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Topic: woman cancer - man sag
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de1979 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Brazil Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 13, 2006 06:14 PM
I´m cancer, asc. gemini, moon in aries...my "boyfriend" is sagittarius (born at night, don´t know what time, in Brighton, England)...we´ve been dating for three monts now. He was very romantic and passionate, perfect, but I´ve heard sags reputation is not that good when it comes to love...and we are apart now...(he is going back to england and I´m staying in Brazil) and we are going to be like that for 4 months. Should I keep on with this, I mean: can I trust a sag? He sais he loves me, he wants to marry me...but not a phone call in a week?! HELP!!!IP: Logged |
gert Knowflake Posts: 168 From: south africa Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 19, 2006 06:32 AM
Its hard to say,I personally don't do long distance relationships and I am a Sag.Trust your instincts and not heresay! IP: Logged |
de1979 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Brazil Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 19, 2006 07:36 AM
Thanks, Gert.. I didn´t give up.I love him. But still with comunication problems. I guess this is the big thing about cancer and sagittarius - sags want to be free...and cancer wants feels threatned by sags freedom...anyway, I follow your advice...better, my insticts.IP: Logged |
Planet_Soul Knowflake Posts: 797 From: The Universe Registered: May 2005
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posted April 20, 2006 01:37 PM
I would trust him, until he gave em a reason not to. IP: Logged |
de1979 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Brazil Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 21, 2006 07:12 PM
Thanks for the advices...you´re all very kind...but I was thinking about something more technical...although we all know that love follows no rules...IP: Logged |
boo Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted April 22, 2006 06:18 AM
Me Cancer, Him Sag. Hello.So my Sag didnt call me a while after we first hooked up. It turns out that the longer he didnt call, the harder it got for him. I dont belive in the stereotypical man woman dynamic....basically I was the one calling him for a while, but I thought it got too much..which is why I didnt call him during the long no-call spell. You follow?  Anyways, after a while I thought Id send him an e-mail (a text woulda work just as well, but I hate texting. I'd pick calling someone up to texting any day) just to make sure he was alive and all. Anyways I send the e-mail saying something along the lines of 'I care about you and it would be cool to see you again. Lets speak sometime. Kisses'. Notice the no-pressure-whatsoever use of words. It turns out he was at home getting high, freaking him self out, writting shhh!!! loads of letters to me...and then like a pin to a balloon, I diffused the whole situation. He texted(!!) me later that night and invited me to a fischerspooner gig. And we havent stop rocking since ! I hope you find some gems in this story. Hahaha. Basically Im advocating just getting in touch. For the most part Saggies are philosophical, so its not like hes gonna get irritated. I would go as far as to say he would appreciate some straight forwards action. Anyhoo, if you need anymore info...or you just wanna some more of my stories, dont hesistate to ask. I am on here ever soo sporadically, but I will reply. Peace. IP: Logged |
de1979 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Brazil Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 22, 2006 12:59 PM
You guys are great! This is for you too Boo! Seems like the same thing has been happening to me...we´ve been in touch for a while now after those horrible weeks of no news...seems like I was the one freaking out...things were pretty normal on his side! The thing is to get used to this "more relaxed way of living" that sags seem to have...Thanks for the advices! Cheers! IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Kent Registered: Nov 2003
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posted April 22, 2006 04:22 PM
Hey, Saggie woman here - i like communication but am a female:-) Trust your saggie- i love with all my heart when I fall for someone. SparklingIP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 71 From: The Asylum Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 27, 2006 10:18 PM
Mad lot of experiences with saggies here. I think they're pretty much open-book type people, you wouldn't really have a reason not to trust them. Very upfront in the beginning. Usually, if theyre not the relationship type they'll let you know from the beginning.IP: Logged |
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 4073 From: ~out looking for Schrodinger's cat~ Registered: Mar 2005
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posted May 01, 2006 11:04 AM
A thread about Cancerians and different opinions about them, plus famous Cancerians. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008995.html ------------------ ~I intend to continue learning forever~"Fayte" ~I am still learning~ Michangelo The Door to Gnosis is never permanently locked...one only needs the correct keys and passwords. The pious man with closed eyes can often hold more ego than a proud man with open eyes. Out of the mouth of babes commeth wisdom that can rival that of sages. In the rough, or cut and polished..a diamond is still a precious gem. -NEXUS- IP: Logged |