is not intimidated by it… There is nothing to hide in her… And the Scorpion, who secretly craves love, melts with her uninvasive dedication and appreaciation, with her understanding. The Scorpion acts magic in the Virgin, for some reason, maybe because she feels safe and protected… The Virgin relaxes… Her annoying cristicism goes away when he is around because she doesn’t feel threatened… and she feels accepted the way she is… She doesn’t need to be someone she is not to be liked, he sees her inner beauty, stripped from that apparently boring plain appereance. One of the things that make the Virgin feel more miserable and insecure is feeling that she has no space in this world. That she is not needed. That nobody really cares about her. She is not noisy, she is not flashy… She is too quiet, usually overlooked… But the Scorpion regards her, gives her a place and doesn’t use her… The Scorpion has a bastion in her, stopping him slipping to the Dark Side… P.S – The genders I used were just figurative, trying to fit with the symbols… The Virgin, a female, and the Scorpion, a male… Also because the most intense experiences I have had with them have been that way, me a female and them, males… But, of course this is extensive to friends of the same sex or the opposite combination: Virgo male and Scorpio female. I guess…
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posted June 18, 2005 05:23 PM
Wow, what Steelrose said! I've seen it happening between my Virgo/Scorpio lovers and/or friends. They really know how to relax each other. You really described this dynamics so well. If you by chance are interested in some literary versions of Virgo woman/Scorpio man love, then there are two novels that immediately pop to mind when Virgo/Scorpio love is mentioned. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte & Czar's Madman by Jaan Kross. ------------------ No hesitation. No regret. No looking back. IP: Logged |
steelrose Knowflake Posts: 114 From: Spain Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2005 05:53 PM
Hi Aen!!!!Thanks… I havent read Jane Eyre but I did watch the film… And yeah!!!!! I never thought of it under that light… But yes, she is such a Virgo and he is such a Scorp! I never heard of Czar`s Madman… I`m curious now… I`ll try and get it… It may be not that easy since I live in Spain… But I`ll do my best… Thanks!!!
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pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 474 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2005 08:28 PM
That's funny, I went out with a long time Virgo friend last night.I agree with Steelrose. There is something special about the way we communicate. I understand him, we don't even have to talk. He doesn't necessarily understand me, but he loves me, and always has. Not even for my good points. We are comfortable and work well together. IP: Logged |
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posted June 19, 2005 11:09 AM
I agree with the other comments above - honesty, purity, trust, these are all a common link between the Virgin and the Scorpion. An astrologer I know said to me that before Libra came along Virgo and SCorpio were the same sign, I suppose that makes sense as the symbols look very similar. I heard someone say the difference is Virgo looks like legs crossed, Scorpios open ha ha)!!! I find it strange that the person who pulled me the most since Ive been with my Virgo man, is a Libra!!! Love to all and = TRUST XXIP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 19, 2005 12:24 PM
For the first time in my life I have been utterly seduced by a Scorpio man....ive never encountered one before. Oh my gosh, I've been missing out! I sense some danger with him but I'm loving it..and boy can he kiss. Im a Saggie and dont normally go for water signs but this guy looks like a leo...(my moon)..what do u guys think?IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 474 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2005 01:10 PM
Ooooooooooooooh! Do you know his other placements? Maybe he has Leo rising? (I am a Scorpio but I look like a Leo.. due to my very true Leo rising)Damn right we can kiss! Enjoy!!!!!! IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 19, 2005 01:36 PM
Lol, pixie...I'm uttertly seduced and he is dashingly good-looking! He's blonde and blue eyed - hair like a mane. A pisces with leo asc is someone who i care about and am very attracted too ...must be the leo placement. But the Scorpio guy is playing hard to get..I am leaving soon to go home (from my University town) but I think a weekend romance would be great (As a Saggie - freedom is important). I have the placements for the other guy and mine. Sign Me : Him Sun Sag Pisces Moon Leo Aqua Asc Cap Leo venus Libra Aquarius Mars Libra Scorpio Mercury Sag Pisces I'm friends with the above guy but lets say that there is major attraction. But i'm very interested in my Scorpio guy right now! How do I deal with him? Also, I wonder why I am so attracted to water signs at the moment? But I think I like a mix of fire, air and water.
