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Topic: Aged love.
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peajie
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 16, 2005 03:30 AM
 
So much talk of love by the youngsters. Wait until your body nolonger reveals the youngster who still lives inside it and yet still yearns to be touched and to touch.
Then show me your wisdom by telling me how to rediscover that magic. IP: Logged |
maklhouf
Knowflake Posts: 1071
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Registered: Nov 2003
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posted August 16, 2005 05:37 AM
I am glad you posted PJ, and I hope you get some news you can use.IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted August 16, 2005 08:43 AM
One of my closests, and dearest friends is 57 years old. He is an Aries Sun and is extremely good looking, healthy and emotionally mature. He works out everyday (everybody envies his form), eats well, runs, and rock climbs. He is also gainfully employed and has a secure future. Yet, he is single and looking. It so hard to find women in a similar vein of health, mind, and body around the same age. But we all hope for the best and admire him for all that he has done for a man at 57, still young at heart.IP: Logged |
lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1950
From: CA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 17, 2005 12:16 AM
well, when you love someone that love transcends the physical. the presumption is peajie, you don't have that kind of love. i can honestly say i'm blind to bodies and hot on the trail of a high energy people. no i do not mean teh local tanned meathead kickboxer vitamin pusher rock climber mr/ active all the time. i follow my nose. close your eyes and you sense a persons subtle vibration or heart, smell their scent..it may smell like caca doo doo to someone else but the most heavenly smell on earth to teh one they are supposed to mate or be with. make sense? IP: Logged |
peajie
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 01:41 AM
Thanks Makihouf; and I understand your friend Aphrodite - I may have lived for 70 but I have taught T'ai-Chi, meditation etc for 40 of them so consider myself a real youngster. And as well as being a very tactile person I am full of REAL love.
So 'Lovely" your comments do not reflect your name. You should have learnt not to make assumptions about anybody.IP: Logged |
lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1950
From: CA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 17, 2005 02:34 AM
ok peajie. i make presumptions all the time. tell me why i shouldn't? an assumption/presumption is a deductive tool and has nothing to do with being pleasant or lovely. you seem offended though. so i'm sorry if you misunderstood my intent/ oh and the name.."lovely".. is personal, as most screen names are. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7686
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 17, 2005 04:05 AM
Hi PeajieAnd WELCOME to LL (I replied to your post in the Marriage thread). I am looking forward to talking with you. Ive no real answers to your question, I wish I had. If it is any comfort, I have talked and heard of people who have formed physical relationships in their 70s and 80s. My mothers's best friend remarried at age 75 and found great happiness, I think these days age is becoming of a lesser consequence, I am married to a man 12 years younger and have known couples with much bigger age differences. I am sorry you were offended by one of our knowflakes, I am sure she didnt mean to do this. I am glad you came here, I feel we have somewhat in this modern day and age lost the the gift of respect - maybe we can learn to resurrect this. I am not attacking you lovely, but as we all know, in the past there has been one or two incidents here which have proved to be both unacceptable and offensive - lets hope it doesnt occur again. Peajie I wish you many a happy moment here at LL, for me it is a place of learning, solace and sharing - may it prove to be the same for you. Love to all Sue xx IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 09:21 AM
peajie
Hello! I do not post much here anymore, unless someone really peaks my interest. As You have.
You seem to understand love and age too. So here goes...
I am almost 51 and disabled. I am not the atheletic bodied one of some 20 years ago.
I wake up blind or semi paralyzed some mornings. There are other physical problems I will not go into here.
My husband is a mature minded 36 year old. He is not concerned that my body is a wreck...we clicked so deeply on the emotional and spiritual psychic levels that we want no one else! He knows that a back or body massage can be a wonderful thing...or cuddling and talking...when the body is not able to engage in wild youthful sexual encounters. Talking, listening, enjoying the mere presence of and sharing our lives with each other...
Making adjustments for the good and bad physical days....where there is a will(and true love)...there is most certainly a way!
