posted April 21, 2008 12:53 PM         

this is odd because i sometimes think strong fire sunīs ethics and trust is misled by airy moon...

posted April 21, 2008 02:31 PM         

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is she also an informatin gatherer?

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All Mutable Suns are. My girlfriend has a near Grand Cross in Mutable signs, so yeah she loves gathering information.

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doesnt it drive u sometimes mad the fact that they are so restless?

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Yes and no. Yes in the sense that I don't think she will ultimately commit to the relationship. Also in that it's often difficult to come to a conclusion quickly. No, in that I'm restless myself with my Virgo Moon and Gemini Rising. Indecision plagues me as well. I'm also hesitant towards commitment, but I do feel I have it in me with my Capricorn Sun in the fixed [stubborn] 8th house, and my Moon in the fixed 5th house.

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Also ur sag gem moon must be a real adventure loving female or am i wrong?

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In some respects yes. For instance, she's picked up and moved great distances on whim (including moving from teh East Coast to the West Coast to be with me).

On the other hand, she's got a Capricorn Ascendant, so there is a seriousness to her and her demeanor. She doesn't even particularly care for fantasy movies. I would think that someone into adventure would enjoy the vicarious adventures afforded by movies.

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my gem moon also but this contrasts badly with my more peace loving taurus sun

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You mean your more planted and stable Sun. Taurus does love peace, but Gemini Moon does as well. Non-violence is supposed to be a Gemini and Air trait in general. It's something other than simply peace.

With Mutable energy there's always the feeling of movement, which clashes with your Sun that would like things to stay static [unmoving, constant].

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posted April 21, 2008 03:03 PM         

hmmmmmm absolutely stuck... must go out now will be back in 1/2 hour... would love to pick ur brains som more about sag/gem, mine is aries/gem so also fire&air.

Tell u what though, i find this movement thing too tiring... surely my leo moon would be more content with some more drama and playfulness not so much criss-cross analyzing all the time...

Yours is true love, even for a sag moving from west to east, or viceversa?, must be true love?

posted April 21, 2008 04:20 PM         

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Tell u what though, i find this movement thing too tiring... surely my leo moon would be more content with some more drama and playfulness not so much criss-cross analyzing all the time...

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Yeah, with fixed Sun and Moon I'm sure you want something a bit more stable and dependable.

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Yours is true love, even for a sag moving from west to east, or viceversa?, must be true love?

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More likely it's restlessness. She says she has the urge to move every year-and-a-half to two years. We've been together for about 20 months, and she's feeling restless again now. She's also really stressed about her financial situation, which is made worse by living where I live (as it's one of the most expensive places to live in the U.S.). I wouldn't say that her plans are firm, but I wouldn't be surprised if she moves back home without me in the fall. (Without me, because I don't have the money to make that kind of move right now myself, and I think her hometown might be depressing to me.)

posted April 21, 2008 05:36 PM         

acoustic your sag gal might have a cappy rising but she is sag/gem at heart...surely when she goes back to her hometown feels compelled to go somewhere else...sag is the planet of "long journeys ove water" so u be careful she doesnt move to paris next! sags just need new horizons its almost like an addiction, i have found that the asc works very much in youth and i spend all my youth on a plane... now my sag rising is more subdued...getting an old woman...

how to describe this thing with the gem moon? i am glad i found some pointers in astrology as, and i can say that here, because i am somehow a bit ashamed: i have switched off my phone and put it in a drawer! i rely on my sisters and the fixed line as this gem moon influence coupled with this fire sun was DRAINING...
Honest that for me relating is more about more earthy and actual presence, i found his fixation too platonic and verbal... Not to sound old-fashioned and coupling it with the threads on elments, i found the whole rship very imbalanced...
Yet i have felt more loved during the time with him than with anyone ever, so i am having a real hard time...

posted April 21, 2008 06:19 PM         

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very much in youth and i spend all my youth on a plane... now my sag rising is more subdued...getting an old woman...

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I have three planets in Sag myself. I've been to around 20 countries on four continents.

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I wonder what the Saturn in your 7th does to you and your relationships. Does it implicate that you should find a disciplined character, or does it discipline any relationship you might have? Does it give you an over-seriousness when it comes to relationships?

