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Topic: Aged love.
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MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted August 25, 2005 12:05 PM
 
YES, a great thread. Is the notion of having a "boy toy" realy that offensive ? ,,,, Cureous- what do the Australians meen by "kiwi men" ? IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7686
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 25, 2005 01:44 PM
No Magus it is a delicious notion, especially as women sexually peak at 40+ and men at 19 - WTF is that all about then, bad design on Gods part - having a laugh if you ask me LOL!!!Do you find young men and older women offensive or not? Does anyone else - be careful guys I am one of them women LOL !!!!!!! Love and stuff
Sue xx
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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posted August 25, 2005 02:42 PM
sue g..
The double standard is stupid!
Two of my brothers are married to women 20..or more years younger! My dad is married to a woman 12 younger!
But I am married to a man almost 15 years younger...and they say I am sick and should act my age!!!!!!!!
Bless my father-in-law! He is so cool! His wife..my husband's stepmother....is 52...he is 69. He thinks it is cool that I am nearly his wife's age, 52 (I am 50) and married to his son(36).It is ok for men with younger...but why is a woman older than her lover/mate often considered a pervert or cradle robber? 
PS. as far as sex..peak at 40?????????
Well desire seems to around that age....but the intensity of the big "O" seems to get stronger the older I get! Yeah! And erotic dreams!
Kind of a cosmic joke that it is the most enjoyable when our bodies are not young! Well
look at Vanessa Redgrave! She is still a most vibrant woman!
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MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted August 25, 2005 03:13 PM
It is like a joke form above isnt it ? Not fair, wish my hormones would naturaly continue to clime towards their peek, not slowly drop over the next two decades. I know I do some things to try and counter act times big rip off, but still NOT FAIR !!! And society realy needs to have its foot thrown in its mass mouth with judgements on big age gaps. Especialy since I find it only natural that women 35 and even much over that have turned me on the most. If anyone who knows me personaly reads this- can you realy see my chimes being rung rite by any girl neer my age, atleast the ones in this country ? I was laughed at by my entire kitchen crew at work a few months back when some jerk let the beens spill that I had a HUGE crush on a secretary who turned out to be atleast 50 [I thought she was more like 45]. Only my manager seemed to recognise my better taste. Too bad she was actualy incredably loyal to her husband [yes, I had to test her]- me and my kcoC would have been her boy toy in a heartbeat of her request ! IP: Logged |
MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted August 25, 2005 03:15 PM
To all allegedly "older women" out there- tell em to shove it ! ROB THAT CRADLE ahahhaha Sereously though- GO 4 IT IP: Logged |
MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
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posted August 25, 2005 03:18 PM
almost forgot- Show the yungins some good disciplin while your at it !IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7686
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 25, 2005 03:35 PM
LOL MAGUS!!!How old are you I am gonna guess 25?
Right on Fayte girl, I am looking forward to being a horny old fecker LOL !!!
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MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
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posted August 25, 2005 03:50 PM
hehehahaha, close Sue- Im 26 till January.IP: Logged |
MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted August 25, 2005 03:52 PM
And if anyone tryes to give me a hard time about seducing 21 year old girls when Im 55 or older- there gona wish they never said a word before Im done with em !IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7686
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 25, 2005 04:20 PM
Ooooh 26 very young, I have a theory about young men that go after older women............how could I put it, they are evolved in more ways than one, hard to explain, its like a maturity beyond their years, do you know what I mean Magus?x x x x IP: Logged |
1scorp
Knowflake Posts: 2066
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Registered: Feb 2003
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posted August 25, 2005 04:34 PM
My brother's wife is 18 years older than him.I dated a man that was 40 while I was 25.
Not for the stereo typical "sugar daddy" reason either. He was fun.  _________________________________
Scorpio sun, venus, mars and mercury
Libra moon and asc. IP: Logged |
MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted August 25, 2005 05:37 PM
Yes Sue, I get ya. Its either those who have accused me of being "a very old soul" are correct, or maybe simply ,that just says something for my subconsous drives having a profound effect on what notions turn me on. Both I think. IP: Logged |
peajie
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 27, 2005 01:16 AM
Aint it annoying when you type a long reply and get told your name is wrong, so it disappears and you have to start all over again.As I was saying :... Some great words about age difference, but I have a comment and a warning:.. Ofcourse there is nothing bad about an age gap, I was referring to the word "toyboy", a bit like "sugar daddy".
By all means use their bodies when young, and their money when old.