I dated a man years ago who was paralyzed from the chest down. We had great conversations...and kissing and touching with his hands and arms...was still very passionate!
My best friend was 84 years old when she passed....when I was 23. I loved her dearly!
She was 69 when she took a lover of 19. The only reason that ended was because he was killed in a motorcycle accident at age 24....and she was then 74 years old! She never had a lover after that....but was still a very viable person! She loved hugs and backrubs...and talking about intimacies. She had been wheelchair bound for 70 of her 84 years!
Then there was another lady I knew who was 91. She loved having her very long hair brushed..and braided. I would brush and braid and she would just go happily babbling about all kinds of things! She was a sweetheart! Then there was a few old men I knew...101 and 96. I would hold them or rub their feet...and listen to them. They would also hold me or we would sit on the porch swing...or walk through the orchard and bee hives. I was 15 with the 101 year old..and I loved him. I was 26 with the 96 year old. My health and body were very nice then. They were both beautiful and sensual intellegent men to me. I have never feared the body that is imperfect! Or aged. I find Stephen Hawkings very very sexy! His mind is more than a compensation for his infimities! A man like that would give me the zings just by his words! And I would not fear to touch him either!
Yes...age and or disabilty does not end our need and desires for physical contact...
We may not be pretty anymore or fit...but we ARE still YOUNG inside! I do not feel old.
Thanks for bringing this up!
PS.Peter O'Toole...Sean Connery...Vanessa Redgrave...all very very beautiful! Even David Bowie who is older now is still a hottie to me! Or Tim Curry!
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peajie
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 10:51 AM
Nice to make a contact Sue.g and fayte.m
It is reassuring to find some Aware people out there in web-land. And no, "lovely.x" I did not take offence, just a feeling of sadness at your presumption.I accept your belief but to me a deductive tool only becomes of value if it is in tune with Infinite Intelligence in a spirit of Love and compassion. Check with Jesus or the Buddha. IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 11:09 AM
peajie
Just thought you might want to know that your website link is not working.IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Knowflake Posts: 3563
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 19, 2005 01:05 PM
 to the forum, Peajie!
I see you have given us LL-ites an assignment, or it could perhaps even be construed as a command, quote:
Then show me your wisdom by telling me how to rediscover that magic.
It is human nature to make assumptions when presented with very little information upon which to base a response to someone. Was a reply like this absolutely necessary? quote:
So 'Lovely" your comments do not reflect your name. You should have learnt not to make assumptions about anybody.
Peajie, are you sure that you want to put yourself in a position of telling people here what they should or should not have learned in their process of evolution in this lifetime? Can you make a judgment that they are not exactly where they’re supposed to be? Can you reveal the proper spiritual path for everyone here enough to say that they are not exactly who they should be at this time and then presume to offer solutions which may or may not fit their path? quote:
Check with Jesus or the Buddha.
This is a discussion forum (not a testing area) where (presumably) we do not indulge in feelings of superiority over others or sadness at lack of spiritual evolvement in others posting here. Do you have a more detailed question you wish to discuss? Would you like to share your Sun/Asc/Moon signs and talk about those? Or share more detail about the ageless desire to merge with Intellectual/Emotional/Spiritual peers? 'Zala
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pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 4604
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 19, 2005 06:12 PM
Zala is a wonder-puppy
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
From:
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 19, 2005 07:47 PM
I am confused.
Is this another fight starting? I hope not...but...
Bye bye.....    PS.Hi peajie 
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lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1950
From: CA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 20, 2005 12:42 AM
fayte, Zala was taking an objective, fair-minded approach. People who have been here longer than 2 days have a right to ask questions in order to clarify one's position. Dear fayte, the person who started this thread was on his/her 3rd post since joining. That being said, I am still willing to cast this stuff off as a misunderstanding. It happens. But wisdom doesn't always follow age..one quality does not beget the other. There are old-souls, new-souls and ass*souls, but it's just bad manners to come into someone's home and poop on thier rug. Even so, it's not nice to condescend the elderly and for that I apologized. IP: Logged |
lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1950
From: CA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 20, 2005 12:48 AM
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pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 4604
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 20, 2005 01:14 AM
Oh my, if I am involved, it must be another fight!
