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Topic: Scorpio Mooners: How do U Love?
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winky_winky unregistered
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posted May 22, 2008 04:07 AM
as in would u never really show what u feel?this crush of mine is real hard to get out of the shell it is like he likes secretive behaviour or sthing IP: Logged |
Little Miss Libra unregistered
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posted May 22, 2008 04:39 AM
Hi Winky!I don't have my moon in Scorpio but my yummy capricorn does. I do remember feeling exactly how you felt really early on in our "dating" phase. I knew that he was into me because he pursued me but everytime he called me or we hung out he would never make any attempt to engage in any sort of REAL conversation. Just normal small talk stuff, you know. So it really, really started to get under my skin. I felt like he didn't want me to know him. So one day, about a month into it, I just bluntly put it out there. I asked him "Do you not WANT me to KNOW you?" and he just blinked a couple times and asked me what I meant by that. So I told him what was bothering me. After that, he definitely started to put his emotions on the table in a real way and it allowed us to CONNECT. Maybe you should try being blunt too? **Unless you're thinking its too early or it would freak him out. I think Scorp mooners are highly sensitive and are protective of their emotions so that they won't carelessly be thrown into an emotionally vulnerable situation. Maybe he's just feeling you out to see if he can trust you? Any scorpio moons out there?? Hope my experience helped you out a little. Good luck and hang in there!! IP: Logged |
plutoprincess Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 22, 2008 06:42 AM
I shall agree with all of the above. We are generally veray passioante characters, we can fall in and out of love easily, but once someone has captured our heart and mind, we're totally devoted. We don't reveal emotions easily. Although we many times feel drowned by theri intensity, we are very afraid of letting that special somebody to know about them because we can't stand rejection. Possesive and jealous ...IP: Logged |
winky_winky unregistered
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posted May 22, 2008 01:07 PM
one of my girlfriends has this position and is happily married but each time i ask for illumination on this topic she clams up like an oyster ............so GO FIGUREIP: Logged |
winky_winky unregistered
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posted May 22, 2008 03:29 PM
was wondering if these folks like playing mind games this bloke does and also likes to make me jealous hmmmmmmmmmmmmm IP: Logged |
seveneieghtorange unregistered
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posted May 25, 2008 11:49 AM
winky_winky.... Yes, we are very much prone to playing games, even if outwardly we condemn them. Scorpio moons know how to play games well, so I would watch out with them when they tempt you to join in...we really don't know how and when to stop. IP: Logged |
deuxantares Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 25, 2008 12:35 PM
i wouldn't call it mind games because we don't play, hence it's not a game. i think it's a "test" thing and to some it may look like manipulation. we put the other person thru tests to see if they are worthy of our love. and this is not always a conscious thing; most of the time we (who are aware of our scorpionness) realize this only after the fact.IP: Logged |
winky_winky unregistered
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posted May 25, 2008 06:34 PM
deux and other snowflakes "most of the times we are playing games but we dont realise" OHHHHHHHHHHH this sounds so true! Could u please ellaborate or give examples?
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lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 27 From: neverland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2008 01:22 PM
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winky_winky unregistered
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posted May 27, 2008 08:07 PM
scorpio mooners need ur helpthis guy has totally gone silent, after a 2-week intense session of frantic and intense email and phone calls he said he just finds our rship a bit too intense, that he is not dependable (obviously implying i am) and has gone totally off and non-existent for nearly 5 days....any insights? IP: Logged |
Dooza unregistered
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posted May 30, 2008 07:11 AM
My partner of 4 and a half years, has Scorp Moon and lawdy, lawdy, lawdy..... there have been phases of moods, moods and more moods....and communication? forget it.... as Miss Libra said - conversation seems to only be about small talk stuff (My deep heart yearns to talk about deep stuff most of the time). I was pushed to the very last of my patience... I said "That's it! I'm out of here definitely this time!!!".... and then..... ...my partner suddenly reverted back to the happy Leo Sun person they were when we first met. We are back on track now (it's been 2 months).... but it was certainly a two year test of my character!!! If you really want to have a reln with Scorp Moon, you will experience loyalty like you wouldn't believe.... but don't expect to chat about your feelings to open listening ears, or be able to pry into their feelings. It'll be easier to climb Mt Everest with a gorilla on your back. Good luck, my friend !!!
