Posts: 110
From: Vienna, VA, USA
Registered: Jul 2006

posted January 24, 2007 10:37 PM         

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Gypsy,

I have the same aspects as you: moon in Capri, opposing my sun, and my friend has his sun, moon, NN in Aqua in his 3rd house. For some reason I can write to him "I love you", but I can't say it in front of him. Instead I will say: "I miss you". And he does the same thing, will never say it but will just say "I miss you". I don't understand why we can't say it when in fact the feelings are there, the emotions are there, the intensity of everything is there. He also has his Chiron on top of my moon. I'm still trying to understand how this affect each other. Not sure who is healing who...

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From: Charlotte, NC, USA
Registered: Oct 2006

posted January 27, 2007 11:53 AM         

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Wow, well, that's what we did for a while, too; we could write "I love you" but we never said it (until recently). Hmm... The Chiron conjunct moon is good and the fact that he's got moon conjunct sun shows that he's a lot more in touch with his emotions, maybe he just doesn't feel secure enough to say it yet? That's usually why Aquarians rarely refer to their girl/boyfriends as "good friends"... they're afraid to commit because they're afraid of getting hurt. That's why they seem so aloof; it's similar to the Scorpion masks; they don't want you to get in too close because then they know you can hurt them. But since you're already writing "I love you" to each other, I would try to either drop subtle hints (look him in the eyes when you want him to say it; he may be able to see it in your eyes... or hug him just a moment longer...you'll know better than I will what you should do) or, if you really want to be risky you could say it first. That would be risky, though, 'cause either he would say it back... or he would still be too afraid to, and he might start backing off. Be creative, if you want; for example, when my Boyfriend was over here last time we were just sitting together and he got out a pen and drew a little person on his hand, so I took the pen and wrote next to it "I <3 U!" Something like that might work... Aquarians and Cancerians are both drawn to random and sometimes ridiculous things... but I truly hope that things work out for you two! Let me know how it goes, and if you want more of an in depth love reading, try doing your asteroid compatability, particularly the asteroids eros, vesta, psyche, pan, anteros, cupido, aphrodite, adonis... etc. Those will let you know a lot as well. ^_^ Take care, and I hope that this information helps you!

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posted February 01, 2007 10:17 PM         

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peace & love

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posted February 02, 2007 12:11 AM         

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phoenix, i am sad to hear about your story. and pardon me but he can't have a virgo venus if he is a cappy.

he sounds like crap to me, asking you to abort without taking any responsibility for things. not even talking it out to you.

leaving the astrology aside for the moment, i dont think you want this guy to be with you for the rest of your life. i wudnt if i were you. once someone breaks my trust like that, and shows tht they truly dont care, it is over for me.

i am presuming this is your first child. it is a big responsibility. since u have not aborted till now, i think it is your decision to have this child. so now please forget trying to run after this guy. start planning for the most precious and life changing experience of your life

i am not an expert, but i suppose u can get child support from him. how is your financial situation.

take care
ILWL

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posted February 02, 2007 10:15 AM         

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How can he not have a Virgo Venus, it says it in Linda's Relationship Signs books under the year 1976, Jan. 1st. I am not interested in him as far as wanting something with him, he has hurt me more than anyone ever has, I try to know as much as I can about the people in my life in order to communicate with them the best. He is probably going to be in my life forever now, soooo... I wrote some of the rest of the story under the topic, I hate hating men :-) Thanks for replying.

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