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Mystic Melody
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posted April 04, 2011 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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PlutoSquared
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posted April 05, 2011 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a good thread

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SparklingSag
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posted April 05, 2011 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Time really does heal!! My ex and I arfter a year are able to talk now and be friends. At the time though I thought I couldn't get through a day....now I can breathe and am happy for all the experience taught me.

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Mystic Melody
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posted June 21, 2011 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for, ya know, a soul sistah

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posted June 21, 2011 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meta_4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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tenny22
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posted July 03, 2011 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tenny22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is really nice!

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Lioness
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posted July 04, 2011 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just get crayons/markers and a coloring book and I color...


I put all my concentration into coloring..

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lalitree
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posted July 15, 2011 12:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalitree     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
whatever works for you...go by feel most of all--i know i had to Open up and accept, and when i did i acknowledged both heart and mind, and in this case mind was right. i had to move on from this person who was not good for me. so while being open to my pain, i lived with it and put it into motion and every moment of my life, which i lived as if brand new. and surprisingly (yet somehow not surprisingly)when i would be forced to look into this pain...i found not pain but many many buried things that seem to make sense in bits and pieces and always on their own schedule.

keep up a constant flow of inspiration...breathe and just FEEL and try as hard as you can to be in the moment, in inner peace as much as possible. you might even see things in a brand new light you never expected when you find inner peace. you might find that in reality your heart isn't broken at all, and who knows what strange and unexpected gems you'll uncover when you go digging by NOT digging...

perhaps this is what heartbreak is trying to teach us--to kind of push us enough that we finally spiral inward at some point. amazing how things will make sense when you just don't even care anymore...it's like some cosmic joke

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abcd efg
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posted July 15, 2011 05:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for abcd efg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by lalitree:
whatever works for you...go by feel most of all--i know i had to Open up and accept, and when i did i acknowledged both heart and mind, and in this case mind was right. i had to move on from this person who was not good for me. so while being open to my pain, i lived with it and put it into motion and every moment of my life, which i lived as if brand new. and surprisingly (yet somehow not surprisingly)when i would be forced to look into this pain...i found not pain but many many buried things that seem to make sense in bits and pieces and always on their own schedule.

keep up a constant flow of inspiration...breathe and just FEEL and try as hard as you can to be in the moment, in inner peace as much as possible. you might even see things in a brand new light you never expected when you find inner peace. you might find that in reality your heart isn't broken at all, and who knows what strange and unexpected gems you'll uncover when you go digging by NOT digging...

perhaps this is what heartbreak is trying to teach us--to kind of push us enough that we finally spiral inward at some point. amazing how things will make sense when you just don't even care anymore...it's like some cosmic joke


I relate to this so well. I wanted to link a song here but its not in English.

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lalitree
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posted July 19, 2011 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalitree     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you should post the song anyway abcd! i don't think it matters so much in music what language it is in. true music reaches is beyond language right

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Mystic Melody
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posted November 15, 2012 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bumping up to the top of Soul Unions to soothe a Broken Heart

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ZezeLoves
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posted November 15, 2012 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ZezeLoves     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you, MysticMelody. <3

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Mystic Melody
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posted April 02, 2013 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.purposefairy.com/9979/8-secrets-of-the-happiest-people-on-earth/

I wanted to add this link I just found.

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bethbabe
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posted April 08, 2013 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bethbabe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mystic, thank you for all the inspiring links!!

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Mystic Melody
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posted April 10, 2013 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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saronna
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posted April 10, 2013 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes. have some fun. be happy. you deserve to be happy. big hugs your linda goodman friend saronna. good thread. thanks for the thread. your service.

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Mystic Melody
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posted June 06, 2013 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great advice for ending ANY relationship, but especially divorce...

http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/06/how-to-get-divorced-like-a-grown-up/

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Randall
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posted June 07, 2013 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Mystic Melody
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posted August 29, 2013 02:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sending this thread up for someone who just asked how to get over a break up... I hope you find something here that helps.

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Mystic Melody
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posted September 19, 2013 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/09/the-relationship-funeral-rituals-for-a-breakup/

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Mystic Melody
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posted February 11, 2014 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/02/5-quotes-about-love-for-anyone-whos-ever-loved-lost/

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Mystic Melody
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posted July 14, 2014 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/07/this-one-goes-out-to-the-one-i-loved/


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Mystic~Melody
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posted May 26, 2024 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic~Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The best thing is Knowing when you are um… (aged to perfection?) that you were always following that carrot to your deepest relationship and the ones that didn’t work out were truly practice and not anywhere near the magic of your true person.

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