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 20, 2005 05:26 AM
The scorpio guy hasn't replied to my text...is he playing hard to get? Do they like the chase? I'm a sunny Saggie....i don't usually play games...and not quite sure how to handle a hot scorpio male! lol. Linda said in 'Love signs' if u can't handle the passion then run...:-)IP: Logged |
steelrose Knowflake Posts: 114 From: Spain Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2005 07:51 AM
Very true, Sparkling... Linda was a wise woman...Be ready for a rollercoaster. If you don't like intense emotions, control games and harsh cruelty and truth... There is little sunny about them... You will love like ever before but it's a soul trial... Be ready for frequent short trips to hell... You'll get the handle of it if you are patient and look underneath the mask... Then you'll find the fragile child. Once you know their little secret, they don't appear so scary, trust me... I'm a Sag rising, Sag Moon and Sag Neptune, all of them conjunct... Superficial, firey, sunny and blunt, cheerful Sagittarian energy doesn't easily flow with damp, heavy, deep, blocked, icey and sensitive Scorpionic energy... Just be aware and bite your tongue and control your explosions of fireworks... It will be fine... Good luck...
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 20, 2005 08:18 AM
Thanks for the advice...Im thinking this guy has a leo Asc which would ease the scorpio energy for me. I hope to see him soon....i'm a bit infatated to be honest but its summer and fun times ahead!IP: Logged |
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posted June 20, 2005 08:19 AM
"Be ready for frequent short trips to hell"Oh Steelrose, you are a gem - dare I read this out to my longsuffering hubbie - me 5 planets in Scorpio totally identifies with what you are saying there - my only saving grace is I have Aries rising. Dont get me wrong I am great craic when I am out, but to live with....................well you know dont ya? Love to all, and good luck to all who dare to dive into the botomless pit LOL Sue xx IP: Logged |
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posted June 20, 2005 02:06 PM
Virgo/Scorp friendships, pairings are based on the mental/psyche thing ... Both are extremely cerebral -- always thinking, plotting, analyzing, micromanaging ... They both need absolutely trust and honesty to deal with most people, always finding fault with "fake" and "insecere" people ...also, both signs are pretty intense and passionate when it comes to their feelings, convictions and needs and wants (especially sex) ... they will not waver ... and both can hold grudges of life if crossed, plotting ur demise as they deal with u on a daily basis ...lol!!! also, both signs are apt to sit back and watch and anlyze situations, settiing and people ... they are the ones lurking in the corner at parties, scoping out the flaws and weaknesses of the people at the center of attraction -- the more social folks (not that these two signs aren't social beings) ... they prefer not the spotlight but softer, serene light to shine in ... Both signs are quiet souls, intense and have super hard shells but soft innerds ... U better be forthright when dealing with either or there will be hell to pay ...LOL!! Both only open up unless there is super-duper trust and conviction, which both admire and long for in friends .... IP: Logged |
steelrose Knowflake Posts: 114 From: Spain Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2005 06:14 PM
Spot on, CNO!!!! That's a good insight...Are you one of us? Just wondering... To have such a close understanding of our modus operandi, you must belong to the clan... Or have a master degree in Virgo/Scorp behaviour patterns!!! I love feeling so understood... A big majority gets us completely wrong... There are a lot of misconceptions regarding these two signs... IP: Logged |
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posted June 21, 2005 02:18 PM
@STEELROSE ... Yes, Virgo here on Libra cusp with rising Saggie and Leo moon ...I vibe well with Scorps ... same type of guarded, spartan, intensity until we feel comfortable with u .. a scorp will pull out serious latent passions from Virgo, which we keep nicely hidden ... There is a lot of intense energy between the two signs, almost frightening ... cause both have a hard time wavering or backing down, like a mental chess game ... but in the end both are extremely EXTREMELY sensative and look for truth in everything at a distance, which explains the dark, brooding, almost concrete outward appearance the two give off ... and since we are so standoffish with our feelings at times when we're crossed it becomes very VERY personal ...
