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Topic: Cancer Mooners how do you love?
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CrimsonChyld
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posted October 10, 2008 09:18 PM
WOW! I could relate to every one of the posts I read (didn't read them all, just the first few and the one b4 mine).HSC...that description of your girlfriend is sooo me. I have Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon and Sagi ASC. But when I fall in love, I fall HARD. And I do also fall in love with his family. The way I look at it is when I love someone I love everything about him... and knowing that he is who he is greatly due to his family. So in my opinion, I feel closer to my partner when I become part of their world... makes sense?
And I am also very very very emotional... and I hate that about me. I try to hold back tears in whatever situation because I don't want to come across as weak... but I always cave in to the tears lol. If I go to a "tear jerker" movie.. I do things like dig my nails into my purse to hold back the tears lol. I'm such a sap.
But also.. I'm very devoted to my man. I'm not with anyone now, but when I was.. I wouldn't give a passing glance to another man. It's a form of respect for me.
And I would wait on him hand and foot too. As long as he respects my doing so. And I'm all over "him" when I'm in a relationship. I like to hold hands, cuddle on the couch.. lots of kissing, etc..
But I'm a huge emo queen lol!
I must have a lot of Cancer in me...
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jehovah81
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posted November 06, 2008 10:40 AM
Cancerian moon here as well.
Question um all of you's who have replied about being cancerian moons all female? :-) im feeling a lil intimidated here *joke* being male but like the others same is true for myself. The only other thing 4 me is tht i've never loved a new partner like an old one but once we've separated im haunted by all my lovers or partners cos i get all nostalgic. Lol i hav 2 tell myself 2 get over it and quick :-) IP: Logged |
Jugular
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posted November 06, 2008 07:55 PM
Female here. But don't feel self-conscious. This is a very accepting place. Thank you for sharing.IP: Logged |
LetsDance
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posted November 06, 2008 09:49 PM
Well said, Jugular. How have you been? Jehovah81, welcome! I will say this though, it is very hard for me to cry. I was feeling really bad last night, but the tears would not come and I really wanted that release. I only shed a few small drops and then I was off to sleep. God worked it out for me today. He knew what I was going through and that I really needed help. He provided it. I know this is not a religious forum, and I'm not religious, but I do worship God and just like to take this time to tell Him "Thank You". IP: Logged |
Jugular
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posted November 07, 2008 09:19 PM
LD, hey, and thanks for asking. I've had a rough few weeks where it's taken everything in my power not to explode ten times a day, at anything and everything. I'm usually a calm person unless majorly provoked, but this was just a spell where I was raging!!! The receptionist and secretaries in the office heard me going off on an adversary (another attorney) during a deposition in our office -- and now I have a reputation! They wanted to know if I wanted some Vaseline for my hair and razor blades for my pockets. LOL. I think I'm done with it, though. Otherwise, just up to my usual antics and trying to take care of my little guy and survive the waterproofing project on our new place (long story). How're you? Is Mr. Scorp behaving?IP: Logged |
LetsDance
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posted November 08, 2008 11:21 AM
Hey Juggie, =)Well, if you lost it with someone, I'm sure you gave them a moment of pause so that they will think twice before setting you off again. I hear you about being calm. I try to be as well by just minding my business and doing my thing, but because shyt happens it also hits the fan. =) What is it about these past few weeks or even months? It hasn't been easy for me either. I'm doing some soul-searching these days. I'm glad you are doing better. How old is your little guy? Congratulations on your new place! A home full of love, laughter and understanding.  I posted on my thread yesterday about how I hurt my scorpio. I will email you more details. We are still growing together. There is so much we must understand about each other. We both can be insecure and that sometimes can work against us. But I love him and I know he loves me, so we battle it out or love it out, if you know what I mean. IP: Logged |
Jugular
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posted November 08, 2008 08:07 PM
