posted March 04, 2007 09:50 PM         

I just discovered a former lover has his Moon conjunct my Arabic Parts of Fascination and his Mars conjunct my Arabic Parts of Marriage. Both with a 1 degree orb.

I am curious... who would feel the marriage/fascination pull? Would he feel it from me, or would I feel it more or would it be mutual?

I am really curious, because I think this may explain a lot for me, one way or the other.

I've googled and asked various astrology forums and no one, but no one answers.

Does anyone have experience with any of these aspects? How did you feel?

posted March 06, 2007 06:13 AM         

So, copying and pasting what I wrote back then and testing my theory:

"my Part of Astrology is EXACTLY CONJUNCT my Venus in Gemini, which is conjunct my bf's Venus, and it's through him that I've gotten more "serious" about astrology than I used to be... my Part of Love is conjunct his midheaven, and my Part of Marriage is conjunct our composite moon in one calculation, and in the other calculation it's conjunct his AC! My Part of Energy/Sex Drive is also conjunct his moon."

Well, it's fair to say that all of those Arabic Parts are activated in me by him...

"My Part of Mother conjunct my mother's sun
My Part of Father conjunct my Mars, in my 4th house - this is significant because my parents divorced when I was three.
My Part of Benefic Change conjunct my bf's sun
My Part of Love conjunct his midheaven
My Part of Marriage conjunct his ASC
His Part of Love exactly conjunct my Jupiter in the 5th
His Part of Desire in my 8th"

All of these seem to work with my theory. I need to work out some more Arabic Parts to do some more testing.

posted March 06, 2007 07:14 AM         

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I've had a look at Arabic Parts but I'm not 100% confident in interpreting them. I would think that his Mars activates your Part of Marriage... did you strongly feel like you wanted to marry him? And his moon would activate your Part of Fascination... did you feel like that towards him?

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Oh my God, GeminiLover... TOTALLY. That's exactly how I felt. I admit I was fascinated... hypnotized... but the marriage stuff... all came from him. Any interaction I have with him, he seemed to be pushing for marriage. But he's a chronic commitment-phobe, so he couldn't handle it ever, when it came to put your money where your mouth is and make a commitment. But also, his Pluto sits right on my ASC and his Venus sits right on my Vertex and is in a loose conjunction with my DC. His Pluto is also quindecile my Venus. Soo... it's very intense...

I know how I felt about him, but I was wondering if my Parts on his Planets would make him feel anything?

I guess I'm kind of looking for an explanation for his behavior... it's just crazy stuff... he's been stalking me online... this is after some crazy behavior last summer and we stopped all communication. We've started emailing again, but I'm putting walls up... and the funny thing is, he has no idea I've been stalking him online this whole time too, ROTFL!!! I'm just playing dumb about everything.

Months ago, I let go of everything, and I do believe he's my soul mate, I just don't believe we're destined for this life time.

I even banned myself from any astrological analysis involving him MONTHS AGO... but I read an article on the Arabic Parts and calculated mine and lo and behold! Parts of Fascination @ 25 Virgo and Parts of Marriage @ 26 of Capricorn

I wondered if that's what scares him. Maybe he feels such a strong marriage pull that it freaks him out? I'm such an Aquarian, I believe in letting things be and seeing where they head, you know? We can be lovers, we can be friends, we can love each other and if it ends or we part ways and you respect me and respect the kindness and friendship I showed you, I wil never bear a grudge. I'm not one of these women that starts planning the wedding day after the 1st date, you know? And Honestly, he kept pushing it in that direction. Push Push Push.

Anyway, now he's saying that I'm the one who abruptly stopped talking to him... that's all fine and good... but... there is this wall... there is this line... and I'm not letting him passed it now. Or ever.

It's funny, I feel like the universe is playing games with me, you know... I look up my Arabic parts and BINGO! I have tight conjunctions with him... even though I am trying to stay away from his chart. Go figure.

It's funny how karma bites you in the @ss... I read in his email that he told this other woman he loves her... when he can't possibly love her. I was feeling sick for her whle reading, it's so obvious how infatuated she is with him. He cheated on her with me and many other women. I was thinking... who is this man? Is he a monster? How could he do this? How can he tell her this stuff when he clearly does not love her??? And what I know of him, he would NEVER marry her. I thought about emailing her, but everyone told me not to. To leave it alone and move on. I didn't know about her until he and I stopped talking and I started snooping. I knew he dated her at the beginning of 2006, but he's been seeing her the whole time. She's the main squeeze. He outright lied to me about her - several times. Well... imagine if his feelings for me are real? He obviously has some lingering obsession to be snooping for so long, who knows whats going on in that crazy head of his. I will NEVER allow him to get close to me because after reading all that, I would NEVER EVER trust him... how could I ever trust him if he dared say those words to me again? Never, ever.

So in his lies to the other one, he's completely ruined any chance he has to be with me, ever.

He's my soulmate... I am convinced... but... our paths will have to cross again another time. I'm just trying to understand though... you know? I honestly thought he didn't give a crap. Really. And that hurt the most. But... whatever.

posted November 13, 2008 10:38 PM         

I've been looking at some people's natal and synastry chart using Solar Fire and most of the cases this old method seems really accurate O_O: Richard Burton, Elizabeth Taylor, JFK, his wife Jacqueline, Marilyn Monroe, Aristole Onassis, his wife and mistress ~

will add later the list of aspects that makes me think Arabic parts are relatively accurate and worth looking into.

I can look up for any of you fyi...It'll be interesting to see how much of its accuracy sustains not just in famous ppl.