Please don't over dramatise. Things will be true and as they are.
As lovely said.... and as Zala said.
There are all kinds. No one is fighting... at least not here.
Everyone should be approached respectfully.
Nothing else need be said.
To suggest a fight where there is none, is to start a fight. Why do you want to fight al the time? Or at least.. Why do you think I want to fight all the time?
Cuz I don't. I really really don't.IP: Logged |
zoso
Knowflake Posts: 703
From: Death Valley USA
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 20, 2005 01:25 AM
quote:
Then show me your wisdom by telling me how to rediscover that magic.
"Humor, and quite possibly lots of it."  IP: Logged |
lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1950
From: CA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 20, 2005 01:40 AM
pixel, i agree with this quote:
To suggest a fight where there is none, is to start a fight
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lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1950
From: CA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 20, 2005 01:41 AM
i'm starting to get a bit of a complex tho~IP: Logged |
lovely*
Knowflake Posts: 1950
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Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 20, 2005 01:45 AM
Zoso, i'm afraid you're too young to offer any useful advice IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7686
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 20, 2005 04:07 AM
Hi Az,How are your girl? I noticed in another thread you mentioned something about health issues - are you okay. I sent you mail - hope it reached you??!! Loved the unicorn by the way! Love
Sue xx
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 20, 2005 08:55 PM
Azalaksh
Ok...did what you asked....I see now....
You had a right to speak your mind in response...
But the offending posts were not offensive to me....just forceful. But I see how they could rub some the wrong way.
peajie
I get intense too....IP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 5860
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted August 20, 2005 09:06 PM
peajie...it's called Viagra...and a little bit of chemistry. Simple as that. Maybe you don't need that. If not, Right On! Maybe the only thing you are lacking is the chemistry. Do you have a mate? If so, try role playing. Or, pick a fight just to enjoy the making up part. Or, maybe just look for a younger mate, if you don't have one. I get the feeling you are still a very active, upwardly mobile person - it may be hard for you to find someone of simular interest/energy who is the same age (more or less) as you. I'm only 36, but I hope to always have chemistry and passion as long as I'm on this side of the grass.  disclaimer: Picking a fight doesn't always work, and CAN go horribly wrong. Don't try this method if your relationship is already iffy. IP: Logged |
kiwigirl
Knowflake Posts: 257
From: New Zealand
Registered: May 2005
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posted August 21, 2005 09:54 PM
Welcome peajie to Lindaland...I know you are nowhere near this age, but i worked in Rest Homes looking after elderly people for a few years, and one of the ladies i looked after who was nearing 100 at the time, fell in love with one of the other residents, it was so beautiful, i was forever finding them in comprimising situations! the mind was willing but sometimes i dont think the body was quite able...he was in a wheelchair and she has been unable to walk or stand for many years. Anyway what i am trying to say is, age is nothing, not really. Amazing sex starts in the mind anyway....the thought of it etc. They werent the only couple i encountered during my time there either...i have endless stories. The only other suggestion i have is...find a toyboy!!! Speaking from experience it is great, great for your complexion! great for your confidence and great all round really. take care
love and hugs
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peajie
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 23, 2005 10:12 AM
Woops, Zoso:... Lovelyx says you are too young, and I am too old. Makes a bit of a contradiction to her post at 12:42.Bon Soir Zala. If I need to tell you how to rediscover magic, I wonder how you lost it ? Maybe you should "listen" more? So perhaps I am a teacher, because I know that seeking attunement with Infinite Intelligence has nothing to do with revealing a "piritual path" . The IT also manifests thro the physical. Great fun isn't it Fayte? We know a fight takes two, and that only happens if one is not awake. And as for a "toyboy", Kiwigirl. Perhaps you were too polite to say a sheep ?
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