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Topic: Meet Mr. Perfect
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MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 09:24 AM
We had one of those nights when you stay up talking all night... yawwwwn strrretch♫ I think I love you so what am I so afraid of I'm afraid that I'm not sure of a love there is no cure for I think I love you isn't that what life is made of... ♫ He loves me. He thinks I'm beautiful. He wants to take care of me. He's perfect for me and a freaking Adonis. He was talking about food and using Spanish words and I told him it was so sexy and told him to speak to me in Spanish. I lay in his arms while he told me I was his sun and his moon, his love and inspiration... en espanol. OMG
Did I mention he is an artist? He's cooked dinner for me twice, put oil and anti-freeze in my car, always pumps my gas, bought gas for me, took my daughter and I and his nephew on a beautiful bike ride along the river to a scenic "lighthouse" look-out and took me to the top... he hugs me hello and kisses me goodbye and calls when he says he will call. He helps his nephew with his homework, likes to go to the library and the park, and loves his mom. He recognizes his dark side and the need to heal and recognizes a good woman's power in helping with that. He wants to heal me too. And to love me. I found a soul friend. This meeting has refreshed and strengthened my faith. Feb 16th, 1977 noon Silvis IL ------------------ ♫ "Did you ever get the chance to dance along the light of day?" ♫ ♥ IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 09:43 AM
Venus conjunction Pluto: What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is in conjunction with your partner’s Pluto? You are drawn by a passionate sexual attraction and re-attraction. Your intensity deepens over time rather than lessening. A desire to control, manipulate or sexually dominate your partner may well be a part of this mystical binding that begins with physical passion and through spiritual struggle and transformation seems to go to the core of unconditional love. If your partner’s Venus is conjunct your Pluto, a complete transformation of your attitudes about love and relationship will occur as you and your partner work through an intensely passionate physical and spiritual love, where fascination with your partner can become obsession, and issues of trust and acceptance are aroused and resolved between the two of you.Pluto conjunction Uranus: What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Pluto is in conjunction to your partner's Uranus? Your romantic relationship has more than one level of interaction between you and your romantic partner. This can be a turbulent atmosphere where both partners experience transformation through inspiration and inner vision as well as an intense, spontaneous sexuality. You will make profound changes in your life amidst emotional turmoil and unexpected upheavals on this karmic thrill ride. http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/plutosynastryaspects.htm I didn't have to "make" this happen. I didn't have to "wait" for this to happen. It just IS.
We talk about all of this already. Not astrologically... I just looked these up right now... just because we feel it. He is Pluto and my Venus is conjunct my Uranus.
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MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 09:50 AM
The Devil Card in the Tarot deck is symbolic of some of the types of feelings we have when in a relationship with someone when we have a Venus/Pluto Conjunction. We may feel so completely bonded to this person in an almost obsessive way. Because of this obsession we will often feel tied down or stifled by the intensity of this energy almost as if it is against our will! We often merge with this person on a very deep level losing our independence and allowing ourselves to be controlled and enslaved to this addictive feeling of sexual love. When we become addictive in our love patterns we often get caught up in appearances and the physical part of the relationship. We begin to limit ourselves, choosing to stay in the dark about other areas of the relationship. When we neglect seeing other areas of the relationship we can start to think negatively about seeing the relationship without this passionate energy and the intensity of the connection. We can become stuck in fear and doubt at this point.I have had my own experiences in relationships with Venus Pluto contacts and if you read Linda Goodmans Relationships Signs books she emphasizes Venus/Pluto as "soulmate" or "twin soul" aspect...there is a very intense and deep love between the parties. It isn't only the Venus person who is doing the loving..the Pluto person is loving the Venus person but with a more "transformative" and intense/possessive love..usually the Venus person is overwhelmed, allured, attracted, consumed, and petrified all at the same time!! It is a very intense and passionate encounter. When Venus Pluto conjunct in synastry usually other people "see" how in love the two are without any words between the couple..they could walk down the street and others will simply be envious and take notice!! It's an amazing thing! Pluto connections are always intensely transformative. When we are in a relationship with another where there is a Venus/Pluto conjunction...our lives, for better or for worse...will never be the same. Here are some keywords to assist you in better understanding the energy of the planet Venus: Love, feeling, harmony, relationships, ability to give and take, longing and desire for union, sensory pleasures such as in five senses, beauty, sensuality, aesthetic perception, art, talents, good taste, the throat and neck, being vain, temptation, focusing on external factors, what we value, money and how we earn it. Venus is the feminine energy principle in the birth chart. Here are some keywords to assist you in better understanding the energy of the planet Pluto: Deep transformation, the depths, darkness, the source, underground, beneath, psychological forces, our instincts, power, control, helplessness, dependency, intensity of strength, drive for far reaching and deep changes in self and in others, healing forces, hypnotic, destructive, sadistic, sexual organs, sex, the occult,compulsions, obsession and emotional entanglement. Pluto's deep transformative energy principle is responsible for making long lasting and much needed changes in our lives. http://www.karmicastrology.tv/synastry.htm
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posted September 15, 2009 09:55 AM
OMG! two of my favorite people are in love! SO happy for you! it doesn't hurt that he is a total cutie!IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 09:57 AM
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posted September 15, 2009 11:17 AM
OMG he's gorgeous!!! Inside AND out! Mel, i'm ecstatic for you!!! Yayayayayayyyy! Yes, he sounds perfect - a real man. A man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. An artist too?! What kinds of mediums is he into? This is so exciting. Cant wait to see how it develops and hear more. Venus conj Pluto - niiiice. IP: Logged |
wheels of cheese Knowflake Posts: 1461 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 11:50 AM
Hel-llo Mr Perfect. He's muy guapo Mel. And he sounds amazing. YIPPPEEEEEE!!!! Yes! More about the art!
