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posted January 06, 2006 03:11 AM         

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I would really like everyone's opinion on how important age differences are when it comes to soulmates, lovers, etc.

Does a soulmate have to be within the same age range?

Just curious.

But I think the answer to my last question is NO. But i still am curious to know what you all think

Peace!

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posted January 06, 2006 08:34 AM         

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I am 51 and my husband age 36 is I know for sure...my soulmate

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posted January 06, 2006 11:47 AM         

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posted January 06, 2006 01:55 PM         

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Let me find my post on that
I do not mind

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posted January 06, 2006 02:00 PM         

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f off Dan

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posted January 06, 2006 02:14 PM         

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Thank you Fayte!!!

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posted January 06, 2006 04:00 PM         

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Well...I cannot find the right reply I posted...
But until I find it or rewrite about how I knew(a rather long story!).....
Perhaps some of these links(just click on them) will give you some more insight into love and soulmates and age differences.
And alot of other folks say some very good things.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/001736-2.html
posted October 20, 2005 11:15 AM posted October 20, 2005 11:01 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001561.html
posted May 11, 2005 07:14 PM posted May 12, 2005 08:15 AM
posted May 12, 2005 12:45 PM posted May 12, 2005 08:10 PM
posted May 13, 2005 09:43 AM posted May 13, 2005 01:56 PM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001918.html

posted December 09, 2005 09:06 AM
posted December 09, 2005 09:26 AM http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001858.html
posted November 06, 2005 09:34 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001741.html
posted August 17, 2005 09:21 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/001521.html
posted June 22, 2005 07:22 PM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/001668.html
posted September 22, 2005 09:17 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001741-3.html
posted August 25, 2005 02:42 PM posted August 27, 2005 12:19 PM
posted August 28, 2005 10:33 AM

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001741-4.html
read all..rather complex.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001741-5.html

read all...continuation of the age and love matter.

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posted January 06, 2006 04:00 PM         

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marsconjunctmercury-

How interesting that you should mention the sexual aspect of soulmate unions-because a little earlier I was posting about a friend of mine who I've considered a soulmate but who I have no sexual relations with. Thanks for the insight!

And to everyone else, thanks as well! You are all awesome to talk to

Peace!

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posted January 06, 2006 04:05 PM         

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I hope I helped!

I love this topic!

Thanks themysteryclub

OOOHHH!!!!!
I did answer you there also! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001947.html

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posted January 06, 2006 05:33 PM         

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Who doesn't love this topic!

I have noticed that there is usually age difference in the Soul Mate issues, and please someone correct me if I am wrong, usually one gets to meet a Soul Mate of some kind during the Saturn return, there will be a considerable age difference I presume. Concerning sex and gender, some people meet same sex soulmates, the feelings are not usually Platonic all the time, and in that case (if one's straight, or both) you have to either break it off or go on with it without sex -- either case I would imagine it is painful. With Soul Mates I don't think we can design things, or be prepared no matter how much we think we are, the perfect age, the right gender, etc etc...it is not the outside that triggers the memories, it is the inside. One interesting thing I read regarding this, is that people meet their soul mates long before they actually meet in the flesh, I don't mean past lives per se, but in the sense that, say you already met your soulmate, his/her name is X. You find that you have come across this name before and it has stopped you, it means something to your on a subliminal level. Your soul mate physical features resemble features that have stopped you in the past, although I have not found an explanation for this as of yet because it is about the inside and NOT the inside but maybe your higher self knows and you don't and it is directing you in that direction, and by the way none of these incidents make sense on their own, they sort of come to you in an A-HA moment when you do recognize and meet your soul mate, and it takes a LOOOOOOOONG time before you actually meet after either of you have recognized the other.

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posted January 06, 2006 06:30 PM         

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Here are some more.....
posted August 18, 2005 09:12 AM
when I dreamt of and had my first visions of my(3rd.) husband(my soulmate) he was not even conceived yet!
But it has come true.
And here are ones with click on links
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum17/HTML/000981.html
precognition of the soulmate http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum17/HTML/001028-5.html
discussing soul mates/soul clusters etcetera
and how a soul mate may be a different age or sex and is not always a lover...but can be a parent or child or friend.....etcetera..
posted December 02, 2005 08:51 PM Fayte.....
posted December 02, 2005 11:59 AM Lia http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum17/HTML/001028.html
soul connections--read entire thread if you get time.
Some pages get off track and into totems..and mixed in with
page 6 happy things... is a little tiff...
but a beloveds thread for the most part.

