posted August 10, 2008 04:34 PM            

i agree with winky that the ascendant could be misleading, among the big 3 signs. the ascendant sometimes act as a facade. his Sag sun did not shine maybe because he was not comfortable in the atmosphere, so his Scorpio moon hid on his blackberry (which is what i would do if i were in his shoes ) if i were you, i will give it some more time.

he calls/texts everyday and offers to drive you home are all Scorpio moon demonstration of loyalty and consistency.

btw, if you are going to dump him do not go via the not-responding/ignoring route.

posted August 10, 2008 06:52 PM            

Everytime my drink got low, he would take the empty glass from me, and come back with a new full drink. It's not even like he as trying to get me drunk because he was leaving early that night, and I was going to continue hanging out with my friends.

I think what made me feel like he was cold, was that there is no physical display of affection. I'm a very touchy, feely person where I express my affection through the physical. It's been over a month, and he has not even tried to kiss me. That is where I sensed the coldness. Maybe he is just not attracted to me physically.

When I'm standing next to him, I want so much to reach out and hug or hold him, but I feel subconsciously "blocked" from doing it, cause i sense a cold vibe from him. Maybe I'm crazy and imagining it? I don't know! haha.

posted August 10, 2008 08:35 PM            

Found this and bumped it on the Astro forum for you.

posted August 11, 2008 02:16 AM              

However, with men...I clam up whenever I am upset and later I burst...You could tell that I am feeling so much in my eyes because I look like I'm about to cry.
Also, I could tell someone I like them in writing but in person, it's so hard for me to say 'I like you' or 'i love you' when i truly mean it...
I think i'm afraid what would come out of it, like...I'm afraid I'd be rejected on the spot.
I feel very deeply though.
See this guy probably doesn't even know I've been thinking about him each day thinking (it's over between us) because he hasn't called for a week. And that's just paranoia and obsession....

posted August 11, 2008 10:58 AM              

gem, as a saggie with aries rising i remember is normal the guy is into being generous and so on, but his "emotional" coldness is typical scorpio i must say...

this bloke i like, he want really berserk once because i told him i had to cut off phoning anybody for 10 years as my bills were running so high... now i was of course joking and exaggerating as in funny, but he took it totally to heart and........hm...i didnt like it...so they are not only intense but also a bit touchy...

i, with my saggie asc, tend to be quite blunt sometimes...

still i am still fancying disgusting aries crush with whom i still laugh a lot but he is forever unfaithfull, so dunno really...quite confused actually...

posted August 14, 2008 09:17 PM            

GemGemGem - I am sorry to hear about that. I hope you're feeling well. As I was saying I can be verbal with my feelings if I know the other person really likes me and is verbal too. So he may not be insecere. I also see a man who seems to be really nice to me and calls me etc but he also made it clear that he didn't think we were likely to become a couple. which is soooo weird since I can feel he likes me a lot and already told me that. He calls me sometimes from work just to share a news with me or to say hi so that makes me feel that I am really the one he feels close to but on the other hand he keeps reminding me in subtle ways that he can't promise me anything. I think the main reason is that he may still be in love with his ex and am sure that he probably hopes to get back with her. I know that they email each other regularly and that they occasionnally still have sex but she is out of the country for now. So my feeling is that the emotional distance is because there is something else going on. And it might be also the case with your scorpio mooner.

posted August 18, 2008 01:32 PM              

anyone scorpio moon here that wants to help poor leo moon?

what am i supposed to think? apparently nice dreams...

posted August 19, 2008 01:33 PM              

yes thanks, i have tried to ask myself but he completely shuts off, whereas he is quite nosy...

trouble is we live quite apart, so unless someone moves, it is going to be difficult for both of us, thus i dont get really excited about the whole thing...

there must be something going on though because we really connect, synastry is nice, as is the composite, but we have been going forth and back for quite a while now...

posted September 06, 2008 03:15 AM            

And ever since I’ve known about what it was…I’ve always felt like it was a curse. But after reading the posts in here and in another topic I’ve come to realize that it’s actually not so bad. And that there’s a good side to it, thank goodness. : )

And trust me it feels like the hardest thing to overcome. I think it's because when you get depressed or even when you have a problem you just don't want to bother anyone with it and you try to solve it on your own. You don't like to tell people even your closest friends and family. I know I feel like they wouldn’t understand. For me I guess it's also because my family doesn't take me seriously when I'm talking about how I feel, so I keep it to myself or vent to my friends. I know this is one major thing that has affected me GREATLY when it comes to dating and relationships.