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GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 6379 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 01:23 PM
AWWWW! Best Wishes, he's gorgeous!IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 03:36 PM
Oh you girls! I knew I could count on you! He sketches in pencil and then does the real work in ink. He talked about shades and tones and other artistic lingo that I don't fully understand. His work is incredible. He is working on the skills to put his artwork/ink to skin and will be a tatoo artist soon. I told him so much about you, T. He admires that you do oil paintings etc. I will tell more when he is here at my side and can explain. I have so much to say... one more thing for now... He uses Vanilla diluted with water as spray to keep the bugs away and he smells a little like cookies and other yummy baked goods. Remember the movie, "Michael"?? Yeah.
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posted September 15, 2009 03:52 PM
does it work?....not IT...but.....vanilla for bugs...mosquitos..??? (i know IT works girl....or your feet wouldn't be on cloud nine right now....) IP: Logged |
aerialcircus Knowflake Posts: 376 From: Western Massachusetts, US Registered: May 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 08:16 PM
holy YOW MyMel. *fans self* Venus/Pluto is sexxxxxxxxxay. Who's Venus? IP: Logged |
aerialcircus Knowflake Posts: 376 From: Western Massachusetts, US Registered: May 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 08:17 PM
OH HOLD UP. Is that a tattoo of disgruntled Mickey Mouse? *swoon!*IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 1008 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2009 09:24 PM
OMG!!! Oh Mel, I'm so happy for you You've kissed so many frogs, it's sooooo past time for you to really get the prince Wow!!! (**jumping up and down with excitement**) Can't wait to do up his chart (**grabs Miss Melly, plants one on her, and squeezes her so hard she squeaks**) IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 3529 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 03:46 AM
He sounds like a keeper. IP: Logged |
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posted September 16, 2009 07:45 AM
Congrats Mystic Melody, sounds like the perfect guy!! And he is absolutely gorgeous! IP: Logged |
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posted September 16, 2009 11:01 AM
Congrats, Mel! He sounds and looks wonderful. IP: Logged |
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posted September 16, 2009 12:03 PM
Mel, this is awesome, he sounds perfect. I'm really happy for you. Spanish guys are such lovers. I love what he said to you about being his Sun and Moon. They come up with the most romantic things to say and it sounds a million times more romantic en espanol. I just looked up the Vanilla extract recipie and will be sharing it with someone I know! Yum! I'll be calling you soon. Enjoy this! IP: Logged |
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posted September 16, 2009 12:15 PM
funny, don't bugs love cookies? especially bees and flies? does it work?more seriously, i am so pleased for you! and T too!! IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2196 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 02:45 PM
MM~I am incredibly happy for you! You sound exceptionally happy, and I am happy for you because you deserve all the happiness in the world. He is gorgeous! IP: Logged |
woah city Knowflake Posts: 578 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 07:42 PM
aww.. he seems really earnest AND romantic. very happy for you!IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 1008 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2009 02:10 PM
Heard this song today, and thought of you Everywhere I Go Z IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2620 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 19, 2009 09:21 PM
I have a venus/pluto contact with my guy. It's trine in the synastry rather wide. He's the venus. We have the square rather wide in composite. I feel all those things they say about venus/pluto contacts. I'd go into more detail, but i'm afraid i can't string together a proper sentence lately and i'm talking gibberish. I am exhausted. I'll be back. I hope it works for you...
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posted September 20, 2009 01:19 AM
How's everything going, love? IP: Logged |
katatonic unregistered
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posted September 22, 2009 12:23 PM
yeah, does vanilla really repel bugs??IP: Logged |
wheels of cheese Knowflake Posts: 1461 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 24, 2009 05:00 AM
Chicita, que tal? IP: Logged |