LD, I will watch for that e-mail.My little guy will be four at the end of January. I'll post his photo soon, I've got some good recent ones. I will check out your other post, as well. Hope you're having a peaceful weekend, like me. The rage has subsided! IP: Logged |
Jugular
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posted November 09, 2008 09:26 PM
Woops, spoke too soon. The rage was just temporarily submerged. O. M. G. Is it the Pisces moon? Is it Mars in Scorpio? I'm such an astrology idiot I have no clue... but I know something's cooking, because I am a danger to myself and others these days. A combination of emotionally labile and just plain mad. Where can I hide?IP: Logged |
sadie8
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posted November 16, 2008 09:58 PM
I have moon in cancer opposition my sun in capricorn but I really 'love' more like a sagittarius bcuz I have like 5 planets including my venus in sag in my 1st house. I'm very independant(asc tightly conjunct Uranus-also sag) and I don't generally admit to needing or wanting a lot of care but if you're lucky enough to get past all my charm and antics, behind closed doors, in a commited relationship, I'm very tender and my exes have told me more than once that at first blush, though I come across as a tough talking provocatuer
theres always a hint of vulnerability there just out of sight. Don't let word get out about that though. After all, I have a reputation...  IP: Logged |
sadie8
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posted November 16, 2008 10:25 PM
hey jehovah! how cool do you think Jack White is (White Stripes) bcuz he has BOTH his sun AND his moon in...yes you guessed it CANCER! You can still be an awesome guitarist who can dish out angry lyrics shred riffs like god AND be tender and emotional too. Guess who else had a lot of Cancer in their chart? My very own beloved Frida Kahlo. She had like 5 planets in cancer conjunct her sun and she was no pushover (moon square mars baby  ) Cancer is so missunderstood. For years I denied that part of myself thinking it was so puny and pathetic only to discover how incredibly BRAVE it is to FEEL! It's hard to care when you hurt so deeply. I honestly beleive that it is that enormous depth of emotion that made the two afore mentioned people such amazing artists. IP: Logged |
jehovah81
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posted November 22, 2008 06:45 AM
Hi team :-):-D i S'pose i didn't really share much than what everyone else had spoken about.
SADIE.. I ain't heard of white stripes might check it out when im out in the malls next. Music *sigh can take one back in time. :-) ------------------
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Unmoved
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posted July 18, 2009 07:27 PM
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GypseeWind
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posted August 17, 2009 01:51 PM
sigh*
It was so nice to read what you all have written, I'm not a cancer moon, but since I have three children by one, I have spent most of my adult life trying to understand him.
He is cap/sun, cancer/rising, and as I said, cancer moon.
I'm wondering what the....? He ever saw in me?
He must of thought I was some kind of whirling dervish or something.
One huge problem that really put a big dent in the relationship we had were family issues.
He was literally, addicted to his family.
Me, I left my first home at 13 and my second home at 17. I can go looonnnngggg periods of time without talking to my parents or sibs. Not that I don't think about them. But unlike him, I don't feel the need for them to come by EVERYDAY, and/or talk to them on the phone several times a day.
Sighs again* I probably have wounded him deeply and hurt his feelings when I've called him Momma's boy and things like that. I was teasing, but since many a truth is spoken in jest, he probably took it to his heart.
The only time I have ever seen him cry was at funerals, and when I tried to comfort him, he pushed me away, quite forcefully! Which hurt my feelings. He said later, that if he would of let me comfort him, he would have just fell to peices, which I understood.
His moods have been terrors over the years. I wonder if 'he loves me, he loves me not' was invented about someone like him at times.
I notice when the times he has doubted himself the most, where also the times he doubted his love for me.
Needless to say, there were many affairs. He did his best to keep the early ones secret, but I am a primo detective in these matters, if I may say so, and I always found out.
Seems like the other women were always the things I'm not. (though they always resembled me) they gave him all the things I guess I didn't.
It is sad because if he could of just articulated what he needed, like us sag's do, like 24/7, maybe our life would have turned out different.
Anyway, thanks for the insight. You helped me to understand alot about him. He's a great Dad, BTW.