(Or their wool if neither, LOL).
But spare them the indignity of a label. It is demeaning to the person who uses it. And the warning?
Age gap does not seem to matter when young. Mine was 17 years behind me.
But it can later when your partner wakes up one morning and realises there is a 70 year old body next to them.
Just at a time when it is too late for the old body to find a replacement partner. IP: Logged |
peajie
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 27, 2005 01:28 AM
APHRODITE..xxx You are a Gem and obviously a very aware being.Yes I am Aqua.. and the number 4 was perfectly correct! According to Linda when I first read Star Signs.
My given name (in full and abbreviated), my addresses (current and previous), my phone number, my Shaman name....EVERYTHING reduced to 4.
Since then I have made many changes to these things, but acknowledge that the real "me" can not escape the role assigned in this visit here. (Back to Peajie Wisdom for more) IP: Logged |
MAGUS of MUSIC
Knowflake Posts: 1495
From: The Highlands,NY,usa
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted August 27, 2005 01:31 AM
As someone who has had to sereously consider the reality of what happens when the others age finnnaly cathces up and rears its so called "less then preety head " Oh well, I wanted to be that "boy toy" I deisred to pleasure the "women of/in her prime" Would I realy stand on any ground to complain when the wrinkels catch up with her ? Nope, I asked for it. What can I do but keep pleesing her,,,and maybe some others in their youth, [for evryones fun and enjoyment of course],in an atempt to help her continue to hold the body's aging back.? As far as me having my money used when Im old.... good thing I know better, especiualy if I do become a legend of my own success before then, any women with my "meat" in her hands, is gona be under the impresion that Im flat broke ! Good thing my face will still look like this even when Im 65 isnt it! [yes, hte Magus is being sereous, German blood is indeed the gift of false youth! ] ahahahhaa Yes, I get infuriated when I spend so much effort replying, then something was tpyed in worng, and my web browser looses the whole posting,, GGGRRRRRRR to computers !!! IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7686
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 27, 2005 04:06 AM
The ones who practise sex magick, rarely age, inside and out, and to their partner.......................they always look beautiful........and if they dont..........you need a new sex magick partner LOL !!!!Life to all xxxx (and love)  IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 27, 2005 12:19 PM
Quote:
Age gap does not seem to matter when young. Mine was 17 years behind me.
But it can later when your partner wakes up one morning and realises there is a 70 year old body next to them.
Just at a time when it is too late for the old body to find a replacement partner.
***************WHOA!
Again...why should that matter? Ok..for example...my husband(third) was 28 when I met him.
I was almost 43. When I am 70....he will not be 28! He will be 55! Also the aging is a gradual thing. He will not suddenly wake up beside me and freak.."Oh my god! You are soooo Old!
My second husband was 18 when we met. I was 33. His mother said to him..."what will happen when she is my age?" She was 56. He said;.."I will be 41. That shut her up really fast! Happily he has remarried again..and another older woman!
My grandmother had 6 husbands. She outlived every one of them! The last was when she was 74. My long passed on friend..like I mentioned before..had a 19 year old lover at 69. My oldest lover was in his 90s...and I was in my teens. OOOhhhh...I can hear some say yucck! Well bite me! Was he rich? Nope! He lived in a two room cabin...and was Russian..and a delight to be with and talk with. Much laughter!
Age and bodies do not matter unless you think they should. As long as the person is clean and interesting..what is the problem?
I know a few people who think they can not find a lover or mate as they get older. But they either refuse to consider much younger....or they complain that the guys their age are old coots or the women hags. Talk about deluding yourself in the mirror!
So...I do not buy into that crap of it's too late. It is all in ones mind. If there is still a will..there is a way!
My aunt is 83.(same birthday as me) She remarried a couple years ago after being widowed and alone for 10 years..after a long happy marriage. But she dated alot during that interlude...so she was not really alone. He is like 20 years younger.
My great grandpa remarried in his 80s a 55 year old.
She only outlived him by 1 year!
So I do not think it is ever too late unless you let it be so!Just my opinion based on personal experience and observation.
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lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 8513
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 27, 2005 12:43 PM
Wow!
Does it ever end, no way, it's just the beginning with 4 comes disruption, and thank God CHANGE.
we are all brothers and sisters, we are all equal, we are all here to help each other.
Let's play nice.
We all have something to learn, and if we don't have something nice to say, well, we shouldn't say anything at all.Love and Light and Understanding IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Knowflake Posts: 3563
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 27, 2005 12:57 PM
peajie ~ quote:
Age gap does not seem to matter when young. Mine was 17 years behind me.