Also I hesitate and think too much about something before I do it when it comes to love. That’s where I get into trouble. Haha. I think it’s the “afraid of rejection” and “wanting to make sure I do the right thing” and avoid “getting hurt” part.

I think it also deals with how a Scorpio Moon deals with their past. I know for me, I tend to hide it from others and for some unknown reason (i think i like to avoid problems and not solve them until months later...)

I know I sometimes can't tell someone how I feel because I really don't know what I feel, myself. It's hard to explain, but I know this was one of the reasons why the last guy I dated (who was truly AMAZING!) i couldn't tell him how I felt because I didn't even know...and maybe our feelings are too intense and dramatic for some people so they don't know how to take it, and then I take that as REJECTION. I hate rejection. Seriously.

Also I want to add some comments to those that have already posted. I agree with winky_winky with the "most of the times we are playing games but we dont realise". If someone sees that I am doing that I’d like to them to let me know cuz I don’t realize that I’m doing it, IF I do it. I know I’m playful though.

Tatyh: And I DEFINITELY feel you about letting a guy know how I feel, and I get screwed over. Haha. Really. And I tend to be really honest and somewhat blunt so I say what I feel…and if I don’t say it, I’ll write it, or I won’t say anything at all…and toture myself about it and then bring it up later. Lol.

And I agree with whoever said it but I’m SOOOOOOO afraid of rejection. That’s one of the worst things ever. (sorry I know I’m exaggerating..lol) Especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

GemGemGem: (on your question about being verbal and open with feelings)
For me, honestly that’s hard for me to do. But for some reason the last guy I dated some how he made me realized that it’s ok to feel something for someone (in just a week or two) and I actually told him in a letter. He was the one to tell me his feelings first…and he told me every day that we were together that he can’t stop thinking about me and stuff like that. I got scared…I know. But once I knew that if I don’t do something right now…all of this would be gone forever or I’ll regret it later if I don’t say something now. So I went with my gut feeling and wrote him a “closure” letter. But it was actually a “letting you know how I feel” letter. At the time it was just something I HAD to do. It was definitely a first for me. And I think it was spontaneous…I just went with the feeling that I had to do it. And then came the miscommunication and the confusion…and then came the feeling of rejection. Ha. Gosh. I don’t regret doing it, I’m actually glad that I did it. And after that I’m learning to be more verbal and expressive about my feelings and emotions. I know I’ve slowly grown to be more open with my feelings when it comes to other things like friends and work. I know I can’t hold things in anymore if I don’t want to be emotionally corrupt and emotionally numb. Haha. :P

***Sorry if I wrote too much or went off on tangents. I did post a warning in my introduction here on the “Know Two Are Alike” section. Hehe :P

posted September 06, 2008 03:19 AM            

If you want to know how a person with a Scorpio Moon feels about you you'll see it in their actions. If they still want to see you and talk to you and be around then chances are they are into you even if they don't say it or show any emotions. lol. You'll notice it in what they do for you. We might not be able to verbally express it sometimes...maybe because our feelings are too deep even for that we don't notice it till later on.

posted September 06, 2008 11:02 AM              

This is a very telltaling explanation..and so accurate, you have summed up Scorpio Moons perfectly!!

You said it best, when you mentioned watch what we do, watch our actions.

Even if subtle, we have a special way of expressing our feelings and showing we care..that part definitely rings true with me..