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 28, 2005 04:49 PM
Am in sooo much trouble.....had dinner with the Pisces guy tonight and i can't help falling for him every time I see him. But I have the Scorpio in ind too..I feel like different people with each guy. The Pisces is a family friend and I feel like I could marry him. The scorpio is for fun. IP: Logged |
steelrose Knowflake Posts: 114 From: Spain Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2005 06:10 PM
I KNEW, CNO!!! I KNEW!!! You had to be!!!! Yes, yes, yes!!! That describes the vibes perfectly!!! We stick like glue, which is amazing for people who are so guarded and inwardly projected…I’m also a Sag rising… conjunct with my Saggie Moon… Sparkling, Scorpios are definitely NOT FOR FUN… Trust me… You’ll get burnt, darling… If you are after one, you absolute need to be serious about it. If you are not, keep away… Don’t mess with Scorps… You’ll get the worst part, ALWAYS… They will respect you if you respect them… Their game can be too cruel for a sunny creature, don’t try to meet them in their own territory… If you truly like the Pisces, go for it. Only if you really want the Scorp and are ready for the sacrifice (it’s worth it if you do… but you have to really want it…) give it a go… Even then, be ready for the sting… But if it’s only fun, RUN… AS FAST AS YOU CAN.
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 29, 2005 06:21 AM
Thanks for the warning about the Scorpio sting....i do like him, I do. But the Pisces guy is someone I care about so much that it hurts and that its a friendship right now...Something did happen between us on New Year and there was still a chemisty.But then I thought it may have been in my imagination, imaginging the long looks etc. IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 524 From: Michigan :) Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 29, 2005 02:55 PM
"Serious latent passion"...yep, totally agree with that conclusion. I've always felt Scorps could see into me with astonishing depth, and know the surface calm coolness, that others mistake for ice and detachment, is only the thinnest of masks, to discourage the weak who are not capable of tangling with my powerful and potent emotions.There is almost this wavering curiousity in me right now, for a particular Scorpio has me utterly and compellingly fascinated, as the moment I reached out to him recently, I was caught up in a serious tome...I thought I was long over him, as 5 years have passed since my 4.5 obsession/interest in him ended because at the time, I thought I stood no chance with him. In those years since I've done a lot of growing up, confidence wise, and emotional maturity wise. I am confortable in my skin in ways I never imagined, and he seemed surprised and pleased that I had made the effort to make contact. His eyes have been the only ones I could almost get wrapped up in, but now I feel I can handle the heat, of being his friend, for he's had ample opportunity to push me away if he'd so chosen... I feel like I'm treading on unknown yet exciting territory, and I can't quite explain why I feel so ready, but I suppose I feel it's much better to give my friendship wholeheartedly, and handle the outcome with pure honesty, however it may lead. He's so intense, but so am I, and my warm affection is profound when I feel there is trust. ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 29, 2005 03:08 PM
Wow, you write so eloquently and described my friendship with my Pisces..something was sparked but I need to go off and do some growing up of my own. The foundations have been built though. Can I clarify something? The ice coolness of the Scorpio is just a mask? so what are they feeling then? I'm a sunny , honest Saggie but I seem to want the heat of the Scorpio....IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 524 From: Michigan :) Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 29, 2005 03:49 PM
Sparkling Sag, I mainly meant the Virgo's ice was a mask, but I'm sure the same could go for Scorps, although their motives are different. The Scorps go for total control of their expression and emotional tide, while Virgo goes for containing the sentimentality and sensitivity that no one else understands (except maybe Scorpio ?).Does that clarify? Relationships I think occasionally require separate quests/journeys that lead away from your beloved, if only so you can come back stronger and more ready to make certain committment. ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 10, 2005 02:06 PM
Okay, I got hurt and burnt:-( He was meant to call me but went away on holiday for a week and he came back. Saw him in the bar I go to with another girl on his arm. He ignored me! Perhaps its a blessing in disguise, I liked him a lot though and didn't expect him to do that. I'm honest and woudl have rather he told me. His friends who I know had the decency to look embarassed at me and a little sheepish. But my Saggie spirit gets a bit down when guys turn out to be players. IP: Logged |
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posted July 21, 2005 11:36 AM
HIS loss Sparkling Sag, not yours - he sounds like another dickhead to me!!!!Love Suexxx IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 612 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 24, 2005 01:46 PM
Lol! Sue - thanks for making me laugh :-)IP: Logged | |