But it can later when your partner wakes up one morning and realises there is a 70 year old body next to them.
Just at a time when it is too late for the old body to find a replacement partner.
I feel compassion for anyone who ever allows themselves to believe it is "too late".....isn't it only too late for this body when the spirit departs for the tunnel and the Light of The Other Side?
Your words say that you are still very hurt by this separation. I would be interested in hearing what coping skills you are employing to "detach", if you would feel free enough to share them.....'Zala IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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posted August 27, 2005 12:59 PM
Lotus....?????????????????
HUH??????????????
I did not say anything not nice! Except the bite me! Just stating my case!
Weird.......   IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 8513
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 27, 2005 01:09 PM
sORRY FAYTE, me and my generalizations, I know, you, you have a pure heart, I love you.Love and Light IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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posted August 27, 2005 06:29 PM
Ok..... IP: Logged |
peajie
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 27, 2005 11:47 PM
Fayte.mThanks for sharing... BUT...
(My main inhibitor really; I always have a "But..") It seems I must now come out of the closet and answer you burning question. You do realise that your perceptions are strickly those of a Female !! And your desire is obviously for ToyBoys.
And ofcourse a female has the abilty to allure and seduce. (Especially somebody less mature than she is... NO, I won't say that. naughty Peajie). So where are all the comments from your sisters with OLDer men? Where, eh? Unfortunately advertising agents know only too well that when shopping these days silly girls are seduced by the pretty packing more than the value of the contents. I do not know your birth details but I would guess you need to change your self centred perspective of the world, to allow you to fully offer wisdom to others. Next time I will hang around "out there" longer to give you a head start on me, then I might get lucky? LOL And a little "X", just to remind you that all this banter is in good humour. IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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posted August 28, 2005 10:33 AM
peajie..
thank you for stating you opinions.
However...you are totally off base concerning me! I find this amusing.
I think Sue g may know why I would find the things you said about me so funny.
Me? female perspective? Ha Ha Ha! Anyone who knows me in person would be rolling in hysterical laughter at that one!
Toy boys? Yuccck! I do not desire playthings!
I did not seek out younger men....In fact I was surprised that they came to me...and all I did was be myself and no seduction was involved. If you saw me you would perhaps understand...I am far from the type young men would be attracted to physically!  When younger men have become attracted to me...It always mystifies me!!! Also sex is NOT how those relationships started. Funny thing is it is/was often sexual in the beginning with older men...not younger ones.
HHHHmmmm...self centered you call me????....well turn around...look at yourself.
I would not start a thread called Fayte's wisdom.
I think it is ok that you did that...but that is not for me.
And as far as younger women with older men...I did mention several of them! (Including myself...at times in my life!)And they are quite happy with their spouses!
Most of my closests friends are and have been older men!!!!!. Also same for lovers.You do NOT know me... Do NOT assume you do... And I will NOT assume things of you... Scorpio...(me...November 3rd.; not an Octoberan like Sue. Octoberans enjoy the chase...I think Octoberans, Ist. Decans too....are more sexually oriented/higher sexed....I prefer friendship FIRST....then sex...or friendship only. That was not meant as an insult to first decan Scorpios.
The sexually charged chase is just not my preferred cup of tea. I really meant it when I said age is of no concern to me...Physical age! An old guy can be a 12 year old in his social skills..a young man wise and sage...
You seem to lump all young men into the toy boy category...just like old guys often lump young women into the bimbis or chickie catagory.
How narrow minded and unfair! Again thanks for the reply...but until you stop assuming you know me and my ways..well there is no sense in me trying to talk with you....seems you have in your mind put me in a certain category..your mind made up...
Too bad.... Now I owe an apology to Zala..and others....
I DEFENDED YOU(PEAJIE) when people were calling you basically a "know it all"....BUT.....because you acted like their opinions were not worth jack and only you have sage wisdom and everyone else..who disagrees with you is a mutton head!!!!!!! It seems I was wrong in defending you...... SO... to all those who I repremanded for being rough on peajie..I am SORRY....
Sorry to those who saw this coming...You folks were perhaps right I now think...
My apologies Zala..and others.... 
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juniperb
Knowflake Posts: 6207
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Mar 2002
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posted August 28, 2005 10:44 AM
Greetings! Experience is the Teacher of the Ages. This thread is informative, yes?Blessings,  ------------------
If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
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