posted April 17, 2006 12:02 AM              

Just be there as a Good Friend. Make her feel special. If she would see you being nice to all damn girls so she would wonder whether you are just flirting with all or serious. Are you being playboy?
She is crab she would be noticing every damn thing just like you.

She would think you don't think her to be worth you.We have so many securities on why he isn't talking to me. Most of the time girls are more worried about why men isn't talking to her ? Women seek so much attention.

If her Scorp friend knows about you means they definitely had girly talk and she must have confessed her feeling to her.Other than that don't ask someone else as this might turn into office gossip and embarassing for her. I think direct approach with her on what you feel and she feels would go long way. Just don't take answer yes or no but reasons so you know what she thinks and where you stand so on. Tell her when you think it's right time. Have you already told her ?

OR Do you expect her to know without saying ?

You guys are being able to talk anything that's cool. Keep that communication going on.

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actually her pay package is bigger than mine .and i am thinking long term , i dont have anything to give her beside my words and myself .
she comes from a well to do family .
so i am planning in that sense bcos i dont want to loose yet again .
i dont know if she is the ONE though she seems .

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posted April 17, 2006 11:46 AM            

fb: me being a playboy ! naah....
but yes when i seriously come to think of it , i do at times chit chat with almost everyone and that includes men .but then she is always the point of attention . i hope she knows this .
on my side , i tried to insure that she knows this , i gifted her a book( fountainhead )and she knows i am not the kind to spend money unnecessarilly . we even once discussed money, her and my attitude towards it.
so i hoped she knew she was special .

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Just don't take answer yes or no but reasons so you know what she thinks and where you stand so on.

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didn't really get you here . are you explaining a bit more.

and i haven't told her anything but yes indirectly i have tried to tell her .
when i gave her the book , she knew i had alraedy read it , but then even she asked why did i buy it ( that too an original one ) i just said , for you .

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OR Do you expect her to know without saying ?

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I am hundred and one percent sure , she knows whats in my mind ,yeah may be a bit confused by my behaviour she might think i am not very serious, i am just playing games ( i normally avoid friendly talk in public , so we normally get very few moments and yeah ofcourse my chatting with all)
when my boss can guess it , how can't she ?

posted April 18, 2006 08:39 AM              

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me being a playboy ! naah....

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I don't say you are but you know how difficult would it be maybe you are making her insecure that's all and i meant be careful.

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Just don't take answer yes or no but reasons so you know what she thinks and where you stand so on

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I wasn't sure whether you told her or not.

I tell you at times it's very easy for others to know who are in love then who are actually in. I mean when I was in my schools and trust me I didn't knew who had feelings and who didn't but at times I would get teased.

So well when you are ASSUMING she knows.Don't you think a CLEARER approach would go easier. I mean you don'thave to freak out by all mushy stuff but something what you really feel in few words.

What I had said earlier was because I thought you had already proposed her and asked for her reply and was still left confused. If you haven't then I think you should so you know where you are standing in her life.

I am not sure what you have thought about committment and all but first be honest what are you looking forward to happen and see what she is thinking.

I kind of knew it you wouldn't have told her.

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so you think , money part isn't a big deal !

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posted April 18, 2006 02:05 PM            

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tell you at times it's very easy for others to know who are in love then who are actually in. I mean when I was in my schools and trust me I didn't knew who had feelings and who didn't but at times I would get teased.

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I am not sure what you have thought about committment and all but first be honest what are you looking forward to happen and see what she is thinking.

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NObig deal about commitment bcos i am a loyal person( i love to think so ) by nature and for me relations are for eternity . ok, i have devloped a habit of moving on but given a chance i would any day prefer a long term relation rather than a flick.

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I kind of knew it you wouldn't have told her.

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HOW?
does this have anything to do with my being a cancerian?

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Not a big deal. Essential necessity.
Needed for security and stability. That's all

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posted April 19, 2006 06:59 AM              

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HOW?
does this have anything to do with my being a cancerian?

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Ya I guess and I think you keep on saying on this forum you are pretty shy in love and all.
Other thing is you are still in confusion because of that. It's so weired girls expect that guys make all the moves but I think it's worth it.

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EXACTLY!
thats what i feel . but what do you do when you dont even have that but the person has ?

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Just think together you both would have more than that.I know being guy it might not sound very good but it's total relationship which matters. Thinking of family.

I am not sure but I guess it's me who would go for a person who has an ability and potential to earn more than the person who has lot of money and no ability to increase it.

posted April 19, 2006 01:46 PM            

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Other thing is you are still in confusion because of that. It's so weired girls expect that guys make all the moves but I think it's worth it.

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confusion bcos of shyness ! huh......
am i getting you right here ?

ah, why do you think its worth it . i will strongly disagree
otherwise i would have been a happy man rather than a confused one .

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I know being guy it might not sound very good but it's total relationship which matters.

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so your parents had a love marriage !
what is the sign of your parents ?

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am not sure but I guess it's me who would go for a person who has an ability

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posted April 19, 2006 10:16 PM              

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confusion bcos of shyness ! huh......
am i getting you right here ?

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yes you are.

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ah, why do you think its worth it . i will strongly disagree
otherwise i would have been a happy man rather than a confused one .

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Worth it to "make a move " because you are in LOVE...not to be in confusion.You are in confusion because of your own shyness.

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so your parents had a love marriage !
what is the sign of your parents ?

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Nope, it wasn't love marriage.
Very arranged but my mother had a choice and although she regrets it some time.
My Mom: Aqua Dad: Birthday and time Unknown. Somewhere Scorp/Sag
Difficult yet completely manageable my mother has Scorp Asc. Remember Linda says Aqua female gets married not for money.

posted April 21, 2006 08:38 AM            

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Worth it to "make a move " because you are in LOVE...not to be in confusion.You are in confusion because of your own shyness.