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kate_o unregistered
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posted June 01, 2008 01:20 AM
*x-posted from heart cakes topic in the astrology forum.."I am a sun libra, aquarius asc, moon aries, mars cap, venus scorpio... if anything, I have been called quite severe.. I am not really! There's just a few things I can't take.. 1) People who are not straight forward (even though I am still working on my complete and utter forthrightness, I expect that from others, otherwise I am gone) 2) People who are not SERIOUS (in life, in relationships... but should be able to act the fool with me when necessary which is most of the time) 3) People who are PASSIONLESS annnnd... Interestingly enough, I am not that into sex... Although I am quite sexual in nature. This has been a problem, no doubt. Not for me, though. I have had great, great intellectual/emotional relationships with a cap man with venus in scorp and also a taurus wth a pisces moon and venus in scorp... But these men were great for telling secrets and mental stimulation... I definitely couldn't deal with their issues in a day-to-day relationship (aw hell no!). Now married to a gemini/cancer cusp with a libra rising, scorp moon, mars in gemini, venus in leo... Couldn't ask for a better (or prettier) man... Although sometimes I wish he were bigger and scarier (ha ha) but I do seem to stick to men who really have it together. Nice upstanding citizens. They just need a slight evil streak, I guess." And as far as loyalty goes? Well, in my current LTR I would never even think to be disloyal. He is that perfect for me, and I am no idealist. Something about him has changed me, and our relationship is ultra communicative and it's really only been a handful of individuals I have ever been able to achieve this with. I absolutely cannot stand people who can't open up to me. I hate hate hate small talk. That said, I have been in relationships where I felt the other person was not being completely open with me so I didn't feel the need to be completely honest with them either... Also if I don't feel an immediate spark for someone, I usually know there is no potential... but that may have nothing to do with the scorp moon. Although, I almost always get who I want. Except for aries.. Been head over heels with one or two and they are just immune to my magnetism.. But that's all right -- who needs 'em? Okay I have typed way too many words. :-X IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2008 02:03 AM
kate_o Welcome to LindaLand and to Soul Unions! IP: Logged |
kate_o unregistered
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posted June 01, 2008 02:14 AM
Hi there! Thanks for the welcome.IP: Logged |
tatyh unregistered
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posted June 05, 2008 10:16 PM
I'm a scorpio moon myself. Everytime I let people know how I feel, I get screwed over. Doesn't matter if it's people close to me or not close to me. That's probably a typical scorpio moon response. Also, if I share my emotions, people will probably realize that I'm a little paranoid and emotional, which is the last thing I want people to know because they might not like me so much. IP: Logged |
yaosers unregistered
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posted June 05, 2008 11:26 PM
quote: tatyh: Also, if I share my emotions, people will probably realize that I'm a little paranoid and emotional, which is the last thing I want people to know because they might not like me so much.