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posted January 08, 2006 06:54 PM         

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I don't know. I've never really thought about it. You never know the form in which your soulmate will arrive.

Good question though.

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posted January 10, 2006 12:35 PM         

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I once knew
of a young
woman

who married
a man 30 yrs
her senior

he was rich
of course

the only
problem
was he
couldnt
perform
in the
bedroom
department

O
dear

It does make
one think
that the
older
lady and
younger
chap
might be
more
suited in
the bedroom
department

what do you
think
cornflakes

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posted January 10, 2006 01:13 PM         

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I think it depends on the people involved.
I myself as much as sexual relations are wonderful.....
If I had to choose...(which being disabled now...is often the case)
I prefer the good and tender caring considerate companionship over sex any day.
Making love does not always have to mean intercourse.
Fortunately my younger husband appreciates the quality over quantity! And again...alot of lovemaking does not require intercourse.
So...Pinkfairy....if you were my mate...and could not perform....I would not kick you out of bed for that....as long as you were a loving companion who could still snuggle..cuddle...and watch sunsets and sunrises and could converse for hours.

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posted January 10, 2006 01:46 PM         

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how
kind
dear
fayte.m.

just as
well

these
days

well
you
know

we always
have dance

do you know
the lambada
at all?

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posted January 10, 2006 04:34 PM         

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Pinky, you are so funny I am glad you are here and look for your respnses (:

I was thinking that maybe the age difference depends on teh life stage of the two people? For ex., if one is 300 something and the other is 40 something it may not be as big of an issue as if one is early twenties and the other in their thirties? I was 24 when I became romantically involved with my fiance who was then 19. It didn't feel like a big thing at the time, but now it is a minor friction. He is very mature for his age, but he is not at the same stage finacially as I. He is very indecisive about what he wants to do in life (as most 21 year olds are). I understand this, but it bothers me that he constantly wants for me to make the major decisions, as if he doesn't trust his own judgement yet.
As for the soulmate sign thing, I guess that did happen to me. Before meeting him, I had a friendship with a young man born only the day before him on the same year. They do look similar, but have major differences in personality.

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posted January 10, 2006 05:49 PM         

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Seriously, for me it's not a problem.

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posted March 06, 2006 03:16 AM         

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**Age does not matter... As long as the 2 r on the same path**

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posted March 06, 2006 05:18 AM         

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"As long as the 2 r on the same path"

How very true
Hindoo
How very true !!

For some strange reason I tend to connect with younger men.....!!

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posted March 06, 2006 05:45 AM         

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age difference shouldnt matter when it comes to love.

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posted March 06, 2006 12:59 PM         

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My husband and I are 12 years apart. Although I am not sure we are going to be together FOREVER, I knew he'd be my husband because a BIG voice inside my head told me so the moment I met/looked into his eyes. We have been married for 9 years. However, the whole soul-mate thing eludes me. I'm not sure why the big voice told me that he was the one, because astrally speaking, I have never felt that "deeper" link. He is a virgo, me a leo. He totally hides his soul away from ALL...However, the sex is totally totally terrific. Gets hotter and hotter every year. Sexually, we are mated quite well. so age difference doesnt really have to put you off to having sex. my dh is 47 and completely hot.

I have met men who were more my age, who I had/have more of a "souler" connection to, but nothing that ever wound up as permanent. My soulmates/kindred souls...well, they just do not stick around. Mostly because they are not the permanent type.

so, i'm not sure if age has anything to do with it, but those are my ramblings...

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posted March 07, 2006 05:01 AM         

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**is 33 considered young?**

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posted March 07, 2006 11:22 AM         

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Hindoo

It would depend on the age of the other of course......

To me..... 33 is borderline....

Why would you ask.....are you 33 ?

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posted March 10, 2006 11:40 PM         

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**You got me....yes i'am!**

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posted March 11, 2006 03:50 AM         

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Mmmm....

Hindoo

......33 is a nice age.....I liked being in my 30s......sort of felt like I was getting "sorted"

What sign are you ?

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