If what is in your 7th indicates what you want in a relationship, then it makes sense that an Aries Sun would square the energy of that [Capricorn's ruler] Saturn in your 7th.

posted April 21, 2008 06:35 PM         

i think though that usually u are most defined by ur moon, i look at ur responses and even with that cap sun and gemini restlessness u are quick to point out details...typical virgo, u lot just need to clear up the clutter...my boss is a heavy virgo and she is just so concerned with details it drives my leo moon mad...

uranus is a total mystery to me, a planet that COLD. associated with genius yet when synastry is involved it is sooooo SEPARATIVE it hurts! Mine with this bloke are mostly oppositions, and with imp planets such as sun,etc...

three planets in sag? so u relate to her pretty well i suppose? Must be, sags are difficult folk to understand, they are so outspoken yet so clean and sincere... somehow it is true what they say they are the travellers and clowns, yet u find that underneath all that gaiety often lies a lot of sadness... i have met some and i find them quiet unique but i find them loners also... girls are misunderstood most often or so i find, they like the limelight and playing at romance yet when they find love they really need that pal-feeling dont u think?

i rather go in favour of wanting stability in rships, yet i also find flighty and immature man sometimes off-putting... but i reckon is this sun of mine placed in 5th in aries that just wannts to have fun! I had a very long rship with a leo guy and it was very taxing at the end...

posted April 21, 2008 06:50 PM         

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three planets in sag? so u relate to her pretty well i suppose? Must be, sags are difficult folk to understand, they are so outspoken yet so clean and sincere... somehow it is true what they say they are the travellers and clowns, yet u find that underneath all that gaiety often lies a lot of sadness... i have met some and i find them quiet unique but i find them loners also... girls are misunderstood most often or so i find, they like the limelight and playing at romance yet when they find love they really need that pal-feeling dont u think?

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I agree with all of this.

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i think though that usually u are most defined by ur moon, i look at ur responses and even with that cap sun and gemini restlessness u are quick to point out details...typical virgo, u lot just need to clear up the clutter

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posted April 21, 2008 06:50 PM         

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Do u have any rship not necessarily of the romantic kind where uranus was very much present? this uranus is a mistery to me...

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I'm not sure. I'm not generally tremendously concerned with synastry...at least not to the point of checking out my synastry with everyone I come into contact with. Here's my relationship's composite. The Uranus is part of a t-square:

posted April 21, 2008 07:01 PM         

uranus sq mars? that is supposed to be very separative indeed...and then u have uranus sq the planet of stability, limits and brake so no wonder sometimes it has had this feeling...

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AG,

posted April 25, 2008 05:14 PM         

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who is the more indecisive moon, libra or gemini?

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Should be Gemini, but I don't think you could be 100% sure. I say Gemini, because Mutables are more flexible. Libra, being a Cardinal sign, may have some indecision, but they are compelled to initiate just like any other Cardinal sign. That need to initiate things might force a decision.

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if the mutable person is engaged in a job that requires them to travel a lot, would it be enough to fulfill their itch for constant movement?

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I think so. Especially with Sags. I know a Sag family man whose home has remained constant, but who enjoys traveling on business (or leisure - he plays in a band).

posted April 26, 2008 11:30 PM         

The thing I don't like about it is that with my Scorpio sun and need for privacy, I feel sometimes as if I am a walking contradiction in my approach to my personal situations. I think by sharing I can help someone who may be going through the same thing and more and more I find that to be true; sometimes all we need to know is that we are not alone when we get down.Then, sometimes I think "why did I just tell that?"

I think being open wins in that battle. I may not always feel comfortable putting myself out there, but then I felt it was the right thing to do. Take me as I am;if anyone ever has a problem with my honesty and openess- that's how I look at it.

And of course If I am not moving or doing something productive, I get bored quickly and very tired.

I also think I can over analyze something to the point of being obsessive, I wish I could be more laidback and find it easier to relax. But even when I try to relax my mind is going in a million directions.

All in all, being a Gemini moon is great because communication is what many people need. When someone is sad or angry and needs someone to talk to, I am never to busy to listen and try to fiqure it out with them. The downside to that for me is when I am in a slump, there are very few people who can help me in that way. Everyone needs someone to listen, but I feel I need someone to help me penetrate the problem like an investigator and look at all the clues until the problem is solved.

Well, that's what it's like in a nutshell for me :P