Complete agreement here. I have to probe and feel to know first how the person would react (even a close one), before I'd really be able to just... "let it out". It's not that I do not want to. The problem is that I want to so much, that having it being unrequited just sux. :P For me, this applies to close ones only. With complete strangers and coworkers, for example, I couldn't care enough, really, to show much of my real emotions. ------------------ Sun: Pisces Moon: Scorpio Mercury: Aries Venus: Aquarius Mars: Pisces Jupiter: Cancer Saturn: Virgo Uranus: Scorpio Neptune: Sagittarius Pluto: Libra Lilith: Leo Asc node: Virgo From ]http://cafeastrology.com IP: Logged |
Taurus90 unregistered
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posted June 18, 2008 12:36 PM
I was recently involved with a Scorpio moon and it was frustrating because I never knew what was really going on inside him- all I knew was that he was VERY intense, but he seemed cold and detached on the surface sometimes so he came across as being at odds with his emotions. I notice that I frequently become attracted to Scorpio moons-Ive no idea why.IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 30, 2008 03:23 PM
I just went out with a 44 yr old guy yesterday (he is 16 yrs older than me) and he is a sag sun with a scorpio moon. We've been on 2 dates, and he has already confessed so many feelings to me. Is this normal for a scorpio moon? I'm thinking after reading all these posts about how scorpio mooners don't really speak their true feelings, that maybe this guy is being insincere. Are there any scorpio mooners that are verbal and open with their feelings? IP: Logged |
winky_winky unregistered
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posted August 04, 2008 12:00 PM
i dont think these people are verbal with their feelings, it is just that they like to probe........ so they could be sly and trying to get out what they need to know...but then again saggi sun is soooooo straighforward........ IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 05, 2008 08:48 PM
Yes, not to mention he has an Aries ascendant adding to the Saggie Sun! I feel like I'm prey! haha. IP: Logged |
Negreta Newflake Posts: 2 From: Paris-France Registered: Jan 2011
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posted August 07, 2008 01:29 AM
GemGemGem I am a female Aries with a Scorpio moon and although I am not very verbal about my feelings unless I am sure that the person on the other side does have feelings for me, and shows them to me, I am pretty emotional and show my emotional side a lot when I have romantic feelings for somebody. I just can't help it. I would like to hide them though but just can't because I am so real and spontaneous that it's just out of my control. With friends though I am less emotional and don't show too much of affection. Sometimes they even think I don't love them as much as they do but I do love them. It's just that I have a more detached appearance with friends. I gotta be the strong independant woman they see in me. But when it comes to romance, I become very soft and that shows when I am developing feelings for someone. However, in the past, I have been in relationships in which I wasn't very demonstrative and my partners doubted my love. But it was somehow true that I wasn't completely in love with them. At that time I was disconnected from my own heart and was only seeking the comfort of a stable relationship with a partner in love with me. Although I was dearly attached to them and loyal etc.. something was missing but I was not aware of it. That's the only situation I can think of me as emotionnally detached, and not very affectionate. But my heart wasn't really there..IP: Logged |
seveneieghtorange unregistered
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posted August 08, 2008 07:35 PM
Negreta, Im a scorpio moon too and I am exactly the same way when expressing emotions with my romantic partners. Mine is in the 5th house, where is yours?IP: Logged |
winky_winky unregistered
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posted August 10, 2008 11:53 AM
i find modalities quite helpful when other things are missing, thus scorpio being fixed i find these people are quite persistent somehow u just have to look past the mask and shell, scorpio moon crush is on the go again and as intense as ever: on the outside everything is just "cool", but i know there are feelings and that is it...i might be a bit too forceful as am taurus sun.... gemgemgem, saggi sun and aries asc, i find asc always is misleading, in that it usually shows up in alot of their actoins but the sun is always where the core lies, so surely his behaviour is direct and so on,fiery, blah blah blah but this person will still be quite wary of boredom and getting caught in routine i believe...typical saggie i believe, even if his needs and emotions and reactions are scorpio-like, as in intense,etc.. i also read somewhere that it is no good to push these people in that they take their own time, so u are into the mysterious business and finding out for the long-haul it is true though that pushing them means the cold shoulder... in my experience... hmm at least u can think what u want, that is fun to a certain extent... IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 10, 2008 03:23 PM
I'm feeling a bit sad today, as me and Mr. Scorpio moon are no more. He doesn't know this yet, but I've decided to cut off all communication with him, and not respond to his messages. This may seem a bit cruel, but when we went out last night, I definitely felt what Winky_Winky referred to as "the cold shoulder" from him, which has brought the ice queen out in myself. It's like he's so warm and charming, and affectionate one minute, then a switch turns off, and he is distant and cold. Just 3 weeks ago, he was telling me all these feelings he had, and even took me out to dinner with his whole familly last week, including his mom. He insisted on going out with me and my friends last night, then when we were all out, he was on his blackberry the whole time and said he needed to go pick up his cousin or some BS, and had to leave early. He is really sweet, and "there" for me in that he calls everyday, and txt messages me, and even offers to drive me home a lot, but it's like he's not there emotionally.
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GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 10, 2008 03:25 PM
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