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MsCandeh
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posted August 18, 2009 02:31 PM
nawwwwwwww I love all you cancer mooners! I have so many of you in my life  They all have very similar traits to what's been written here IP: Logged |
Lyra
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posted August 21, 2009 09:52 AM
My bf is Scorp Sun + Cancer Moon. V. close to family, v. houseproud, v. emotional, v. creative (has a trine in Water signs). Not a great deal of room for rationality LOL!! I have 3 planets in Pisces (inc. Moon) so that possibly makes things easier. Yes, loving in a "caring" way. Buying me food that he thinks I'll enjoy; watching out for me to make sure I don't trip over; a very sensitive and tender, as well as passionate, lover. Actually better if HE is allowed to do most of the "mothering"!!!IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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posted August 26, 2009 05:01 AM
Wow, this post is ancient and yet so relevant that I simply had to post something.I thought that I was the only one who felt such intensity and depth of feeling as mentioned on this thread by other members. How reasssuring to know that you are no Alien and that there are people who feel like you do. I am a cancer moon with Sag sun and Asc Taurus(Name!) and I have been/am still struggling to reconcile my feelings for a Gemin sun/Virgo moon guy for months now. At first we broke up(and I think I did write a post about it) only to get back together because I still felt that my feelings were not properly resolved; I still felt a lot of jealousy towards any people that he would date. I have learned however that relationships have very little to do with what the other person is "missing" or "needs to do" but that they are really about you. I realised that the unrecocilled feelings I have for my Gemini/Virgo moon are due to my past hurts. There is a part of me that hasn't been completely healed and the abandonment and confusion I feel within the relationship is really the abandonment and confusion I feel from within. I have yet to feel secure in myself and thus how can I expect to feel secure with another?
I know that this thread is old and I am not looking for any answers, just sharing my own personal experiences.
Lunar cancerians are known to love ddeply and profoundly; why not extend that love to a world outside your inner circle? There are people out there who could use our nurturing instincts and overwhemning need to "take care" of others and see to their well-being.
What seems to work for my moon is generosity; if I am in a state of giving,nurturing and being outwardly focused is when I "feel" my best(most stable).
I often consciously find things,unexpected little things, that I can do for people that I care about and present these things in a very meaningful,caring way eg Once I took a total of 10 my friends to eat out(out of the blue) and it did wonders to my confidence.They were all so suprised and have never forgotten the generosity I bestowed on them on that day.
I think that what affects my moodiness would be if I become too inwardly focused. As a moon in cancer I have a very caring, delicate nature and the best way to make this work for me is to GIVE.
I don't think that a lunar cancer will ever be happy in a relationship until they learn to give to themselves(in abundance) what they hope to receive from another. Infact, I think that goes for everyone, regardless of moon signs. "You be the answer for you and stop expecting others to sense and fill up that part of you that you long to have filled."- The Secret IP: Logged |
Crabclaw
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posted August 26, 2009 10:06 PM
All this is very true about us cancers so why do you all think that the astrology find scorpio and picies to be a better match. My girlfriend is a scorpio and I find her to be distant, unemotional, and selfish. Those are her only bad attributes but what I hate the most is the way she goes about emotions like they are cheap which if you are a cancer this can really cause problems.IP: Logged |
Master_Zeromus
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posted August 28, 2009 10:40 AM
Maybe it's a little bit off topic but I'm a Taurus Moon. Some similarities with Cancer Moon I have with a lot of sensual pleasures which I fantisize of. To cling to and posses are very similar aren't they.I could hardly imagine how it would have been with a Moon Cancer girl in the past. Too bad that she was a Scorpio AC of 1982 model because she was otherwise very hot. IP: Logged |
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posted August 28, 2009 12:32 PM
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Master_Zeromus
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posted August 31, 2009 08:11 AM
To ASC Taurus!Hey, get rid of that demon you hear! Your Baresma path allows you to marry eternally a Cancer or Virgo man without any consequences. However if you take it outside of your Baresma path, trouble will arise for sure. With other water signs than Cancer you could be wiped out entirely by cold and dark. With other earth signs than Virgo you will be buried alive literally. With other fire signs than Sagittarius you will be blind. Oh, and airsigns doesn't fit any Baresma of holy elementals since air is Daeva elemental and therefore malign to any other. As a god I know this to be true! Astrology is based on darkmatter in universe and there's no way you could escape from it. Even if I'm not a hindu I still sympathize to some extend with Linda Goodman like all deeds have their consequences either good or bad. A Taurus boy tried to make love with his Cancer boy classmate but died thereafter in malign skin cancer short after his attempt and the innocent Cancer boy got under heavy persecution. A Gemini couple tried to adopt a Cancer boy with the consequences that the woman part being raped by a Drug whereafter she committed suicide. A Cancer boy tried to make love with a Scorpio girl whereby she got nymphomaniac and made love with several other boys instead. And many many more examples I got to why you shouldn't mess outside your Baresma path. Inside of Zhna this is. If the Moon signs are that importand during operations and treatment. If agricultural thing after zodiacal signs like the Steiner schools for example does is so importand, then how importand aren't our Baresma paths? IP: Logged | |
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