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i think , i'll wait.
btw, i seriously love scorp approach . my scorp friend too keeps poking !!!!

but , i'll seriously do it this time .

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Very arranged but my mother had a choice and although she regrets it some time.

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posted April 21, 2006 12:36 PM              

From your posts you seem to be not-so-shy
but you say you are shy,you like to tease and understand people there is naughtiness but there are limits.There are pattern how you behave. I kind of understand them.Ofcourse they are just your posts I don't know you face-to-face.

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What does linda say about cancer women ? how do they act when in love ?

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I think you should start a new post.

posted April 24, 2006 11:09 PM              

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Your sav­ings account may be of unusual interest to her, and money may be one of her favorite topics of conversation. She won't look down on you if you don't have
it, so long as you're the kind of man who tries to get it. She'll help you make it and save it, but you're on your own when it comes to wasting it. Don't go too far, or she'll see your mutual security slipping away. When you give this girl a terribly expensive gift, and she says, "You shouldn't have done it," let me tell you, she means it.

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Did you read this ? For Money part

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Nevertheless, there are some "don'ts" to remember with her. She hates to be criticized, she is deeply wounded by ridicule, and she just can't stand being rejected. One, two, three. They're basics. Seldom openly aggressive, the typical Cancerian hesitates. You'll have to make the first move. If she moves anywhere at all, it will be backwards or side­ways. With her basically shy nature and fear that she won't be accepted, she echoes .the male of the Sun sign. I know of a Cancer woman and a Cancer man who, for seven hours, sat close to each other one night in her apart­ment, under the pretense of looking at magazines. While their pulses pounded silently, they went through a stack of back issues, the morning and evening papers, and worked a few crossword puzzles. Neither crab, you see, wanted to make the first move.

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Make a move.

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The fears of your lunar lovely can really hang you up, along with her. She's afraid she isn't pretty enough, she isn't smart enough, she isn't young enough or she isn't old enough. It makes no difference if she has a figure like Venus de Milo, a face like Helen of Troy and a mind like Aristotle: she'll still feel inadequate. Assure her that she's young, she's lovely, she's engaged, and she has you.

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Compliment her.

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When she's depressed, however, youll have to find a way to take her out of herself. Try to catch her be­fore she has burrowed too deep. She does have a way of wanting to be babied. The desire to be a little spoiled by loved ones seems to be buried deep in the Cancerian nature. She needs desperately to know you can't live with­out her

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Make her feel WANTED

posted April 25, 2006 12:52 PM            

i do compliment her at times . she actually has a close resembalance to another cancerian -"priyanka chopra" .

Make her feel WANTED- i'll try.

posted April 27, 2006 11:33 AM            

oh, i sure need your good wishes ! i am just sticking around . lets see ..... what life has in store .

posted May 01, 2006 05:22 AM              

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i wouldn't have waited for so long for her despite the initial signals

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posted May 01, 2006 06:04 AM              

Pisces are secretive but they do open more to people and open more than Scorpios... they are dreamy.. but I agree they are aware of their sorroundings... Psychic... yes, naturally...

Again, a great match but the Scorpio needs to know that the Pisces is sensitive and if constantly hurt by the Scorpio... the fish will go his or her way...

Scorpio can teach a Pisces self-confidence
Pisces can teach a Scorpio forgiveness...
and together they can achive much...

Cheers

posted May 01, 2006 01:01 PM            

fb: ofcourse the signals were positive and definitely very strong . i told you about that .
as far as i understand myself , i am not the kind to run after someone .
ok, if i am in a jovial mood , i might flirt .
i like talking with people , be it men or women . just yesterday, i and an aqua friend of mine kept chatting for almost three hours about life business ,studies and ofcourse women
but there is a difference between these and the kind of attachment that i feel (eventhough the other person might not be that attached )when i talk with this woman .

just sharing a thought , nothing to do with all this .
i and my scorp friend were discussing it a few days back . what exactly is love ?
my take on it is , its simple wavelength , when its between the same sex , its called friendship and when its between different sex people , its love but essentially its wavelength .
thats what exactly what it is ,with this girl , our wavelengths match . infact she is the first woman to whom i can talk about things that i normally talk with you people .

posted May 02, 2006 10:18 AM              

Ofcourse he isn't nossy which I like it. In fact once I asked him question and he never asked why I am asking and just answered.

In our case this is completely true...

Scorpio can teach a Pisces self-confidence
Pisces can teach a Scorpio forgiveness...

He is pessimist and I am there to give confidence
and well it's difficult to forgive but I have been trying that from few years after understanding astrology. I normally don't keep grudges.

posted May 02, 2006 10:38 AM              

Cancer teaches Scorpios how to manipulate people emotionally....lol

and Scorpios teaches Cancer you can't manipulate everyone.....lol

Just kidding....

Just curious where's your Venus and Mars.

If you think that people on same wavelength is love then maybe it is for you.

As for me I just go with the feeling if it's there it's there.I don't question it why or how?

I am not sure about having and being at same wavelength because at times I get attracted to people who are completely opposite to me.
Ofcourse not being on same wavelenth turns me off later but I think one gets attracted without all that.Getting attracted and having a loving relationship are all together different things.

posted May 02, 2006 01:58 PM            

: actually , they teach us that everyone has loopholes so in essence inspire us that everyone can be manipulated lolololol........

oh, my venus is in leo and mars in virgo .
i dont know about the mars effect but yeah , i do get attracted to typical leo women and i normally get jealous when the women that i am interested in doesn't give the same attention . though normally i am a non jealous person . money and all dont make me jaealous .

posted May 04, 2006 01:23 AM              

Cheers,